The Remote Control Vibrator To Carry With You
A woman’s purse is definitely a confidential place. So it’s really about time you actually started keeping a good personal pleasure relief for example your vibrator needed for instances one feel really a need to assist you to relieve the dullness and the detachment of whiling away a classic working day? To help liven up a very lengthy plane trip or possibly a terrifically boring railroad getaway? You will discover a new great assortment of adult toys as well as supporting goods acceptable to put straight into the handbag for an lusty time with your self. Many will certainly mix in with the contents in your make-up bag whilst many are small enough for men to have in his pocket book.
Question by Mark Fisher: Need help to get over insecurity about gf’s vibrator?
Ok, I know this is totally silly and ridiculous and I’m not saying that I think what I’m feeling is good or justified. I’m just concerned.
My gf finally got her hands on a rabbit vibrator. And she loves it — who wouldn’t? It’s like Disney land for adults. We’re both very open sexually and very candid and experimental and all those wonderful things but I’m feeling really really intimidated for the day when the rabbit arrives.
I’m afraid that I won’t be able to compete with a toy like that and am really concerned that I’ll be seen as inadequate, incompetent after she starts using it.
On the other hand. It’s her vagina, her body, and as her partner I WANT her to feel good and to enjoy her body as much as possible. I also realize that it’s not as easy for women to orgasm as men and that it’s a masturbatory tool that will enhance love making, etc. etc.
But then again, I’m nervous because If I got a prostate massage toy and used that each time I masturbated….I’d think I’d get hooked to it and next time I had sex be like, “What the hell was that?”
In other words, altruistically and maturely I think it is really cool she’s getting it, I know they’re wonderful for helping people learn about their body and she’ll have a good time.
On a selfish and childish part I’m really afraid she’ll think the rabbit’s better than me and leave me. (Not that I’d ever admit that out of YA). I have a tough enough time competing against larger penises and more handsome men with better athletic builds. Clearly there’s an inferiority aspect here, so that’s why I’m looking for advice from you guys.
Any suggestions on how to get over it/deal with it? Is this normal for your bfs?
And again, I’m intellectually and relationship-wise fully supportive of it.
Hahaha, Marcia. Welcome to the inner vault of every guy — performance anxiety and competitory pressures that drive us to be the best lest we be seen as failures by the people we love (and feel the need to be able to protect and support..at least half way),
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Answer by Marcia
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About John
Why don’t you…..TRY USING IT WITH HER…And I don’t mean in your butt…They are simply tools at your disposal, what’s better than a vibrator while you give her oral? Do you want her to get off?
Man, lighten up.
Edit: And the rabbit is probably better than you. But guess what? It’s a battery operated machine.
EDIT: Performance anxiety, really? Then again I’m single, if a girl doesn’t like my performance I can always find another.
totally agree with you dude..but i can say that (from experience) that the novelty wears off pretty quickly. been thru the same thing wif my GF (now my wife), so dont stress, just make sure your always around when she using it, then she’ll feel a little arkward if she tries without you there
P.S. its actually quite good as you’ll get the vibes too when ur both together
well since u guys are very sexually open im presuming u guys do anal, try using the vibrator while doing her in one hole
work it out my dude, her body is a wonderland its on u to find out .. good luck.. turn the bad to good
not to worry, its new and there is nothing like the old fashion way . she will trade off and on again just like u do with ur hand. just give it time.
trust me it wont replace you. clit stimulation is one thing and feeling the warn throbbing penis penetration is another wonderfull thing. there really isnt anything to be worried about. my husband uses my vibrator on me at times. urs will never be replaced for a plastic one. its just a good alone time thing. trust me she aint gonna give u up. try getting into toys with her. maybe visit your local shop. i suggest you try a vibrating penis ring. this will stimulate her clit while producing a nice vibrating sensation on u.
Dude.. chill out.. it’s a tool that gives a different experience, you could buy a suckmaster robot doll and it’d get you there but you’d still rather spill your beans into a real girl
girls like rabbits as they get them where they need to go.. but they still love the feeling of being f*****d by a man.
Use the rabbit on her, with her, she’ll love you all the more for it. trust me, been in the same position.. I’ve had several gf’s who use them and they all appreciate a confident guy who can use it on them.. do oral at the same time, bring them to orgasm and then take over!!
yes her body,her vagina…she have the right to enjoy it as much as possible ..with a safe respect full method for both of you.. don’t you think that she will enjoy much if you let her be with someone else a once per month(for example),its a kind of change.it will be excited!! is it possible for you? do you agree?
So,you want her to enjoy the maximum,but with respectful safe way.
Is it any respect for you when she wants a toy?
For me,she have to choose between me and the vibrator!!
Keeping it real, we all have our insecurities about our bodies, even when our partners say otherwise. You shouldn’t have any insecurities about an object that have no feelings, or ability to create havoc in your lives, unless you allow it. If this rabbit changes your girlfriend, there was change anyway. She was on her way out the door. Most certainly a toy cannot make or break it. Can a toy bring a woman to climax faster and harder- depends on the individual. However, the special stuff like kissing, hugging, touches- all the stuff that matters, cannot be achieved by a toy. That’s when you are the what she needs and wants. Toys are just that, toys. At some point, we put the toys away and go for the real thing!