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Do You Ejaculate too Soon?

September 13, 2010 By Angelica Leave a Comment

Many men are confronted by an embarrassing truth that they don’t last long enough in bed. Ejaculating
after 5 minutes is such a sexual spoiler. Girls are exasperated by it and guys afflicted are frustrated at
how they can’t make their partners feel their lovemaking.

Some experts think premature ejaculation is all in the mind. It’s normal for guys to come in four
minutes, and many men don’t last longer than ten minutes. But the problem arises because women last
much longer than that, especially with insufficient stimulation.

The secret is actually simple. If you can’t hold it, then learn the art of prolonging your lovemaking. If
you invest in lengthy foreplay, you steal some time away from intercourse, and this is a great way of
turning her on before penetration. You can stimulate her manually or orally, without genital fusion.

During intercourse, you can prolong your staying power by stopping before reaching the peak to delay
orgasm. Or you can have intervals wherein you stop moving and just savor moments of necking and
petting to cut down stimulation to your penis.

Long term solutions may involve investing in PC muscle exercise to control ejaculation, but this is tough
for many guys. Condoms may also help to some extent. Sex toy manufacturers also suggest wearing of
cock rings.

When it comes to lasting longer in bed, many men prefer to rely on the proverbial “quick fixes” that the male enhancement market has to offer. Pills, creams and desensitizing sprays may give you those extra minutes during sex, but the problem does NOT lie with your penis.

Here’s a link from the post about sex tips for lasting longer.

Sex Tips For Lasting Longer And Giving Your Girl Raging HOT Orgasms (This Will Leave Her Shaking)

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How to Give Her Incredible Orgasms

September 3, 2010 By Angelica 1 Comment

Check your girl if she really gets pleased when you have sex with her because usually girls aren’t
erotically stimulated that much. That frequent intercourse might just be boring her to death. Without
sufficient clitoral and G-spot stimulation, she’s not going to reach orgasm, and intercourse is usually not
the way to tickle these delicate areas. The role of intercourse, as what evolutionary experts say, is to
propagate the raise—not to tickle the erotically sensitive spots.

Men should know this because sex isn’t about how they penetrate their ladies but also about how they
make their ladies feel as incredible as they are. Learning the female anatomy and sexuality can help
understand how she responds to different stimulations. This is why it is urged that men spend some
time to explore her body. This is usually done during foreplay—not during sex. But many guys just want
to have sex with their girlfriends right away.

The best way to know to know if she really is orgasmic is to ask her, and be prepared to get an
unpleasant answer. Normally, if you give her the same treat all the time, she’ll eventually get bored with
it. Communication is important for successful sexual experiences.

Having adequate erotic stimulation to the right spots said, it is suggested that men pay attention to how
women stimulate themselves. You can watch her as she pleases herself and pay close attention.

Every man hopes to make a girl climax every time he has sex with her, but the truth is that this doesn’t always happen. It’s no secret that sometimes women fake during sex, because they don’t want to make the man’s inability to perform as a big issue that could damage a relatively good relationship. If a girl doesn’t climax during sex, her partner feels extremely insecure, and she knows it.

Here’s a link about the post giving her an orgasm.

Giving Her An Orgasm – The Ultimate Pat On The Back

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Choosing the right sex toy for couples

June 3, 2010 By Angelica Leave a Comment

Choosing the right sex toy for you and your partner can be a daunting one.  There is a lot of sex toys online and in the market, like waterproof vibrators.  With the overwhelming number of choices available, how do you know which is the best choice for the both of you?  You do want him or her to enjoy the experience as much as you did, after all.

Assuming that both of you are already comfortable about the idea of using sex toys during your intimate moments together, the best way is to ask him or her, what type of sex toy he or she would like.  When it comes to what he or she would enjoy when it comes to sex, your partner is still the best judge.  He or she may have a secret fantasy she or he has not yet divulged to you yet.

If this is your first time to use a sex toy or are hesitant about asking him or her point blank what toy your partner would prefer, keep in mind the role of foreplay.  Foreplay is about stimulating and sexually arousing your partner to get him or her ready for the main event.   Strap on vibrators are a good starting point for this.  These vibrators have a strap to keep the toy in place leaving your hands free to touch and stimulate the other erogenous zones of your or your partner’s body.

Should both of you prefer vaginal penetration but want that extra buzz, cock rings with clitoral stimulators attached may be the choice for you.  Cock rings are elastic rings meant to be worn at the base of the penis.  This serves to keep the blood in the tissues of the penis from flowing back to the body resulting in a prolonged erection and an engorged feeling.  There are cock rings with protrusions or small vibrators attached which stimulate your partner’s clitoris or anus during penetration.

Do you prefer to give more than receive?  Do you get aroused watching your partner get off from what you are doing to him or her?  Then a sex toy which you could manipulate is something you should think of getting.  There are vaginal and anal dildos which you can use on your partner during your sack sessions.  You and your partner’s preference or your knowledge of his or her preference would dictate as to what size, color and material it is made of.  One rule of the thumb though, when using toys meant for penetration:  use adequate lubrication.  Regular discharge from the vagina may not be adequate as some materials absorb these fluids making the use of the toy uncomfortable at the least.

Choosing the right sex toy for you and your partner is about self knowledge and knowledge about what arouses your partner.  Keep this in mind and you won’t go wrong.

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9 Steps to Bring the BANG Back to the Bedroom!!!

June 2, 2010 By Alexis Leave a Comment

Often when couples have been together for a long time familiarity and knowing exactly what your partner is going to do can become boring. This is where you need to communicate with each other and let them know that you are bored.

Maybe suggest planning a naughty evening alone with your partner and have a look at some fun vibrators that you could incorporate into your foreplay.

So here are 9 suggestions to bring the BANG back to your bedroom:

  1. Have sex every day for a month
  2. Focus only on her for one week and then only on him the next
  3. Introduce a new toy to the bedroom
  4. Masturbate every day for a month
  5. Don’t touch at all for one week
  6. Stick to foreplay and nothing more for one month
  7. Have sex as slowly as possible
  8. Turn the switch on (or off)
  9. Survey the land

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Sexy Challenges: Bring the Bang Back Into the Bedroom

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How to use sex toys with a partner

May 17, 2010 By Angelica Leave a Comment

So you want to take your intimate moments with your special one to the next level?   The use of sex toys and vibrators can help do this for you.  Here are some tips on how to use sex toys with your partner.

For many who have never used sex toys and fun vibes before, the idea of using these objects in their sack sessions may be daunting.  So the first step is to convince your partner that couple’s sex toys could make a spectacular time with him or her even better.  A good tactic would be to encourage his or her participation in your search for the perfect sex toy for the both of you.  Allowing him or her to participate in the selection process will allow your partner to choose a toy that will not intimidate him or her, making him or her more open to the prospect of using these toys during your quality time together.  Moreover, it will save you a whole lot of guesswork in trying to figure out what toy he or she would be most turned on by.

Another tip on how to use sex toys with a partner is to go slow.  You do want the experience to be as pleasurable for your partner as it is for you.  This is not only because of genuine affection or love for him or her but also because you do want the experience to be repeated.  It is of course common sense that a person would be more willing to repeat undergoing a pleasurable experience than a bad one.  For instance if the toy vibrates like remote vibrating and has a variable speed setting, try putting it at the lowest level first and asking him or her where he or she wants the toy placed.  If the toy both of you acquired is meant for penetration, it would be wise to engage in your regular foreplay first to put him or her at ease and to use adequate lubrication.

Make sure your partner knows that he or she should voice out any discomfort he or she feels.  And when he or she does so, stop using the toy.  On the other hand, he or she should also let you know if it feels good so that you can proceed.  If the toy is being used on you, let your partner know too, what works and what does not.

Should it be all systems go, there is nothing left but to fully immerse yourself and enjoy the experience.

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Your Guide to Better Sex

March 15, 2010 By Angelica 1 Comment

Sex can get uneventful after a time and it may seem as though you are only doing a chore. This should not be the case. Sex can become thrilling if you employ creativity. Nasty imaginations are always welcome. Many couples go to counselors to lament on how they are unsatisfied with their sex life.

Understanding the difference between male and female sexuality is the first key to enjoying sex better. However, if you do not know how to find the right spots of your lover, spend a few times exploring each other’s body. Use g spots vibes for your partner to spot her g spots. You can do this as part of your foreplay or tease moments. Discover that aside from the naturally responsive genitals, there are other regions in the body that respond to erotic stimulation.

Males and females experience orgasm differently. Male orgasm proceeds quickly. Five to ten minutes of continued stimulation could lead him to ejaculation – end of story. Women, on the other hand, experience somewhat a more complex orgasm, which itself could last for several minutes, but the experience of it can vary from woman to woman.

Knowing this, men should be more conscious when making out with their women. Many men have this misconception that sex ends when they squirt, but this is wrong. As much as you experience orgasm with her, she has to experience it too, and the only way for her to experience it is through sufficient stimulation. Know where the right spots are. Realistic vibes can help women to experience orgasm.

Clitoris and g-spot are two of the most sensitive parts of the female genitalia. Penetration alone cannot sufficiently stimulate these parts. There are certain positions that allow maximum stimulation of the g-spot. The push-and-pull thing you might have been doing all these years doesn’t quite give the clitoris the tickle it deserves. This is why a slow gliding and grinding motion during lovemaking is just great for the clitoris.

Do you actually do sex right away?

Lots of foreplay is a key to better sex because both of you can spend a long time teasing each other. Others, are enjoying playing with different sextoys and remote controlled vibrators.

Try a new thing every once in a while. If you keep doing what you used to be doing in bed, you will get used to it and that bedtime story that’s been going on over and over again can get real boring.

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Vibrators – How To Choose in 4 Simple Steps

March 10, 2010 By John 1 Comment

Vibrators – How to Choose in 4 Simple Steps

Vibrators – This video explains how to choose the right vibrator in 4 simple steps. If you are looking to buy a vibrator make sure you follow the steps and you will be able to find the perfect vibrators for you whether it be g-spot vibes or clitoral stimulators. So get ready to rock your world vibrators are great if you find the right one!

Vibrators are great for couples too so try incorporate some vibes into your foreplay to add some fun and excitement into you love life.

Follow these 4 simple steps and find the perfect vibrator today!

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Nippleplay increase your pleasure now

November 20, 2009 By Lisa Leave a Comment

Did you know that you can increase your sexual pleasure with nippleplay in the bedroom? Maybe you’ve never thought about nipple play before or perhaps you already know that you enjoy this as a method of foreplay or during sexual play and intercourse.

Or maybe you have been neglecting this part of your body because you’re not sure what it will feel like or if your partner will enjoy this type of play. While women are often known for enjoying nippleplay, men can also enjoy it. Many men find it erotic to have their nipples licked, flicked or played with in sex play and others don’t know if they will like it because they’ve never tried it.

For many people the nipples are an erogenous zone. But there are many people who are not even aware of this fact. They let the nipples go unnoticed and by not paying attention to them, they never realize the pleasure they may feel. Some people have more sensation in the nipples than others and this can affect the type of nipple play that you enjoy as well.

There are even sex toys on the market such as nipple clamps which are designed to help you feel more sensation in the nipples during foreplay and sex play. If you’re new to these types of toys, you want to start slow and easy and try them out to see what you think.

Then if you really enjoy them, you might want to advance in the type of nipple toys that you use. From finger vibrators to nipple clamps of all shapes and sizes, there is something for everyone. You will also choose your toys based on the type of sensitivity you have in the nipples and how much you’re going for.

Nipple play is one way you can increase the pleasure that you experience during sex starting right now. It doesn’t require anything special to make it work and many people find it very effective. If you’re new to nippleplay, you can even experiment during masturbation to see how you respond to it.

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Gay Sex Toys

November 13, 2009 By Lisa Leave a Comment

Gay Sex Toys for Men

The sex toy market is now offering a wide variety of gay sex toys for men.  These toys are made to make those gay couples have more lively lovemaking.  These come in a wide variety of styles and types beyond the standard double dildo of days past.  Now men who are gay can find many other types of gay sex toys to enhance their pleasure in the bedroom.

One of the most popular new gay sex toys for men is the prostate massager.  While this can be used by men and women who are gay, straight or bisexual, gay men particularly love this sex toy.  It works in the same way that a G spot stimulator works for a woman.  It is inserted in the anus and stimulates the prostate with gentle, or not so gentle, vibration.  The intensity can be changed depending on the man’s pleasure levels.

For the single gay man who wants to have gay sex toys but who does not want to go with the standard male sex doll, there are options as well.  This can be had with a pelvic simulator.  This is the hips, penis and anus that can be used in a variety of ways.  The penis can be moved to be used in most common positions and the anus can be penetrated.  Both the penis and the anus have a vibration mode if so desired by the man using it.

Finally, there is also the standard anus plug.  This can be used during foreplay or intercourse to stimulate the anal opening so it is going to be ready for penetration by a partner.  Those men who are looking for gay sex toys can find many other items that can enhance their lovemaking and make it more pleasurable as well as fun!

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Male Sex Toys

November 12, 2009 By Lisa Leave a Comment

Three Popular Male Sex Toys

Most people think that the majority of sex toys are geared towards helping females achieve orgasm.  While this is a huge part of the market, there are also many popular male sex toys.  These toys can be used by males alone or can be used with a partner as well.  This is going to discuss the three most popular male sex toys.

  1. The Sex Doll

The sex doll is the most popular of all of the male sex toys.  They can be found everywhere and jokes have been made about them on television and movies.  The great thing about these types of male sex toys is that they come in a wide variety of styles, sizes and price ranges.  No matter the fantasy that a man has, there is a sex doll that can fulfill this fantasy.  The types range from the basic blow up doll to the dolls that are made to be realistic looking and feeling.

  1. The Vibrating Ring

This can be used during foreplay to stimulate the penis.  It is also a great aid that can be used during masturbation when more sensation than just a hand is desired.  Many have different settings so that the user can enjoy a variety of stimulation.  Those who want to use it with a partner can have them decide just how much vibration they want to offer to the male.

  1. Oral Simulators

An oral stimulator may not be as popular as some of the other male sex toys but should be fun for the male in your life.  This toy simulates the oral suction that many men enjoy when having oral performed on them.  Again, this can be used with a partner or the male can use this while masturbating.  Those who do not enjoy giving oral pleasure can purchase one of these handy toys to offer another way to pleasure their man.

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