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Turning Her on Seriously

February 11, 2011 By Angelica Leave a Comment

If you think you’re the pro on bed and you’ve made out with a lot of girls, well, think again. How many
girls have you had made seriously happy on bed?

Keep in mind that women like long romancing contrary to men who want it fast. While you are racing
towards the amazing climax, she likes you to take it slow—to give her more opportunity to get there.
Kissing, fondling, and necking can enhance her arousal. Learn her sensitive spots. If you don’t know
them, explore them!

Tickle her clitoris—this is the most sensitive external part. Use your fingers, tongue, and imagination
to give sufficient stimulation to this area. This sensitive region isn’t appropriately stimulated during
intercourse, so spend a lot of time caressing the clitoris.

Give her an unforgettable cunnilingus. Just as she would go down on you, she also expects you to return
the favor. Let your tongue explore her privates and she will seriously love you after that. It makes her
feel special if you can do that, so give it a try.

Be a passionate love maker and don’t just ride on top of her like a hungry demon. Make her feel the love
with every glide and every thrust. Don’t rush to your orgasm because this isn’t about your squirting only.

Need some more tips to transform your sex life? Here’s the ultimate secret of sex gods -passion. This familiar emotion isn’t something that can be faked. It can be induced in your partner through various means, including verbal and behavioral methods. If passion is lacking in your relationship, you won’t be able to improve your sex life. So, how can you inject more passion into your lovemaking?

Here’s a link about Passionate Love Making.

How To Tackle Passionate Love Making

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What to Expect If You’re Getting Married

February 10, 2011 By Angelica Leave a Comment

The decision to finally get married is life changing. Before you come to terms of thinking that you have
found the right girl or right man to make ties with, consider some essential truths from those who have
been there.

Differences can get in the way of a happy marriage life. Someone who has just gotten married yesterday
may eventually be taken aback by the better half’s behavior just a few moments ago. Well, there are
some things you will only know about someone when you get to live with them. So the lesson is you
have to really know someone thoroughly before making ties with them.

Sex is really great at first! Couples finally notice the amazement they feel when having sex gradually
diminishes or dwindles over time. The reason is that sex becomes a banal act that goes over and over
again. Why is it that you enjoy great lovemaking while you were still sneaking into motel rooms or your
car’s backseat? And why is it that sex seems no fun some 5 years into your marriage?

Giving is the keyword when it comes in marriage. For your relationship to work, you have to be able to
give your time, effort, and yourself to the significant other. It’s no longer always yourself. What you wish
and want should no longer be your concerns this time.

Waking up in the middle of the night to go to the toilet, only to find an empty toilet roll holder, and hear your husband snoring so loudly that he could wake the neighbours, is enough to leave any girl thinking: ‘My mother should have warned me!’ Perhaps your mother did warn you … but still, you were completely unprepared for what lay ahead when you made those vows…

Here’s a link about things to know before married.

20 Things you need to know BEFORE you get married!

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Lasting Longer During Lovemaking

February 8, 2011 By Angelica Leave a Comment

You may have trouble lasting longer than 5 minutes. That’s because many men are programmed to not
last too long. Nature has designed sex as a means of reproduction. Only quite recently has it been an
important tool in relationships. There are some things you can do to last longer to make her happier.

Ejaculating before the sexual intercourse can help you desensitize your system. That allows you to take a
longer time before the next ejaculation. Thus, you will give her more time, which she needs to get to an
orgasm. In short, you have to masturbate to ejaculation an hour before getting onto bed with her.

You also need to learn how to control yourself. Many guys are tempted to continue to orgasm as the
pleasure builds up. Instead of proceeding to the point of no return, learn to stop at the right moment to
let the sexual pleasure subside.

Deep breathing is also a key to lasting longer. Instead of taking shallow breaths while thrusting, take
long deep breaths. This takes some practice, so you may not get the right trick at first.

Don’t just rely on your penis. Supposing you were not able to control it and you squirted on her. That
should not mean sex is over. Continue stimulating her using your tongue or fingers until she reaches the
lovely peak.

Are you having problems lasting long enough in bed? There is no need to feel embarrassed or ashamed about it. There are far more men out there who ejaculate too early during sex, so you are certainly not alone. And there is certainly a lot you can do to stop your premature ejaculation problems, fulfill the woman in your life and totally transform your sex life.

Here’s a link about premature ejaculation and how to last longer in bed.

Fix Premature Ejaculation Now! These 5 Surefire Tactics Will Help You Last Longer In Bed (Guaranteed!)

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What You Need to Know About Sex

February 6, 2011 By Angelica Leave a Comment

Sex can make or break a relationship. As much as it can foster a strong bond in your togetherness, it is
also the reason of breakups.

The delights of sex cannot be learned from watching porn videos and reading Playboy. Most guys and
girls get tips from these sources. This causes a gap in our knowledge about sex. Most people think of it
as a bodily contact. Sex is way more than that!

Communication is important in sex. In fact, sex is the highest form of connection, a connection whose
precursor is communication. Talking with your lover about your desires can enhance your lovemaking.
You have to be truthful to your partner. Tell them if they do something you dislike and if they do
something you seriously like.

Sex isn’t only about how fast you get to the point of no return or how many orgasms you had last night.
It’s also about how memorable each experience is. It’s also about the quality of pleasure you felt. It’s
about how much effort you invest in finding out new ways to make sex as thrilling as it has always been.

Sex should not become a routine experience that becomes dull with time. Insipidness of sexual
intercourse is a product of loss of interest in testing the unchartered waters. Sex demands imagination
and passion and soul.

In his book, The Culture Code, Clotaire Rapaille noted that 80% of all Americans had their first sexual experience in a car.

It’s one of the reasons that our culture has had such a fascinating with automobiles.

I’m over six foot tall. My first car was a tiny Ford Maverick. It might explain why I don’t care about cars but have a deep affinity for recliner chairs.

Here’s  a link about sexual pleasure.

Dr. Debby, Teaching Us About Sexual Pleasure

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Sex After Fight

January 25, 2011 By Angelica Leave a Comment

Sex after a serious argument can be extremely exciting. This is something couples should try. Most
usually spend a moment of quiet after a fight. But what about stroking and kissing afterwards? What
about a romantic turnaround?

Kiss your lover passionately after a heavy drama to stop things from getting too cold, instead of sleeping
the night off. It can be vital to your relationship because it’s like an immediate healer, putting back the
heat in your relationship that has just been compromised while you were yelling at each earlier.

Don’t discuss about the previous issues, especially when you have resolved it. Don’t even tell your lover
how much you appreciate that they considered and chose to agree with you because this will only put a
quick end to an otherwise great time. Just enjoy the moment of passion and bask in its delight.

Make-up sex ensures your deep connection despite fights and disagreements. You and your partner are
two different people, and you will be arguing over something sometime in the future. Accept arguments
and differences as part of your relationships, but don’t let them injure your togetherness.

Be objective when dealing with differences between you and your lover. Don’t avoid arguments because
they ensure openness. At the same time, make sure you resolve issues and don’t let them remain too
long. Reward yourselves with sweet lovemaking after resolving conflicts. Isn’t that hot?

There’s something ultra sexy about make-up sex. After you and your partner have a fight, you’ve both had a chance to release your anger or frustration, which can be very freeing. But you’ve also probably gotten yourself worked up in other ways, and having a chance to unleash it on something (you) is a major turn-on. There’s a sense of animalism and raw emotion that takes place during make-up sex, so you want to make sure that you never let this opportunity pass you by. It’s the silver lining to the long-term relationship – you’re inevitably going to disagree, but at least you’ve always got make-up sex to look forward to!

Here’s a link about make up sex.

Have Great Make-Up Sex

Have Great Make-Up Sex

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Should You Give Your Man Anal Stimulation?

January 24, 2011 By Angelica Leave a Comment

If you have the wondrous G-spot, men too have their version of this. It’s called the P-spot, which is
actually an area in the anus that is near the prostate gland. Stimulating this area can cause intense
pleasure, and they say male orgasm is even more intense when coupled with P-spot massage.

As a loving partner, you have to give your man all the sumptuous sensations in the world. That means
you cannot miss the awesome anal stimulation.

How do you do that?

Well, you need to have the right amount of lubrication to tickle his anus because it’s a delicate place. It’s
unlike the other hole you have which lubricates on its own. Your anus as well as his doesn’t have its own
lubricating mechanism.

Check your fingernails if they’re well trimmed. You don’t want to hurt him.

Massage the opening of his anus to relax his sphincter. Rouse his sexual desires by massaging his balls or
masturbating him. Massage his perineum too. To those who don’t know where the perineum is, it’s the
area between his anus and his scrotum. This is also a sensitive place as it’s underneath the prostate.

Your middle or index finger is the handiest tool for giving him an anal stimulation. Insert a lubed finger
into his anus. The P-spot is found on the front wall of the anus. Probe for this spot and watch out for his
reactions.

For many people, anal sex is the ultimate taboo. Many people are attracted to it precisely because it’s so taboo and mysterious. Some people love anal sex. Others hate it. Others haven’t tried it yet and are curious.

Sex with Jaiya talks about deep anal pleasure, from anal massage to anal sex orgasms. What are the secrets to the P-Spot? What are some of the benefits of anal lovemaking? What makes analingus great? If you’re interested in exploring anal sex listen in as Jaiya and co-host D. Love share the secrets to success.

Here’s a link about deep anal pressure.

Deep Anal Pleasure: From Anal Massage to Anal Sex Orgasms

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Tantric Sex for Lovers

January 19, 2011 By Angelica Leave a Comment

Tantra has been practiced in India for millennia, but only quite recently has it been applied by people
in the western world. Originally, it was a movement against organized religion—a religion which taught
people of the evils of sexuality. The worldliness of sex is enough to make people reject sex as a source of
pleasure.

However, Tantra went against the absurdity. Proponents of Tantric sex think that sexuality is an
entrance to a world that’s sacred. In fact, they think that worldly pleasures of eating or dancing are
actually hallowed acts, which have spiritually profound effects.

Tantra actually means “to weave or expand.” When applied to sex, it suggests that sex should be a
means to enhance consciousness and to foster spiritual connection between a man and a woman so
they may become one.

Tantric sex is all about executing the ancient art of love making that follows the principles accompanied
by sexual wisdom. The goal of this kind of connection is not necessarily to reach orgasm but to achieve a
deep sexual and spiritual connection. Lovers are taught to prolong the lovemaking.

According to health experts, Tantric sex has health benefits as it unleashes the latent energies. During
tantric sex, you not only use your sexual energy, but you tap into it and use it consciously. It is more
than having sex—and it’s not just about squirting those precious juices.

Tao Semko says his traditional e-mail sign-off, “Keep your tongue up,” refers to three big Tantric secrets.
My traditional email sign-off refers to three yogic meditation secrets, which among those taught at the very beginning of all our courses:

Here’s a link about Tantric Secrets.

3 Big Tantric Secrets

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Think About Your Partner During Sex

November 30, 2010 By Angelica Leave a Comment

You have to stop and think about how you are as a sexual partner instead of the other way around.
Most of us care about how we should feel during sex without considering if the other is ever happy with
the way we act during lovemaking. If you’re too selfish, chances are you will get the sexual satisfaction.
You have to give it to your partner as well. You can’t just ask for it.

Communication is important in romance and sex. We’ve said this a million times. Tell your partner if you
think they can do better. Then ask them how they feel about your performance in bed. Are they ever
satisfied by you? Sex is a mutual thing. It’s not just about your reaching for orgasm. It’s about both of
you reaching for it.

According to research, young couples have a so-called selfish sex, which happens when each partner
wants the other to work hard for their satisfaction. If one is satisfied, chances are that the other is only
taxed, instead of feeling gratified. Older couples are opposite. They want to please the other and would
even motivate the other to have sex.

Guys should keep in mind that sex isn’t about getting off on their girlfriends. And girls better teach guys
how to give them orgasms.

Have you ever been with a selfish sex partner or been told you’re selfish in bed? It turns out that might be a compliment. A new study that focused on the sex habits of selfish lovers found that those who focus on getting what they want in bed have more fulfilling sex lives for both themselves and their partners.

Here’s a link about better sex.

Selfish Sex = Better Sex?

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Sexual Creativity for Moregasms!

November 24, 2010 By Angelica Leave a Comment

It’s tough when you’re doing the same thing all the time over your bed because that means lovemaking
is hitting a dull decline. Yes, indeed, when couples don’t spend time to rediscover each other, sex gets
boring. Aside from that, discovering new things is also something a lot of people don’t do.

Lovemaking is just like any activity. When you go through the same stuff all the time, things become
much like a step by step routine, and you’d know what to expect next. So, the cure is to spend some
time to explore acts you haven’t done yet.

Your mind must have fantasies, and it’s for you to try them out. If you’re like 5 years into your marriage
or relationship, you should be learning the new stuff, like trying out a different technique with your
partner without hesitation. Some are just afraid, but don’t be, or you’d lose a whole lot of fun!

Sexperts suggest you try sex toys, restraints, BDSM, role playing, sex games, a hundred or so sex
positions, and kink. Have you tried offering a hand at a parking lot? What about a quickie in the living
room?

Couples should also increase foreplay moments, instead of going to intercourse right away. Learn the art
of delaying orgasms for amazing sex.

Do you know the best way to ensure that your next sexual interlude is fulfilling for you and your partner?
Don’t focus on just one sexual behavior. Do two or three things while you’re fooling around. Mix up what the two of you are doing in bed. Or wherever else it is that you’re doing it.

Here’s a link about the result of sexual diversity.

Sexual Diversity = An Explosive Finale

Sexual Diversity = An Explosive Finale

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Safety When Trying Kama Sutra Sex Positions

October 13, 2010 By Angelica Leave a Comment

You must have read a lot of great positions to enjoy sex. You read a lot about them in Kama Sutra books.
All these bizarre sex positions can tease the curious mind but many of such positions are hazardous.
Accidents can happen during sex when two people aren’t careful. Before you attempt to imitate any of
the positions you found on a book, find out if it’s practicable.

Could you consider yourself a sex pro and hold your woman in a standing position for long? They call
it “the suspended congress” position and it’s one of the hardest positions in Kama Sutra. Many men
cannot support their women this way for long and there is a good chance that the man may just lose
grip and leave the woman falling on the floor. Tailbone fractures can happen when someone falls on
their butts.

Seriously, you can’t compromise your safety just because you want to try something that’s exciting.
Stories about penile fractures due to peculiar sex are harrowing. Weird sex actions can cause bone
fractures and fatal injuries too. Some positions are just almost impossible for humans to perform. This
frenzy for Kama Sutra positions may be thrilling but be thrilled with reason. Don’t do something because
you found it on a book and it challenged you.

Vatsyayana’s Kama Sutra was a strategy guide for the interaction of penises and vaginas in Gupta-era India (320 to 550 CE), meant to be read by sexual partners to enhance their lovemaking. That’s around the same time the New Testament was made official, and people still take that book pretty seriously.

Here’s a link about Kama Sutra Sex Tips.

7 Kama Sutra Sex Tips That Will Put You In The Hospital

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