May 23, 2012

Incorporating Sex Dolls in Couples Sex Play

Have you ever thought about incorporating sex dolls in couples sex play? Many couples never think about using sex dolls together because sex dolls are so often marketed as something you use alone as a masturbatory tool. However, this isn’t the only option that you have.

What are some ways that you can incorporate sex dolls into couple sex play? Maybe as a couple you’ve fantasized about having a threesome but you don’t actually want the drama that might come with bringing another person into your bedroom. Or maybe for personal or religious beliefs you don’t want to bring another person into the relationship but you like the fantasy aspect of a threesome.

This is where a sex doll can be a great alternative. It can be fun and exciting to role play with sex dolls in your relationship. You can bring a male doll or a female sex doll into the foreplay or maybe you want to bring both in. You can try different types of dolls and using them in different ways.

There are so many different unique ways that you can incorporate sex dolls into your sex life as a couple and not just when you are in solo play. If both partners are willing to give it a try, you can find this to be an enjoyable way to mix things up now and again.

You might even decide that you want to go shopping for your sex dolls together. This is because you can both pick something with the features you both like and that is aesthetically attractive to you both. This also means that it will be something special that you have both together that was picked out together. This can be a fun way to spruce things up in the bedroom if you’ve been together for a while or if you’re just looking for something different.

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Safety with Bondage Toys

When using bondage toys, it’s very important that you learn and practice the proper safety precautions. While bondage sex play can be a fun and exciting experience, it can also be very dangerous when you’re not careful. Since it often involves tying someone up and might also involve gagging, it’s important to be safe.

If you are practicing bondage with someone, it should be a partner that you trust well and that you have previously talked to about the act. There needs to be a safe word in case things start to go wrong or one partner wants to stop. Since bondage often involves role playing and using words like “no” and “stop” as part of the play, your safe word needs to be something completely different so that there is no confusion during the bondage play that someone wants to stop.

Be careful of doing this in a remote location where there is a difficult chance of finding help if needed. You should always have an escape route if something should go wrong and the tied up partner should always have a way out if the other partner has an accident, leaves or something else goes wrong.

Avoid tying anything around your partner’s neck that wasn’t specifically designed for that. Avoid games that require cutting of the breathing or circulation and then restarting it as these can be physically damaging in the long run as well as a high risk factor during play.

Always remember that safe sex still applies during bondage play as well. Always clean your bondage toys properly, be cautious of using them with multiple partners. Use condoms to protect your toys when sharing them and don’t have unprotected sex of any type. Also avoid drugs and alcohol use during bondage play as this can alter your judgment and lead to accidents or unsafe practices.

When you learn these tips for safety with bondage toys, you can have a fun exciting adventure with your partner each and every time you choose. Enjoy these toys as they were intended to be used and fulfill your sexual fantasies in safety.

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Sex Toy Restraints: Bondage Fun

There are many types of sex toy restraints available on the market today. If you enjoy bondage or just a lightly tied up arm during foreplay and intercourse, sex toy restraints will help you achieve this in a safe and healthy way. Many people like to be restrained or tied up in some way during foreplay and intercourse and other people are interested in trying it out for themselves but they don’t know where to start.

Sex Toy Restraints

Sex Toy Restraints

In the past, this type of sex play would have been more taboo and there was not as much information available for it. Trying to find out a safe way to use restraints in sex could be difficult. Today, the adult toy industry has created a wide number of toys and devices created with safety and pleasure in mind.

Some examples of sex toy restraints would be handcuffs, ankle cuffs, gags, ball gags, blindfolds, straps and ropes, etc. Some will bind you to other parts of your body. Some may mind you to the bedposts or other stationery objects in the home.

Many people like to be tied up or restrained during sex but using sex toy restraints can make it easier and safer to do so instead of using ordinary objects found around your home where something could go wrong and hurt you or your partner.

Safety First

Remember if you are going to work restraints into your sexual routine to follow the proper safety precautions.

  • First, you and your partner must both be 100% certain you want to do this and both should feel comfortable with the situation.
  • Second, you should have a “safe word” that the restrained partner can use if they want to be let go.

You should always make sure the restrained partner is capable of getting free on their own or calling for help in the event of an emergency. If something happened to you, your partner would be stuck tied up.  You should also be sure you only use approved sex toy restraints.

Using objects you’ve found around your home or that were not approved for this use can be very dangerous. When there are so many great, affordable options in sex toys, there’s no reason not to do it right.  If you want to enjoy bondage fun- from light to heavy bondage and restraints- there are sex toy restraints available to help you do it right.

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Sex Toys Lubricants

Sex Toys Lubricant

Sex Toys Lubricant

When it comes to sex toys, lubricants are very important. There are many different types of toys as well as many different types of lubricants but you need to make sure you are using the proper lubricants with your sex toys. There are also different lubricants to be used during intercourse and sex play and many fun choices for you today.

There are your basic sex toys lubricants and there are also aphrodisiacs, sex toy cleaners, massage oils, flavored lubricants and even body paints. You may have more than one type or even some of each type in your “love kit”.

Just as aphrodisiacs are designed to help your libido stay ready to go, there are some aphrodisiac potions and lotions than can be used as lubricants for sex toys and sex play as well. Sensual paint can be a lot of fun and many types are safe to use with sex toys and are also non-toxic.

Flavored lubricants are perfect for the person who loves to lick and most are designed to be safe with most sex toys. Always read the labels and be aware of what materials your sex toys are made out of before applying flavored lubricants to anything.

Massage oils are a great way to get in the mood whether alone or with a partner and most are safe with sex toys as well. You can use your massage oils to help you get in the mood and to enhance your experience.

There are many types of lubricants from the very simple to the luxurious. There are warming lubricants designed to enhance the sexual experience with a special formula that creates a warming sensation. There are also water-based, oil-based and silicone lubricants and anal lubricant options. The type you use will often depend on the types of sex toys you are using.

Supa Slik Lube

Supa Slik Lube

Be sure you read the labels of your lubricant to see if it is safe to use with the particular sex toy or sex toys you are planning to use it with. There are some types of lubricants that do not work well on certain types of toys or can even break down the materials that certain toys are made of.

After the play is over, it’s very important that you use sex toy cleaners to clean up your toys. This is very important for health reasons so your toys will be ready to go next time you want them but it’s also important for the care and life of the toy. The better care you give them, the longer it will last for you.

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Role Play – Sex Up Your Romance

Role play – Get Things Heated

Are you thinking of ways of how to add spice to your sex life?  Why not role play—get things heated for you and your partner?  This type of sex –play can have a significant contribution towards insuring the health of your relationship to each other.

  4 Piece Maid Set Costume

4 Piece Maid Set Costume

Role playing is a game couple’s can play to help improve their sex lives.  It usually involves the playing out of a scenario consistent with the sexual fantasies of the parties to the relationship.  It not only provides a way in which couples may satisfy their sexual fantasies but contributes to a deeper connection and contributes to the good health of a romantic relationship.

The playing out of sexual fantasies or indeed, just revealing them to your partner, shows several things about your relationship.  First is that you have reached a stage in which the both of you are comfortable and secure enough in your relationship to reveal to each other things which you regard as highly personal.

Second is that both of you feel comfortable enough to let your inhibitions down.  With this loss of inhibitions the couple is no longer trammeled by anxieties of what one may think about the other and instead can focus on how to shower the other with more affection and how to pleasure each other during their intimate moments.

Moreover, the fact that the couple is playing out their sexual fantasy can lead to quicker sexual arousal for the couple as well as more intense and passionate sack sessions.  The enjoyable experience encountered during this type of sex play will give the couple a reason to smile when remembering what happened during that time and the fact that it is a common experience known only to the both of them will not only add to their bank of happy memories but will strengthen the bond between the both of them.

Jelly Vibrators

Jelly Vibrators

Playing out a sexual fantasy is not that difficult.  It does not have to be elaborate to be enjoyable, it just has to be accurate.  The creativity of the couple is the only limitation to the possibilities that can happen during sexual role play.

To add a degree of realism, there are many sex toys, costumes, accessories and props readily available at online sex toy stores a couple can acquire.  Role playing may be a good way on how to introduce sex toys and the different (but enjoyable) sexual experience their use brings.

So what are you waiting for?  Role play—get things heated in the bedroom and keep the fire of your relationship burning brightly for years to come!

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