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Couples Who Use Sex Toys

December 8, 2009 By Lisa 1 Comment

Couples Who Use Sex Toys Often Have Closer Relationships

Many couples who are very close to each other use sex toys during their lovemaking.  There is a trust that has been built up that makes the use of these toys acceptable.  When couples have trust, trying new things together is not as intimidating as when there are apprehensions in the relationship.  Because of the added trust, couples who use sex toys often have closer relationships than those who do not.

There are many sex toys that couples can use to enhance their bedroom romps.  There are toys for men and woman that can be used with any combination of sexes.  Some of the most common toys are vibrators.  These are simple to use and do not need any instructions.  They are also the oldest known sex toys with the exception of the dildo.  Once man learned about electricity, they found a way to make sex even better.

There are also more off the cuff sex toys for those who want to really spice up their lovemaking.  Anal plugs can be used to either stimulate the prostate or the sphincter.  Another popular anal toy is the anal beads.  These are placed in the anus and then are slowly pulled out to either increase orgasms intensity or to create an orgasm.  There is a great deal of sensitivity in this area and these toys can help to bring the couples closer together by trusting each other enough to use them in these sensitive areas.

There are many more different sex toys for couples to use when they are intimate.  These toys can be used to help offer more intense orgasms or can be used in areas that most would not be comfortable having sex in.  Couples who use sex toys are more than likely going to have a closer relationship.

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Couples Using Sex Toys

December 7, 2009 By Lisa Leave a Comment

Couples Using Sex Toys to Enhance Their Lovemaking

There is a fallacy that states that only those who are masturbating are using sex toys.  This is common but so not true.  Many couples, no matter the sex of the partners, are using sex toys to enhance their lovemaking.  Couples using sex toys have been going on for many years even though it is now getting popular to admit it.  While they are also more commonly thought of for same sex partners, heterosexual partners can find sex toys quite stimulating as well.

Many couples enjoy using sex toys once in a while for a spicier lovemaking session.  Some sex toys can make either partner much more excited and stimulated.  This can lead to stronger and harder orgasms.  Some sex toys are meant to delay orgasm so it is more intense when finally released.  Others simply add to the excitement that lovemaking already brings to table.

If one partner is not comfortable using sex toys, the other should be patient and introduce them gradually.  Never use a sex toy on an unwilling partner as trust issues can arise.  They may never want to make love again if something is used on them that they are not going to want used.  Trust is important in any relationship, especially sexual ones.

Those couples who do want to use sex toys can find a wide assortment on the market today.  Ordering them on the internet is a discreet way to purchase them and saves the embarrassment of having to pay for them in person.  All that is needed is a credit or debit card and the toy is going to be shipped directly to your home.  The packaging is going to be discreet so the neighbors or mailman are not going to know what is being delivered.

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Couples Sex Toys

December 6, 2009 By Lisa Leave a Comment

Couples Sex Toys Can Increase Pleasure

Some couples can enjoy a perfectly happy sex life without any aids at all.  Others are more adventuresome and prefer to have some toys that they can use to bring more pleasure to their partner or to make their intimate times more exciting.  There are many couples’s sex toys that can offer added excitement and pleasure even for those who are already experiencing a happy sex life.

Some places are going to offer kits that come with everything that is needed to make lovemaking more exciting.  These sets often contain a small bullet vibrator, heated massage oils, penis rings and other stimulants for the genitals.  These toys can be used together or one at a time.  These items offer increasing pleasure for both partners in the couple.

The vibrator can be used to stimulate the clitoris for the female.  When used with heated oil, the pleasure can be increased ten fold.  The heated oil can also be used on its when manipulating the clitoris manually by hand or finger.  This can add more stimulation to the clitoris that may not be felt when simply stimulating it manually.

The penis ring can also be used with the heated oils or they can each be used on their own.  The heated oil can also be used when the partner is using their hand or is having oral sex with their partner.  This can increase the pleasure in the penis and in many cases can bring a man to orgasm very quickly.  Those who have problems with premature ejaculation can use this on themselves to clear the pipes as the expression goes so that they are not going to ejaculate as quick when they are with their partner.  Their partner can even help with this task to make sure that the man is going to last longer during lovemaking.

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Sex Toys for Couples

November 11, 2009 By Lisa Leave a Comment

Choosing the Best Sex Toys for Couples

Those couples who have decided that they want to introduce some sex toys into their lovemaking may be wondering what toys they should start with.  Some may want to only add warming lubricant while others may want to try some light bondage.  The best way to figure out what sex toys for couples are going to be right for you is to search online.  While browsing in a brick and mortar store can be fun as well, some couples may be intimidated by all the options.

Shopping online can be more discrete and can allow the couples to read reviews from other couples who have already tried the products.  Those who are just looking to find some nice lubricants or warming lotions that can enhance their already great sex life can find these just about anywhere.  Some of the top selling condom makers are now offering these products in their line.

If you want to spice it up more by adding some actual sex toys for couples can look at what they want to enhance in the bedroom.  These sex toys can take fantasies out of the mind and into the bedroom.  Those couples who have thought about what it would be like to have a third partner but who do not want an actual third person in the bedroom can get a sex doll of either or both sex.  This is a safe way to have the threesome experience without any jealousy.

Those couples who want to try some mild bondage can get a bondage kit that comes with the tie downs along with a mask to cover the eyes.  These types of sex toys for couples can make any fantasy come true.  All you need is a bed and a willing partner!

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How To Introduce Sex Toys

October 20, 2009 By John 1 Comment

How To Introduce Sex Toys

Introducing sex toys into your love life can be one of the most rewarding experiences by simply encouraging you to play as a couple. When you bring the fun and excitement back into your relationship you can connect with your partner and take your relationship to the next level. By discovering your partner’s desires you will be able to satisfy them and keep the passion burning strong. Here are some tips on how to introduce sex toys into your sexual encounters:

Communication is the key to a healthy and happy sex life. Mention the idea of sex toys during small talk and take note of your partner’s reaction. Most of the time they will be surprised but in a good way. Then be honest and suggest you try something new and you will be doing it together, more playtime guaranteed.

Next step is re-assurance – Make sure you tell your partner that this is going to be good for both of you and will only enhance your sexual relationship not replace them. Then to really set their minds at ease suggest you visit an adult sex toy shop online and choose the toys together. Mention that there are couples sex toys and games couples can play and that maybe you should get some.

Next Shopping Together – The reason shopping together is so important is that by going through loads of products together you get a good understanding of what your partner likes and dislikes. Then once you have agreed and chosen your toys together and have ordered sit back and let the excitement build as you await delivery. Then mention to your partner you cant wait for your special delivery and get them thinking about it too.

Then remember start slowly and explore together leading each other letting them know what feels good. Again communication during sex is also important when you are incorporating sex toys like clit teasers for the first time. Just by simply learning what gets your partner going will bring you closer sexually.

So just talk to your partner and be honest remind them it’s something new you can do together. Then get ready to take your love life to the next level and enjoy exploring together.

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Vibrating Cock Rings

September 17, 2009 By Lisa Leave a Comment

What You Need to Know

Are you considering a vibrating cock ring but you’re not sure how to use one or if it’s right for you? Whether you are new to these types of sex toys or just want to spice things up a little in the bedroom, vibrating cock rings are one way to do it. However, it pays to learn a little about them before you grab one and try to stick it on.

Vibrating Cock Ring

Vibrating Cock Ring

A vibrating cock ring can make the penis thicker and stronger during intercourse while also satisfying the clitoris or the scrotum with an attached vibrator that you can move around and control. This can result in amazing orgasms for you and your partner. In fact, you might find yourselves having some of the most amazing orgasms ever when you use vibrating cock rings.

These are a great choice in sex toys because there is low skill requirement. It’s pretty easy to learn how to put one on and use it, even if you’ve never used a sex toy or a cock ring before. They are also very affordable. While they can vary from about $10 for $50 or more, the average price range is around $15-$25.

Flutter Ring

Flutter Ring

If you’ve decided you want to give it a go, your first step will be to choose the right one for you. If you spend any time looking, you will see that there are many different types out there.  Some of the factors you will consider when choosing your vibrating cock ring is price, intensity of the vibration, elegance and features. Look into all of these factors so you can find the right one for you.

When it comes to using vibrating cock rings, you need to learn how to put it on. Your penis should be semi-erect if possible to make it easier to put it on. You should also make sure you have proper lubrication or the experience can be uncomfortable. Now that you know the basics, you’re ready to try one out for yourself. You just might find it becomes one of your favorite sex toys.

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Incorporating Sex Dolls in Couples Sex Play

September 9, 2009 By Lisa Leave a Comment

Have you ever thought about incorporating sex dolls in couples sex play? Many couples never think about using sex dolls together because sex dolls are so often marketed as something you use alone as a masturbatory tool. However, this isn’t the only option that you have.

What are some ways that you can incorporate sex dolls into couple sex play? Maybe as a couple you’ve fantasized about having a threesome but you don’t actually want the drama that might come with bringing another person into your bedroom. Or maybe for personal or religious beliefs you don’t want to bring another person into the relationship but you like the fantasy aspect of a threesome.

This is where a sex doll can be a great alternative. It can be fun and exciting to role play with sex dolls in your relationship. You can bring a male doll or a female sex doll into the foreplay or maybe you want to bring both in. You can try different types of dolls and using them in different ways.

There are so many different unique ways that you can incorporate sex dolls into your sex life as a couple and not just when you are in solo play. If both partners are willing to give it a try, you can find this to be an enjoyable way to mix things up now and again.

You might even decide that you want to go shopping for your sex dolls together. This is because you can both pick something with the features you both like and that is aesthetically attractive to you both. This also means that it will be something special that you have both together that was picked out together. This can be a fun way to spruce things up in the bedroom if you’ve been together for a while or if you’re just looking for something different.

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Buying and Using Cock Sleeve

August 25, 2009 By Lisa Leave a Comment

There are many different types of cock sleeves so if you’re looking for one, you need to know where to begin. Are you looking for something to extend your penis and make it feel longer or larger for your partner? Are you looking for something to increase the pleasure for your partner such as one with bumps or ridges on it? Another option is a cock sleeve designed to please you both at once. It might have features that give your partner increased sensation while also vibrating or with a built on cock ring for you as well.

When buying a cock sleeve or penis sleeve, you need to choose one that you know is made of good quality. Look for brands you know you can trust that have been around the sex toy industry for some time and have a quality reputation.

Once you find a great, quality place to buy all of your sex toys, you will likely come back again and again. Sometimes paying slightly more money for a higher quality sleeve is an important way to make sure you get the best and that it will last a lot longer for you.

Cheaper models of sex toys, including penis sleeves, will not hold up to the pressures of playing with and using them for very long. They often break easily and you will need to replace them which adds up to what it would cost to get a higher quality toy in the first place. It just makes sense to shop smart for your sex toys, just as you would with anything else you buy.

When using a cock sleeve, make sure you follow the instructions for using it properly. The first few times it may take some getting used to, especially if you have never had the sensation of feeling something on your penis like this. You may also need to go slow with your partner is this is something new to her as well.

Once you both adjust to the cock sleeve, it’s likely you will greatly enjoy it. Make sure you only use lubricants that are approved for use with the type of materials your cock sleeve is made out of. It’s also important to make sure you wash it properly after every use, as with every sex toy. This will protect you as well as keep your sex toys in good condition for a longer period of time.

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Safety with Bondage Toys

August 23, 2009 By Lisa Leave a Comment

When using bondage toys, it’s very important that you learn and practice the proper safety precautions. While bondage sex play can be a fun and exciting experience, it can also be very dangerous when you’re not careful. Since it often involves tying someone up and might also involve gagging, it’s important to be safe.

If you are practicing bondage with someone, it should be a partner that you trust well and that you have previously talked to about the act. There needs to be a safe word in case things start to go wrong or one partner wants to stop. Since bondage often involves role playing and using words like “no” and “stop” as part of the play, your safe word needs to be something completely different so that there is no confusion during the bondage play that someone wants to stop.

Be careful of doing this in a remote location where there is a difficult chance of finding help if needed. You should always have an escape route if something should go wrong and the tied up partner should always have a way out if the other partner has an accident, leaves or something else goes wrong.

Avoid tying anything around your partner’s neck that wasn’t specifically designed for that. Avoid games that require cutting of the breathing or circulation and then restarting it as these can be physically damaging in the long run as well as a high risk factor during play.

Always remember that safe sex still applies during bondage play as well. Always clean your bondage toys properly, be cautious of using them with multiple partners. Use condoms to protect your toys when sharing them and don’t have unprotected sex of any type. Also avoid drugs and alcohol use during bondage play as this can alter your judgment and lead to accidents or unsafe practices.

When you learn these tips for safety with bondage toys, you can have a fun exciting adventure with your partner each and every time you choose. Enjoy these toys as they were intended to be used and fulfill your sexual fantasies in safety.

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First Time Vibrator Tips

August 22, 2009 By Lisa Leave a Comment

If you’re buying or using a vibrator for the first time, there are many things you should know. If you’re feeling a little intimidated by the many options out there, you’re not alone. One of the best things you can do is shop online. This is because there will be more options for you to consider online and also because you can take your time, browse all you want and fully investigate each option out there.

It’s important to learn about the different types of vibrators that are available so you can make a solid choice for you. What began as the first, original sex toy on the market has grown from a simple thing to one with many options, features and additions than ever before.

First Time Vibrator Buying Tips

If you’re buying a vibrator for the first time, you might become a bit overwhelmed at all the choices that are out there. This is when it pays to do some research so you can determine which is the right type for you.

Here are some examples of vibrators:

  • Traditional vibrators
  • Clitoral vibrators
  • Dual action vibrators
  • G-spot vibrators
  • Waterproof vibrators
  • Discreet vibrators
  • Rabbit vibrators
  • And more

You might want to start with something simple if this is your first time. A vibrator with multiple speed functions is a great option because you can experience with what is best for you.

First Time Vibrator Usage Tips

If this is the first time you’ve ever used a vibrator, you want to be sure you have plenty of uninterrupted time to practice and get comfortable with what you’re doing. Make sure you have lubrication safe to use on the type of material your new vibrator is made from.

Take your time and focus on enjoying yourself and trying things with the vibrator that you would not have been able to do or experience without it. With these tips, you can enjoy your vibrator for the first time as well as many times to come in the future.

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