The Art Of Masturbation
When it comes to the art of masturbation, there are many things to learn. There’s no one else who can tell you exactly what to do to masturbate so that it feels good to you. This is something a person must learn on their own over time. Your tastes for what you enjoy can also change over time.
This is often why it is called the art of masturbation.
However, there are no real handbooks that we are given for masturbating correctly. We are typically left to figure it out on our own and not only do some people make mistakes but they also spend a great deal of time trying to figure out what works best for them.
When you learn some basics upfront, it can make it a lot easier for you to discover your own art of masturbation. As a first step, you need to become acquainted with your parts. Maybe it sounds silly but this is something many people overlook. It’s especially important for women.
Use a handheld mirror and proper lighting and spend some time exploring and seeing what you really look like. Then take some time touching different parts of your body to see what feels good and what feels even better.
Once you have mastered the art of masturbating with just your hands and body, you might be ready to explore with sex toys and tools. Be sure to always use proper safety and never put anything in your body that is not intended for such uses. Not only is it dangerous but a trip to the ER for something like this can be very embarrassing.
When you learn to masturbate successfully, it can also help you in couple’s sex as you will know what feels good and what doesn’t. You’ll be able to tell your partner about your “hot spots” and what you love the most. Some couples even find it fun and exciting to masturbate together sometimes.
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