Tips on how to reach orgasm easily
In this day and age of high levels of sexual awareness, it is amazing to learn that millions of women still haven’t been able to experience an orgasm. If you are one of these women, don’t despair. A sex toy such as a lipstick vibrator, dildo, or other sex toy may be the key to your quest. However, even use of these masturbation aids will not get you anywhere too if you don’t know how to use them.
Thinking Sexy Thoughts
Here are some tips you can use to achieve orgasm with or without sex toys.
- So think sexy thoughts and indulge in your most arousing sexual fantasy in your mind. It is possible to get aroused simply by using your mind. This is especially true for women. Ninety percent of sex for women is a mental game. This will help you get in the mood for what happens next.
- Know your erogenous zones. Erogenous zones are those parts of the body which, when stimulated, are capable of arousing you sexually. Common examples of erogenous zones are the neck, the lips, the breasts and the clitoris.
Studies have shown that most orgasms during sex are centered around the clitoris. The clitoris is that small button-shaped mound of tissue located at the top and near the opening of the vagina. It is usually covered by a hood of skin. When a woman is sexually aroused the hood draws back exposing a nub of tissue full of nerve endings. The clitoris can be stimulated even if it is still in its hood.
Lipstick Vibrator
Touch and rub your erogenous zones as you indulge in the sexual fantasy in your mind. You can do this with your hands or fingers or with the use of a sex toy such as a dildo, love doll, or lipstick vibrator. When you are ready touch and gently rub the clitoris. If you are using a sex toy such as a vibrator try putting the toy against the clitoris. There really is no right or wrong way in stimulating your erogenous zones. Women are aroused in different ways.
Experiment with rubbing, touching or pressing the clitoris. As long as it feels good, you are doing it right.
How do you know you are about to have an orgasm? It is usually described as a gradual build up and an intense explosion of pleasure around the pelvic area. You may also feel sudden and quick contractions in your vagina. Don’t worry, you will definitely know when you have one since there is no missing it.
These are just some tips you can use to help you achieve the goal of sexual satisfaction and a great time, even when you’re alone!
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