February 8, 2012

What If Your Girlfriend Owns a Dildo

Girls usually keep their dildos from their boyfriends for the fear of discovery. So what if he discovers
your hidden secret? Are you scared that he might be mad at you? Why would he be angry at you
because of the dingy?

Well, guys take pride in their prime possession, and they may get jealous over someone or something
that could take over the place of their thing. Yes, many girls have this fear, but there’s no need to be
scared. In fact, some boys buy their girlfriends dildos.

If you aren’t too sure how your guy would react if he finds out you own a rubber dong, then try asking
him how he would feel about you buying a dildo? Just tell him your girlfriends were talking about dildos
the other night and that one of them actually owns one, so you’re just curious.

If he’s ok with it, then you can tell him you actually own one. If he doesn’t approve of it then just keep
your secret well hidden.

Sex toys like dildos can actually make your relationship spicy and exciting. You don’t have to use that
dong alone. He can use it with you. Not that he’s going to use it on himself, but he can use it to pleasure
you.

This is something that had really got me down so no jokes or sarcasm please. Me and my Girlfriend have been in a relationship for a few months now and things are going well (in the bedroom too) and ive never thought about my ‘size’ but i looked it up today to find it was average/above average, anyway, i was shocked the other day to find that she had bought a dildo, now ive read some other questions on yahoo from people who also felt a little unappreciated/inadequate/upset by this and found allot of answers along the lines of ‘talk to her and tell her how you feel’ well i thought ‘yes, ill do that’ i explained to her that i felt upset that she bought it and that i do feel slightly inadequate and id prefer it if she didn’t use it but i don’t want to dictate and she can decide to use it or not.

Here’s a link about the topic “My Girlfriend bought a dildo”?

My Girlfriend bought a dildo?

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Safety with Sex Toys

When you’re playing with sex toys, there are guidelines that you need to follow because these objects
are not your usual toys.

First, you want to make sure that sex toys are clean. That dildo should be sterilized before you decide to
place it into your vagina. Dirty dildos or vibratos can cause irritation or worse infection. Cleaning your
sex toys should be part of your sex toy hygiene, which is extremely important. You must clean your sex
toys after using them to remove the bacteria that may otherwise build up on left dirt and grime.

Another thing is to use the sex toy for the purpose it was made. For instance, do not use a vibrator
inside the bathroom if it’s not waterproof, and never insert a massager into your vagina if it’s not
designed for penetration. Injury may result from misuse of sex toys.

You shouldn’t be too aggressive and adventurous. There’s a limit to being playful. You may think brutal
dildos are fun, but if you hurt yourself, you could get into a really embarrassing situation. The same
thing can also happen if you take sex toys to your trips. Rabbit vibrators are never good toys to bring for
trips especially if you know you’d be going through inspection.

Furthermore, you should make sure to buy sex toys from trusted sellers and make sure such products
don’t contain harmful chemicals.

Little background 1st. I am a 21 yr old married woman. I am disease free but I am having an issue. I have been to the clinic and I am COMPLETELY free of any STD’s so my issue IS NOT an STD. I have a pleasure toy with a vibrating dolphin on it. I was wondering if it was possible for the excessive friction to cause a sore? I have a small sore right where the “lips” of the dolphin connect with my outside “pleasure button”.

Here’s a link about safe sex.

Kind of a weird/embarrassing question?

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Dump That Demanding Boyfriend!

Having a relationship with someone who treats you like a commodity or treats you like you’re their slave
or worker can be extremely distressing. You might have seen girls who were only dragged to dates and
were asked to do their boyfriend’s bidding. And it’s annoying to see them allow their partners treat
them that way. But what if you get into this kind of relationship?

Sometimes, you love the person too much that you don’t think questioning his love at first is going to
work. You’re blinded by your feelings towards or maybe you’re only afraid that he might choose another
girl who could act better. If this is the case, then you’re slave not only to him but to your emotions as
well. You allow him to grab you by the tail and swing you around with your fears.

It’s time for you to liberate yourself from an unyielding relationship. If your boyfriend is treating you
like a possession that he must have at all times, then he’s being too selfish in this relationship. So he can
heave you to his parties, while you can’t be with your friends? That’s ridiculous!

If he truly cares for you, he would allow you to be just who you are and he will respect that you have a
life outside your relationship, that there are times when you don’t feel like having sex with him, and that
you want to be pampered every once in a while.

If I give my boyfriend everything he wants in bed, then he gives me everything I want out of it.
If I’m prepared to go the extra mile and agree to role-playing, sex toys and kinky stuff, then I get treated to good restaurants.

Here’s a link about how does your lover treat you?

MY FELLA TREATS ME LIKE A WHORE

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When Is the Right Age to Buy a Sex Toy?

You might be surprised if you heard your 16-year-old daughter owning a vibrator. Is she allowed to buy
one? Most states prohibit selling of sex toys to minors, individuals under 18. But there are other ways
for teens to grab hold of these pleasure devices. For one, they can get them from older friends, or even
from you when you keep your old vibes lying lazily around. Tell your teens they can’t have sex toys until
they reach the right age. But if they already own one, you don’t have to seize what’s already under their
possession, but be sure to tell them to be responsible in using these objects. For instance, tell them
about hygiene and cleaning the sex toys.

Then again, it doesn’t mean any person at any age can have vibrators or masturbators. Nine-year-old
kids may not have idea what a vibrator is for.

On the other hand, if you’re a teenager, don’t hurry owning sex toys now. Instead, understand the
changes that occur in your body, including emotional changes you’re going through. It seems too
early to be using sex gadgets right now. It’s perfectly fine, however, to explore your sexuality through
masturbation.

Know a sex toy before using it. You can harm yourself using something you’re not familiar with.

Me and my friend want to buy a toy for her sister as a funny b-day present,she thinks were old enough to purchase one but i am not sure i want to know how old do u have to be in order to purchase a pleasure toy at a store and do u have to show ID??

Here’s a link about the question right age to buy a sex toy.

How old do u have to be??

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When Neighbors Get Too Nosy

If you do business at home, you have to be extremely careful or you might end up just like the poor
Kristal Ann Taylor, a 41-year-old woman from Stillwater, Minnesota. The police arrested her for
prostitution.

It started when the prying neighbors became a little curious about this woman’s occupation which she
happens to carry out inside the confines of her house. She owns a website that has attracted so much
male traffic. So there’s the address, a residential unit which may be thought of as drug den or a house of
a wealthy businessman.

But when the neighborhood saw men coming one after the other and staying roughly an hour at Taylor’s
residence, they became suspicious. The attention of the police was called and men who were coming
out of this curious house were interrogated. It was revealed that Ms. Taylor was conducting some
bondage drama inside her private place.

When the cops searched her place, they found out her sex dungeon with all the bondage paraphernalia
lying around. She really set up the place to become a private area where she could carry out BDSM
activities, and she charges her clients exorbitantly.

Neighbors were only concerned about the possible effects of Ms. Taylor’s unbecoming occupation
towards the moral standards observed in the community. One mother was worried for her kids that
they might see such misdemeanor.

A Stillwater woman was arrested on Friday for providing dominatrix services.
Authorities say Kristal Ann Taylor, 41, who calls herself ‘The Taboo Goddess’ charges $150 per hour for services at her home on S. Everett St.
Stillwater Police Sergeant Jeff Stender tells 5 EYEWITNESS NEWS, although the ads specify only dominatrix services, he believes sexual acts were involved. He says the main level of the home was set up with bondage apparatuses and sex toys.

Here’s a link about the video taboo goddess.

‘Taboo Goddess’ Busted for Offering Dominatrix Services

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Surveys About Sex

Surveys show that people from different places have different sexual behaviors. There are a group of
people who invest in trying more sexual positions, and there are also those who buy more sex toys. We
cannot explain why these differences occur. Maybe this is tied to the regional differences in lifestyle.

If people in New York City buy more sex toys than those in Newark, does that mean New Yorkers are
more lewd and more sexually preoccupied? We really cannot tell. All we can say is that the differences
in sexual practices among various groups of people from different regions are interesting to note.

For instance, there is a survey from Men’s Health that says Americans in the Midwestern states are not
missing out on sex. In fact, the opposite is the truth. Our Midwestern folks are having delightful sex,
and they are the most sexually satisfied people in United States. Do you know about that? The cities
that ranked high in the sexual satisfaction survey were Indianapolis, Columbus (Ohio), Fort Wayne,
Cincinnati, and Salt Lake City.

On the other hand, coastal cities had one thing in common. They have people who buy more sex toys.
These cities include New York City, Chicago, Seattle, and Los Angeles. Why people in these cities buy
more sex toys remains unexplained.

Sadly, people from other cities don’t seem to fare as well as the others on this survey. It seems people
from Jersey City and Newark were interested in other things than sex.

Live in the middle of the county and think you’re missing out? According to a new survey from Men’s Health, the Midwest is best at having sex. The survey ranked Indianapolis, IN; Columbus, OH; Fort Wayne, IN; Cincinnati, OH; and Salt Lake City, UT as the most sexually satisfied cities in the country based on frequency of sex acts.

Here’s a link about sex survey.

Middle America Does The Nasty Better Than Anybody

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Planning an Erotic Vacation

There are those times when having sex inside the bedroom is already boring. Why don’t you spend a
vacation somewhere? There are a lot of beautiful getaways where you can enjoy the scenery as well as a
great experience. But be sure to bring the things you need.

Considering your budget means you’re on the right track. You can’t spend beyond your budget, and
you’re not breaking the bank just because you want to experience what it feels like to have fun inside an
opulent hotel room.

Never forget your lubricant. Be safe using water based lubes, which are great for all occasions. Don’t just
rely on natural body lubrications because they may be insufficient at times. A lube is always essential
for physical contact as it allows smooth motions with no pain and discomfort. Water based lubes are
compatible with latex condoms and rubber sex toys.

You may want to bring your portable music players, too, to better set you in the mood. Other
accessories to bring are sex toys, but you can’t just bring any sex toy. Opt for discreet, non-phallic
shaped vibrators. Condoms are always handy, so pack some. Sunscreens are also a must especially if you
are traveling during summer months.

You better ask the receptionist at a resort or hotel about their amenities. And if they provide toiletries
and towels during your stay, then leave yours at home.

As summer approaches, so do summer weekend getaways – which are a perfect time to spice up an old relationship or heat things up with someone new (lucky them!). In this 5-part series, we’ll cover how to get ready for weekend getaways.

Here’s a link about sex on the beach.

Sex on the Beach: Your Weekend Getaway Must-Bring List

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Tracking Your Sex Life on the Web

There is a new innovation on the internet right now and is called Bedpost, which is an app that allows
you to keep track of your sex life. You may think this is like telling everyone, “Hey, I got laid last night,”
but this site respects the privacy of its users and does not have the features you normally find on
social networking sites. While you may be able to see your partner online when they log in, there is
no way you can communicate with them. You also cannot view their profile. The application looks
like a calendar on which you can tag activities, sex toys used, and positions done on a particular date.
After a time, you will eventually find out your sexual behavior—what days you usually engage in sex,
what positions you usually do, and what toys you tend to use. This can be fun and may make you know
yourself better.

You will need an email address when signing up, and you will provide data about yourself, like your
gender or sexual orientation. But any of the information about you will never be shared with a third
party for whatever reason.

Well, nevertheless, you might have checked out the site just now. It looks a little too uneventful.

Now this is what I call innovation! Bedpost is an app currently in its beta stages that lets you track your sex life online. It is completely private and has no social networking features. However, there is word that it will eventually include a notification if a partner logs in, but there will still be no communication or viewing of other people’s profiles.

Here’s a link about Cool New Sex Tracking App.

Cool New Sex Tracking App

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What You Get From Sex Blogs

If you’re bored, one of the good things you can do is check out sex blogs. What can you get from these
sites?

Sex blogs do have a collection of erotic stories to titillate your mind with imaginations of incredible
encounters. You might just like the graphic descriptions of intimate moments on an erotic novel. You
might just be engrossed in viewing the pages to get yourself in the mood. Sex stories can sometimes be
more arousing than porn videos.

There are also a lot of tips and advice for lovers and people in relationships. Sex and relationship advice
are read by millions of people all over the world. Let us just say that many lovers out there don’t know
how to deal with the tough times. Pieces of advice you get over the internet come from people who
have been there and done that.

You may also find ads of the hottest sex toys in the market. Well, sex toys are essential objects if you
are into adding spice to your romantic encounters. Sex toys include masturbators, cock rings, vibrators,
massagers, dildos, anal beads, and sex dolls. These products can be used by singles and married couples,
and they can add pleasure to your otherwise ordinary sex.

A little change in how things are done for this edition – you’ll notice there are no “Top 3″ picks – due in part to the holiday I ended up being extremely short on judges and I didn’t have enough for fair voting. So instead, I expanded my “Featured Post”. (If you’d like to volunteer to be an occasional judge for e[lust], just email me, Lilly, at questions.e.lust @ gmail.com) Also, please be sure to check out the new summer schedule in effect until the 20th edition.

Here’s a link about Northern lights and sleepless nights.

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Making Your Bedroom More Inviting for Sex

You cannot think of sex when you are inside a cluttered bedroom. Seriously, if there is one worst turn
off, it is a messy room. So before you invite your partner for a steamy bedroom event, make sure you
have done some cleaning up.

When all the fixing is done, you have to think about enhancing the mood inside and keeping all possible
distractions out—cell phones, televisions, telephones, and so on. It is best if you can keep your room
free from all these distracters. If you cannot take them out, at least keep them turned off while you are
having some serious private business.

Step up a little further by luring your senses—and your partners. Bright lights are not good if you are
planning a romantic night with your lover. You do not have to turn off the lights either. Instead, opt for
dim lights. A lit bedside lamp may provide a romantic light for a romantic evening. Scented candles are
just lovely. Light some and place them on a table near your bed.

Towels, lubes, massage oils, and sex toys should be set in place. Put them where you can easily get
them. You cannot jump out of the bed just to get something or you will become the total spoiler.

Jaiya discusses how to turn your bedroom – or any other room – into a sensual space for lovemaking.

Here’s a link about the video sensual spaces for lovemaking.

Creating Sensual Spaces for Lovemaking

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