This is a usual complaint of couples—that after 2 or 3 years, sex becomes a routine that is monotonous.
This sounds insignificant, but many relationships have been shattered by loss of fire in the sexual
department.
If you are trying the same positions all the time, you shall get the same kind of sensations, and both
of you become get used to it to the point that the whole thing becomes a bore. It’s like a step-by-step
process done all over again for years, that the next sensations seem to become anticipated.
Another reason could be one or both of you are suffering from emotional problems. Depression,
anxiety, and stress can dampen your sexual appetite, making you perform less eagerly and less
ecstatically in bed. If any of you is going through some crisis, you should open up. If you sense your lover
is going through a tough time, talk to them.
Either or both of you are feeling compelled to carry out the sexual duty. If sex becomes a chore and if
you feel as though you have to please your partner, then sex becomes dull.
The remedy is simple— to make it a point to do something new. Add new stuff to your lovemaking, and
this requires some effort on both of you. Have a vacation and get to know each again. After ten, twenty
years, you have to admit, you’re no longer the same people.
Here’s the link to a post which answer the question about sex life.
Why your sex life has lost its sparkle and how to get it back.
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