Anal penetration can be fun but hurt you right if you are careless. Anal sex toys and vibrators usually do not come with instructions. So if you want to know how to use one, look for information online. Your initial anal encounter may not pleasing. In fact, you may feel a bit of discomfort even with narrow toys.
You want to be conscious about the size. Big dildos for your tight butthole are a bad idea. If you are a beginner, try small butt plugs or narrow anal toys. You can buy graduated anal beads as a starter because these toys start with a small bead at the tip with succeeding beads larger.
Use lubrication when inserting a toy into your anus because this is a delicate hole and its lining can easily rupture due to friction. The lubricant should depend on the kind of sex toy you are using. If you are using rubber and latex toys, do not use oil-based lubricants because they destroy them. Water-based lubes are the safest to use for any kind of sex toys.
The muscles of the anal walls have some sort of a suction effect. That is why it is not safe to use toys whose base is of the same size as the body. Did you notice why butt plugs and anal dildos have flared base? The anus is part of the digestive tract. It does not have a roof like the vagina. You can get anything too deep into the rectum that it becomes impossible to remove safely. Anal sex toys and jelly vibes have flared base prevent dangerously deep insertion.
Never insert anything into your anus if it is not specifically for anal play.
Employ patience with anal play. As mentioned earlier, you cannot stuff big toys up your butt to avoid unwanted anal injury. Also do not force anything into your anus if it is getting uncomfortable or painful. Massage the anal sphincter or the opening with lubed fingers to relax the wall muscles there.
Learn to relax and do breathing exercises. Some people get nervous during their first try, and tension gets in the way of sumptuous anal play.
Always remember that the anus is a dirty place. While you may have seen porn flicks of people licking someone’s ass, these do not mean that the butthole is a clean place. There is always fecal matter and bacteria in there. So you have to clean realistic vibrating dildos, butt plugs, or anal beads after using them in your anus. Do not place anal sex toys into vagina without cleaning them first.
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