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Q&A: How do I get my wife interested in sex toys?

August 30, 2010 By John 16 Comments

Question by Check: How do I get my wife interested in sex toys?
I’m happily married, just had our first anniversary. We have a good sex life but I would like to try to use sex toys. We’ve never talked about using sex toys, and both come from very religious backgrounds so I’m a bit unsure about her reaction….
Any suggestions?

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Answer by irishmom91562
I personally don’t go for toys to “enhance” sex, but maybe you could tell her a “hypothetical” story about a co-worker who’d like to try these with his wife, and asked you for advice. Her reaction to that should give you your answer.

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Police: Sex toys stolen from Edmond store

August 30, 2010 By John Leave a Comment

Police: Sex toys stolen from Edmond store
Sex toys were among the items stolen from an Edmond adult specialty store, the second such burglary within the past couple of months, police said.
Read more on The Edmond Sun

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How to introduce your partner to extreme sex toys

April 28, 2010 By Angelica Leave a Comment

Extreme sex toys and vibrators are adult novelties and gadgets which are usually used for bondage and sexual play.  Curious about trying them out but don’t quite know how to let your partner know?  Here are some tips you can follow to get you closer to making your sexual fantasies come true.

First thing you should do is to be forthright about your sexual fantasies or what you want to happen during sex with your partner.  How will you be able to try out new things if you do not tell her or him in the first place?  The secret to getting his or her consent  is how you communicate your thoughts and fantasies.  Avoid sounding like you are complaining about the quality of sex you are having with your partner.  A better angle is that you want to try out different ways to doing already great sex with him or her.

Once you have acquired his or her consent there are a few more things the both of you should agree to before you start trying out extreme sex toys and fun vibes.  For instance, sexual bondage play inevitably involves restraining your partner or being restrained.  Thus, the both of you have to agree on how you want to be restrained.  It would also be timely to agree on what activities of sexual bondage the both of you will engage in.

Another word of advice when it comes to restraints:  Make sure the restraints you use can be easily and quickly removed in case of an emergency or when your partner indicates he or she wants the activity to stop.

One other important thing the both of you have to agree upon too is that the sexual play should immediately stop the moment one of you lets the other know that he or she is uncomfortable with whatever you are doing.  Agree on a signal and stop immediately once that signal is given.

Since you or you and your partner are new to the bondage theme, you can try to use vibe virgins, it would be wise to start out slow and  simple during your first few tries at this type of sexual play.  This will also allow the both of you to “get your feet wet” and see how the both of you like it.

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Introducing Adult Sex Toys To Your Partner

March 22, 2010 By Angelica 3 Comments

Introducing sex toys and the jelly vibes to your partner can be a tricky proposition.  The most positive outcome would be that your partner would be willing and would embrace the opportunity to try out something new and exciting.  On the other hand, he or she might be hesitant and might also have some fears about sex toys and misconceptions about them.  While the positive scenario is possible, we do want to be prepared for the worst.  Here are some tips to help introduce sex toys to your partner.

Getting his or her consent to the use if adult sex toys in your sack sessions is an essential ingredient if you want the experience to be an enjoyable one for the both of you.  The first burning question would be how do you broach the subject of sex toys?  Open communication between romantic partners is essential for a healthy relationship.  Let him or her know about your sexual fantasies and the things you want to try out.

While your partner may react well to bringing in sex toys to your bed, some may resist the idea.  Their hesitation may find their source from the fact that they fear change,  they fear that the sex toy may replace them in your sexual affections, or they may feel hurt that you think sex with them is no longer great, thus the need to bring in “external” aids.

While these issues and fear may be unfounded, they are valid and every effort to address them should be made.  A possible tact you could take would be to lovingly reassure your partner that he or she will never be replaced by a sex toy or a vibrators.  The fact that you do want to try out these things with him or her should be proof that you think the experience will be great for you the both of you and that you want to share these experiences with the most special person in your life.

It might be helpful also to let them know that your sex toys idea does not come from the fact that you are no longer satisfied with her.  Emphasize that sex with him or her is great but there is nothing that should stop the both of you from improving your game or trying out new ways to get where the both of you want to go.

One tact you could take is to encourage a curiosity about sex toys.  Invite him or her to browse over sex toys available on online stores and buy vibrator kits with you and ask your partner about the adult novelties he or she is intrigued about.

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Couples Who Use Sex Toys

December 8, 2009 By Lisa 1 Comment

Couples Who Use Sex Toys Often Have Closer Relationships

Many couples who are very close to each other use sex toys during their lovemaking.  There is a trust that has been built up that makes the use of these toys acceptable.  When couples have trust, trying new things together is not as intimidating as when there are apprehensions in the relationship.  Because of the added trust, couples who use sex toys often have closer relationships than those who do not.

There are many sex toys that couples can use to enhance their bedroom romps.  There are toys for men and woman that can be used with any combination of sexes.  Some of the most common toys are vibrators.  These are simple to use and do not need any instructions.  They are also the oldest known sex toys with the exception of the dildo.  Once man learned about electricity, they found a way to make sex even better.

There are also more off the cuff sex toys for those who want to really spice up their lovemaking.  Anal plugs can be used to either stimulate the prostate or the sphincter.  Another popular anal toy is the anal beads.  These are placed in the anus and then are slowly pulled out to either increase orgasms intensity or to create an orgasm.  There is a great deal of sensitivity in this area and these toys can help to bring the couples closer together by trusting each other enough to use them in these sensitive areas.

There are many more different sex toys for couples to use when they are intimate.  These toys can be used to help offer more intense orgasms or can be used in areas that most would not be comfortable having sex in.  Couples who use sex toys are more than likely going to have a closer relationship.

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Couples Using Sex Toys

December 7, 2009 By Lisa Leave a Comment

Couples Using Sex Toys to Enhance Their Lovemaking

There is a fallacy that states that only those who are masturbating are using sex toys.  This is common but so not true.  Many couples, no matter the sex of the partners, are using sex toys to enhance their lovemaking.  Couples using sex toys have been going on for many years even though it is now getting popular to admit it.  While they are also more commonly thought of for same sex partners, heterosexual partners can find sex toys quite stimulating as well.

Many couples enjoy using sex toys once in a while for a spicier lovemaking session.  Some sex toys can make either partner much more excited and stimulated.  This can lead to stronger and harder orgasms.  Some sex toys are meant to delay orgasm so it is more intense when finally released.  Others simply add to the excitement that lovemaking already brings to table.

If one partner is not comfortable using sex toys, the other should be patient and introduce them gradually.  Never use a sex toy on an unwilling partner as trust issues can arise.  They may never want to make love again if something is used on them that they are not going to want used.  Trust is important in any relationship, especially sexual ones.

Those couples who do want to use sex toys can find a wide assortment on the market today.  Ordering them on the internet is a discreet way to purchase them and saves the embarrassment of having to pay for them in person.  All that is needed is a credit or debit card and the toy is going to be shipped directly to your home.  The packaging is going to be discreet so the neighbors or mailman are not going to know what is being delivered.

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Couples Sex Toys

December 6, 2009 By Lisa Leave a Comment

Couples Sex Toys Can Increase Pleasure

Some couples can enjoy a perfectly happy sex life without any aids at all.  Others are more adventuresome and prefer to have some toys that they can use to bring more pleasure to their partner or to make their intimate times more exciting.  There are many couples’s sex toys that can offer added excitement and pleasure even for those who are already experiencing a happy sex life.

Some places are going to offer kits that come with everything that is needed to make lovemaking more exciting.  These sets often contain a small bullet vibrator, heated massage oils, penis rings and other stimulants for the genitals.  These toys can be used together or one at a time.  These items offer increasing pleasure for both partners in the couple.

The vibrator can be used to stimulate the clitoris for the female.  When used with heated oil, the pleasure can be increased ten fold.  The heated oil can also be used on its when manipulating the clitoris manually by hand or finger.  This can add more stimulation to the clitoris that may not be felt when simply stimulating it manually.

The penis ring can also be used with the heated oils or they can each be used on their own.  The heated oil can also be used when the partner is using their hand or is having oral sex with their partner.  This can increase the pleasure in the penis and in many cases can bring a man to orgasm very quickly.  Those who have problems with premature ejaculation can use this on themselves to clear the pipes as the expression goes so that they are not going to ejaculate as quick when they are with their partner.  Their partner can even help with this task to make sure that the man is going to last longer during lovemaking.

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Couple Sex Toys

December 5, 2009 By Lisa Leave a Comment

Couple Sex Toys can Offer Aid for Those Couples Who Need It

Not every couple has the best sex life in the world.  Many times, the rest of the relationship is perfect.  There is great communication and interests in common keep the two people together.  The only thing lacking is the intimacy in the bedroom.  This can be a huge issue for some and there are some couple sex toys that can help regain or establish stronger intimate bonds in the bedroom.

There are many different types of couple sex toys that can offer aid to those couples who need it.  Those who are not comfortable with this can start off with some motion lotion.  This is a lotion that heats up when the skin is touched or caressed.  One way to begin is to take an evening and just massage each other with the oil.  This should be done while staying away from any part of the body that would be considered sexual such as the breasts or penis.  This can regain some intimacy on a level that is not going to be sexual.

Once this has been done, the next step is to do the same massage, but this time includes the sexual places.  This exercise is not about having an orgasm.  It is about getting in touch with your partner’s body and understanding what brings them pleasure.  If there is an orgasm, it is not a bad thing, but it should not be the sole purpose of the exercise.

Once the couple is used to the lotion, a small vibrator can be introduced as another couple sex toy that can offer more stimulation along with the oil.  As both partners get used to these sexual toys, more can be introduced until the intimacy levels are much higher and the sexual relationship gets back on track.

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Male Sex Toys

November 12, 2009 By Lisa Leave a Comment

Three Popular Male Sex Toys

Most people think that the majority of sex toys are geared towards helping females achieve orgasm.  While this is a huge part of the market, there are also many popular male sex toys.  These toys can be used by males alone or can be used with a partner as well.  This is going to discuss the three most popular male sex toys.

  1. The Sex Doll

The sex doll is the most popular of all of the male sex toys.  They can be found everywhere and jokes have been made about them on television and movies.  The great thing about these types of male sex toys is that they come in a wide variety of styles, sizes and price ranges.  No matter the fantasy that a man has, there is a sex doll that can fulfill this fantasy.  The types range from the basic blow up doll to the dolls that are made to be realistic looking and feeling.

  1. The Vibrating Ring

This can be used during foreplay to stimulate the penis.  It is also a great aid that can be used during masturbation when more sensation than just a hand is desired.  Many have different settings so that the user can enjoy a variety of stimulation.  Those who want to use it with a partner can have them decide just how much vibration they want to offer to the male.

  1. Oral Simulators

An oral stimulator may not be as popular as some of the other male sex toys but should be fun for the male in your life.  This toy simulates the oral suction that many men enjoy when having oral performed on them.  Again, this can be used with a partner or the male can use this while masturbating.  Those who do not enjoy giving oral pleasure can purchase one of these handy toys to offer another way to pleasure their man.

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Take Care of Your Sex Toys

November 8, 2009 By Lisa Leave a Comment

It is Important to Take Care of Your Sex Toys

Sex toys can be fun during lovemaking.  When the lovemaking is over though, it is important to take care of your sex toys.  This is because you want to use them again.  They need to be sanitary.  If you are practicing safe sex, then you do not want bodily fluids left on these toys.  This is even more important for those who have more than one partner.

There are many diseases that are passed through sexual intercourse.  These can also be passed by using adult toys if more than one person is using the toy immediately after the other.  Once the lovemaking is done for the night, the toys should be washed in hot water using an antibacterial soap.  If the toys have motors, they should not be submerged.  The areas that were in contact with bodily fluids should be the only parts that are cleaned thoroughly.

When using rubber dildos, a condom should be used on them during intercourse.  This is because rubber is very porous and can trap bacteria.  This is not going to kill anyone, but a yeast infection or other minor infections can be caused if they are not kept clean.  Using a condom is the best way to prevent these minor, but painful infections.  They should still be washed with soap and water after use especially if a lubricated condom is used.

A silicone dildo can be boiled for two minutes to clean thoroughly.  If you take care of your sex toys you are going to prevent any bacterial transfers. This is the most important issue.  Sex toys can be fun, but if you do not take care of your sex toys, they can be a source of infection.  You should practice the same safe sex techniques that you employ with your partner when you are using sex toys.

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