How to Introduce Sex Toys
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For many of us who are looking at trying out sex toys for the first time the idea and not to mention the sheer array of choices can be slightly daunting. Moreover, even if we are sold to the idea of using sex toys in our trysts with our loving partners, the obstacle remains on how to convince him or her that using these toys will be good for your sex lives.
Here are some tips on how to introduce sex toys to your partner.
The first step one has to take before taking the plunge with sex toys is to understand any possible reasons behind your partner’s hesitation in their use. By nature, some people are suspicious of things that involve change. The key is to convince your partner that this change will be for the better.
Moreover, your partner may have other issues that need to be addressed such as insecurity regarding the quality of the intimate moments you have together, their ability to pleasure you in bed, and even the fear of being replaced by the sex toy. A little reassurance and a lot of love and understanding from you will go a long way to help address these fears. Assure them that sex with them is great and that you just want to try out and explore new ways to pleasure her.
- Your partner has to be assured too that nothing will replace them in your heart and in your bed.
- Your partner’s preferences about the way he or she likes to be sexually aroused or stimulated should also be taken into account when choosing the right sex toy.
One important factor on how to introduce sex toys to your partner successfully is to make sure he or she knows that you have his or her greater enjoyment of sex with you in mind. A concrete way to show this is to involve him or her in selecting the sex toy both of you will use.
Searching the web together for sex toys can add a funny, kinky and sexy twist to the activities you usually do together. This and the fact that both of you know that you do plan to use the toy you are acquiring can lead to greater anticipation and sexual tension about your intimate sessions.
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Finally, when the time to use the sex toy comes, encourage her or him to tell you how she or he wants the sex toy used on her or him. Tell her or him to tell you, or show you what feels good and assure them they can tell you to stop if the sex toy causes him or her any discomfort. After all, you do want the experience to be as enjoyable to her or him as it is for you. The fact that your partner enjoys the experience virtually guarantees that it will be repeated and may make him or her open to the use of other sex toys you would like to use.
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