May 23, 2012

Female toys

I never gave using female toys like jelly vibrators a thought in my sessions in the sack with my wife until I stumbled onto her dildo when I was digging for a spare towel in her closet.

Seeing that dildo in her closet triggered certain insecurities about my ability to pleasure her, the frequency of our intimate moments, and my sexual prowess.  It took me sometime to gather enough courage to ask her about it and her reaction to my question surprised me—she laughed!

Seeing my disconcert at her reaction and feeling my discomfort about her use of female toys like classic vibes she tenderly raised her hand to my face and said with love in her eyes, “I use that when I miss you, darling.  Your job as a salesman takes you away from me for long periods of time and I do miss making love to you so I do the next best thing.”

Her answer reassured me a little but did not serve to completely soothe my feelings of inadequacy.  She sensed this and added, “A toy like that could never replace the real thing with you.  Do you want me to prove it?”

And with a twinkle in her eye, she took my hand and led me to the bedroom.

As we were both recovering and enjoying holding each other close in the afterglow, I realized some things.  A mere toy could never provide her the intimacy making love with me gives.  There is an emotional connection when I make love to my wife.  That connection could never be made with an inanimate toy.  Seeking affirmation about my epiphany I asked her about it.

With the infinite patience of a person who truly loves another she looked at me and said, “I could never hug a toy and it cannot kiss me back.  I need sexual release just as you do and when you are away, the dildo serves the purpose.   When you’re around I don’t even think about it.”

What I said next surprised even myself, “Could I see how you use it?”

After that night, female toys started playing a greater role in my sex life with my wife.  I rediscovered how it was such a turn on for me watching my wife get aroused and orgasm as I used or manipulated the sex toys to prolong her pleasure.  Needless to say our love making became more intense and we did it more often than before.  I even purchased a finger vibrators for her after she saw it behind an adult novelty store window and wondered aloud how it worked.  It worked wonders as far as I was concerned and I do not hear any disagreements from her either.

Female toys will never replace the real thing with someone you love.  In fact they can even help already special moments with your partner get even better!

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How to introduce your partner to extreme sex toys

Extreme sex toys and vibrators are adult novelties and gadgets which are usually used for bondage and sexual play.  Curious about trying them out but don’t quite know how to let your partner know?  Here are some tips you can follow to get you closer to making your sexual fantasies come true.

First thing you should do is to be forthright about your sexual fantasies or what you want to happen during sex with your partner.  How will you be able to try out new things if you do not tell her or him in the first place?  The secret to getting his or her consent  is how you communicate your thoughts and fantasies.  Avoid sounding like you are complaining about the quality of sex you are having with your partner.  A better angle is that you want to try out different ways to doing already great sex with him or her.

Once you have acquired his or her consent there are a few more things the both of you should agree to before you start trying out extreme sex toys and fun vibes.  For instance, sexual bondage play inevitably involves restraining your partner or being restrained.  Thus, the both of you have to agree on how you want to be restrained.  It would also be timely to agree on what activities of sexual bondage the both of you will engage in.

Another word of advice when it comes to restraints:  Make sure the restraints you use can be easily and quickly removed in case of an emergency or when your partner indicates he or she wants the activity to stop.

One other important thing the both of you have to agree upon too is that the sexual play should immediately stop the moment one of you lets the other know that he or she is uncomfortable with whatever you are doing.  Agree on a signal and stop immediately once that signal is given.

Since you or you and your partner are new to the bondage theme, you can try to use vibe virgins, it would be wise to start out slow and  simple during your first few tries at this type of sexual play.  This will also allow the both of you to “get your feet wet” and see how the both of you like it.

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How to take care of bullet vibrators

Bullet vibrators are great sex toys to have.  But in order to enjoy them for a longer period of time they have to be properly cared for.  Here are some tips on how to take care of your sex toy to make them last longer.

Essential to proper care of bullet vibrators is correct cleaning.  A sex toy which is left unclean can become a breeding ground for dangerous microorganisms which can cause illness.  Essential to correct cleaning is knowing what type of material your sex toy is made of.  Some materials do not react well with certain cleaning agents or methods of cleaning.  In order to determine what type of cleaning agent you can use it is best to consult the packaging your sex toy came in or the instruction manual.  If it is no longer possible to do this, the safest cleaning agent to use on your sex toy would be warm water and a mild antibacterial soap.

Another reason why it is important to know the materials your toy is made of has to do with the type of lubrication one should use.  As is the case with cleaning agents, some materials do not react well with compounds found in certain sex toy lubricants.  Your safest bet would be to use a water based lubricant as these have been found to be safe for use with most sex toys and fun vibes.

Bullet vibrators come in all shapes and sizes but there is one thing that is common to all of them.  They contain a small motor which allows the toy to vibrate.  When cleaning your toy, never submerge the part which contains the electric motor or battery compartment.  Water leaking into these parts can cause damage to the motor or an electrical short which can even be an electrocution hazard.  On this note, remember to take out the batteries of your toy or unplug them from the wall socket before cleaning them.

Another way to prolong the life of our bullet vibrator is proper storage.  Store the toy in a clean and dry place after you have cleaned it.  Remember to take used batteries out of the vibrators before storing them.  When used batteries are kept inside your toy for a prolonged period of time, they may leak, resulting in not only a mess but in damage to the toy.

There you have it.  Follow these tips and you will be enjoying your sex toy for more years to come.

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Advice For Women On Oral Sex

Women like men to go down. Men should do it right, but not all men have that knack. Sometimes men cannot satisfy women the way they want to be satisfied. Women do like when their dirty wishes come true.

The best ways to get things done the way you want is by telling your male partner what you want. Some women are afraid to do this. Others are a little shy. For women, if they haven’t try to do oral, they can practice this using classic vibrators. But it’s time to do some serious talking to your partner if he doesn’t please the hot spots right. The problem is that men cannot read what’s in your mind so you would have tell them what to do. While it is common that men please you using their tongues and lips (other than through osculation), sometimes they may be a bit reluctant.

If your husband or boyfriend has qualms then there are two things you can do. First, check out the privates. If it looks as though there’s a lush bush thingy going on or something, do something. Just as you won’t go down on him if his thingy is covered in wild growth of bush, chances are he won’t do to you either. So get those pubes nicely trimmed. A nice shave would also do the clean trick.

Don’t be too preoccupied with how your genitals look like. If it doesn’t look like the one’s you see in porn movies, that’s because each woman has a unique anatomy. The vulva’s appearance varies from one girl to another, just as different men do have different penile looks. If men afraid to have an oral sex with the girl, they can have an alternate way! Men can use g spot vibes to their partner to have a perfect orgasm.

Have you been thinking of buying an intimate wash because you’re worried that the sweet spots don’t smell sweet after all? Now, we cannot tell you to stop using them. But mind you, your vagina does have a natural secretion of fluids that act like a male “turn-on”. Washing your intimate zones too frequently can be not so ok after all. Stop living in the delusion that your vagina must smell like perfume. It won’t. Fact is that this hot zone is a self-maintaining organ, capable of cleaning itself most especially during arousal when it secretes lots of clear fluid. That natural odor could actually make your man go crazy over your sweet, lovely spot.

Do not hesitate to tell him to go slow or fast when you feel he should do so. Cunnilingus is actually an excellent way to stimulate the clitoris. It’s better for clitoral stimulation than intercourse is.

Don’t forget that while oral sex may be a little safer than intercourse, you should still use some protection like dental dams. This is safer like you are playing with  fun vibes. Women should not get pregnant on an oral sex. If you don’t like to use these devices, then make sure you are both healthy.

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Finger Vibrators

From being regarded as taboo during the Victorian era, masturbation both for males and females, has come to be seen as a normal occurrence and even as an important factor in sexual health.  As a result several sex toys such as finger vibrator and dildos have been developed to make masturbation a more pleasurable if not easier and less tiring activity to indulge in.  What is a finger vibrator, what is it used for and how does it work?

Finger Vibrators

Finger Vibrators

Vibrators in general are used for the same purpose a person may have in acquiring other types of sex toys such as a dildo or fleshlight—sexual stimulation and orgasm.  Finger vibrators are sex toys usually used by women to stimulate their erogenous zones and clitoris.  They are used by females during masturbation or can be used by couples during foreplay as a means of stimulating sexual arousal for women.  These electrically powered devices contain a small motor which causes it to vibrate.

Some models allow the user to adjust the frequency of the vibrations thus controlling the intensity of the stimulation she receives from the device.  This degree of control allows the user to prolong or hasten the moment before orgasm.

  Finger Sleeve Rabbit

Finger Sleeve Rabbit

These are usually favored because of their small size making them less ubiquitous than one the size of a life sized penis.  Moreover, again because of their small size, it makes it easier for women to take it around with them without any embarrassment a very personal item such as a full sized dildo could elicit when inadvertently discovered by other people.

These small gadgets are worn around a finger or are shaped in the form of a finger, hence the name for these types of sex toys for women.  It can be made from a variety of materials from plastic to rubber and the choice depends on the preference of how the material feels when used.

The finger vibrator is commonly placed against the clitoris.  The vibrations coming from the device serve to stimulate the clitoris resulting in sexual arousal and eventually orgasm.  They may also be placed in other erogenous zones such as the breast and the anus for the same results.

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Water Proof Rabbit Vibrator – Rechargeable

Save money and enjoy this sweet little water proof rabbit vibrator. Plug it in while you are at school or work, and when you get home this little sweetie is all charged for up to 60 minutes sweet pleasure. Even jump in the bath and relax with a little bit of help. Clean, simple, and you don’t have to buy batteries every time you turn around because this one is waterproof rabbit vibrator is fully rechargeable.

Rabbit Vibrator

Rabbit Vibrator

Nice toy for travel too. Not too big, nice colour and easy to pack. This is a great vibrator and you don’t have to leave home to buy it. Just order over the internet and have it delivered to your home.

Did I mention that this rabbit vibrator has two speeds too? A rabbit vibrator is a great way to love yourself with it’s little bunny ears that massages your clit and a beautiful shape to it too. Most girls claim that these are the only thing to buy if you want a toy or vibrator that brings you pleasure.

So if you are thinking about a way to love yourself or you want to show your lady love how to make herself happy every single time think about buying a new rabbit vibrator!

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Get The Most Out Of Lovemaking

Enhance Lovemaking By Incorporating Toys Into Your Bedroom Routine

Rabbit Vibrator

Rabbit Vibrator

Even in this day and age many women find it difficult to assess their bedroom needs and communicate them to their mate. Most men want their partners to be able to enjoy themselves as much as possible and will go to great lengths to help this happen. Try experimenting with different positions to achieve the best results, sometimes only a slight change in angle will make a big difference in what a female feels during sex. If its difficult to maintain these angles try using pillows and blankets to help with support.

Often a woman will also take longer to reach a state of orgasm then her partner does. If this is the case ask him to take the time to manually stimulate you, either orally or with his hands, for however long it takes to make this happen. Most men are more than willing to wait for the female and help her in this way.

Lastly, sex toys and dildos are a sure way to make sure you reach the physical plateau you’re looking for. They come in a wide range of types and sizes with and without vibration. A very popular choice is the rabbit vibrator. If you’ve never used one before and are apprehensive, start simply. Make sure your partner isn’t intimidated by your interest in toys by letting him help you choose one and letting him perform the stimulation.

If you’re shy about buying sex toys online on the high street, our online store can help. We will ship your selection to you in an unmarked box so no one needs to know besides you and your mate.

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Rabbit Vibrators Great Couples Sex Toy

Who says your Rabbit has to remain in his hole when your man comes over for the evening? You can incorporate Rabbit vibrators in couple sex for even more exciting fun. Because rabbit vibrators are designed to give the most sexual pleasure possible to the female, they are a favorite masturbation tool. However, you don’t have to keep your Rabbit hidden away when you can share the fun.

You can add your partner to the mix in a number of different ways and this type of sex play can actually bring the two of you closer together. There are also rabbit vibrators being made without the shaft and just as a clitoral stimulation tool. These can easily be incorporated into your couple sex while your partner penetrates you. You can also use the rabbit to masturbate together or to warm up for other sexual activities.

Rabbit vibrators can also be used for anal stimulation so many men find them enjoyable as well. If this is one of your favorite sex toys, you might be very excited about the thought of brining it to the bedroom and sharing it with your partner as well. Whether your partner uses it on you, watches you use it or you use it in combination with regular intercourse, there are a great number of ways to enjoy rabbit vibrators with couple sex.

If you want to incorporate rabbit vibrators in couple sex but you’re not sure how your partner will take the idea, you should talk to them first. Take some time to communicate about sex and sex toys when outside the bedroom. Find out how your partner feels about this sort of thing and then ask about using the rabbit in the bedroom.

You may have a partner that’s excited and turned on by the thought of you adding your rabbit to the bedroom but if you have a partner that seems threatened by the thought of sex toys during lovemaking, take your time introducing the idea and be sure to remind your partner that you are happy and content with the sexual relationship you have.

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