So you’ve made the decision to buy some lingerie for that special woman in your life. This is great but before you go grabbing something off the rack, are you sure you know how to properly purchase the right lingerie? Buying the wrong lingerie for your lady can really send the wrong kind of message. In fact, a mistake like this can achieve the opposite of what you’re trying to do.
So here is some lingerie buying tips for men to help you out:
- Remember that you’re buying for her, not yourself. Just because you’d like to see her in it doesn’t mean she will feel comfortable wearing it.
- Never guess about anything- sizes, what she’d like etc.
- Always find out her proper size before going into the lingerie store. Getting something too small or too large can really send the wrong message to your woman.
- Avoid costumes and smutty lingerie unless you already know she likes it.
- Avoid leather, PVC, crotchless and other over the top lingerie options unless you know she wants something like this.
- Think of comfort as well as style. Is this something she’ll likely want to wear again and again?
- Find out what colors and materials she likes (this can easily be achieved by taking a look at her undie drawer).
- Don’t buy anything with tags that read “reduction”, “control”, etc or you might send the message that you think she’s fat or has “problem areas”.
- Also avoid push up bras, gel-filled bras or cleavage enhancing tops unless you specifically know this is what she wants. You might send the message that her breasts are not big enough.
With these lingerie buying tips for men, you can ensure that your special gift of lingerie will be one she will love and hopefully, wear for you again and again.
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