Well, that depends on the situation. A lesbian is a girl who happens to be emotionally and sexually
attracted to other girls. Kissing another girl out of fun and out of truth-or-consequence game, for
instance, doesn’t qualify you to be called a lesbian or gay.
This is both a sensitive and tricky issue. Experts believe that we have homosexual tendencies and that
there is no such thing as being strictly homosexual and strictly heterosexual. People’s sexual orientation
lies between the two extremes. The only thing is that you can either be inclined to homosexuality or
heterosexuality.
Going back to the issue, if you kissed another girl out of curiosity, that doesn’t right away make you
a lesbian. Ask yourself. Are you emotionally attracted to that girl? Do you imagine yourself in erotic
circumstances with that girl? Are you imagining the two of you together in one room, naked and
pleasing each other erotically? Do you feel sort of sexual desires towards that girl? More profoundly, are
you in love with her? Or do you have strong feelings of adoration towards her? If you answered “yes” to
these questions, then you are most likely a homosexual.
If you did it just for fun, then you aren’t necessarily lesbian. Let’s get real. People can get playful and
exploratory at times. Even two boys rubbing each other’s “thingy” in a room aren’t automatically gays.
Men and women are often curious about members of the same sex. These thoughts may remain just a fantasy, while some may test out their erotic fantasies with a close friend.
Here’s a link to a post which answer the question.
I kissed a girl and I liked it.. but should I tell my boyfriend?
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