One-night stand is nowhere near a long term affair. It stays where it’s done and nothing more after that.
You can’t fall for the person who’s with you at a motel the night before. It’s ridiculous if you did.
You don’t have to ask for their name. In fact, you can have as many orgasms tonight as you can have
without knowing each other’s name. You’re bound to forget their name as much as they’re bound to
forget yours too. They may also not tell you their true names, so you don’t have to tell them your true
name. Hide your ID’s in your bag.
There’s no need to get their numbers. What are you thinking? Are you going to expect the other to
phone you for some cappuccino the next day? No way! Save your numbers and go straight home the
next morning.
Have some condoms handy. Since this is a no-strings-attached affair, it should leave any trace
afterwards. A condom is always handy to avoid sexually transmitted disease or a ridiculous pregnancy.
Be courteous still even if you’re just a random partner. It doesn’t mean you can just step out of the
room the next morning while the other’s still asleep. Ok, if you can’t wake them up, just leave a note.
And by the way, you can say “thank you”.
Consider this a public service announcement, because we hear about way too many encounters where one person wants to keep it casual but ends up in a long term relationship. These are some do’s and don’ts of one night stands that seem obvious enough, but need to be made clear so people don’t forget.
Here’s a link about dos and don’t in a one night stand.
