February 8, 2012

A Third of Brits Have Had Sex in Public Places

A survey commissioned by UKTV channel tried to look at the sexual mores of Britons. Dubbed as the “Big
Sex Survey”, it interviewed 2,000 British adults and asked them about their sexual activities. The result
showed intriguingly that a third of Brits admit to having had sex in a public location.

Despite the often drab weather, one in three Britons – that’s 14 million in all – say they have had
performed a few nookies in areas open to the public, which greatly challenges our reputation for being,
well, undersexed as compared to our hot-blooded European neighbors.

Clare Laycock of UKTV’s Really humored, “Perhaps that explains why for one in six of us, sex only lasts
ten minutes.” Apparently Brits have sex faster for a very different reason. (British sex typically lasts 20
minutes, twice a week, the study claimed.)

“And if you thought retirement was all about a quiet life of golf, holidays and country walks, that
certainly isn’t the case – with almost three in ten of the over-70s having sex three times a week or
more,” said Ms Laycock.

The “Big Sex Survey” also revealed that Britons are far naughtier than they appear. Half of the people
in Britain own a sexual device. A tenth of those reviewed admitted they had sex with a person they just
met online, and the same portion said they have had an affair with a colleague at work.

But why all the sexual activities with such a nippy climate? Ms Laycock supposed, “Britons have found a
great way of keeping fit – and keeping warm.”

More than 14million of us, one in three, have had sex in a public place – despite an often inclement climate, a survey suggests.
‘Perhaps that explains why, for one in six of us, sex only lasts ten minutes,’ said Clare Laycock of UKTV’s Really.

Here’s a link about sex in public places.

A third of Brits admit to having sex in a public place

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Dump That Demanding Boyfriend!

Having a relationship with someone who treats you like a commodity or treats you like you’re their slave
or worker can be extremely distressing. You might have seen girls who were only dragged to dates and
were asked to do their boyfriend’s bidding. And it’s annoying to see them allow their partners treat
them that way. But what if you get into this kind of relationship?

Sometimes, you love the person too much that you don’t think questioning his love at first is going to
work. You’re blinded by your feelings towards or maybe you’re only afraid that he might choose another
girl who could act better. If this is the case, then you’re slave not only to him but to your emotions as
well. You allow him to grab you by the tail and swing you around with your fears.

It’s time for you to liberate yourself from an unyielding relationship. If your boyfriend is treating you
like a possession that he must have at all times, then he’s being too selfish in this relationship. So he can
heave you to his parties, while you can’t be with your friends? That’s ridiculous!

If he truly cares for you, he would allow you to be just who you are and he will respect that you have a
life outside your relationship, that there are times when you don’t feel like having sex with him, and that
you want to be pampered every once in a while.

If I give my boyfriend everything he wants in bed, then he gives me everything I want out of it.
If I’m prepared to go the extra mile and agree to role-playing, sex toys and kinky stuff, then I get treated to good restaurants.

Here’s a link about how does your lover treat you?

MY FELLA TREATS ME LIKE A WHORE

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Surveys About Sex

Surveys show that people from different places have different sexual behaviors. There are a group of
people who invest in trying more sexual positions, and there are also those who buy more sex toys. We
cannot explain why these differences occur. Maybe this is tied to the regional differences in lifestyle.

If people in New York City buy more sex toys than those in Newark, does that mean New Yorkers are
more lewd and more sexually preoccupied? We really cannot tell. All we can say is that the differences
in sexual practices among various groups of people from different regions are interesting to note.

For instance, there is a survey from Men’s Health that says Americans in the Midwestern states are not
missing out on sex. In fact, the opposite is the truth. Our Midwestern folks are having delightful sex,
and they are the most sexually satisfied people in United States. Do you know about that? The cities
that ranked high in the sexual satisfaction survey were Indianapolis, Columbus (Ohio), Fort Wayne,
Cincinnati, and Salt Lake City.

On the other hand, coastal cities had one thing in common. They have people who buy more sex toys.
These cities include New York City, Chicago, Seattle, and Los Angeles. Why people in these cities buy
more sex toys remains unexplained.

Sadly, people from other cities don’t seem to fare as well as the others on this survey. It seems people
from Jersey City and Newark were interested in other things than sex.

Live in the middle of the county and think you’re missing out? According to a new survey from Men’s Health, the Midwest is best at having sex. The survey ranked Indianapolis, IN; Columbus, OH; Fort Wayne, IN; Cincinnati, OH; and Salt Lake City, UT as the most sexually satisfied cities in the country based on frequency of sex acts.

Here’s a link about sex survey.

Middle America Does The Nasty Better Than Anybody

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When She Says “No!”

You can’t always expect your girlfriend or wife to be always consenting to your plea for sex. But what if
you’re very horny and she’s not?

You can’t force her to have sex with you because this is not legal. More than a legal issue, it is also an
issue of respect. If she does not feel like doing it with you, then you should respect it.

There other ways to dissipate that tension you are feeling around your genitals. Exercise can help you
dissipate that tension. Go out and play basketball or go swimming. Or simply take a walk outdoors. If
these are inapt, then consider it one of your unlucky nights—kiss her and hit the sack.

Another option might be well too obvious. Let it all out in the toilet! Close the door, drop your pants,
and stroke your lonely willy. When you’re done, you’ll feel better.

Girls may not like having sex for several reasons. Tiredness is a common reason, and if she’s tired, simply
give her a nice massage to help her sleep better.

If she doesn’t like having sex with you for a considerable number of times, then something must be
wrong. Talk to her about it. Loss of sex drive in women may be due to a number of factors, such as stress
and psychological and physical conditions.

This is not an issue of her waning sexual drive so much as it is an issue of his behavior that, by her account is, at the very least, without regard for her well-being and, at the worst, is abusive and possibly criminal. It is, as well, an issue of her being able to recognize a healthy relationship and set healthy boundaries, which is where she needs help – help that is beyond a doubt outside the scope of this advice board.

Here’s a link about sexual addicts.

Frustrated & Confused: Is He A Sexual Addict???

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What to Expect If You’re Getting Married

The decision to finally get married is life changing. Before you come to terms of thinking that you have
found the right girl or right man to make ties with, consider some essential truths from those who have
been there.

Differences can get in the way of a happy marriage life. Someone who has just gotten married yesterday
may eventually be taken aback by the better half’s behavior just a few moments ago. Well, there are
some things you will only know about someone when you get to live with them. So the lesson is you
have to really know someone thoroughly before making ties with them.

Sex is really great at first! Couples finally notice the amazement they feel when having sex gradually
diminishes or dwindles over time. The reason is that sex becomes a banal act that goes over and over
again. Why is it that you enjoy great lovemaking while you were still sneaking into motel rooms or your
car’s backseat? And why is it that sex seems no fun some 5 years into your marriage?

Giving is the keyword when it comes in marriage. For your relationship to work, you have to be able to
give your time, effort, and yourself to the significant other. It’s no longer always yourself. What you wish
and want should no longer be your concerns this time.

Waking up in the middle of the night to go to the toilet, only to find an empty toilet roll holder, and hear your husband snoring so loudly that he could wake the neighbours, is enough to leave any girl thinking: ‘My mother should have warned me!’ Perhaps your mother did warn you … but still, you were completely unprepared for what lay ahead when you made those vows…

Here’s a link about things to know before married.

20 Things you need to know BEFORE you get married!

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Would You Care for a Marma Massage?

There are different massage points in your body that when stimulated by the right touch and the right
strokes can rouse you sexually. You would be glad to know that there are massage points that will excite
your reproductive organs. A good massage can also relieve stress and relax the body. The best thing is it
can turn you on. So if you want to give your lover a treat tonight, a good massage cannot be wrong.

Marma massage is a traditional method in Ayurveda that stimulates key points in the body. Traditional
Ayurvedic massage combines application of pressure on various points in the body and use of massage
oils that come from herbs. Marma massage can relieve muscular pains and injuries as well as stimulate
various organs. This is an important aspect of Ayurveda, which is an oriental healing method that bases
itself in keeping the balance in the body.

On the other hand, this simple sexually arousing massage can be done by stimulating the right points
on the sacrum and over the pubic bone. Stimulating these areas can cause deep relaxation and sexual
awakening. You can employ these massage techniques before engaging in sex. You can also massage
the marma points while having sex, and your partner may not even know it, although they will find it
seriously good.

Tao Semko demonstrates simple pressure point massage to increase fluidity and sexual energy in the pelvis/swadisthana chakra.

Here’s a link about the video:

Marma Massage for Fluidity and Sexual Energy

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Sex Toy Product Endorsements

Sex toys are hot today like ever and they have good backing even from celebrities. Many popular
personalities support sex toys and some even recommend them. Sex therapists believe that using
vibrators can enhance sex in couples. Stuff like vibrators and dildos can foster new sensations to
couples. In fact, a lot of women testify that using vibrators is better than having sex with their
boyfriends or husbands. This isn’t to say that vibrators can replace men in women’s lives.

Adult paraphernalia involves objects that range from spankers to lubes to vibrating dongs of all shapes
and sizes. Some people disapprove the use of sex stuff because they think these materials cause
unnatural sensations. However, most of those who were able to use sex toys were simply amazed at
how these materials could enhance their sexual experiences.

Some ads about sex toys are misleading. For example, many vibrators are marketed as quiet but the
truth is they still produce some noise. You have to be really probing before you believe what product
endorsers say about what are promoting. Reading product reviews allow you to find out what buyers
say about the product.

Of course, you have to really know the sex toy you bought. Explore it so you would better know what it
can do.

One of the most proactive proponents of this in the UK is Bed Dover who ‘s range of sex toys has appeared over the last few years in sex shops up and down the country. The range consists entirely of off the shelf products, effectively white label items branded with the Bed Dover brand. It includes everything from cock rings to dildos and vibrators, even size enhancing cock pumps in the shape of a Ben Dover badged Bathmate. Ben’s particular range is pretty good quality, but not cutting edge.

Here’s a link about Sex Toys All Round.

Sex Toys All Round

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Why You’ve Lost Sex Drive

Men and women may experience loss of libido at some point in their lives. Loss of libido can affect a
couple’s relationship and must be therefore dealt with promptly. Sometimes frustrated partners resort
to perverse actions—like looking for other outlets (in other words cheating).

Job-related stress is a common cause of lack of desire for sex, and both men and women can have this
problem. Emotional disturbances, anxiety, and depression may also be the reason why you seem to not
feel like making out with your partner.

Hormonal changes may occur in women and it causes them to feel a little off. Another reason women
don’t feel excited is lack of satisfaction.

Men may stop wanting to make love if they experience sexual dysfunction. Impotence and erectile
dysfunction cause embarrassment that make men scared to have sex anymore. They may often not
reveal this problem to their partners.

Loss of interest in the partner and ultimately loss of love are important reasons why desire dampens.
Falling out of love could be manifested in other ways—like you no longer want to kiss or hug your
partner.

Finding out what’s the cause can be tough. Sometimes you just don’t feel like having sex at all without
really knowing why. If loss of desire impairs your relationship, consider going to a counselor for
professional help. Don’t let your loss of libido impair the relationship you share with your partner.

Over 80 per cent of women who seek help for sexual problems ­complain about a lack of sexual desire.

But it’s not just women who suffer. Men go off sex too.

It can cause resentment, ­frustration and dent the confidence of you and your partner.

Here’s a link about flame of passion.

Issue of the week: How to reignite the flame of passion

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Uncommon Sexual Behavior Becoming Common

Well, who said they don’t find having sex in public exciting? What if you’re told that a third of Brits
actually make out in public? Yes, indeed, more than fourteen million people have sex outside their
homes. Perhaps people are becoming more adventurous these days, looking for fun that can’t be
experienced inside their rooms.

Some couples admit they love the adrenaline rush that comes with the idea that someone may peek
into their car windows to find out why that car swings inside the parking lot. Couples shouldn’t attract
too much attention, though, or the outcome could be real embarrassing.

Owning sex toys is no longer considered strange because almost everyone has them. Vibrators, dildos,
cock rings, and masturbators are hot. You want to know why? That’s because they give people novel
sensations they can never experience with someone else’s fingers, tongue, or… Sex toys are available
anywhere, and you can shop for them online for convenience.

Some lonely men and women can buy a partner or two. Love dolls are awesome these days, and they
come with a vast price range. People with tough budget go for cheap blow-up dolls, which look hideous.
Those with money to burn go for realistic sex dolls that look like porn stars or celebrities.

Sailing on unchartered waters can be thrilling. While vibrators come with some huge price, the
satisfaction they can offer is just priceless.

Our hot-blooded European cousins may think we prefer our pipe and slippers to a bit of nookie – but new research shows that us Britons are a bit naughtier than our reputation suggests.

Here’s a link about public sex.

A third of Brits admit to having sex in a public place

Our hot-blooded European cousins may think we prefer our pipe and slippers to a bit of nookie – but new research shows that us Britons are a bit naughtier than our reputation suggests.

Read more: http://www.metro.co.uk/lifestyle/847204-a-third-of-brits-admit-to-having-sex-in-public#ixzz1BZxel4qH

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Tantric Sex for Lovers

Tantra has been practiced in India for millennia, but only quite recently has it been applied by people
in the western world. Originally, it was a movement against organized religion—a religion which taught
people of the evils of sexuality. The worldliness of sex is enough to make people reject sex as a source of
pleasure.

However, Tantra went against the absurdity. Proponents of Tantric sex think that sexuality is an
entrance to a world that’s sacred. In fact, they think that worldly pleasures of eating or dancing are
actually hallowed acts, which have spiritually profound effects.

Tantra actually means “to weave or expand.” When applied to sex, it suggests that sex should be a
means to enhance consciousness and to foster spiritual connection between a man and a woman so
they may become one.

Tantric sex is all about executing the ancient art of love making that follows the principles accompanied
by sexual wisdom. The goal of this kind of connection is not necessarily to reach orgasm but to achieve a
deep sexual and spiritual connection. Lovers are taught to prolong the lovemaking.

According to health experts, Tantric sex has health benefits as it unleashes the latent energies. During
tantric sex, you not only use your sexual energy, but you tap into it and use it consciously. It is more
than having sex—and it’s not just about squirting those precious juices.

Tao Semko says his traditional e-mail sign-off, “Keep your tongue up,” refers to three big Tantric secrets.
My traditional email sign-off refers to three yogic meditation secrets, which among those taught at the very beginning of all our courses:

Here’s a link about Tantric Secrets.

3 Big Tantric Secrets

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