February 9, 2012

How to take care of your dildo

Let’s talk about the most ubiquitous of all “woman” sex toys—the dildo.  Realistic vibrating dildos are phallus-shaped sex toys meant for penetration into the vagina or the rectum.  These toys have been around for centuries and have changed little in purpose and shape except in the types of materials they used.  In times past, dildos could be made of polished wood, stone, marble, or glass.  Nowadays synthetic materials such as plastics, silicone and even materials which feel like real skin have been used in making these sex toys.  These sex toys now also contain small motors which allow the toy to vibrate for that extra “buzz”.

No matter the type of materials they are made of or whether they vibrate or not, they all require care in order to allow them to perform the function for which they were designed properly and safely.  Here are some tips you can use to take care of your dildo.

No matter the type of dildo you have, you will have to keep it clean.  This is not only a thing one has to do in order to make sure your toy remains in good working order but it is also a measure you should undertake to avoid contracting disease or infection.  A dildo is meant to be inserted into the vagina or the anus.  These parts of the body often do contain microorganisms and bacteria which can be harmful to people.

How you clean your toy depends on the type of material it is made of.  For most cases, washing your toy with warm soap and water will do the trick.  Wash your toy every time after you use it.  If your toy has batteries or contains a small motor, make sure you take off the batteries first and do not allow the battery compartment or the part with the remote vibrator motor to get wet.  Never submerge a toy which runs on batteries or electricity.

There are commercially prepared sex toy cleaners available in the market.  Keep in mind however that some cleaners which can be oil-based can damage the surface of some toys made of plastic or silicone.  It would be a safe bet to get something water-based in order to minimize your chances of damaging the toy.

Never keep used batteries inside your toy for extended periods of time.  If you do not plan to use your dildo for an extended duration, make sure you remove the batteries before you put your toy away.

Follow these tips to ensure your toy keeps on giving you the sexual satisfaction you need for a long time.

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Delightful Tips on Men’s Sex Toys

You might have heard a lot about vibrators and all those sex aids for ladies, but men want to have their share of fun too. As you may have read, men are more sexually inclined than women are. So it’s not surprising for men to find themselves caressing their precious endowment time after time. It’s basic human nature—male nature. Manufacturers of sex toys want to aid men in their solo flicks and so have come up with a few items that could further their solo thrill. Men’s sex toys are just as popular as vibrators and they come in varieties.

  • Men who want to keep harder erections longer should invest in penis rings, which are rather cheap devices, small enough to be carried anywhere. They come in various colors and designs and their main function is to keep the blood in the shaft to prevent premature loss of erection during intercourse.
  • Vibrators may not seem fit to be men’s sex toys but they can. If these toys can stimulate her erogenous zones then they can also tease his sensitive spots too. A man can borrow his lover’s vibe and put it against his hardness to enjoy vibrations. Since you may not dare use a penile shaped vibrator, there are vibrators designed for neutral sex. Essentially, any toy that vibrates is classified as a vibrator, so a vibrating penile and vibrating bullets are one—basically a cock ring with an attached vibrating bullet that can either stimulate the scrotum or the woman’s clitoris during sex.
  • If you want to explore how to lengthen your dong by a few centimeters, then a penile pump is the way to go. However, they have somehow lost a lot of reputation regarding the lengthening factor because the advantages were extremely feeble. But any male user can enjoy the sheer sensation of the vacuum suction action. Some units actually come with vibration mechanism that brings joy to a different level.
  • Most men want toys that make their solo moments so pleasurable. If you are one of them, you need a big man masturbator and there are a lot of masturbators in the market. A simple penile sleeve does wonders of giving men a different sensation neither the right nor the left palm could imitate. Masturbators also come as Fleshlights, pocket pussies, and Tenga masturbators. These men’s sex toys equal women’s rabbits.

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Blow up dolls for women

When it comes to sex toys, the objects most known to be used by women are vibrators, dildos and Ben Wa balls.  Blow up dolls are usually considered a sex toy used by men.  There is however, such a thing as a womens blow up doll.

The womens blow up doll is a life size representation of a human male.  Usually made of rubber just like jelly vibes or some other stretchable material, it is inflated with air before it is to be used.  These dolls usually come with a detachable penis made of plastic or firmer material suitable for anal or vaginal penetration.  Just like blow up dolls for males these sex toys meant for women are meant as masturbation aids and to add a little more realism to playing out one’s fantasies alone.

Although this can add a certain degree of realism to a woman’s solo session, most blow up dolls for women have rudimentary facial and body details.   It is still one’s imagination that will mostly help you go where you want to go.

Some couples use love dolls to keep the faith in long distance relationships.  Being away from a loved one for long periods of time does not mean that one will cease to have sexual urges that need to be satisfied.  The use of blow up dolls can be a safe, disease and guilt-free alternative for sexual gratification for couples who are forced to be away from each other.  When together, these sex toys can also serve as a prop for role playing or other sexy games the couple can play to add a little spice and novelty to their intimate sessions. Also an alternative way when your partner is away, and an alternative for any classic vibes.

Besides sexual gratification, these sex toys are meant as party gags and humorous presents for bridal showers or hen parties.  Giving a blow up doll to the bride to be can be a cheap, guilt-free alternative to the usual and traditional events that happen during these types of celebrations.

Other uses have also been found for male blow up dolls.  Recently they have found use as confidence aids to women who drive alone.  The male blow up doll is inflated and put in the passenger seat of the car.   The presence of the doll is meant to make women less nervous when they drive through dark streets alone.

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Unique foreplay ideas

Tired of the same old thing when it comes to sex?  A little effort and creativity can go a long way in coming up with unique foreplay ideas that are sure to rock his or her world tonight.  Here are some ideas you can try out.

Before anything, keep in mind that foreplay is not limited to the physical stimulation of your partner’s erogenous zones.  There are non-physical techniques one can try out for a change from the usual.  These non-physical techniques include naughty games, playing with fun vibes, verbal play and fantasy fulfillment or role playing.

There are a hundred ways to skin a cat and the same goes with foreplay.  Only your imagination and the effort you choose to put to it will be the factors that can limit the possibilities to unique foreplay.  One thing you can try out is to turn foreplay into a game.  Strip poker and strip blackjack are games that come to mind right away.  One can also play these games for “foreplay vouchers” in which the stakes are pieces of paper which contain physical foreplay techniques.  For instance, a “voucher” could allow the holder to receive oral sex from his or her partner.

Are you a stingy lover? Don’t be especially when it comes to telling your special someone how pretty or how aroused they make you feel.  Verbal foreplay appeals to the mental side of sex.  this is different from playing with favorite vibrators.  This particular aspect of sex is often neglected by people, especially males.  What one should know is that one’s mental state plays a great role in generating and deepening sexual arousal.  Get your partner ready for sex by whispering to your loved one how you’d like to get it on with her or that she or he turns you on so much that you feel like ripping his or her clothes off right there and then.  Does your partner like to talk dirty? Try doing it during your intimate sessions and you might find yourself enjoying it too.

Sexual fantasies also address the mental aspect of sex.  Partners can agree to play out a scenario they have sexual fantasies about and role play to help them get in the mood faster and to deepen their sexual arousal.  Some scenarios partner’s can try are the doctor-patient and bar pick-up scenarios.  Sexual fantasies are not limited to scenarios either.  Your partner’s or your sexual fantasy may involve employing a particular foreplay technique or the use of jelly vibrators, sex toys and adult novelties.

These are just some ideas you can use for a unique sexual experience.  Have fun!

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Sex Toys UK

Some countries do not allow sex toys. UK residents, Japanese citizens and other countries, on the other hand have it better as the existence of sex toys and fun vibes are tolerated and sold very openly.

This is particularly true in Japan.  The sex toy industry in that country is a booming business with a range of products that will boggle the mind.  There are vending machines available on the streets which dispense anything from a tiny scantily clad anime-based figure to cock rings and vibrators.

India, on the other hand has outlawed and banned sex toys.  This factoid becomes remarkable when you remember that the oldest and most popular sex manual, the Kama Sutra, was written in and written by Indians.  Sex toys are mentioned in the Kama Sutra as there are references to realistic vibrating dildos and life-size wooden dolls used during sex.  Despite the ban, sex toys are sold underground and seems to be a thriving industry estimated to value at about $107 million a year.

Even in the United States not all states allow the purchase or selling of sex toys.  Some southern states such as Alabama and Texas have banned and prohibited sex toys which are considered “obscene devices”.  Besides Alabama and Texas, Mississippi, Georgia and Virginia also have laws which for not allow sex toys in their state.   The reasoning behind these pieces of legislation seems to be that the state has the right to regulate these devices as there is no fundamental right for a person to buy a device to produce orgasm.  Advocates of sex toys on the other hand have argued that interference by the State on the use of these devices violates the constitutional right to privacy.

This also is astonishing since the US has projected itself as a bastion of freedom.  In these States, it is legal for one person to purchase a gun and illegal to purchase sex toys.  UK residents, Japanese citizens and other countries seem to enjoy a greater amount of freedom as regards this aspect.

The National Association for Sexual Awareness and Empowerment, a US based organization advocating the freedom to distribute and sell sex toys state that the ban on these devices stems from the ignorance of law makers on hot to use sex toys and vibrators, their effects, and stereotypes.  The NSAE continues to work towards lifting the ban on sexual devices in these states.

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How to Play with Anal Sex Toys Unharmed

Anal penetration can be fun but hurt you right if you are careless. Anal sex toys and vibrators usually do not come with instructions. So if you want to know how to use one, look for information online. Your initial anal encounter may not pleasing. In fact, you may feel a bit of discomfort even with narrow toys.

You want to be conscious about the size. Big dildos for your tight butthole are a bad idea. If you are a beginner, try small butt plugs or narrow anal toys. You can buy graduated anal beads as a starter because these toys start with a small bead at the tip with succeeding beads larger.

Use lubrication when inserting a toy into your anus because this is a delicate hole and its lining can easily rupture due to friction. The lubricant should depend on the kind of sex toy you are using. If you are using rubber and latex toys, do not use oil-based lubricants because they destroy them. Water-based lubes are the safest to use for any kind of sex toys.

The muscles of the anal walls have some sort of a suction effect. That is why it is not safe to use toys whose base is of the same size as the body. Did you notice why butt plugs and anal dildos have flared base? The anus is part of the digestive tract. It does not have a roof like the vagina. You can get anything too deep into the rectum that it becomes impossible to remove safely. Anal sex toys and jelly vibes have flared base prevent dangerously deep insertion.

Never insert anything into your anus if it is not specifically for anal play.

Employ patience with anal play. As mentioned earlier, you cannot stuff big toys up your butt to avoid unwanted anal injury. Also do not force anything into your anus if it is getting uncomfortable or painful. Massage the anal sphincter or the opening with lubed fingers to relax the wall muscles there.

Learn to relax and do breathing exercises. Some people get nervous during their first try, and tension gets in the way of sumptuous anal play.

Always remember that the anus is a dirty place. While you may have seen porn flicks of people licking someone’s ass, these do not mean that the butthole is a clean place. There is always fecal matter and bacteria in there. So you have to clean realistic vibrating dildos, butt plugs, or anal beads after using them in your anus. Do not place anal sex toys into vagina without cleaning them first.

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How to Use Bullet Vibrators

One of the most essential additions to bedroom sizzling encounters is bullet vibrators. These toys are small and discreet yet powerful. The small size of these miniature vibes makes them very handy. They can be stuffed in handbags or purses and be brought anywhere. Most bullet vibes and fun vibes don’t look like nasty sex toys at all. They can even disguise as lipsticks or any cosmetic products, so no undue embarrassment if anyone finds out.

Bullets are small yet incredible toys that bring about incredible sensations to the right places. They introduce a different kind of stimulation that no finger or tongue or dong can. A lady can use a bullet by herself or let her man do the favor.

The most important use of a bullet is clitoral stimulation. Clitoris is usually the left out section during intercourse. Without stimulating this part, which is very sensitive, orgasm may not be achieved. Females who fail to orgasm during sex become unhappy with their sex life and with their partners. Luckily, there are small objects that do the trick.

Bullet vibrators are only placed on top of the sensitive spot. Place one steadily on the region or make it go in circles for an awesome experience that can never be duplicated by anything else in this world. This is the real secret to a wonderful orgasm.

While it may be scandalous to bring a rabbit on your island tour, a bullet vibrator evades inspections. Most of the small sex toys can be shown to the inspecting officials with no fear of earning a reputation of a bad girl. But using bullets doesn’t make you a bad girl, especially if they please instead of kill.

There are different kinds of bullets if you don’t know. There are wireless, wired, remote, and egg bullets. There are those that can be neatly and secretly tuck in the panties where none of the officemates can see what’s happening and know why you’re keeping that grin.

Besides clitoral stimulation, they may also be used to tickle the anus and the g-spot and any other areas in the body.

Wait! These lovely bullets may not only be for girls after all. Men can get wildly titillated by placing a vibrating bullet between their shaft and sac for some great erotic experience.

Bullet vibrators are amazing products. Just don’t expect to find them in artillery shops.

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Bondage Sex Toys Advice for Couples

Couples who want to explore the BDSM adventure should use recommended bondage sex toys like vibrators. For starters, there are soft bondage stuff that do not cause harm. Yet bondage play is no risk-free business. You have to know a few things about it.

  • Don’t make restraints very tight. This isn’t torture drama, just being a bit playful. Restraints are the main ingredients of bondage, tied around wrists and ankles—areas that have veins and arteries near the skin surface. For hard restraints, those made of metal or hard plastic, loosening them a bit is important so that they can be easily removed. Accidents can happen from too tight cuffs and collars. Also do not tie any part of the body extremely tightly because this can impair proper blood flow.
  • First timers should try soft bondage sex toys. Usually these are vibe virgins, soft paddles, spankers, furs, ropes, and ticklers.
  • Always check for skin discoloration or pallor. This means the restrains are too tight and must be loosened or removed instantly.
  • Do not leave your partner unable to escape for prolonged period, especially if they are tied by the neck. If something comes up that you need to leave the room, untie them and resume your play when you return.
  • Have safety and emergency materials necessary like around. Make sure that you can remove the ropes, cuffs, collar, and any restraining device easily. If you cannot, you have a problem.
  • The dominant partner should take it real slow at first because being too enthusiastic about it can lead to accidents. Communicate with the submissive partner to make sure what you’re doing is within their tolerable limits.
  • The submissive partner should not just sit there like a rock. Instead you should react to pain and discomfort so the other can do something about it before it gets too risky.
  • Communication is important in bondage. You should set limits and agree on what you’re going to do together. Agree to put a stop to any activity that causes pain and distress. This is just plain role playing you’re doing and not some serious reality drama, so quit when you no longer think it’s safe.
  • Do not try bondage sex toys if you don’t know how to use them because you run a high risk of making hazardous mistakes. Have fun with fun vibes and be thrilled but don’t endanger yourselves.

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The Truth About G Spot

Dr. Ernst Grafenberg, an obstetrician, gave birth to a popular spot in women. It is found inside the vagina, in the ventral portion. The genitalia of females and males are sensitive parts. But in these parts are tissues more sensitive than others. In females, the clitoris and the so-called G-Spot are the most sensitive to touch and stimulation. Other women do touches their spot through the help of g spot vibes and sex toys.

During sexual intercourse, the stimulation of these areas is believed to cause a woman to arrive at a climax. But more women agree that stimulating the Grafenberg Spot causes more intense feelings and more sensational climaxes. This zone is about two to three inches deep in the anterior portion of the vagina. This location, however, varies from female to female.

Stimulating the area may be more difficult than it seems. Penile penetration may not actually touch the area sometimes. So a male may opt to insert his lubricated fingers instead. Or a better way may be through sex toys. There are devices that may be used to reach the controversial region. Realistic vibrating dildos and vibrators may well do the trick. Some vibrators are curved in a way that they may be able to touch and give some appreciable stimulation to the spot.

It is important to remember when doing insertions into the vagina that proper lubrication be done. This organ is lined with delicate tissue that may suffer from laceration if non-lubricated insertions are made. When doing insertions with the use of fingers or dildos or vibrators, these objects must be lubricated first.

Many anatomy experts believe that the counterpart of the G Spot in males is the area in the rectum near the prostate gland. In females, this extremely sensitive zone is surrounded with thick tissue which becomes engorged in blood when excited. Because the spot is engulfed in dense tissue, a sufficient penetration and stimulation may be necessary to bring noticeable sensations. In some women, however, the stimulation in the area seems to yield no change in sensations. Some do not even feel the difference. Some feel like urinating upon the stimulation of the area. Nevertheless, the G Spot is an important spot during moments of intimacy.

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How to use sex toys with a partner

So you want to take your intimate moments with your special one to the next level?   The use of sex toys and vibrators can help do this for you.  Here are some tips on how to use sex toys with your partner.

For many who have never used sex toys and fun vibes before, the idea of using these objects in their sack sessions may be daunting.  So the first step is to convince your partner that couple’s sex toys could make a spectacular time with him or her even better.  A good tactic would be to encourage his or her participation in your search for the perfect sex toy for the both of you.  Allowing him or her to participate in the selection process will allow your partner to choose a toy that will not intimidate him or her, making him or her more open to the prospect of using these toys during your quality time together.  Moreover, it will save you a whole lot of guesswork in trying to figure out what toy he or she would be most turned on by.

Another tip on how to use sex toys with a partner is to go slow.  You do want the experience to be as pleasurable for your partner as it is for you.  This is not only because of genuine affection or love for him or her but also because you do want the experience to be repeated.  It is of course common sense that a person would be more willing to repeat undergoing a pleasurable experience than a bad one.  For instance if the toy vibrates like remote vibrating and has a variable speed setting, try putting it at the lowest level first and asking him or her where he or she wants the toy placed.  If the toy both of you acquired is meant for penetration, it would be wise to engage in your regular foreplay first to put him or her at ease and to use adequate lubrication.

Make sure your partner knows that he or she should voice out any discomfort he or she feels.  And when he or she does so, stop using the toy.  On the other hand, he or she should also let you know if it feels good so that you can proceed.  If the toy is being used on you, let your partner know too, what works and what does not.

Should it be all systems go, there is nothing left but to fully immerse yourself and enjoy the experience.

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