The relationship and intimacy expert names Susan Quilliam has just had a new thing to say about improving intimacy. She has written a significant number of journals and has done lots of presentations regarding sexuality. She also does advice through radio programs, newspaper columns, and magazine sections on enhancing people’s romance and intimacy.
Her latest work has something to do about the relationship between emotional intelligence and sexuality. She says that while it determines people’s personality and attitude, it also affects the sexuality. The rate at which individuals experience orgasm has a correlation to emotional intelligence. Research has indicated that women with high emotional intelligence experience more orgasm during any sexual activity.
It is the emotional intelligence that bonds people together. It helps one identify himself or herself. It has something to do with how one interacts with another. People with higher emotional quotient tend to manage their feelings better. Controlling emotions like anger, hatred, frustration, and anxiety is a key to happy living. These emotions get in the way of a good relationship and they are not just a part of healthy relationship. People who are able to control their emotions have better sexual responses. You don’t tend to please your partner if you feel hostile towards them. But if you can somehow control and manage your feelings towards them, you bridge the gap and strengthen bonds.
According to Susan, negative emotions have a way of getting to your sexual relationship. When you are worried you tend to have difficulty achieving sufficient arousal, let alone orgasm. The same is true when you are mad.
Thus Susan has come up with an idea to cope with the negative feelings. She suggests nude wrestling is the solution to anger. Perhaps you can engage in a pillow fight to release those tense feelings. Nude wrestling, on the other hand, is a little more physical and erotic. It may actually be a good unique foreplay method.
Nude wrestling relieves stress among couples while managing anger in a less hurtful, less violent way. The ample physical contact also increases your mood for more intimate act later as long as you don’t get a little too out of control. Some would even engage in bondage play using bondage toys. Restraints may even be used as long as emotions do not go out of control.
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