One of the most ubiquitous sex toys are dildos and big vibrators.  Toys such as these are staple fare in adult films and are often used by the female cast members with gusto.

While it may be argued that the moans of pleasure these adult film stars create while using the toy is contrived, dildos are sex toys which can greatly improve the quality of your sex life—whether it is for those times when friendly company is simply not available or when sharing intimate moments with your special person.

If you have seen an adult film, you may already have some idea on how to use dildos.  Toys such as these are designed and typically used to sexually arouse a person by inserting the toy into the vagina or anal cavity.  Using these toys seem very straightforward and common sense but there are some things one should keep in mind so that the experience with realistic vibrating dildos becomes a pleasurable one.

The first thing one should do before using dildos is to make sure it is clean.  Even brand new toys out of the box should be cleaned before using as these may still have some chemical residue left over from the manufacturing process left on its surface.  This chemical residue may cause irritation in very sensitive places.  Moreover, an unclean used sex toy can be a hot bed for all sorts of unwholesome microorganisms which can cause a person health problems.

After making sure your toy is clean, you have to get in the mood.  Unless one is already thoroughly aroused, inserting the toy into the vagina or anus at this point can be extremely uncomfortable at the very least.  You can try stimulating yourself in the usual way or, if you are using the toy with a partner, engage in some hot foreplay.

Playing with any sex toy requires some preparation.  In the case of a lot of sex toys, this means having ready and using an adequate amount of personal lubricant to ensure that things remain smooth and pleasurable.  While the vagina does generate its own natural lubricant, this is often not enough to ensure things remain comfortable as some sex toy materials absorb these natural fluids.  Before inserting the toy, make sure you apply a liberal amount of lubricant on the toy and the body cavities you intend to use the toy on.

Keep in mind that you do not have to insert the toy entirely for you to have a good time with it.  Insert it only as far as is comfortable.  If using the couples sex toys with a partner, make sure that she tells you what feels good and how she wants you to manipulate the toy.

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