Make someone fall in love with you against their will and that’s seduction. Or so we say. It’s an art. It’s a craft worth learning. The choice of clothes, body language, the manner of speech, and perhaps best of all they way to look at the target are all ingredients.
Seduction without confidence is unlike a seduction at all. You must have the right amount of confidence – not too little and not too much. This is rather an attitude to be harnessed from within. In other words, it starts when you are willing to start having it in you. Try changing your hairdo. Have your hair fixed. Wear clothes that will reveal a little more flesh. Let that man turn his head when you walk past him. He’s got to like you first before you can actually do your wicked thing.
Look cheerful and smile. Have that positive projection. Men like women who have lots of confidence, without actually overdoing things.
The speech pitch and timbre has something to do with being a little seductive. Listen to your voice. Is it nasal? Does it sound like you’re screeching while talking? Is it gruff or hoarse? Chances you’ll never be able to get that man tailing you. A lovely voice is soft and controlled. When you talk to him, try leaning closer, but not too close.
Walk as if you’re a model. Posture counts. Don’t stoop. Boast those hips and flaunt those legs. Dress stylishly. Be attractive.
Speaking of posture, sit with legs crossed and lean forward, so you won’t have to rest your back in awkward, lazy position. When you look at him, stare at him straight to his eyes, but not too long. Just throw enough gazes to make him feel you’re interested. Do some little flirting. Glance occasionally. Wink at him once or twice.
Sometimes, you can also give him a naughty look. When you look into his eyes, think of something nasty, like as if you’re doing a role play and that you’re using those bondage toys and whips to calm him down, have that in mind and it will surely reflect through your eyes. Try not to overdo it, for it can make you seem eager to have him. Just excite his imagination and he’ll be drawn to you even more.
Firmly touch his hand or arm. And when you’re sitting beside him, put your head on the shoulder of the target guy (in case you’ve known each other for quite some time), and say your sleepy.
Don’t give away too easily. If he let’s out his feelings of desire, one quiet evening for instance, refuse cleverly as if you’re not yet ready or you’re having qualms. This will make his desires stronger.
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