In order to have spectacular sex one has to understand the role of foreplay. Foreplay is a critical factor to making sure your girl gets to where she wants to be during your intimate moments with each other. And it does not necessarily have to be physical either.
The role of foreplay is to sexually arouse your partner to get her ready and hasten her reaching orgasm. This traditionally means the caressing, fondling, and stimulating of her erogenous zones. Well known erogenous zones include the lips, the breasts, the anus and the clitoris. There are other erogenous zones, however, and these include the neck, the ear and the perineum or the space between the genitals and the anus. Give your partner a different type of thrill by kissing and licking these spots.
Besides the traditional way of stimulating these erogenous zones some couples use sex toys such as strap on vibrators. The great thing about these sex toys is that these gadgets can be strapped on where it can vibrate against the clitoris leaving your hands and tongue free to stimulate and explore her other hot spots. Remember to make sure she is comfortable about using the sex toy before trying it out on her.
One more thing you should remember is that women take a lot longer to be aroused than men. So take your time. Ask her if what you are doing feels good and tell her to let you know what else she would like.
Another type of unique foreplay has to do with the mind—yes, sex is not only purely physical. In fact, especially for women, sex is mostly a mental game. So one of the keys to great foreplay is to stimulate her mind and play to her sexual fantasies. These fantasies may be scenarios that both of you can role play. Fantasies are not limited to scenarios alone but may also include the means or technique you engage in while having sex.
Her fantasy may be about tying you up in the bed while she mounts you or she may fantasize about being taken from behind while still fully dressed. Take the time to ask her about her fantasies and make the effort to try to make them reality. The effort may all be worth it as the reward is a sexual experience more satisfying than before.
Truly the importance of foreplay to great sex cannot be underscored enough. After all, foreplay is not only good for the one receiving it, but the thought of pleasuring your partner and hearing her moans of pleasure makes it even greater for the giver.
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