May 23, 2012

How to Make a Girl Come Without Going for the Clit

Most women enjoy being stimulated through their clitoris, which is, after all, their most sensitive spot
along with the G-spot. But some women don’t react as positively. In fact, they may not even enjoy it.
So what do you do to stimulate your partner if she doesn’t want you touching or licking her clit? The
following are some suggestions:

Use vibrators. That’s really a no-brainer. When placed on their genitals, vibrators give out strong
tingly sensations that can really stimulate women. Using a lubricated vibrator the size of your finger is
advisable. Follow the instructions in the item but also try to experiment to see how your partner likes to
play with her toy.

Play with her nipples. This is can be done during intercourse, not just in foreplay. Women’s nipples are
also very sensitive and stimulating them can give women great pleasure. Suck on it while fondling her
breast and occasionally give a light nibble. With intense stimulation your girl may even achieve the so-
called “nip-gasm”.

Rub on the outside. Just because she doesn’t like you touching her clitoris (or just shy about it), it
doesn’t mean she won’t enjoy if you play with her outer lips. You can pinch the cheeks of her outer lips
and rub it against each other in a rhythmic manner.

Watch how she does it. If your partner touches her clit herself, but won’t let you, there’s probably
something wrong with how you handle that sensitive spot. Observe how she pleasures herself and get a
clue – she may just be a little sensitive down there. Offer to do it for her next time.

Being able to satisfy your partner can be satisfying in itself. Work around what she gives you and the two
of you can have a very fulfilling sex life.

All the women you asked (or went out with) told you that the clitoris is the magic button that you need to knead and fondle if you want any girl to have an orgasm. But what if the woman you’re dating now doesn’t like clitoral stimulation? You must think something’s wrong with her brain but it’s a fact that a lot of ladies out there are too “clitorally sensitive“ to like the sensation of clitoral stimulation. For these women, they feel more pain than pleasure when the clitoris is rubbed, touched or licked.

Here’s a link about giving an orgasm to a girl.

How To Give An Orgasm To A Girl Who Doesn’t Like Clitoral Stimulation

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Pleasing Your Balls

The scrotum is an erogenous zone. Everyone knows that, but what everyone doesn’t know is that they
can please this area to make masturbation or oral sex a fabulous experience. For most boys, pleasing
the balls comes too automatically, having learned it during their hours of solitude, perhaps during one of
those days when they have learned that massaging that part feels really good.

There are many ways to please this organ. Of course, you can always rely on your hand—after all, it’s
the handiest tool you have. Squeezing and rubbing your balls whilst you’re doing your private habit of
stroking your hardness feels even better.

The tongue and the lips can be the best stimulators. Unless, you’re extremely limber, you can’t please
your own balls using your mouth, so have someone else do it—perhaps your girlfriend or wife, with
consent of course.

Would there be anything else? Sex toys that can be used to tickle the balls are also available. Vibrating
cock rings can be worn in such a way that the vibrating part is on the underside of the base of the
shaft. This feels great during intercourse as the vibrations tickle the scrotum so incredibly. Also, bullet
vibrators or massagers can be used to stimulate the balls. Set the vibe function to the lowest setting
because you’re tickling a very sensitive part.

What actually happens when you put muscle stimulators on your balls?
There is no muscle so what’s it doing?
What would happen if a woman put it on her boob or Clit?
Could this be a new pleasuring toy?

Here’s a link about balls pleasing.

What actually happens?

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Tightness Gone?

Women differ in the size they can take in. Some can handle big daddies while others can only put up
with the average. But there are others whose vaginas have gone too loose.

What causes this loosening up? Some girls are really born with the capacity to accept incredible sizes,
and small thingies won’t do them well. Another reason why the vagina has lost its tightness is childbirth.
After the passage of the baby through the vagina, this once super tight tunnel will no longer be as tight.
Another cause would be having frequent intercourse with someone who’s hugely endowed or frequent
playing with huge dildos.

One of the ways to restore some tightness is to do Kegel exercises. Many girls don’t know this but they
can actually improve their control over their vaginal muscles by doing squeezing exercises as though
trying to control their pee. Ben Wa Balls are great for practicing the Kegel muscles. They are sex toys
that look like small balls. They are lubed, placed, and left inside the vagina while you work all day to
keep them inside. These balls will not tighten your vagina but will allow you to control its tightness
during intercourse.

There are also tightening creams that seem to work for many girls. Just make sure that they don’t
contain potentially irritating chemicals. At least, test a safe part of your skin first.

I’v tried kegels but it tightens my butt mussels too.  And i think its becuase i put toys in my. The most i have ever put in me was 11 inches around with was one of those expensive plantnum my friend got me. (pleasure toy) anyways i cant get surgery. I’m only 16 years old. But i want to know how i could know if im tight enough and how to make it tighter? If anyone can help me with the best answer ill choose them as such and rate them to the maximum. please this would be a really big helo for me :)

Here’s a link about how to make it tight?

I’m Superrr loose down there? HELP?

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How Often You Use Condoms?

HIV and other sexually transmitted infection continue to afflict more people because of carelessness.
Unsafe sex leads to unwanted pregnancy and transmission of STI’s, and that’s why use of condoms
is advocated—despite the unfriendly reactions from some sectors. Even some people refuse using
condoms for personal reasons.

Some people don’t like these protective wrappings on their prized possessions because they allegedly
feel less sensation during intercourse. However, the price they have to pay can be severe enough. If you
are a sexually active individual and you are fond of random sexual encounters, you are seriously advised
to bring condoms. They are not expensive—you can have a box of condoms each month without having
to break the bank.

Without condoms, you most probably would rely on other methods, like rhythm or worse withdrawal.
Calendar method can’t be practical if you’re not too familiar with your menstrual cycle or if your
menstrual cycle is irregular. Withdrawal is another faulty method of preventing conception because
sperm cells can come out even before ejaculation.

Let’s not get too scientific or technical. All right, wearing condoms is a cheap—the cheapest, most
practical—way of preventing sexually transmitted infection. The world has enough cases of gonorrhea
or syphilis, and you shouldn’t be part of the statistics anymore.

Sex may just be more thrilling if you don’t have to worry about unwanted pregnancy or contagious
infections.

You may not know it, but the condom you off your rocks in communicates a great deal to your sex partner about the kinda guy you are. Read on for details…

Here’s a link about the sexual subtext of condoms.

The Sexual Subtext of Condoms — From Scumbag to Scholar

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Preparing Him for Pegging

Pegging is the act of stimulating your man’s anus with a dildo worn around your waist. Making you man
experience anal intercourse can be tough because many guys are not receptive to it because they think
it is associated with homosexuality. If your man is into it, then you should learn the tricks to give him a
fun anal intercourse.

First of all, you have to train his tight hole. Men have a sensitive area in their anus. This area is called
the P-spot, a region near his prostate gland, and massaging this area produces amazing sensations. You
should try exploring this region even if you have no plans to engage in pegging with him. Anal training
may be done using a finger or anal sex toys. A popular anal sex toy for training the anus is the butt plug.
Do not insert anything into his hole without sufficient lubrication.

The purpose of anal training is to accustom his anus to penetration. Start with thin anal toys. Since
pegging involves dildos, you can introduce dildos to him, and assure him he’s not going to get gay.

Pegging is also your chance to experience how it feels like to move those hips while thrusting your thing
into and out of him. While you may enjoy this, watch out for signs of pain and discomfort. The anus is
such a tight, delicate hole that can easily get injured.

What is sleek, shiny, silver and black all over? It’s the Chippendale’s Diva vibrator from Babeland sex toys. The Diva is a fancy luxury vibe and you can tell it’s a luxury just by looking at it. I am thrilled that I was given the chance to review it! The Diva is made of smooth ABS plastic and measures in at 5 inches long. Each end of the vibrator is about 2 1/2 inches wide. One end is the battery compartment, which is opened by pulling off the end cap.

Here’s a link about diva vibrator.

Chippendale’s Diva vibrator review

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Turning Her on Seriously

If you think you’re the pro on bed and you’ve made out with a lot of girls, well, think again. How many
girls have you had made seriously happy on bed?

Keep in mind that women like long romancing contrary to men who want it fast. While you are racing
towards the amazing climax, she likes you to take it slow—to give her more opportunity to get there.
Kissing, fondling, and necking can enhance her arousal. Learn her sensitive spots. If you don’t know
them, explore them!

Tickle her clitoris—this is the most sensitive external part. Use your fingers, tongue, and imagination
to give sufficient stimulation to this area. This sensitive region isn’t appropriately stimulated during
intercourse, so spend a lot of time caressing the clitoris.

Give her an unforgettable cunnilingus. Just as she would go down on you, she also expects you to return
the favor. Let your tongue explore her privates and she will seriously love you after that. It makes her
feel special if you can do that, so give it a try.

Be a passionate love maker and don’t just ride on top of her like a hungry demon. Make her feel the love
with every glide and every thrust. Don’t rush to your orgasm because this isn’t about your squirting only.

Need some more tips to transform your sex life? Here’s the ultimate secret of sex gods -passion. This familiar emotion isn’t something that can be faked. It can be induced in your partner through various means, including verbal and behavioral methods. If passion is lacking in your relationship, you won’t be able to improve your sex life. So, how can you inject more passion into your lovemaking?

Here’s a link about Passionate Love Making.

How To Tackle Passionate Love Making

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When She Does Not Like Clitoral Stimulation

Some girls don’t like clitoral stimulation. If your girlfriend is one of them, then avoid pressing that finger
against her supposed to be sensitive spot.

The clitoris is just one of the sensitive spots in her body. There are other spots that will respond to erotic
touch, and one is the nipple. That means you can make her more thrilled and stimulated when you
caress her nipples during intercourse. You might have seen this happening in sex movies.

If you don’t know what to do, you may learn tips from her if you watch her pleasure herself. Watch her
masturbate and see how she uses her fingers to stimulate her privates. Emulate her movements once
you are both together in bed.

Also think about the g-spot, which is a very sensitive spot inside her vagina. Appropriate stimulation of
this spot can lead to juicy orgasms. This spot is found about 2 inches into the vagina on the front wall.
You can lube your finger and insert it into her. Curve that finger to find the delicious spot inside. The g-
spot is the spongy region on the front wall. You know when you have reached it because she will feel
intense sensations when you rub this magical spot.

How about touching her clitoris gently next time? Maybe she only doesn’t want rapid stimulation of her
clits. If she doesn’t like even the lightest stroke, then you’ll know better than to touch that part next
time.

All the women you asked (or went out with) told you that the clitoris is the magic button that you need to knead and fondle if you want any girl to have an orgasm. But what if the woman you’re dating now doesn’t like clitoral stimulation? You must think something’s wrong with her brain but it’s a fact that a lot of ladies out there are too “clitorally sensitive“ to like the sensation of clitoral stimulation. For these women, they feel more pain than pleasure when the clitoris is rubbed, touched or licked.

Here’s a link about giving an orgasm to a girl.

How To Give An Orgasm To A Girl Who Doesn’t Like Clitoral Stimulation

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Can’t Get It Up? Here’s Some Tips

Viagra and Cialis are the drugs used to treat erectile dysfunction, the inability to have or keep an
erection. But as we all know, these medications have side effects. Don’t worry because there are natural
ways in which you can claim back a nice hard on without having to be dependent on drugs.

At the first sight of their precious endowments not standing up during the dire instant, men panic. The
anxiety brings about a lot of stress that make it even harder to have an erection. Men frantically try to
make it hard but fail. During these cases, it’s strange that no kind of stimulation will get it up. Even a nice
fellatio will not induce any hardness.

The more worried you are, the harder it is to get an erection. What you need to do is breathe deeply
and relax. Any more agitation will not help. Probably, you should dismiss the idea of getting to
intercourse at the moment.

If you are only worried that you can’t make her happy because of your faulty gear, use other things. You
can stimulate her manually or give her an awesome cunnilingus. Dildos and vibrators can come to the
rescue during such troublesome situations.

In other words, don’t just rely on your endowment. It takes more than just that to make her satisfied.
However, consider going to your GP if you frequently have trouble getting it up.

Impotency and erectile dysfunction affect many more men than you would think, and it can be extremely debilitating for a couple’s sex life. There are lots of medications available to help with erectile dysfunction, but are medications and drugs really the way to go to cure your erection problems? There are natural and effective ways to help you get and maintain an erection before and during sex, without resorting to expensive medications with questionable side effects. Instead of heading to the doctor for a prescription of Viagra or Cialis, try these all natural methods instead.

Here’s a link about the video viagra.

An Effective, Natural Alternative To Viagra And Cialis (Video)

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Do You Really Need to Learn Tantra Just to Have Sex?

For anyone who hasn’t had any previous knowledge about Tantra or Yoga, all the techniques taught can
take some time to sink in. It’s not something you can learn overnight. But is it really worth it to invest in
these complicated exercises? Well, some folks say they find tantric techniques really helpful in fostering
deep connections between them and their lovers.

Anyway, if you are confused about all these oriental traditions, don’t be frustrated because there are
simpler ways to experience hotter sex. One of the great things that Tantra wants to impart is deeper
connection. And one way to achieve this is to prolong the sexual encounter. Quickies every now and
then are all right, but you have to set aside the weekend for longer erotic moments.

Increasing the foreplay period makes your sex more sumptuous. This is also a good way to know each
other better. Know your partner’s sensitive spots and find out what kind of stimulation works for them.
Spend a good time cuddling, petting, necking, and stroking before intercourse because the more you
delay it the more the feelings and urges build up. This can only end to a very explosive finale.

Don’t just think about how satisfied you are. Ask yourself if your partner is ever satisfied by your feat in
bed.

OM Namah Shivaya Gurave – “I bow to the goodness within myself, known as Lord Shiva, who is the true teacher…” – begins a chant that yogis and meditation practitioners from all over the globe sing as a prayer to invoke grace and blessings on their practices.

Here’s a link about:

Om Namah Shivaya Gurave Mantra

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Do You Need Sex Advice?

Millions of people seek other people for advice about sex and relationships everyday. Do you really
need to have someone know something as private as sex so you could squeeze out some answers? Well,
some people think they need some expert advice. If you think you do, no one keeps you from seeking a
good advice.

Online sex and dating advice columns can become cramped with too many messages from men and
women all over the world. Does that mean a lot of people are having problems with their personal
and private lives? Perhaps, you should know that some people can’t fix their own problems, and some
problems are really petty. Some are funny—others intriguing. Have you heard about a guy who’s
complaining that his endowment is real huge?

You can be entertained or intrigues, but you can also pick some good bits of knowledge about
something as sumptuous as sex. If you don’t know what we’re talking about, feel free to visit blogs like
the ones you see on Lovehoney. And if you have issues of your own, feel free to write down your woes,
and they’d be happy to help you.

Most problems about sex include inability to orgasm for women and erectile dysfunction or premature
ejaculation for men. Couples usually complain a lot about diminishing passion. Let’s just say nothing’s
really new!

I’m in a profession that doesn’t allow me to schedule my own holidays, so I can’t choose another date. Same thing happened last time we saw each other, and I would prefer to have a little less technicolour action this time. I know you like the Diva Cup, but the website says it shouldn’t be used during intercourse. Is there an alternative (other than a diaphragm) that I could use while having crazy, making-up-for-lost-time sex?

Here’s a link about Euro-friendly vibrators.

Sasha: Period sex, threesome partners and Euro-friendly vibrators

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