May 23, 2012

A Pulsating Dildo That Moves to the Beat of Music

Most vibrators come in the typical vibration settings.  They start at a low vibration and gradually become more intense.  There is a new vibrator on the market that pulsates to the beat of music.  This pulsating dildo can be plugged in to an MP3 Player or iPod and is going to pulsate to the beat of the bass that is playing in the song.

A pulsating dildo is going to offer more pleasure than a typical vibrator.  The differences in the pulsating quality can make orgasms more intense.  Using you or your partner’s favorite song, you can get the dildo moving to either a fast or slow pulsation.  Imagine your partner’s surprise when the dildo begins moving to a beat seemingly of its own!

Those who prefer no to use any music can still get random pulsation by using the pulsating dildo on that setting.  It can also vibrate at different speeds just as a normal vibrator does.  All of these settings can be used out of this one sex toy.

It is important to keep in mind that not all pulsating vibrators are going to work with music.  You need to find the exact one that does.  If you can not find one, go with a normal pulsating dildo.  These also have many setting that can make foreplay or masturbation offer stronger and more intense orgasms.

Another great thing about the pulsating dildo is that it comes in many of the popular sizes.  Not everyone wants the same size and the manufacturers understand this.  You can find one that is going to be perfect for your partner or yourself with no trouble at all.  Get a pulsating dildo and have fun checking out all the features that are not offered in a typical vibrator!

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Treat Your Partner to More Intense Orgasms with Bum Beads

Many couples have talked about introducing anal sex in to their sexual times together.  The one part that may be keeping one partner from trying it is the pain that can be involved.  While there is some pain when first having anal sex, it can also be extremely pleasurable as well.  Using bum beads can help the partner who is afraid come to understand that the pain is minor when compared to the pain that may be caused.

It is important to make sure that the first time bum beads are used that they are well lubricated.  This is going to make it less painful.  Whoever is having these beads inserted should be very relaxed.  Their partner can help to do this with some foreplay before the beads are introduced into the foreplay.  Once they are relaxed, the bum beads can be gently inserted into the anus.

The ways to use them after insertion can vary to what your partner likes.  Some may want to keep them in the anus until they are having an orgasm.  During orgasm, they should be slowly pulled out to intensify the orgasm.  There are many nerve endings in this area of the body and they can bring about an intense orgasm that feeling different from orgasms that come from the genitalia.

The other way to use them is to slowly draw the bum beads out during foreplay.  This is going to give your partner an intense and new type of orgasm.  They are going to see that there can be pleasure when it comes to anal sex.  You can slowly get them to want to try other ways to have it.  The most important thing is to take your time and to allow your partner to dictate when this type of lovemaking is going to happen.

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What is a Clit Teaser?

Most people, even those who have never used a sex toy, know what a vibrator is.  This is not the same type of toy as a clit teaser.  The clit teaser is a completely different type of stimulation.  While they both use the same type of stimulation, the vibrator can also be used to stimulate the inner walls of the vagina or rectum.

A clit teaser is typically worn on the tip of the finger and has a small vibrator in it.  It uses this vibration with the pressure of the finger to stimulate the clitoris to orgasm.  Those who have sensitive nipples can use them to stimulate the nipples as well.  Both men and women have sensitivity in the nipples.  This is going to vary from person to person.  Some people are not going to want their nipples stimulated; others may have an orgasm from it.

A clit teaser can also be used to stimulate the outer part of the anus.  This can be a sensitive area for both men and women.  Make sure that your partner knows that you plan on using a clit teaser on their anus before you use it.  You do not want to have your partner to be surprised or shocked so much that they end the lovemaking.

A clit teaser can make foreplay more intense.  Those who have trouble coming to orgasm can find that using this toy gives them more pleasure than simply using a finger or vibrator for the stimulation.  Many women who have never had an orgasm before find that they can climax very quickly when they or their partner uses a teaser on the clitoris.  As with any new sex toy, make sure to speak with your partner before introducing it into your lovemaking.

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Sex Toy Tip – Why Buy A Vibrator?


Why Buy A Vibrator?

Hey how you doing? JJ Currie here form yoursextoys.co.uk and today I will be discussing the benefits of a vibrator and telling you how to choose the right one.

Firstly you need to decide what you will be using the vibe for whether you will be using it alone or together with your partner? Couples can really take their foreplay to the next level with the use of a vibrator or they can be used during some alone time to satisfy your sexual desires during playtime.

Next you need to decide if you want penetration or just simply something to stimulate the clitoral region during sex or for men their perineum – the region between his anus and testicles with a g-spot vibrator.

Then once you know what you will be using the vibe for you will have a good idea on what size and shape you are looking for. The most popular vibes now come in all shapes and sizes compared to classic vibrators made from numerous different materials which all have unique textures. Some soft to the touch and some hard and shiny.

When using the vibrators for the first time play with the different levels of vibrations explore and learn what feels good which one works for you. If you and your partner are using the vibe together for the first time communication is vital, talk your partner though it and let them know what feels good and what doesn’t.

Remember there is nothing to be afraid of sexual exploration will take your love life to the next level… Well That’s all from me today but please post your comments below I would love to her your thoughts.

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G spot sex toy

Using a G Spot Sex Toy

One of the most famous and well known sex toys is the G spot vibrators. If you’ve never tried one yet, it’s important to know what you’re missing. They come in a variety of styles, shapes and designs for both men and women so you’re sure to find one that appeals to you and works for your needs.

Foreplay with G spot Sex Toy

Foreplay with G spot Sex Toy

This sex toy can vary whether it is being used by a male or a female since the G-spots of the difference sexes are found in different places. In a female, the G spot sex toy is designed to massage the g-spot, a collection of nerves inside the vagina that are very sensitive. Stimulation of these nerves can cause arousal and also help bring on climax.

It’s important to have an idea of these different types of G spot sex toy when you first start looking for one. This can affect your decision of which you want to try out.

Here are some of the common classifications of a g spot sex toy:

  • Male g spot vibrator
  • Traditional g spot vibrator
  • Rabbit g spot vibrator
  • Ribbed g spot vibrator
  • Ribbed or wave g spot vibrator
  • G spot vibrator with clitoral and/or anal “teaser”
  • G spot vibrator with interchangeable heads
  • Exotic g spot vibrators

There are also different types of G spot toys depending on if it is for a man or a woman, since the G spot of each sex is in a different location. The male g spot toy can also be used to stimulate the prostate gland for some male health reasons.

In males, the G spot sex toy is used to massage the prostate and this can be done for both sexual and health reasons. G spot sex toys come in both male and female versions. The female version is a phallus-shaped object specifically designed to curve into the vagina and reach the female g-spot which is very sensitive. It is designed in such a way to reach the G-spot with ease which is often difficult to reach in regular intercourse.

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Fantasizing a Guy and Getting Wet

Somebody asked whether it is all right to get your knickers wet when fantasizing over a guy. This is all right. It is just like asking if it is ok to eat when hungry, or if it is ok to drink when thirsty, or if it is ok to pee when you feel like doing so. Getting wet is a natural response to sexual urges. This is normal.

A guy might feel flattered if he knows you had her aroused and wet. The vagina gets wet because it is a natural response. When you think of making love with someone, your nervous system activates certain hormones to cause vaginal lubrication. This lubricating mechanism prepares a female to sexual intercourse.

This occurs during foreplay,  when a man and a woman engage in necking and petting. This prepares a woman to the next events. That’s why a unique foreplay is very crucial getting a girl’s vagina wet. You can make use of bondage toys,  such as cock rings and restraints.

Vaginal lubrication is both for protection and sensation. Lubrication allows smooth penile penetration and lessens the possibility of injury and laceration. Rape victims suffer from lacerations and vaginal injury because they fail to get aroused and their lubricating mechanism is not turned on.

Vaginal lubrication also enhances sensitivity and intensifies sensations. This natural response to erotic fantasies is one of the female body’s way to get ready for sexual fun. Females will definitely not enjoy lovemaking without proper vaginal lubrication. That is why adult toy shops sell lots of lubricating fluid and gels to aid women during times when their natural lube does not come off.

If you are worrying that you would get yourself embarrassed getting your panty wet, when fantasizing intimate moments with a guy, worry no more. It is fine, normal and understandable. So many girls have fantasies and have wet moments, too. Now, if you are with a guy and you have gotten wet, this might turn the guy on instead of turning away. Guys become aroused, too, if they know they have made you feel sexually urged.

However, if the urges build up too much and you feel like you’re going to soak your undergarment soon, opt for some wipes. Do not worry if the guy knows about this. Who knows he might have gotten an erection after learning he had you wet.

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The rabbit vibrators

There is a reason the rabbit vibrators are the most popular type of vibrator out there. They are extremely popular with women and have even been said to be the most popular female masturbators out there.  There is truly something unique and revolutionary about this particular product when compared to others like it on the market. It’s a step up for women masturbators and they just keep getting better and better.

We have seen rabbit vibrators talked about and parodied on television shows, late night comedy shows, in movies and more. So what is it that is so special about this adult toy that it has literally everyone talking about it?

The secret is in the design. This is no normal vibrator, that’s for certain. This vibrating and rotating sex toy is phallus-shaped with the clitoral stimulator attached to the shaft. It’s especially designed for women and to stimulate you in the most important locations. Get action right where you want it!

The clitoral stimulator has often been said to look like a pair of bunny ears which is where the popular name of the device comes from. Rabbit vibrators are made to give more intense sensations than traditional dildos, vibrators or clitoral stimulators which make them so great for masturbation. Because rabbits come with different speeds, you can choose as much or as little stimulation as you need to get the job done.

But you’re not restricted to using them solo either. You can use your rabbit vibrator with a partner to add even more fun to the experience. Show your partner how you use it alone or try it out during foreplay or intercourse. Your bunny pal can be your partner’s friend, too. If you have yet to try rabbit vibrators for yourself, this is the perfect time to get one and check it out.

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How to Get More Sex from your Partner

Do you want to know how you can get more sex from your partner? If you’re in a relationship with someone and you don’t feel you’re getting as much sex as you want, it can be very frustrating. Men and women both can go through this type of experience but how you handle it can have a big impact on your relationship and your overall health.

You shouldn’t cheat on your partner or seek attention elsewhere if you’re not getting enough sex at home. This is only going to complicate the matter and create other problems for you all. You also shouldn’t just ignore the problem or beat yourself up because you feel you’re being selfish. There are some things you can do to handle a problem like this.

Here are some tips:

  • Don’t nag- nagging your partner about the sex you’re not getting will only put more pressure on them to perform. It can make the problem worse.
  • Take the initiative- sometimes sex slows because one partner feels like they have to do all of the work to make it happen.
  • Introduce foreplay- maybe you need a little more foreplay in your relationship to help your partner get in the mood.
  • Try something different- when’s the last time you had an exciting tryst someplace adventurous? This could be enough to spark the fires once again.
  • Deal with any unresolved relationship problems- problems in the relationship will spill over into the bedroom. These issues need to be addressed before your sex life can return to how it once was.
  • Be sexy- When you are sexy, inside and out, as a person, it will make your partner want you more. Have you been letting yourself go now that you’ve gotten comfortable with one another? This doesn’t just mean in the physical department but it also refers to how you act towards and around one another.
  • Be romantic- Romance often dwindles when a couple has been together for some time. This can hurt the sex drive of one or both partners. When you bring back the romance it can help get your partner in the mood for more sex.

Now that you have these tips for getting more sex from your partner, you can put them into effect in your sex life. Sometimes all it takes is one person taking more initiative or changing certain things about themselves to make a huge difference in the sex life of the couple.

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The Role of Foreplay

The role of foreplay is a very important one in sex, especially in a relationship. When you are with someone new, often the excitement of being with this person is enough to get you both heated and in the mood. However, as time goes on, you have to focus on things to make your sexual relationship as exciting as it once was.

The role of Foreplay

The role of Foreplay

Then there are some people who just can’t get into the moment without proper foreplay, no matter what the situation. Foreplay isn’t just something you have to do to get yourself or your partner in the mood for the big act. It should be a romantic, erotic experience for both of you.

Couples can enjoy being close to one another, touching, kissing and caressing and just spending this special time together. It can bring you closer as a couple and help you feel more open with one another in other areas of your life as well.

There are many tips and hints out there regarding foreplay and how it should be done but there is no magic list that works for everyone. You can try different sex toys for couples and experiment and make up some things on your own all to see what’s working for you and what isn’t. Part of the fun of foreplay can be that you’re learning and experiencing new things together.

Foreplay can include anything from cuddling with a good movie to sensual massage, role-playing, sex toys or adult videos and more. If you’ve been with someone for a long time, you may alter how  you do foreplay to keep things interesting and fresh in the sex relationship.

Now that you know more about the role of foreplay, it’s time to look for some new and interesting ways you can improve the foreplay in your relationship. One good first step might be to sit down and talk with your partner about what you both want and like.

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The Worst Things to Hear During Sex

When it comes to sex, it’s always better when the mood is right. Let’s face it, there are some things you just don’t want to hear during sex. They will most definitely ruin the mood and therefore, ruin the experience.

Sex Talk

Sex Talk

There are some things you don’t want to hear during sex. We all know what this is like. Chances are, you’ve probably been there before when you’re right in the heat of the moment and something happens to interrupt it.

Maybe it comes from your partner such as saying an inappropriate comment or maybe it’s an external problem. Either way, there are some things you just don’t want to hear during sex.

Here are some of the the worst things to hear during sex:

  • Phone ringing
  • “The condom broke!”
  • Your partner talks about their mother (or father)
  • Noisy neighbors
  • Fire alarms/ sirens
  • Baby crying
  • Kids knocking on the door
  • “I forgot my birth control”
  • Dogs barking, scratching at door
  • “You remind me of my ex”, “My ex never did like that” or anything in reference to a previous or ex partner
  • The dreaded “Is it in yet?”

Of course this is all relative as what is “the worst” to one person may not be as bad to another person. What you find inappropriate or a bother during sex may not bother your partner. This is why it never hurts to talk about these things so you know where you both stand.

What are your worst things to hear during sex?

What comments, noises or other interferences really set you out of the mood?

While people love to joke about the worst things to hear during sex, when it comes right down to it, you want to try to be sure you avoid these situations as much as possible. Set yourself up for an interesting time and try to avoid these things that can really kill the mood.

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