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Advice on Toys for Couples

June 22, 2011 By Angelica Leave a Comment

When we hear the word adult novelties what usually enters our mind are sex toys which we often employ to ease the loneliness when friendly company is not available.  There are however, toys for couples which people in romantic couples relationship can use to reignite the passion in and enliven their intimate moments.

These sex toys for couples come in all shapes, sizes, colors, designs and are made of different kinds of materials.  These adult novelties are typically made of plastic, silicone, rubber, and jelly.  Some toys are made of metal, glass and materials meant to simulate how real skin feels like.

There are several kinds to choose from designed to stimulate a person in all sorts of ways.  Some toys even simulate the sensations of oral sex.  Thus, one will not be hard put to find a toy which will address his/ her/ their preferences.  For instance, if one gets off on clitoral stimulation, there are different kinds of vibrators which can do this for you.  If one prefers to be penetrated in the vagina or the anus, there are dildos, anal wands, and prostate massagers which you can use.  If one wants to extend his staying power during sexual intercourse, cock rings can help you last longer and make your penis feel bigger.

The problem with couples who are looking to try out sex toys for the first time is not whether they will be able to find something they can use, rather it is choosing the toy from among the hundreds of kinds of sex toys available.  One can get intimidated by the sheer number of adult novelties that he or she does not know which to choose.

The solution to this is easy.  Keep your and your partner’s preferences in mind and stick to it. When these preferences are in mind, one can significantly narrow down the choices which one has to select from.

Keep in mind too how you intend to use them.  For instance, if you will be bringing the toy with you as you travel, a toy which is discrete and small enough to fit in your luggage would be a wise choice. Small vibrators are recommended.

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Tips for Lesbian Sex Toys: Using A Strap on Dildo

May 25, 2011 By Angelica Leave a Comment

Lesbian sex toys such as strap on dildos and  strap on vibrators are popular sex toys for those who prefer girl-on-girl action.  These sex toys allow couples to simulate sexual intercourse without the need to use one’s hands to manipulate the dildo.

A strap on dildo is composed of a harness which can be in the style of a thong or a jock strap and a dildo.  When it comes to kinds of harnesses, these have their advantages and disadvantages.  A thong type of harness provides a more stable platform for the attached dildo while a jock strap harness is more comfortable to wear.

The dildos used in strap on toys come in all shapes, sizes, textures and colors.  They all however have a flared base which allows it to be secured to the harness.

These lesbian sex toys are meant for vaginal or anal penetration and can be vehicles for disease or infection if not cleaned properly.  The cleaning agent and method one uses to clean these adult novelties depends on the type of material it is made of.  To know what type of material your toy is made of, consult the instruction manual or the toy’s packaging.  If this is no longer possible, most toys can be washed with warm water and mild antibacterial soap.  You may also choose to put a condom over the realistic vibrating dildos to keep it clean.

Since dildos are meant for anal or vaginal penetration, one should ensure that one’s partner is thoroughly sexually aroused and relaxed before attempting to insert the toy.  One can deepen the sexual arousal of one’s partner by engaging in foreplay.  Discomfort and pain can result if one attempts to insert the toy without the person being sufficiently aroused.

Another tip when using toys and vibrators which can be inserted into body cavities is to ensure that you have and use sex toy or personal lubricant.  While the vagina does generate its own natural lubrication, this is not adequate to keep things discomfort free as some sex toy materials absorb these fluids.  This becomes even more important when intending to use it for anal penetration as the anus does not generate any natural lubrication.

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Advice on Gay Sex toy

May 23, 2011 By Angelica Leave a Comment

Many adult novelties meant for the use of men have often been labeled as a gay sex toy.  This is probably due to the fact that their use is closely related to sexual activities usually indulged in or enjoyed by gay men.

The problem with calling an adult novelty a gay sex toy is that it may put off heterosexual men who can enjoy the use of a toy as much as a gay man.  For a few brave heterosexual men who have managed to overcome the misconceptions of these kinds of adult novelties, sex with a woman has been even better than before.  One must simply keep in mind that using these sex toys or strap on vibes does not make one change his sexual orientation.  It is simply a new and great way to experience sex.

Many sex toys meant for men’s use involve anal penetration.  What makes anal penetration pleasurable for men is that it is through the walls of the rectum that the prostate can be stimulated.  The prostate is a small nerve-covered organ which is responsible for generating the fluid which is used to deliver sperm into the vagina.  Stimulation of the prostate is said to result in very intense climax and ejaculation.

One such anal toy designed to stimulate the prostate is the anal plug.  These are bullet shaped toys with a flared base like bullet vibrators.  The toy is meant to be inserted into the anus and left there while the person using it engages in sexual intercourse.  The natural movements of intercourse moves the toy against the prostate stimulating it.  The flared base keeps the toy from penetrating too deeply as to prevent easy recovery.

Another kind of toy for anal use is the jelly vibes, anal dildo or anal wand.  These toys are longer and slimmer than butt plugs and are meant to be manipulated by a partner.  These toys simulate anal intercourse and can have bumps and curves so that they are better able to access the prostate.

Anal beads are another type of sex toy which consist of small spheres attached together in a series.  The beads or balls are meant to be inserted into the anus one at a time and then removed at varying speeds to hasten or enhance sexual climax.

When using anal toys, make sure you use an adequate amount of sex toy lubricant to prevent discomfort or injury.

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On Penile Size… Again?

February 11, 2011 By Angelica Leave a Comment

There was this curious survey that compared penis size and female satisfaction during sex. It says that
an ideal penis should be about 8 inches long and a little less than 1.5 inches thick. That means only
roughly 1% of men are able to satisfy women. Most men have penis length that is about 5.75 inches. The
average size ranges from 5.5 to 6.5 inches.

Let’s talk about this size issue a little more. Size may be a lot of an issue if we’re in a competition or
perhaps something like the Guinness, but sex is a different issue. If we’re into sexual intercourse, well,
then let’s ask the ladies. Most women aren’t too conscious about size anyway. Why would they be?
Most men are equipped with organs that can hit the most sensitive region in the vagina. Pleasing her
doesn’t require a 9-inch thingy but much shorter than that. Even a 6-inch dong will not necessarily be all
taken in.

The depth of most vaginas is around 4 inches, and you can add an inch more if she’s aroused. The most
sensitive depth into the vagina is up to 3 inches as much of the nerve endings are near the opening. She
doesn’t feel much sensation deep down there, so there is no need for the seventh or eighth inch really.

In other words, men with 6 inches don’t have to be jealous with those who own 8 inches.

Alright guys, when you get past all the “motion of the ocean,” “it’s how you use it,” and Easter Bunny stuff, it is time to face the reality that size matters. Thanks to the guys at penissizedebate.com, we now have an idea of how it matters as you can see in the penis size preference chart above. As you might have guessed, girth is as important as length and a sweet spot develops between the 7 ¼ to 8 ¼ inch range with 6 ¼ -6 ½ circumference.

Here’s a link about size matters.

Breaking: Size Matters!

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Lasting Longer During Lovemaking

February 8, 2011 By Angelica Leave a Comment

You may have trouble lasting longer than 5 minutes. That’s because many men are programmed to not
last too long. Nature has designed sex as a means of reproduction. Only quite recently has it been an
important tool in relationships. There are some things you can do to last longer to make her happier.

Ejaculating before the sexual intercourse can help you desensitize your system. That allows you to take a
longer time before the next ejaculation. Thus, you will give her more time, which she needs to get to an
orgasm. In short, you have to masturbate to ejaculation an hour before getting onto bed with her.

You also need to learn how to control yourself. Many guys are tempted to continue to orgasm as the
pleasure builds up. Instead of proceeding to the point of no return, learn to stop at the right moment to
let the sexual pleasure subside.

Deep breathing is also a key to lasting longer. Instead of taking shallow breaths while thrusting, take
long deep breaths. This takes some practice, so you may not get the right trick at first.

Don’t just rely on your penis. Supposing you were not able to control it and you squirted on her. That
should not mean sex is over. Continue stimulating her using your tongue or fingers until she reaches the
lovely peak.

Are you having problems lasting long enough in bed? There is no need to feel embarrassed or ashamed about it. There are far more men out there who ejaculate too early during sex, so you are certainly not alone. And there is certainly a lot you can do to stop your premature ejaculation problems, fulfill the woman in your life and totally transform your sex life.

Here’s a link about premature ejaculation and how to last longer in bed.

Fix Premature Ejaculation Now! These 5 Surefire Tactics Will Help You Last Longer In Bed (Guaranteed!)

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What You Need to Know About Sex

February 6, 2011 By Angelica Leave a Comment

Sex can make or break a relationship. As much as it can foster a strong bond in your togetherness, it is
also the reason of breakups.

The delights of sex cannot be learned from watching porn videos and reading Playboy. Most guys and
girls get tips from these sources. This causes a gap in our knowledge about sex. Most people think of it
as a bodily contact. Sex is way more than that!

Communication is important in sex. In fact, sex is the highest form of connection, a connection whose
precursor is communication. Talking with your lover about your desires can enhance your lovemaking.
You have to be truthful to your partner. Tell them if they do something you dislike and if they do
something you seriously like.

Sex isn’t only about how fast you get to the point of no return or how many orgasms you had last night.
It’s also about how memorable each experience is. It’s also about the quality of pleasure you felt. It’s
about how much effort you invest in finding out new ways to make sex as thrilling as it has always been.

Sex should not become a routine experience that becomes dull with time. Insipidness of sexual
intercourse is a product of loss of interest in testing the unchartered waters. Sex demands imagination
and passion and soul.

In his book, The Culture Code, Clotaire Rapaille noted that 80% of all Americans had their first sexual experience in a car.

It’s one of the reasons that our culture has had such a fascinating with automobiles.

I’m over six foot tall. My first car was a tiny Ford Maverick. It might explain why I don’t care about cars but have a deep affinity for recliner chairs.

Here’s  a link about sexual pleasure.

Dr. Debby, Teaching Us About Sexual Pleasure

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Ever Encountered Ridiculous Sex Laws

February 4, 2011 By Angelica Leave a Comment

Travel around the world and across United States and you might be shocked at several laws that prohibit
certain sex acts.

For instance, if you have been in Guam for a while, you might have heard about virgins not allowed to
marry, so there are actually men there whose job is to make love with virgins.

You’ll surely die laughing if you heard that men in Lebanon are allowed to have sex with animals but
only those of the female sex because raping a male animal can cost a Lebanese man his life!

You may be wondering if all girls in Washington are virgins because there’s a state law that forbids
making out with a virgin.

It’s even weirder in Cali, Colombia where the first time a couple engages in sexual intercourse, the
mother of the woman should be inside the bedroom to witness the act.

If you’re in Romboch, Virginia, you shouldn’t shag under full blast of lights because that’s illegal. And in
Nevada, condoms are more than handy because you cannot engage in intercourse without them.

Men in Alexandria, Minnesota can’t have bad breath when they make love with their partners. The law
requires them to brush their teeth and have fresh breath before getting under the sheets.

Perhaps, one of the harshest laws is found in Indonesia, where you can’t masturbate because you’d go
headless.

I found this amusing infographic and it has shattered my lifelong dream of conducting official business in the Nevada legislature while wearing a penis costume. Most of the crazy sex laws pictured are similarly silly, but I find it unsettling that people felt the need to legislate against them in the first place.

Here’s a link about sex laws.

Silly Sex Laws

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What is Sexual Deviance?

January 31, 2011 By Angelica Leave a Comment

We do have accepted forms of sexual behavior. Any sexual behavior that does not harm oneself or
others and is within the norm may be considered normal. That includes sexual intercourse between two
adults with each other’s consent and many forms of masturbations provided they are done in private.

On the other hand, there are various behaviors that were once considered deviant behavior but have
now been regarded as normal. For example, homosexuality is now regarded as normal due to wide
social acceptance.

There are various forms of perversion that are still considered to be socially unacceptable. Exhibitionism
and voyeurism can be regarded as wicked acts even though they don’t pose harm to the victim. Sadism
and masochism involves physical harm and may be classified under sexual deviance. It’s a wonder how
sadomasochism is promoted by many people on the web. You can even buy paraphernalia for such
activity. Pedophilia and rape are perhaps the most injurious of all forms of deviance.

People who display such behavior need treatment in various forms. One of the usual treatment
procedures is psychological counseling or psychotherapy. The goal of psychological therapy is to identify
the origin of the abnormal behavior and help the person cope with it by assisting them in changing their
mindset. Other therapies include behavior therapy, aversive conditioning, systematic desensitization,
orgasmic conditioning, satiation therapy, and drug therapy.

Sexual deviants almost never voluntarily seek therapeutic treatment for the simple reason that they do not identify their condition as atypical sexual behavior. They meet a doctor only when an unwilling partner or a victim decides to take legal action or when concerned family members who have detected a paraphilic behavior refer and compel them to benefit from a mental health system. Also, given the immense pleasure sexually deviant people derive from their paraphilic behaviors they are reluctant to change their compulsive behavior and hinder therapeutic treatments –especially psychotherapy and behavior therapies.

Here’s a link about Therapies for Sexual Deviants.

Therapies for Sexual Deviants

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Pain During the First Time

January 31, 2011 By Angelica Leave a Comment

Some girls feel really nervous about their first sexual intercourse because of the dreaded pain. If you are
a virgin, then there are a few things you can do to make that first entrance an exciting experience.

Can you tell him to be a little gentler to you on your first try? You don’t need the rush, and rough sex
isn’t the right way to do it on your first try. Tell him to take it slow at first and don’t rush through things.

Lots of foreplay can do the trick on your first try. Let him fondle you to give you time to relax. If the
nerves get in the way, vaginal tightness becomes an issue, and such muscular tightness can cause a lot
of pain and discomfort.

Lubrication is also important, and while you may have the natural lubrication in you, a handy bottle of
lube can help make him slide into your depths easier.

Don’t expect that it will all turn out smoothly on your first sex. Just don’t hesitate to tell your partner to
do it nicely. And make sure you tell him it hurts so he could do something about it.

In many cases, it may hurt at first but will usually turn out all right after a while. But don’t let the pain
get in the way of an exciting first time romance.

Congrats on the wedding!! If you relax there may not be any pain at all.   Extra lube would be a good idea, because I think dryness is a big reason why women have pain during sex. Especially if you’re nervous, and those vaginal muscles are tight.

Here’s a link about First time advice.

First Time Advice

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Vibrators versus Boyfriends

January 27, 2011 By Angelica Leave a Comment

Can vibrators actually replace your boyfriend? Well, let’s put it this way. No dong in the world can
vibrate. And this is why vibrators are hot! Girls love them because they bring about new sensations that
cannot be experienced during any typical sex.

Vibrators come in different sizes just as men’s precious thingies do, but the former come in much wider
range of sizes—from a 2mm bullet to a 10-inch juicy rabbit. Some vibes out there can add more inches.
Well size can matter, especially if you’re into serious discretion. Discreet vibrators may not go any bigger
than 5 inches and have cute shapes. The good thing is they don’t look like any of your boyfriend’s real
toy.

These sex toys come handy during lonely nights when no one’s with you. Many girls testify that they
experience more awesome sensations—sensations they had never experienced in sexual intercourse.
That’s because vibrations stimulate every part of your sensitive places. Some vibrators are equipped
with clitoral stimulation so you could experience both clitoral stimulation and vaginal penetration at the
same time.

However, vibrators do come with limitations too. Unlike your boyfriend, they cannot treat you out for
dinner and won’t even kiss you or hug you. Can you actually tell who wins in this match? Well, the good
thing is you can have both!

Judy Va-Va Bloom Bloomberg is a longtime advocate of toys. Why?

“Because the only woman who knows  where her man is at all times is a widow,” she quips.

And every blue moon, the New York toy lover throws a party for shy girls looking to explore. Ms. Va-Va Bloom and Friends* will host a Girls & Toys party to celebrate National Orgasm Month.

Here’s a link about operated boyfriend.

5 Rules For Your New Battery Operated Boyfriend

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