Question by kendrahost08: Just Ordered a vibrator & My Boyfriend is pissed…?
I just ordered the Waterproof iVibe Rabbit vibrator the other day and told my boyfriend about it. The only reason i got it was bc I am curious and just thought it would be fun. My boyfriend says that it makes him feel like he is not good enough. Thats not it at all! I even said something about having him “help me” use it. but he is still upset.
Am I really in the wrong?
Is there anything I can do or say to change his attitude toward this?
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Answer by Keith
You are not in the wrong and he is just insecure. My GF has a vib and I love it. It turns me on and if I’m worn out she can pleasure herself and I can just watch.
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I don’t think you’re in the wrong. He needs to be more open minded about toys in the bedroom! I can see how he may worry that he’s inadequate, but I would say he needs to get over it. Just keep reassuring him that you just thought it would be a fun addition to the bedroom, not a replacement of anything. Ask him if he’d like to bring any toys in (flavored massage oil, flavored condoms, hand cuffs, etc.) maybe he’ll start to open up.
He sounds really insecure or immature. I love watching a woman or helping her use a toy. That is very sexy. Your not at all wrong for wanting to have one. Once you get it you should get naked and start using it. Then havine him walk in on you using it. Maybe after he watches you it will change his mind about them. Tell him your getting yourself all warmed up and ready for his package.
You’re not in the wrong buying a vibrator. Your boyfriend needs to lighten up and get with the fun. Vibrators typically make women better sex partners – they learn what stimulation and how to effectively come to orgasm. You even offered for him to use the vibe on you. Most guys would be thrilled.
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