Extreme sex toys and vibrators are adult novelties and gadgets which are usually used for bondage and sexual play. Curious about trying them out but don’t quite know how to let your partner know? Here are some tips you can follow to get you closer to making your sexual fantasies come true.
First thing you should do is to be forthright about your sexual fantasies or what you want to happen during sex with your partner. How will you be able to try out new things if you do not tell her or him in the first place? The secret to getting his or her consent is how you communicate your thoughts and fantasies. Avoid sounding like you are complaining about the quality of sex you are having with your partner. A better angle is that you want to try out different ways to doing already great sex with him or her.
Once you have acquired his or her consent there are a few more things the both of you should agree to before you start trying out extreme sex toys and fun vibes. For instance, sexual bondage play inevitably involves restraining your partner or being restrained. Thus, the both of you have to agree on how you want to be restrained. It would also be timely to agree on what activities of sexual bondage the both of you will engage in.
Another word of advice when it comes to restraints: Make sure the restraints you use can be easily and quickly removed in case of an emergency or when your partner indicates he or she wants the activity to stop.
One other important thing the both of you have to agree upon too is that the sexual play should immediately stop the moment one of you lets the other know that he or she is uncomfortable with whatever you are doing. Agree on a signal and stop immediately once that signal is given.
Since you or you and your partner are new to the bondage theme, you can try to use vibe virgins, it would be wise to start out slow and simple during your first few tries at this type of sexual play. This will also allow the both of you to “get your feet wet” and see how the both of you like it.
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