May 23, 2012

Steps to Play with Soft Vibrators

Soft vibrators are  jelly vibrators and made of jelly, rubber, silicone, or cyberskin. They may range from those limp toys to those firm but still possess some suppleness. A soft vibrator may also refer to one that can be easily bent. In any case, these products can be used for intense pleasure. Their softness does not impede the vibrating capacity of the sex toy. Here are some of the things to consider if you are playing with a soft vibrating sex toy.

1.       Clean the sex toy before using it. Sometimes, the seller may not tell you to clean their products before using them. But it is much of your responsibility to clean the toys if you are to use them. However, be careful that you don’t soak the motor or you can say good bye to your sweet vibrations.

2.       Know what your vibrator can and cannot do. Soft vibrators can do things that hard ones cannot. For example, if you want to experience how it is like to be penetrated by a hard shaft, metal vibrators should be your option. Many soft vibes are gentle to the skin and to your vagina. Some may not be built for penetration. For instance, some soft vibes provide nice precise vibrations to the clitoris. Knowing what that vibrator can do informs you how to use that sex toy and spares you from disappointment.

3.       Do not forget the lube. Most girls forget that lubes are important when playing with fun vibes. All right, you think you don’t need it because you can produce the juices down there but you can’t always rely on your natural lubrication. So, always have a bottle of water-based lube handy—in case you may need some help should your fluids flow no more. Yes, water-based because it is the safest type of lube.

4.       Call up your lover and tell them you don’t want to play alone. There is absolutely nothing wrong with playing alone. If you are single, then you have all your time to explore your sexuality using a good vibe. But if you have a boyfriend, have him around because he can only make your playtime moment hotter. Any vibrators can be shared by couples—no matter how big it is or what it looks like. You can let your man feel the nice sensation of vibrations to his sensitivities, or you can let him grab the vibrator so he can please you.

Don’t miss soft vibrators in your sex toy collection because they can stimulate you in unique ways.

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Advice on Sex Toys for Women

There are several kinds of sex toys for women and couples sex toys available in the market.  Besides the different designs, colors, and sizes, one will also have to take into consideration the kind of material one wants her toy to be made of.

The kind of material sex toys for women are made of have their particular advantages and disadvantages.  If you are unsure about what kind of material you want your toy to be made of, here is a quick rundown of the more common materials with their pros and cons.

Plastic is one of the most common materials found in sex toys.  It is nonporous which makes it easy to clean.  It is a hard material which makes it ideal if the sex toy you are using is a vibrator.  Plastic is able to transmit vibrations efficiently which is why plastic vibrators are known as strong vibrators.

While plastic may be a good choice of material for vibrators, the same qualities make it not so ideal for dildos.  This is because it is hard, inflexible and very un-lifelike.

Silicone is another synthetic nonporous material which is said to feel very life like.  It has the right balance of firmness and softness which makes it feel like real skin and using the toy is said to feel almost like the real thing.  It is able to reach and retain body temperature quickly and is easily cleaned.

Toys made of pure silicone however can be more expensive than toys made of other materials.

Another material used to make sex toys is called jelly.  Jelly is very easy to mold and shape.  One of this is the jelly vibrators. These toys also come in a wide variety of colors.  It is soft and pleasurable and can feel very pleasant when used.  Moreover, jelly toys are usually inexpensive.

Jelly is a porous material, making it difficult to clean thoroughly.  Moreover, using some harsh cleaning agents can easily degrade or damage the material.  A special sex toy cleaner or mild antibacterial soap is the best way to clean a toy made of jelly.  Using a non lubricated condom will help you keep your toy clean.

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Advice on Sex Toys for Her

Some women have difficulty reaching orgasm.  When this is the case with your special woman, sex toys for her may be the answer to help her enjoy sex more and get her where she wants to go more often. Use some sex toys for couples when having a sex with a partner to help your woman reaching an orgasm.

There are several kinds of adult novelties meant for women’s use.  These are designed to stimulate women in different ways.  So that you will be able to choose the right sex toys for her, you must be aware of the way she likes being sexually stimulated and how she likes being aroused.

Once you have settled on a sex toy which you think will work for her like a male sex toys, this does not mean you should just go ahead and use it right away.  There are some things you must do to ensure that the experience becomes as pleasurable for her as it is for you and something which she will want to use again.

Before using sex toys for her, you have to make sure that it is clean.  Even a new toy out of the box should be cleaned as these may still have some chemical residue left over from the manufacturing process on its surface.  These chemicals may cause the person using the sex toy irritation in very sensitive places.  The sex toy should also be cleaned after every use to avoid it becoming a breeding ground for dangerous microorganisms.  Follow the instructions and recommendations of the manufacturer as regards the method of cleaning and the cleaning agent one should use.

Just because you have a sex toy does not mean you should forego foreplay either.  Sex toys can be used with foreplay or may require a little foreplay before they can be used.  This is especially true for sex toys such as anal or vaginal dildos which are inserted into the body cavities.  Inserting a toy into the vagina or anus can be extremely uncomfortable if your partner is not relaxed or thoroughly sexually aroused.

Also, make sure you have and use an adequate amount of sex toy lubricant when playing with penetrative toys.  Toys like vibrators. While the vagina does generate its own natural lubricant, this is often inadequate for the job as some sex toy materials absorb these fluids.  Playing with these toys without lubrication can be extremely uncomfortable and painful for her.

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Sex Toy Party Ideas

If you are looking for an alternative to the usual girl night out, but still want to go a little naughty then consider holding a sex toy party.

A sex toy party usually involves the selling and displaying of adult novelties, sex toys and some of vibrators.  These sex toy parties are usually employed by representatives of adult novelty stores called sex toy party consultants to introduce and demonstrate their wares to prospective clients.  If you want to hold a sex toy party, calling a sex toy party consultant may be the best way to go.

If however, you are just after some fun and are not really keen on the sales aspect, here are some ideas you can use to hold a sex toy-themed party.

One idea you can use is to hold an adult-version of a pajama party.  Ask them to come to the party in their sleeping wear and to bring a sex toy which they consider their favorite like fun female vibrators and classic vibes.  If they have had no prior experience with sex toys, ask them to choose something which looks interesting and which they would think about using.  At the party, ask them to bring their toy out and explain how they use it or think it is used.  Offer a prize for the person with the best story.

Come up with interesting parlor games with a naughty or funny twist.  For instance one can have a contest on who can peel a banana sing only the mouth—no hands allowed.   Another game could be what is called regaining your virginity.  Ask your friends who among them would like to get back their virginity and explain to them that all they have to do is to eat a cherry out of the bowl without using their hands.  After explaining the rules and giving them each a bowl with a cherry in it, fill the bowl with whipped cream and then tell them to begin.

You can also live up to the sexy theme of your party by offering drinks with suggestive names such as sex on the beach, blowjob, or screaming orgasm.  Cakes or cookies shaped in sexually suggestive themes could also serve as refreshments during your party.

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Tips for Lesbian Sex Toys: Using A Strap on Dildo

Lesbian sex toys such as strap on dildos and  strap on vibrators are popular sex toys for those who prefer girl-on-girl action.  These sex toys allow couples to simulate sexual intercourse without the need to use one’s hands to manipulate the dildo.

A strap on dildo is composed of a harness which can be in the style of a thong or a jock strap and a dildo.  When it comes to kinds of harnesses, these have their advantages and disadvantages.  A thong type of harness provides a more stable platform for the attached dildo while a jock strap harness is more comfortable to wear.

The dildos used in strap on toys come in all shapes, sizes, textures and colors.  They all however have a flared base which allows it to be secured to the harness.

These lesbian sex toys are meant for vaginal or anal penetration and can be vehicles for disease or infection if not cleaned properly.  The cleaning agent and method one uses to clean these adult novelties depends on the type of material it is made of.  To know what type of material your toy is made of, consult the instruction manual or the toy’s packaging.  If this is no longer possible, most toys can be washed with warm water and mild antibacterial soap.  You may also choose to put a condom over the realistic vibrating dildos to keep it clean.

Since dildos are meant for anal or vaginal penetration, one should ensure that one’s partner is thoroughly sexually aroused and relaxed before attempting to insert the toy.  One can deepen the sexual arousal of one’s partner by engaging in foreplay.  Discomfort and pain can result if one attempts to insert the toy without the person being sufficiently aroused.

Another tip when using toys and vibrators which can be inserted into body cavities is to ensure that you have and use sex toy or personal lubricant.  While the vagina does generate its own natural lubrication, this is not adequate to keep things discomfort free as some sex toy materials absorb these fluids.  This becomes even more important when intending to use it for anal penetration as the anus does not generate any natural lubrication.

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Glass Sex Toys Advice

Glass sex toys are one of the most sought after adult novelties and vibrators, not only because they feel great but because they are beautiful objects too.

These adult novelties have several advantages too over their counterparts made of other materials.  They are hypoallergenic and nonporous which makes cleaning and keeping the toy clean hassle free.  These toys are also incredibly smooth requiring less lubricant for use than other sex toys.  These toys also hold temperature well and one can heat or freeze glass sex toys for a different kind of experience.

Because of these qualities however, they can also be more expensive than adult novelties made of other kinds of materials such as plastic, silicone, jelly for jelly vibrators, or rubber.

High quality glass sex toys are made of borosilicate glass.  Known under the brand name of Pyrex, this material is incredibly durable and is able to withstand pressures and temperatures which will make ordinary glass crack or shatter.  Thus, when looking to acquire glass sex toys, make sure that it is made of borosilicate glass.  If your glass toy has a bubble or crack, it may not be suitable for use and may be brittle.

While borosilicate glass is incredibly durable it can still break when dropped on a hard surface.  Moreover, when a glass sex toy is exposed to sudden temperature extremes it can become brittle and develop cracks.  Once a glass toy is chipped or cracked it is no longer suitable for use as the risk of it shattering at very inconvenient times is greatly increased.  Thus avoid heating your toy straight from the freezer of freezing it just after it has been heated.

Glass is a nonporous material.  This does not mean that it can be left unclean without risk of it being a health hazard.   Since glass is a nonporous material, this makes it easier to clean.  Glass sex toys can be washed with warm water and antibacterial soap, bleached and disinfected with alcohol.  It can also be sterilized in boiling water as a further measure to kill dangerous, disease causing microorganisms just like cleaning the silver bullet vibrators.

Glass sex toys can be easily acquired through online adult novelty stores.

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Advice on Gay Sex toy

Many adult novelties meant for the use of men have often been labeled as a gay sex toy.  This is probably due to the fact that their use is closely related to sexual activities usually indulged in or enjoyed by gay men.

The problem with calling an adult novelty a gay sex toy is that it may put off heterosexual men who can enjoy the use of a toy as much as a gay man.  For a few brave heterosexual men who have managed to overcome the misconceptions of these kinds of adult novelties, sex with a woman has been even better than before.  One must simply keep in mind that using these sex toys or strap on vibes does not make one change his sexual orientation.  It is simply a new and great way to experience sex.

Many sex toys meant for men’s use involve anal penetration.  What makes anal penetration pleasurable for men is that it is through the walls of the rectum that the prostate can be stimulated.  The prostate is a small nerve-covered organ which is responsible for generating the fluid which is used to deliver sperm into the vagina.  Stimulation of the prostate is said to result in very intense climax and ejaculation.

One such anal toy designed to stimulate the prostate is the anal plug.  These are bullet shaped toys with a flared base like bullet vibrators.  The toy is meant to be inserted into the anus and left there while the person using it engages in sexual intercourse.  The natural movements of intercourse moves the toy against the prostate stimulating it.  The flared base keeps the toy from penetrating too deeply as to prevent easy recovery.

Another kind of toy for anal use is the jelly vibes, anal dildo or anal wand.  These toys are longer and slimmer than butt plugs and are meant to be manipulated by a partner.  These toys simulate anal intercourse and can have bumps and curves so that they are better able to access the prostate.

Anal beads are another type of sex toy which consist of small spheres attached together in a series.  The beads or balls are meant to be inserted into the anus one at a time and then removed at varying speeds to hasten or enhance sexual climax.

When using anal toys, make sure you use an adequate amount of sex toy lubricant to prevent discomfort or injury.

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Turn Up that Sexual Dial

Just because (or maybe, exactly because) you and your partner still can’t get your hands off each
other’s privates, it means you only have to use that – your hands and genitals. Spicing up your sex
life is one way to measure how sexually compatible you are with your partner and it can improve
your relationship as a couple.

One of the easiest ways to improve your sex life is by introducing sex items. Dildos and cock rings
are, of course, very popular but not necessary requirements. The dirty dice may not seem very
dirty, but they can be a lot of fun for couples who want to share each other’s body. It can provide an
intimate and sensual time that doesn’t rush things along.

If both of you feel kinky but don’t have a sex toy around – then improvise. There’s usually
something in the fridge that can serve as a toy or something you’d like to lick off of your partner’s
body (parts). Also, if you still have that cheerleader outfit, put it on and see the whoa form in your
partner’s face.

You don’t have to limit using sex toys in exclusively private moments. Vibrating panties, one of the
more recently released sex items, is a good way to bring fun and naughtiness into your relationship
outside of the bedroom. Girls can wear it so their partners can send them jolts of pleasure even
when they’re out in public – at the pictures, out shopping, or even while out meeting with friends.

New or old couples can always use these suggestions to spice up their sex lives. Use it, experiment
with it, and explore until you get a bang that’ll blow your minds out.

When was the last time you played with a sex toy? Sex toys come in all kinds of flavors – there is something for everybody. Sex toys are about fun, pleasure and can be a great tool for reminding us that sexuality can be playful! And yes – just so you know – you can have Organic Orgasms – even with the use of electricity and batteries! It’s all about savoring the journey – and sometimes the journey is full of games, intensity, and wild rides!

Here’s a link about joy and sex toy.

The Joy of The Sex Toy – Wanna Play?

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Fine Girls: Quality Sex Toys?

Stars in the adult industry commonly endorse sex products as a way to increase their popularity –
and their performance billing, by extension – but the quality of the girls advertising doesn’t always
correspond to the quality of the product they’re selling.

Today, Ben Dover products are one of the most commonly displayed on sex shops in the UK. The
company has a full range of sex toys – from regular dildos to customized cock pumps – and is one of
the better manufacturers who effectively use adult models to promote their products. But though
Ben Dover sells a lot of toys, the items are hardly top class.

One of the reasons for this is that porn stars usually have little control over which products
they endorse, nor do they have any say on the product’s design and quality. This creates a little
complication for consumers who likely decide on which sex toys to buy based on the endorsement
of their favored porn stars.

This kind of promotion isn’t restricted to porn actors. Even “sexperts” have been known to endorse
sex products that don’t really match up to the quality their advertisements claim. This damages not
only the credibility of these so-called experts, but also the industry of sex counseling as a whole.

So far, few sex item manufacturers continue to release products that consistently have a high
quality (Fleshlight being a notable example). The latest to venture in the sex toy business is Marc
Dorcel, who is more famous for his video productions. Dorcel is currently releasing his products via
the French Lovely Planet distributor, but only time will tell whether Dorcel’s dildos are as good as
his films.

One of the most proactive proponents of this in the UK is Bed Dover who ‘s range of sex toys has appeared over the last few years in sex shops up and down the country. The range consists entirely of off the shelf products, effectively white label items branded with the Bed Dover brand. It includes everything from cock rings to dildos and vibrators, even size enhancing cock pumps in the shape of a Ben Dover badged Bathmate. Ben’s particular range is pretty good quality, but not cutting edge.

Here’s a link about Sex Toys All Round

Sex Toys All Round

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Vuvuzelas: From Toot to Sex Toys

The celebration for the 2010 soccer World Cup brought an unexpected legacy – vuvuzelas.

Fans of the sport became acquainted with the annoying instrument – which has been shown to cause
hearing problems such as tinnitus – and seem unable to get rid of it easily.

So can South Africans do with the hundreds of vuvuzelas left at the end of the World Cup without
tearing their ears out? Well, a lot, as it turns out.

Artisans from all around the country fashioned the musical instruments into a variety of objects with
both ornamental and utility purposes. The little horns have been transformed into earrings, decorative
door-knockers, candle-stick holders, hanging lamps and even combined to create chandeliers.

More unexpected, but still very creative reuse of the vuvuzelas was conducted by Big Chief Bambooka
Bozana whose tribe used the musical instruments as urinals. Bozana said that using a vuvuzela is “a good
way to urinate.”

But what perhaps caused the biggest uproar – or celebration, depending if you use it – is the
transformation of the vuvuzelas into personalized sex toys, which was invented by various South African
wives.

Despite grave concerns from their husbands, the wives made their way silently through the main
boulevard clutching their personalized vuvuzelas. The parade is more notable given that the women
nothing else but their big smiles.

One husband was particularly upset, saying “This is ridiculous. How can we compete with these huge
devices?”

The women may not have gotten any rewards from their creation, but they claim to have received
thousands of delivery requests for the redesigned musical instruments. The orders they say come
from “lonely British hags who have been robbed and deceived by their real-life African toy-boys.”

Now, that’s one news that really blows.

CAPE TOWN, SOUTH AFRICA: – Thanks to the 2010 soccer World Cup, sports fans have become acquainted with the annoying drone of vuvuzelas – those long plastic horns guaranteed to cause tinnitus.

Here’s a link about sex toys top lists.

South Africans find creative ways of using vuvuzela – Portable urinals and sex toys top the list

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