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Why Anal Sex Is Painful?

September 3, 2010 By Angelica Leave a Comment

Painful anal stimulation results from many things. Oftentimes, the excruciating sensation during the
first anal experience makes people want to try it no longer. Anal stimulation need not be that agonizing.
Well, let’s learn why anal sex hurts a lot sometimes.

  • If you don’t know you are being penetrated in the anus, it could be a hurtful surprise. Men should not push their shafts into their partners’ butthole without telling them beforehand. If your partner isn’t ready, she would not quite enjoy the moment.
  • Forcing the penis farther into the anus can hurt even more. Some guys say it’ll start feeling great in the next few minutes, but it usually doesn’t. Girls should tell their boyfriends if it hurts because you could sustain anal laceration if you’re not ready for anal sex.
  • Inadequate lubrication is the major reason why anal sex hurts. Your butthole does not lubricate itself like your vagina. So, you need some help from lubes sold at sex toy shops.

Knowing all these, the secret to a sensational anal sex is to condition yourself before the activity. Some
would even clean their rectum before the fun begins. Stimulation of the lubricated anal orifice will help
relax the anal sphincter to allow foreign objects to get in. Anal training can also help and is possible
through the use butt plugs or anal beads.

Anal sex is not just about penetration of the anus. It encompasses other activities like analingus (licking of the anal region) or fingering the anal hole of your partner. But admittedly, when we say “anal sex” the first thing that comes to mind is penetration.

Her’s a link about the question why anal sex can hurt.

Why Anal Sex Can Hurt

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Just a little advice needed, please!?

September 1, 2010 By John Leave a Comment

Question by Marissa Arren: Just a little advice needed, please!?
Hi All,

I’m 23, never had sex, or orgasmed. I’ve only recently become interested in masturbation (hard to believe, right?) A couple of months ago I brought a vibrator from Ann. S., the Serena one, but it didn’t seem to have enough ‘oomph’, I guess. Six days ago I decided to go ahead (no pun intended!) and brought the r. Rabbit thrusters del. It looks and feels great, and I love the rabbit vibrator (though hasn’t made me orgasm yet.) however, I can only seem to get the very head of the thrusting part into either my anus or vagina (please note – I do as instructed and wash the vibrator before alternating between front and back!!).

My question is – is there anything I can do to relax a little more? I don’t have a sexual partner or a lover. I’ve watched porn, but it’s never gotten me excited sexually. Could it simply be either the thruster is too big in girth (5” in case you were wondering) and as I’m a virgin this is too big?
Any other tips on getting an orgasm would be much appreciated also.
Many thanks!
Marissa.

Best answer:

Answer by beegs
I think its just because you still a virgin and you have not pushed the vibrator all the way in yet. It will most likely hurt for the 1st time r two that you do it but its worth it!! Also maybe try using some lube on it at least the 1st few times you push it all the way in. Also your ass is a lot tighter then your vagina so it will hurt more to put it farther in so use lube. Also the farther you put it in the bunny ears on the vibrator will rub more on your clit and should have you have an orgasm.

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How to take care of your dildo

July 12, 2010 By Angelica 1 Comment

Let’s talk about the most ubiquitous of all “woman” sex toys—the dildo.  Realistic vibrating dildos are phallus-shaped sex toys meant for penetration into the vagina or the rectum.  These toys have been around for centuries and have changed little in purpose and shape except in the types of materials they used.  In times past, dildos could be made of polished wood, stone, marble, or glass.  Nowadays synthetic materials such as plastics, silicone and even materials which feel like real skin have been used in making these sex toys.  These sex toys now also contain small motors which allow the toy to vibrate for that extra “buzz”.

No matter the type of materials they are made of or whether they vibrate or not, they all require care in order to allow them to perform the function for which they were designed properly and safely.  Here are some tips you can use to take care of your dildo.

No matter the type of dildo you have, you will have to keep it clean.  This is not only a thing one has to do in order to make sure your toy remains in good working order but it is also a measure you should undertake to avoid contracting disease or infection.  A dildo is meant to be inserted into the vagina or the anus.  These parts of the body often do contain microorganisms and bacteria which can be harmful to people.

How you clean your toy depends on the type of material it is made of.  For most cases, washing your toy with warm soap and water will do the trick.  Wash your toy every time after you use it.  If your toy has batteries or contains a small motor, make sure you take off the batteries first and do not allow the battery compartment or the part with the remote vibrator motor to get wet.  Never submerge a toy which runs on batteries or electricity.

There are commercially prepared sex toy cleaners available in the market.  Keep in mind however that some cleaners which can be oil-based can damage the surface of some toys made of plastic or silicone.  It would be a safe bet to get something water-based in order to minimize your chances of damaging the toy.

Never keep used batteries inside your toy for extended periods of time.  If you do not plan to use your dildo for an extended duration, make sure you remove the batteries before you put your toy away.

Follow these tips to ensure your toy keeps on giving you the sexual satisfaction you need for a long time.

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How to Introduce Male Anal Sex Toys to Him

July 7, 2010 By Angelica Leave a Comment

Many men, and even some women, think that anal play is nasty. It is nasty but if you follow hygiene and safety tips for anal play then there should be no problem. Men can find anal stimulation to be exciting primarily because the male g-spot is located in the anus, specifically on the front wall that touches the prostate gland. This part rivals the glans in being the most erotically sensitive male spot. But the sensations are different. Anyway, stimulation of the male g-spot can be through the use of male anal sex toys or jelly vibes.

But a lot of men are not too receptive about anal stimulation since it is associated with gay sex. Heterosexual men fear that if they buy anal toys in an adult toy shop, they may be branded gay. But this is slowly becoming an old fear. Most guys are slowly understanding their bodies and learning that their anus is one erogenous zone. If you don’t know, the anus is a very sensitive spot capable of taking sex to the next level.

Then again the butthole is a delicate region. There are a lot of toys in the market made for anal stimulation and guys can use any of these recommended toys for their own exploration—only after learning much about proper way of stimulating the anus. A bomb butt plugs, anal beads, and prostate massagers are great male anal sex toys that can deliver amazing sensations only when used in the appropriate way.

A good way to introduce your boyfriend to anal stimulation using toys is to first use a finger or two. You better do this while you are giving him a hand-job or a fellatio, with a lubed finger massaging the area around his anus and then slowly inserting it in the anus. Only make sure that you have trimmed your fingernails or he might shriek in pain and you don’t want that to happen during an intimate anal moment. If you can non-verbally make your guy understand how pleasurable it is to play with his anus, then convincing him to explore more using anal toys will not become a tough business.

You can introduce vibrators, anal beads and butt plugs, anything that is known as an anal toy. Do not use just any kind of rod which is never recommended for anal insertion. Normally toys for the butthole have wide base or a handle that does not allow them to get too deep into the rectum and supports easy retrieval. Recommended male anal sex toys are available at reputable shops online.

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Choosing the right sex toy for couples

June 3, 2010 By Angelica Leave a Comment

Choosing the right sex toy for you and your partner can be a daunting one.  There is a lot of sex toys online and in the market, like waterproof vibrators.  With the overwhelming number of choices available, how do you know which is the best choice for the both of you?  You do want him or her to enjoy the experience as much as you did, after all.

Assuming that both of you are already comfortable about the idea of using sex toys during your intimate moments together, the best way is to ask him or her, what type of sex toy he or she would like.  When it comes to what he or she would enjoy when it comes to sex, your partner is still the best judge.  He or she may have a secret fantasy she or he has not yet divulged to you yet.

If this is your first time to use a sex toy or are hesitant about asking him or her point blank what toy your partner would prefer, keep in mind the role of foreplay.  Foreplay is about stimulating and sexually arousing your partner to get him or her ready for the main event.   Strap on vibrators are a good starting point for this.  These vibrators have a strap to keep the toy in place leaving your hands free to touch and stimulate the other erogenous zones of your or your partner’s body.

Should both of you prefer vaginal penetration but want that extra buzz, cock rings with clitoral stimulators attached may be the choice for you.  Cock rings are elastic rings meant to be worn at the base of the penis.  This serves to keep the blood in the tissues of the penis from flowing back to the body resulting in a prolonged erection and an engorged feeling.  There are cock rings with protrusions or small vibrators attached which stimulate your partner’s clitoris or anus during penetration.

Do you prefer to give more than receive?  Do you get aroused watching your partner get off from what you are doing to him or her?  Then a sex toy which you could manipulate is something you should think of getting.  There are vaginal and anal dildos which you can use on your partner during your sack sessions.  You and your partner’s preference or your knowledge of his or her preference would dictate as to what size, color and material it is made of.  One rule of the thumb though, when using toys meant for penetration:  use adequate lubrication.  Regular discharge from the vagina may not be adequate as some materials absorb these fluids making the use of the toy uncomfortable at the least.

Choosing the right sex toy for you and your partner is about self knowledge and knowledge about what arouses your partner.  Keep this in mind and you won’t go wrong.

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How to Choose the Best Vibrators

January 2, 2010 By Lisa 1 Comment

There are so many vibrators on the market that it can be difficult choosing the right one for you.  Vibrators come in all shapes and sizes with different settings so how do you choose the best vibrators?  This does not have to be a difficult decision if you know what to look for and you know what you want.

The first thing that needs to be decided is how large do you want your vibrator to be?  Do you live in an apartment with roommates and you need to have a vibrator that is discreet?  Then you need to purchase one of the smaller vibrators.  There are vibrators that can fit on the finger tip and small bullet type vibrators that are small enough to put in table side or jewelry box.  Others who do not need so much discretion may want to have a larger vibrator that can be easily used.

The second thing that needs to be decided on is how much power that you want to have in your vibrator.  Some vibrators simply have an on and off switch and only have one power setting.  This can work for those who only need this type of setting.  Others may want to have a vibrator that has intensity that can be gradually increased or decreased when they want it stronger or milder in intensity.

The final choice is whether or not the vibrator is going to have any extra nodes to offer pleasure in other areas of the body.  Some vibrators can offer an anal tickle for added pleasure.  There are other vibrators that are used vaginally with nodes that tickle the clitoris, the anus or both.

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Male Anal Sex Toys

December 10, 2009 By Lisa 1 Comment

There are many male sex toys that men enjoy using.  These toys can often be used while having other types of sexual pleasure such as oral pleasure or masturbation.  All anal sex toys are inserted into the anus and used in various ways to stimulate these nerve endings.  The pleasure can be intense enough to cause a man to orgasm without the penis ever being touched.  The two most common types are the prostate massager and the anal plug.  These are used in basically the same way but they offer different types of pleasure for the men who use them.

  • Prostate Massager – The prostate massager looks very similar to an anal plug only it has a slight angle to it so that is can reach the prostate.  When inserted in removed slowly, it massages the prostate in a way that can create a great deal of pleasure for the man.  This can be used with a partner or when alone and masturbating.  It can also be left in when the man is pleasing his partner to offer himself pleasure at the same time as giving it.
  • Anal Plug – The anal plug is similar to the prostate massager only it does not have a curve to it.  It has a tapered end which is inserted into the anus.  The other end is flat so that it can be left in the anus without fear of losing it.  This would mean a trip to the doctor to have it removed if this protection was not there.  This male anal sex toy comes in many sizes.  Men have different tastes when it comes to the size of anal plug that they want to have others use on them.  Some may prefer a small one while others are going to go larger.  Then some are going to want a simple average size.

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Couples Who Use Sex Toys

December 8, 2009 By Lisa 1 Comment

Couples Who Use Sex Toys Often Have Closer Relationships

Many couples who are very close to each other use sex toys during their lovemaking.  There is a trust that has been built up that makes the use of these toys acceptable.  When couples have trust, trying new things together is not as intimidating as when there are apprehensions in the relationship.  Because of the added trust, couples who use sex toys often have closer relationships than those who do not.

There are many sex toys that couples can use to enhance their bedroom romps.  There are toys for men and woman that can be used with any combination of sexes.  Some of the most common toys are vibrators.  These are simple to use and do not need any instructions.  They are also the oldest known sex toys with the exception of the dildo.  Once man learned about electricity, they found a way to make sex even better.

There are also more off the cuff sex toys for those who want to really spice up their lovemaking.  Anal plugs can be used to either stimulate the prostate or the sphincter.  Another popular anal toy is the anal beads.  These are placed in the anus and then are slowly pulled out to either increase orgasms intensity or to create an orgasm.  There is a great deal of sensitivity in this area and these toys can help to bring the couples closer together by trusting each other enough to use them in these sensitive areas.

There are many more different sex toys for couples to use when they are intimate.  These toys can be used to help offer more intense orgasms or can be used in areas that most would not be comfortable having sex in.  Couples who use sex toys are more than likely going to have a closer relationship.

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Anal Sex Toy

December 3, 2009 By Lisa Leave a Comment

Anal Beads Are an Anal Sex Toy for Men or Women

Both men and women can find pleasure in anal sex.  For this reason, there are many toys that are made specifically for this purpose.  Some toys are designed just for men as they massage the prostate.  Others can be utilized by both men and women.  One of the most popular of all the anal sex toy types that is available is the anal beads.  These are very easy to use and do not put too much pressure on the anus when they are purchased in a small diameter.

There are different diameters for anal beads.  Some are very small and only tease the anus a little bit.  The go up in the size of the diameter for those who prefer a bit more pressure.  Those who are new to using anal beads should start with a smaller diameter until they get used to having them placed in the anus.  They should also be inserted carefully so as not to tear anything when using them.

This muscle can get used to having anal beads inserted but there is going to be pain if care is not taken the first few times that they are used.  This is also true if they are bigger than is comfortable for the first time user to handle.  Make sure that lubrication is also used to make the beads more comfortable.  This is going to aid in insertion as well as when they are slowly pulled out to create the pleasure that can lead to orgasm for many.

These tips should be taken in to account no matter if the person is male or female.  Using anal beads for the first time should be a pleasant experience that does not ruin the person from ever wanting to use any anal sex toy ever again.

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Anal Sex Toys

November 26, 2009 By Lisa Leave a Comment

Three Common Anal Sex Toys

There are three common anal sex toys for those who either enjoy or who want to try some anal lovemaking.  These are typically used by both men and women for different reasons.  The prostate of a man can be stimulated with them and for women there is also a pleasurable feeling when the anus is penetrated.  So what are the three most common anal sex toys that are available?  The following are going to describe them:

  1. Anal Beads – This is probably the easiest of all the anal sex toys to start off with.  They are small and are not going to put a lot of stress on the sphincter muscles.  They offer pleasure by being inserted and slowly pulled out.  This can be done to produce or enhance an orgasm.
  1. Anal Plugs – An anal plug is used to stimulate the anus in women and the prostate in men.  It can be inserted and left there during normal intercourse or oral stimulation of the genitalia.  They offer more stimulation as they open up the anus more than the anal beads are going to.  This is more for those who have more experience in the anal pleasures.
  1. Anal Probes – An anal probe goes further into the anus than the anal plug is going to go.  They are mostly used to heighten orgasms by being inserted into the anus as the person is ready to climax.  They can be used in conjunction with lubricant to make the insertion and removal easier.

There are other anal sex toys that can be used such as vibrators, dildos and vibrating anal beads.  The above three are simply the most common.  Before using any anal sex toys, make sure that your partner is completely comfortable with you using them in this manner.

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