Many men, and even some women, think that anal play is nasty. It is nasty but if you follow hygiene and safety tips for anal play then there should be no problem. Men can find anal stimulation to be exciting primarily because the male g-spot is located in the anus, specifically on the front wall that touches the prostate gland. This part rivals the glans in being the most erotically sensitive male spot. But the sensations are different. Anyway, stimulation of the male g-spot can be through the use of male anal sex toys or jelly vibes.
But a lot of men are not too receptive about anal stimulation since it is associated with gay sex. Heterosexual men fear that if they buy anal toys in an adult toy shop, they may be branded gay. But this is slowly becoming an old fear. Most guys are slowly understanding their bodies and learning that their anus is one erogenous zone. If you don’t know, the anus is a very sensitive spot capable of taking sex to the next level.
Then again the butthole is a delicate region. There are a lot of toys in the market made for anal stimulation and guys can use any of these recommended toys for their own exploration—only after learning much about proper way of stimulating the anus. A bomb butt plugs, anal beads, and prostate massagers are great male anal sex toys that can deliver amazing sensations only when used in the appropriate way.
A good way to introduce your boyfriend to anal stimulation using toys is to first use a finger or two. You better do this while you are giving him a hand-job or a fellatio, with a lubed finger massaging the area around his anus and then slowly inserting it in the anus. Only make sure that you have trimmed your fingernails or he might shriek in pain and you don’t want that to happen during an intimate anal moment. If you can non-verbally make your guy understand how pleasurable it is to play with his anus, then convincing him to explore more using anal toys will not become a tough business.
You can introduce vibrators, anal beads and butt plugs, anything that is known as an anal toy. Do not use just any kind of rod which is never recommended for anal insertion. Normally toys for the butthole have wide base or a handle that does not allow them to get too deep into the rectum and supports easy retrieval. Recommended male anal sex toys are available at reputable shops online.
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