May 23, 2012

Techniques for Preventing Premature Ejaculation

Want to improve your sexual endurance or stop yourself from ejaculating too early? Don’t leave your
love unfulfilled and learn how to make your sex life more exciting and pleasurable. The following tips
can help you last longer in bed (free of side effects):

Get It Off Before You Get It On. Before engaging with your partner, masturbate a couple of hours
before to release the sexual tension that has built up in your system. This is one of the easiest and most
effective ways to avoid premature orgasms.

Control Your Breathing. You can delay ejaculation by putting your mind out of the pleasurable
sensations you get during sex. The best way to do this is by simply minding your breathing.

Natural Conditioning. A natural training and conditioning program will enable you to address underlying
physical and psychological triggers that cause early ejaculation. This training involves pelvic muscle and
breathing control techniques.

Make Her Your Priority. The best way to avoid frustrating your lady is to make her reach orgasm first.
Pleasure her with different techniques, or prolong and intensify your foreplay. Figure out her hot spots
and concentrate on that.

Anticipate and Stop. Learn to spot the “point of no return” before you reach it (no amount of
discouragements can help you then). Once you begin to tense or build up on your push, slow down and
relax a bit.

These techniques are not fad solutions to extending your sexual performance. Applying these
techniques will greatly increase your and your partner’s sexual satisfaction. It may take some effort to
master, but it will be well worth that.

Are you having problems lasting long enough in bed? There is no need to feel embarrassed or ashamed about it. There are far more men out there who ejaculate too early during sex, so you are certainly not alone. And there is certainly a lot you can do to stop your premature ejaculation problems, fulfill the woman in your life and totally transform your sex life.

Here’s a link about fix premature ejaculation.

Fix Premature Ejaculation Now! These 5 Surefire Tactics Will Help You Last Longer In Bed (Guaranteed!

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She Feels Like Peeing During Sex

There are many reasons why a girl may be feeling like wanting to urinate when her guy is on top of her.
One of the common reasons is that she may be nearing orgasm. That’s what everyone feels seconds
before orgasm. For girls experiencing it for the first time, it can be a little terrifying because they think
they’d wet themselves or the bed only to be surprised later that it’s not pee that’s come out. Many girls
stop at the point when they start feeling like they are about to pee, but old girls know it’s going to lead
to the best sensations ever.

If you feel discomfort and pain during intercourse aside from this feeling that you’re about to urinate
and it bothers you, then set an appointment with your GP to know what the real problem is. It could be
the size of your partner’s thing or you may have anatomical limitations. At the same time, you may be
doing it wrong—try exploring other positions that will not produce discomfort. If he’s penetrating you
too deep, that may also press on your urinary bladder or cervix, especially if he’s well endowed. Tell
your partner to not be too rough on you.

It has taken a while to answer your question because this problem is rarely talked about or researched in younger women. You’ve been sensible enough to exclude infections, although I can’t think of any which could cause this particular symptom – except, perhaps candida (Thrush) or Trichomonas, which would show up in the tests, be easy to treat and shouldn’t have occurred continuously for 2 years.

Here’s a link about sexual health advice.

Sexual health advice service

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What Do You Know About Sex?

Many blogs feature sex as a physical experience between two people, highlighting the intense
sensations that are experienced, overlooking the other sublime aspects of this physical union, such as
emotional events and elation that occurs during such deep phenomenon.

Sex is not just something done because two people want to experience orgasm. Most writers talk
about sex in terms of achieving grand sensations and ending in a superb orgasm. But sex is also a deep
emotional experience for many. In fact, this is when people express their love to their partners, more
than something done because both are horny.

Also, there is some differences between how men and how women view sex. Most men think of sex as
a physical experience, but that does not mean they don’t care about their partners during sex. Most
women, on the other hand, think of sex as an emotional bond between him and her, so she likes him to
express his love while sweating with her. Then again, that does not suggest that she doesn’t get turned
on by a sensuous encounter. That does not mean that she doesn’t enjoy every second of pumping and
shaking.

You may learn tricks when reading blogs devoted to couples and singles, but feel free to discover your
own tricks. There are also tips that will not work for you. Don’t think anything you read on the internet
about sex applies to you.

The Missionary position is probably the most common first position people try, which is probably related to its simplicity and the high level of intimacy experienced. To get into the position, the receiver simply lies down on their back while their partner lies face-down on top of them.

Here’s a link about sex positions.

Sex Position Of The Week – Missionary Sex Position

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Turning Her on Seriously

If you think you’re the pro on bed and you’ve made out with a lot of girls, well, think again. How many
girls have you had made seriously happy on bed?

Keep in mind that women like long romancing contrary to men who want it fast. While you are racing
towards the amazing climax, she likes you to take it slow—to give her more opportunity to get there.
Kissing, fondling, and necking can enhance her arousal. Learn her sensitive spots. If you don’t know
them, explore them!

Tickle her clitoris—this is the most sensitive external part. Use your fingers, tongue, and imagination
to give sufficient stimulation to this area. This sensitive region isn’t appropriately stimulated during
intercourse, so spend a lot of time caressing the clitoris.

Give her an unforgettable cunnilingus. Just as she would go down on you, she also expects you to return
the favor. Let your tongue explore her privates and she will seriously love you after that. It makes her
feel special if you can do that, so give it a try.

Be a passionate love maker and don’t just ride on top of her like a hungry demon. Make her feel the love
with every glide and every thrust. Don’t rush to your orgasm because this isn’t about your squirting only.

Need some more tips to transform your sex life? Here’s the ultimate secret of sex gods -passion. This familiar emotion isn’t something that can be faked. It can be induced in your partner through various means, including verbal and behavioral methods. If passion is lacking in your relationship, you won’t be able to improve your sex life. So, how can you inject more passion into your lovemaking?

Here’s a link about Passionate Love Making.

How To Tackle Passionate Love Making

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Lasting Longer During Lovemaking

You may have trouble lasting longer than 5 minutes. That’s because many men are programmed to not
last too long. Nature has designed sex as a means of reproduction. Only quite recently has it been an
important tool in relationships. There are some things you can do to last longer to make her happier.

Ejaculating before the sexual intercourse can help you desensitize your system. That allows you to take a
longer time before the next ejaculation. Thus, you will give her more time, which she needs to get to an
orgasm. In short, you have to masturbate to ejaculation an hour before getting onto bed with her.

You also need to learn how to control yourself. Many guys are tempted to continue to orgasm as the
pleasure builds up. Instead of proceeding to the point of no return, learn to stop at the right moment to
let the sexual pleasure subside.

Deep breathing is also a key to lasting longer. Instead of taking shallow breaths while thrusting, take
long deep breaths. This takes some practice, so you may not get the right trick at first.

Don’t just rely on your penis. Supposing you were not able to control it and you squirted on her. That
should not mean sex is over. Continue stimulating her using your tongue or fingers until she reaches the
lovely peak.

Are you having problems lasting long enough in bed? There is no need to feel embarrassed or ashamed about it. There are far more men out there who ejaculate too early during sex, so you are certainly not alone. And there is certainly a lot you can do to stop your premature ejaculation problems, fulfill the woman in your life and totally transform your sex life.

Here’s a link about premature ejaculation and how to last longer in bed.

Fix Premature Ejaculation Now! These 5 Surefire Tactics Will Help You Last Longer In Bed (Guaranteed!)

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Tips for an Awesome Sixty-Nine

Giving your lover oral stimulation is perhaps the highest manifestation of fondness and love. This is even
more incredible if you offer it to each other at the same time—the man gives her cunnilingus while the
woman sucks him. This is one of the best things two people can do inside their private confines.

Choosing a comfortable position is essential to a sumptuous simultaneous oral stimulation. Usually, she
is on top of him. This position allows her to have more control on how much of him she can take in. He
may not mind being below as he can simply push her towards him so he could lick her better. In some
cases, the her-on-top isn’t the right position. If she’s bigger than him, then he might just be crushed by
the incredible weight. Oops, this doesn’t mean offense. Anyway, find a position that suits you best like
sideways style.

Sixty-nine sex will not be that thrilling if one comes before the other. So have an agreement to reach
orgasm at the same time. Tap their back if you are already close to climaxing so they could stop for a
while. This will be very enjoyable if you reach the climax at the same time.

While there are lots of different sex positions you can use to give your partner great oral sex, the sixty-nine position is the favorite of many couples. Why is that? One of the greatest things about oral sex is that you’re giving your partner a gift for them to enjoy and for them to enjoy alone. However, the sixty-nine position allows both partners to recieve oral sex at the same time and experience levels of pleasure that can’t be reached when one partner is performing oral sex on the other. Here are 3 ways to get it on in the sixty-nine position so you and your partner can experience the pleasure of receiving and giving oral sex together.

Here’s a link about sex positions.

Sex Positions: 3 Ways To Sixty-Nine Your Partner

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Is Foreplay Important?

Foreplay is more important than people think. Often, couples jump to 5-minute quickies, and think the
next hour how ordinary sex has become. Sex should be treated like a something that is special in your
relationship because it is indeed special. It is an exclusive bond you and your lover share. It is the highest
form of intimacy and must therefore be treated with value.

A great way to give value to sex is through a sumptuous foreplay. How do you get to a sumptuous
foreplay?

Foreplay allows you to build to an optimum arousal to best prepare you for what’s coming next. During
foreplay, every part of your body except the genitals is involved. This is the time to kiss, hug, cuddle, and
fondle you lover—to explore his or her body and to find the delicious spots.

You can always have short time sex but that lacks the erotic quality of an intimate sex preceded by
sufficient foreplay. Without foreplay, any relationship is only bound by biological needs. Sex should
meet your emotional, spiritual, and physical needs.

Men should be able to bring their female partners to a good arousal state because they usually do not
enjoy quick sex. It takes time for women to get to orgasm. When a man gets to orgasm too soon, his
girlfriend or wife usually does not enjoy that sex.

The importance of foreplay
The foreplay of sex are those that produce and manage the excitement needed before having intercourse or penetration.
These consist of foreplay hugs, kisses, caresses, words, looks and what each particular couple considers most stimulating.

Here’s a link about foreplay in sex.

Foreplay in Sex

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Can Masturbation Cause Headaches?

You may have forum sites that feature boys lamenting on headaches after masturbation. This seems
weird because masturbation does not at all cause health problems. If anything, it may cause fatigue but
only when done on the extreme frequency. However, twice or thrice a week of ejaculation is typical and
normal and will not cause health problems.

Masturbation is a means of expressing one’s sexuality and is an essential part of sexual exploration.
Fondling of the genitals is one of the basic ways to explore how stimulation of them can lead to nice
sensations and eventually to orgasm and ejaculation. Almost all boys masturbate regularly, and they do
that without suffering from any disorder because it is considered a healthy practice.

All the misconceptions that circulate about masturbation only cause guilt feelings and unnecessary fears
in people. Health professionals know better than giving false information.

Nonetheless, there are instances when you should not do it. When you are tired or ill, you’re advised to
just save your energies and just do your ritual when you’re already well.

As mentioned, masturbation will not at all cause headache or migraine or any health issue. These
problems are due to something else. If you experience headaches during or after masturbation, then
seek medical attention because you may be suffering from an underlying condition.

I am a regular masterbator that has been masterbating since about 12 and now I am 17, since last week whenever I try to masterbate I get migraines I am desperately seeking advice, as I do not know what to do? Is this the end of masterbating for me? Because it has been a regular thing for years and I may be hooked on to it.

Here’s a link about advice on masturbartion.

Masterbation Causing Me Migraines Need Advice

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Vibrators versus Boyfriends

Can vibrators actually replace your boyfriend? Well, let’s put it this way. No dong in the world can
vibrate. And this is why vibrators are hot! Girls love them because they bring about new sensations that
cannot be experienced during any typical sex.

Vibrators come in different sizes just as men’s precious thingies do, but the former come in much wider
range of sizes—from a 2mm bullet to a 10-inch juicy rabbit. Some vibes out there can add more inches.
Well size can matter, especially if you’re into serious discretion. Discreet vibrators may not go any bigger
than 5 inches and have cute shapes. The good thing is they don’t look like any of your boyfriend’s real
toy.

These sex toys come handy during lonely nights when no one’s with you. Many girls testify that they
experience more awesome sensations—sensations they had never experienced in sexual intercourse.
That’s because vibrations stimulate every part of your sensitive places. Some vibrators are equipped
with clitoral stimulation so you could experience both clitoral stimulation and vaginal penetration at the
same time.

However, vibrators do come with limitations too. Unlike your boyfriend, they cannot treat you out for
dinner and won’t even kiss you or hug you. Can you actually tell who wins in this match? Well, the good
thing is you can have both!

Judy Va-Va Bloom Bloomberg is a longtime advocate of toys. Why?

“Because the only woman who knows  where her man is at all times is a widow,” she quips.

And every blue moon, the New York toy lover throws a party for shy girls looking to explore. Ms. Va-Va Bloom and Friends* will host a Girls & Toys party to celebrate National Orgasm Month.

Here’s a link about operated boyfriend.

5 Rules For Your New Battery Operated Boyfriend

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Can’t you last long enough?

Premature ejaculation is a problem of many men, and it can impair their sexual performance. But it can
be dealt with through apt techniques and keen awareness of one’s sexuality. The truth is most men
cannot last longer than ten minutes. You are perfectly fine if you last around five. Male human beings
have been programmed to be efficient reproducers, so they are ought to last not too long.

Sex has become a demanding task these days though. Men want to last long enough for their female
counterparts to be satisfied. It becomes his grand blunder if he can’t keep it up for a minute or two,
especially considering that women need sufficient stimulation to reach orgasm. It so happens that men
and women are made of different sexual circuitries.

Anyway, if you are worried you are not lasting long enough, consider going to a GP to find out if an
underlying condition causes premature ejaculation. Perhaps you need to learn some techniques so that
you may last longer.

Controlling you PC muscles can greatly help in making you prolong stimulation before ejaculation. These
muscles are the ones you use when you control urination. Learning how to control these muscles can
give you better control of ejaculation.

Relaxation techniques also help in delaying your ejaculation by reducing the tension all over your body
and by diffusing your sexual energy all over your body.

Sex therapist Mukee Okan gives men a simple exercise to prolong sex and increase sexual stamina.Sometimes overcoming premature ejaculation is a matter of learning effective relaxa­tion techniques and bringing more awareness into your sexual experiences. Inter­estingly, this idea contradicts a lot of prevailing wisdom around ‘numbing’ sexual sen­sations and distracting oneself from the experi­ence.

Here’s a link about premature ejaculation.

Prevent Premature Ejaculation: A Simple Exercise to Last Longer in Bed

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