February 9, 2012

Steps to Play with Soft Vibrators

Soft vibrators are  jelly vibrators and made of jelly, rubber, silicone, or cyberskin. They may range from those limp toys to those firm but still possess some suppleness. A soft vibrator may also refer to one that can be easily bent. In any case, these products can be used for intense pleasure. Their softness does not impede the vibrating capacity of the sex toy. Here are some of the things to consider if you are playing with a soft vibrating sex toy.

1.       Clean the sex toy before using it. Sometimes, the seller may not tell you to clean their products before using them. But it is much of your responsibility to clean the toys if you are to use them. However, be careful that you don’t soak the motor or you can say good bye to your sweet vibrations.

2.       Know what your vibrator can and cannot do. Soft vibrators can do things that hard ones cannot. For example, if you want to experience how it is like to be penetrated by a hard shaft, metal vibrators should be your option. Many soft vibes are gentle to the skin and to your vagina. Some may not be built for penetration. For instance, some soft vibes provide nice precise vibrations to the clitoris. Knowing what that vibrator can do informs you how to use that sex toy and spares you from disappointment.

3.       Do not forget the lube. Most girls forget that lubes are important when playing with fun vibes. All right, you think you don’t need it because you can produce the juices down there but you can’t always rely on your natural lubrication. So, always have a bottle of water-based lube handy—in case you may need some help should your fluids flow no more. Yes, water-based because it is the safest type of lube.

4.       Call up your lover and tell them you don’t want to play alone. There is absolutely nothing wrong with playing alone. If you are single, then you have all your time to explore your sexuality using a good vibe. But if you have a boyfriend, have him around because he can only make your playtime moment hotter. Any vibrators can be shared by couples—no matter how big it is or what it looks like. You can let your man feel the nice sensation of vibrations to his sensitivities, or you can let him grab the vibrator so he can please you.

Don’t miss soft vibrators in your sex toy collection because they can stimulate you in unique ways.

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Advice on Sex Toys for Women

There are several kinds of sex toys for women and couples sex toys available in the market.  Besides the different designs, colors, and sizes, one will also have to take into consideration the kind of material one wants her toy to be made of.

The kind of material sex toys for women are made of have their particular advantages and disadvantages.  If you are unsure about what kind of material you want your toy to be made of, here is a quick rundown of the more common materials with their pros and cons.

Plastic is one of the most common materials found in sex toys.  It is nonporous which makes it easy to clean.  It is a hard material which makes it ideal if the sex toy you are using is a vibrator.  Plastic is able to transmit vibrations efficiently which is why plastic vibrators are known as strong vibrators.

While plastic may be a good choice of material for vibrators, the same qualities make it not so ideal for dildos.  This is because it is hard, inflexible and very un-lifelike.

Silicone is another synthetic nonporous material which is said to feel very life like.  It has the right balance of firmness and softness which makes it feel like real skin and using the toy is said to feel almost like the real thing.  It is able to reach and retain body temperature quickly and is easily cleaned.

Toys made of pure silicone however can be more expensive than toys made of other materials.

Another material used to make sex toys is called jelly.  Jelly is very easy to mold and shape.  One of this is the jelly vibrators. These toys also come in a wide variety of colors.  It is soft and pleasurable and can feel very pleasant when used.  Moreover, jelly toys are usually inexpensive.

Jelly is a porous material, making it difficult to clean thoroughly.  Moreover, using some harsh cleaning agents can easily degrade or damage the material.  A special sex toy cleaner or mild antibacterial soap is the best way to clean a toy made of jelly.  Using a non lubricated condom will help you keep your toy clean.

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Advice on Sex Toys for Her

Some women have difficulty reaching orgasm.  When this is the case with your special woman, sex toys for her may be the answer to help her enjoy sex more and get her where she wants to go more often. Use some sex toys for couples when having a sex with a partner to help your woman reaching an orgasm.

There are several kinds of adult novelties meant for women’s use.  These are designed to stimulate women in different ways.  So that you will be able to choose the right sex toys for her, you must be aware of the way she likes being sexually stimulated and how she likes being aroused.

Once you have settled on a sex toy which you think will work for her like a male sex toys, this does not mean you should just go ahead and use it right away.  There are some things you must do to ensure that the experience becomes as pleasurable for her as it is for you and something which she will want to use again.

Before using sex toys for her, you have to make sure that it is clean.  Even a new toy out of the box should be cleaned as these may still have some chemical residue left over from the manufacturing process on its surface.  These chemicals may cause the person using the sex toy irritation in very sensitive places.  The sex toy should also be cleaned after every use to avoid it becoming a breeding ground for dangerous microorganisms.  Follow the instructions and recommendations of the manufacturer as regards the method of cleaning and the cleaning agent one should use.

Just because you have a sex toy does not mean you should forego foreplay either.  Sex toys can be used with foreplay or may require a little foreplay before they can be used.  This is especially true for sex toys such as anal or vaginal dildos which are inserted into the body cavities.  Inserting a toy into the vagina or anus can be extremely uncomfortable if your partner is not relaxed or thoroughly sexually aroused.

Also, make sure you have and use an adequate amount of sex toy lubricant when playing with penetrative toys.  Toys like vibrators. While the vagina does generate its own natural lubricant, this is often inadequate for the job as some sex toy materials absorb these fluids.  Playing with these toys without lubrication can be extremely uncomfortable and painful for her.

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Sex Toy Party Ideas

If you are looking for an alternative to the usual girl night out, but still want to go a little naughty then consider holding a sex toy party.

A sex toy party usually involves the selling and displaying of adult novelties, sex toys and some of vibrators.  These sex toy parties are usually employed by representatives of adult novelty stores called sex toy party consultants to introduce and demonstrate their wares to prospective clients.  If you want to hold a sex toy party, calling a sex toy party consultant may be the best way to go.

If however, you are just after some fun and are not really keen on the sales aspect, here are some ideas you can use to hold a sex toy-themed party.

One idea you can use is to hold an adult-version of a pajama party.  Ask them to come to the party in their sleeping wear and to bring a sex toy which they consider their favorite like fun female vibrators and classic vibes.  If they have had no prior experience with sex toys, ask them to choose something which looks interesting and which they would think about using.  At the party, ask them to bring their toy out and explain how they use it or think it is used.  Offer a prize for the person with the best story.

Come up with interesting parlor games with a naughty or funny twist.  For instance one can have a contest on who can peel a banana sing only the mouth—no hands allowed.   Another game could be what is called regaining your virginity.  Ask your friends who among them would like to get back their virginity and explain to them that all they have to do is to eat a cherry out of the bowl without using their hands.  After explaining the rules and giving them each a bowl with a cherry in it, fill the bowl with whipped cream and then tell them to begin.

You can also live up to the sexy theme of your party by offering drinks with suggestive names such as sex on the beach, blowjob, or screaming orgasm.  Cakes or cookies shaped in sexually suggestive themes could also serve as refreshments during your party.

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Tips for Lesbian Sex Toys: Using A Strap on Dildo

Lesbian sex toys such as strap on dildos and  strap on vibrators are popular sex toys for those who prefer girl-on-girl action.  These sex toys allow couples to simulate sexual intercourse without the need to use one’s hands to manipulate the dildo.

A strap on dildo is composed of a harness which can be in the style of a thong or a jock strap and a dildo.  When it comes to kinds of harnesses, these have their advantages and disadvantages.  A thong type of harness provides a more stable platform for the attached dildo while a jock strap harness is more comfortable to wear.

The dildos used in strap on toys come in all shapes, sizes, textures and colors.  They all however have a flared base which allows it to be secured to the harness.

These lesbian sex toys are meant for vaginal or anal penetration and can be vehicles for disease or infection if not cleaned properly.  The cleaning agent and method one uses to clean these adult novelties depends on the type of material it is made of.  To know what type of material your toy is made of, consult the instruction manual or the toy’s packaging.  If this is no longer possible, most toys can be washed with warm water and mild antibacterial soap.  You may also choose to put a condom over the realistic vibrating dildos to keep it clean.

Since dildos are meant for anal or vaginal penetration, one should ensure that one’s partner is thoroughly sexually aroused and relaxed before attempting to insert the toy.  One can deepen the sexual arousal of one’s partner by engaging in foreplay.  Discomfort and pain can result if one attempts to insert the toy without the person being sufficiently aroused.

Another tip when using toys and vibrators which can be inserted into body cavities is to ensure that you have and use sex toy or personal lubricant.  While the vagina does generate its own natural lubrication, this is not adequate to keep things discomfort free as some sex toy materials absorb these fluids.  This becomes even more important when intending to use it for anal penetration as the anus does not generate any natural lubrication.

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Glass Sex Toys Advice

Glass sex toys are one of the most sought after adult novelties and vibrators, not only because they feel great but because they are beautiful objects too.

These adult novelties have several advantages too over their counterparts made of other materials.  They are hypoallergenic and nonporous which makes cleaning and keeping the toy clean hassle free.  These toys are also incredibly smooth requiring less lubricant for use than other sex toys.  These toys also hold temperature well and one can heat or freeze glass sex toys for a different kind of experience.

Because of these qualities however, they can also be more expensive than adult novelties made of other kinds of materials such as plastic, silicone, jelly for jelly vibrators, or rubber.

High quality glass sex toys are made of borosilicate glass.  Known under the brand name of Pyrex, this material is incredibly durable and is able to withstand pressures and temperatures which will make ordinary glass crack or shatter.  Thus, when looking to acquire glass sex toys, make sure that it is made of borosilicate glass.  If your glass toy has a bubble or crack, it may not be suitable for use and may be brittle.

While borosilicate glass is incredibly durable it can still break when dropped on a hard surface.  Moreover, when a glass sex toy is exposed to sudden temperature extremes it can become brittle and develop cracks.  Once a glass toy is chipped or cracked it is no longer suitable for use as the risk of it shattering at very inconvenient times is greatly increased.  Thus avoid heating your toy straight from the freezer of freezing it just after it has been heated.

Glass is a nonporous material.  This does not mean that it can be left unclean without risk of it being a health hazard.   Since glass is a nonporous material, this makes it easier to clean.  Glass sex toys can be washed with warm water and antibacterial soap, bleached and disinfected with alcohol.  It can also be sterilized in boiling water as a further measure to kill dangerous, disease causing microorganisms just like cleaning the silver bullet vibrators.

Glass sex toys can be easily acquired through online adult novelty stores.

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Advice on Gay Sex toy

Many adult novelties meant for the use of men have often been labeled as a gay sex toy.  This is probably due to the fact that their use is closely related to sexual activities usually indulged in or enjoyed by gay men.

The problem with calling an adult novelty a gay sex toy is that it may put off heterosexual men who can enjoy the use of a toy as much as a gay man.  For a few brave heterosexual men who have managed to overcome the misconceptions of these kinds of adult novelties, sex with a woman has been even better than before.  One must simply keep in mind that using these sex toys or strap on vibes does not make one change his sexual orientation.  It is simply a new and great way to experience sex.

Many sex toys meant for men’s use involve anal penetration.  What makes anal penetration pleasurable for men is that it is through the walls of the rectum that the prostate can be stimulated.  The prostate is a small nerve-covered organ which is responsible for generating the fluid which is used to deliver sperm into the vagina.  Stimulation of the prostate is said to result in very intense climax and ejaculation.

One such anal toy designed to stimulate the prostate is the anal plug.  These are bullet shaped toys with a flared base like bullet vibrators.  The toy is meant to be inserted into the anus and left there while the person using it engages in sexual intercourse.  The natural movements of intercourse moves the toy against the prostate stimulating it.  The flared base keeps the toy from penetrating too deeply as to prevent easy recovery.

Another kind of toy for anal use is the jelly vibes, anal dildo or anal wand.  These toys are longer and slimmer than butt plugs and are meant to be manipulated by a partner.  These toys simulate anal intercourse and can have bumps and curves so that they are better able to access the prostate.

Anal beads are another type of sex toy which consist of small spheres attached together in a series.  The beads or balls are meant to be inserted into the anus one at a time and then removed at varying speeds to hasten or enhance sexual climax.

When using anal toys, make sure you use an adequate amount of sex toy lubricant to prevent discomfort or injury.

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Preparing Him for Pegging

Pegging is the act of stimulating your man’s anus with a dildo worn around your waist. Making you man
experience anal intercourse can be tough because many guys are not receptive to it because they think
it is associated with homosexuality. If your man is into it, then you should learn the tricks to give him a
fun anal intercourse.

First of all, you have to train his tight hole. Men have a sensitive area in their anus. This area is called
the P-spot, a region near his prostate gland, and massaging this area produces amazing sensations. You
should try exploring this region even if you have no plans to engage in pegging with him. Anal training
may be done using a finger or anal sex toys. A popular anal sex toy for training the anus is the butt plug.
Do not insert anything into his hole without sufficient lubrication.

The purpose of anal training is to accustom his anus to penetration. Start with thin anal toys. Since
pegging involves dildos, you can introduce dildos to him, and assure him he’s not going to get gay.

Pegging is also your chance to experience how it feels like to move those hips while thrusting your thing
into and out of him. While you may enjoy this, watch out for signs of pain and discomfort. The anus is
such a tight, delicate hole that can easily get injured.

What is sleek, shiny, silver and black all over? It’s the Chippendale’s Diva vibrator from Babeland sex toys. The Diva is a fancy luxury vibe and you can tell it’s a luxury just by looking at it. I am thrilled that I was given the chance to review it! The Diva is made of smooth ABS plastic and measures in at 5 inches long. Each end of the vibrator is about 2 1/2 inches wide. One end is the battery compartment, which is opened by pulling off the end cap.

Here’s a link about diva vibrator.

Chippendale’s Diva vibrator review

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How to clean anal sex toys

Anal sex toys are great sex toys which have provided both men and women a different but pleasurable sexual experience.

As can be gathered from their name, these toys are designed for anal penetration.  For men, anal penetration allows for the stimulation of the prostate, a small nerve covered organ responsible for the creation of the fluid which transports sperm to the vagina.  Stimulation of the prostate is said to result in hastened and more intense climax.

For women, the pleasurable sensations of anal play stems from the sensitive nerves around the anus.  Inserting toys into the anal cavity stimulates this nerves which, when done right can be pleasurable for women.

While anal sex toys do provide a great means to enjoy sexual play, cleaning these toys properly is essential if using it will continue to be a pleasurable experience.  Sex toys if left unclean can become a breeding ground for disease causing microorganisms and can become a vehicle for transmitting it too.  This is especially true for anal sex toys which by virtue of their use, is exposed to environments which are anything but sanitary.

The first thing that should be kept in mind is when to clean anal sex toys like anal invader cock cage.  These adult novelties should be cleaned before use and as soon as possible after use and before storing and putting it away.

The proper way to clean anal sex toys depends on the material it is made of.  This is because some cleaning agents and cleaning methods may damage one’s toy.  In order to determine the material your toy is made of consult the packaging of your sex toy or the instruction manual.  Always follow the manufacturer’s recommendations when cleaning your sex toy.

For toys made of plastic and silicone, these can be cleaned with antibacterial soap and rubbing alcohol.  Silicone toys can also be boiled for three to five minutes to further sterilize them.

Toys made of porous materials such as jelly vibrators or cyberskin should be cleaned using a special sex toy cleaner.  They can also be cleaned using a mild antibacterial soap.  Never use alcohol to clean these anal sex toys as alcohol can damage the material which the toy is made of.

If your toy is one which vibrates like vibrating bullets, make sure you take out the batteries or unplug it from its power source before cleaning.  Moreover, take extra care to make sure that water does not enter the parts containing the motor, battery compartment, and switches.

Finally, make sure your toy is thoroughly dry before storing it.  Anal sex toys made of porous materials have to be thoroughly air dried whereas those of non-porous materials can be wiped dry with a clean cloth.

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Vibrators versus Boyfriends

Can vibrators actually replace your boyfriend? Well, let’s put it this way. No dong in the world can
vibrate. And this is why vibrators are hot! Girls love them because they bring about new sensations that
cannot be experienced during any typical sex.

Vibrators come in different sizes just as men’s precious thingies do, but the former come in much wider
range of sizes—from a 2mm bullet to a 10-inch juicy rabbit. Some vibes out there can add more inches.
Well size can matter, especially if you’re into serious discretion. Discreet vibrators may not go any bigger
than 5 inches and have cute shapes. The good thing is they don’t look like any of your boyfriend’s real
toy.

These sex toys come handy during lonely nights when no one’s with you. Many girls testify that they
experience more awesome sensations—sensations they had never experienced in sexual intercourse.
That’s because vibrations stimulate every part of your sensitive places. Some vibrators are equipped
with clitoral stimulation so you could experience both clitoral stimulation and vaginal penetration at the
same time.

However, vibrators do come with limitations too. Unlike your boyfriend, they cannot treat you out for
dinner and won’t even kiss you or hug you. Can you actually tell who wins in this match? Well, the good
thing is you can have both!

Judy Va-Va Bloom Bloomberg is a longtime advocate of toys. Why?

“Because the only woman who knows  where her man is at all times is a widow,” she quips.

And every blue moon, the New York toy lover throws a party for shy girls looking to explore. Ms. Va-Va Bloom and Friends* will host a Girls & Toys party to celebrate National Orgasm Month.

Here’s a link about operated boyfriend.

5 Rules For Your New Battery Operated Boyfriend

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