February 9, 2012

How to please a woman—sex toy tips

Every man who is in a long term loving heterosexual relationship is always on the lookout for things that will sexually please his special woman.  Sex toy fetishes, sexual fantasies, and role playing are just some of the things a loving couple can explore if they wish to spice up their sex lives or just try out something different in bed.

Sex toys and realistic vibes do provide a means to achieve all of these things with your special woman.  Sex toy experiences however will not be satisfactory if one does not do things properly or if one rushes things.  Here are some tips on how to please your woman with sex toys.

The first thing you should do should happen even before you acquire or use a sex toy with her.  It makes perfect sense that if your intention is to please her sexually, you should choose or use a toy which caters to the way she likes being sexually aroused.  For instance, if your partner gets turned on by penetration then a dildo might be the best sex toy for you.  If clitoral stimulation drives her crazy then a strap on vibrator might be the best way to get her to where she wants to go.

The next thing one should keep in mind is that no matter what kind of sex toy you use it is always wise to use and to have sex toy lubrication in handy.  Example, when trying to insert a toy at the anus, try to use anal lube to make it easier. Keep in mind that while the body does generate its own natural lubrication to facilitate sex and to signal the deepening of sexual arousal, sex toys do not have their own natural lubrication.  The natural fluids excreted by our body during sexual arousal may also be inadequate since materials which sex toys are made of such as rubber or jelly can absorb these fluids.  Using sex toys without the proper and adequate lubrication can be extremely uncomfortable.  A water based sex toy lubricant is best for sex toys made of all types of materials.

When using sex toys or vibrators for the first time it is advisable to take your time and go slow.  Make sure your partner is relaxed and thoroughly sexually aroused before trying out your sex toy.

Be sensitive to how your woman reacts to the sex toy.  If you sense she is uncomfortable, ask whether she still likes what you are doing and if she confirms that she is experiencing discomfort, stop using the toy immediately.

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How to clean your sex toy

If you want to make the most out of your sex toy, you have to take care of it.  This means knowing how to clean it properly.

Good sex toy hygiene also has health implications.  Since adult novelties are used in such a way as that they come into contact with the intimate and sensitive parts of our bodies which are prone to or entry points of infection and sickness.  Here are some tips on how to clean your sex toy and vibrators.

The cleaning method one uses for adult novelties depends on the type of material the sex toy is made of.  You can do this by checking that information which is usually printed on the box or packaging you purchased your toy in.  In cases when the packaging has been disposed of, the safest way to clean the toy is by using warm water with a mild antibacterial soap.  Keep in mind that when cleaning toys which run on batteries to never soak the entire toy in water and to take the batteries out before cleaning it.

Silicone toys

Silicone toys can be boiled to sterilize it or washed with soap and water.  They are the easiest to maintain and are hypoallergenic too.  B cute classic is one of an example of this toys. After cleaning, you can either wipe it dry or air-dry it completely before keeping it away.

Acrylic and plastic toys

Acrylic toys can also be washed with antibacterial soap and warm water and wiped down with alcohol to clean it further.  These plastic toys can also be boiled in hot water.

Rubber and Jelly

When washing rubber and latex toys, make sure that you rinse them thoroughly after washing it with water and soap.  These materials are extremely porous and soap which may be left over may cause irritation when used.  This are jelly vibrators.  Thoroughly dry the toy before storing.

Glass

Toys made of glass can be washed with soap and water, boiled or rubbed down with alcohol to further sterilize it.  Wipe or allow it to air-dry before putting it away.

Other materials

Some toys made of materials such as Cyberskin have to be washed thoroughly with warm water and liquid antibacterial soap.  These toys have to be air-dried completely and sprinkled with cornstarch before storing.

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How to Clean Gay Sex Toys

Gay sex toys can be a great addition to our sexual bag of tricks.  Expandable butt plugs is one of the great example of gay sex toys. They can be keys to great sexual experiences for gay and heterosexual men.  These toys despite the gay label attached to them are sex toys meant for the use of men after all.

While gay sex toys can indeed bring your sexual experiences to the next level,  steps have to be taken such as cleaning the toy and keeping it clean, that have to be done so that the experience with sex toys remains a pleasurable one and not one which can adversely affect our health.

Sex toys, by the nature of their use are exposed to environments rich in biological organisms, not all of which are benign.  An unclean sex toy is not only disgusting, but it can become a hot bed and a breeding ground for dangerous microorganisms which can cause embarrassing and serious health problems.  Moreover, if you share your toy with your partner, you risk transmitting these microorganisms to him or her. Here are some tips on how to clean your sex toy.

The way one cleans a sex toy depends on the material it is made of.  Some materials tolerate certain cleaning agents better than others.  This information is usually found on the box or packaging that came with your sex toy.  If it is no longer possible to get this information, most sex toys can be cleaned with warm water and antibacterial hand soap.

There are gay sex toys which vibrate like electric vibrators and require electricity or batteries to work.  Before cleaning them, make sure you take out the batteries or unplug the toy from the wall socket.  Moreover, avoid getting the parts of the toy which contain the battery compartment or motor wet.  One should never soak a battery operated toy in water or any other cleaning agent as this will damage its electrical circuits or can cause an electrical short when turning the toy on.

Sex toys made of plastic or glass can be boiled briefly to sterilize them and then wiped down with alcohol for disinfection.  Rubber or jelly toys or simply jelly vibes on the other hand should be cleaned with warm water and antibacterial soap.

Make sure your toys are thoroughly dry before putting them away.  Storing a damp sex toy in your closet or some other dark place could encourage the growth fungus which could cause irritation in very inconvenient places.

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Tips on taking care of female sex toys

Female sex toys just as with anything you use, requires a certain amount of care so that they will last.  One of this example of  female sex toys is the be my valentine vibrator. While sex toys are not expected to last forever, there are steps you can take to make it last as long as possible.  Here are some things you can do to extend the life of your sex toy.

A lot of proper sex toy maintenance has to do with cleaning your sex toy.  Cleaning your female sex toys is as much a step to ensure your toy continues to function as it should as it is a measure one undertakes to remain in good health.  An unclean sex toy can become a hotbed and breeding ground of all sorts of microorganisms which can be dangerous to the health of a person once he or she has been exposed to it.  Risk of transmitting disease can also increase when the sex toy is shared with another.

The method of cleaning one’s sex toy largely depends on the type of material your sex toy is made of.  Porous materials such as rubber, jelly, and materials such as cyberskin can be cleaned with warm water and antibacterial soap but have to be air dried thoroughly before storing in order to avoid the growth of fungus on the toy which can cause irritation as well as damage the toy itself. Commonly sex toys for this are the jelly vibes.

Toys made of plastic, silicone, and glass can also be washed with warm water and soap as well.  These toys can be also sterilized in warm water and wiped down with alcohol if one wants additional antiseptic measures.  Before storing these kinds of toys, one simply has to wipe the toy dry with a clean, lint free cloth.

When cleaning electric vibrators, electric powered or battery operated toys, it is important to remember to never submerge the toy in water or any liquid.  Water can seep into the electrical components thereby damaging it.  Also, make sure you take out the batteries or unplug the toy from its power source before cleaning and storing it.  Used batteries tend to leak when kept in a toy for an extended period of time.  This not only creates a mess but can damage your toy beyond repair.

These simple steps can go a long way in making sure your toy continues to function as it should and that you continue to enjoy it.

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How to Take Care of your Adult Sex Toy

An adult sex toy just like any other possession we may have has to be properly cared for so that it will last and continue to function properly.  Here are some things you can do to ensure that your sex toy lasts longer.

One of the keys to good adult sex toy maintenance is sex toy hygiene.  It is critical that one cleans one’s sex toy before and after use.  An unclean sex toy is not only a major turn-off, it is also a hot bed for breeding microorganisms which may be hazardous to the health once exposed to it.

How to properly clean your sex toy largely depends on the type of material it is made of.  This information can be found in the packaging your sex toy came in.  If this is no longer available, sex toys made of most materials can be cleaned with warm water and antibacterial hand soap.  Toys made of porous materials such as jelly vibes, rubber, and cyberskin have to be air dried thoroughly before storing.  Toys made of glass or plastic can be wiped dry with a lint free cloth.

The kind of lubricant you use for your sex toys is also a factor in taking good care of your sex toy.  Some petroleum based lubricants may not react well with the compounds of certain sex toys and may degrade the material.  While these kinds of lubricants may work well enough for toys made of glass like glass pleasure balls, a water based lubricant is your safest bet when using sex toys made of other materials.

If your toy is battery operated or powered by electricity, make sure you do not completely submerge the toy in any liquid nor allow the parts which contain the motor and electronic components to get wet.  Water or liquid may damage these parts beyond repair.

Make sure too that you take the batteries out of your electric vibrators before storing it.  Used batteries may leak over time when they are left unused for an extended period.  Leaking batteries do not only make an awful mess but can damage your sex toy or cause irritation in inconvenient places should you attempt to use your sex toy in spite of the damage.

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Advice on adult sex toys (myths)

For many of us, our closest experience with adult sex toys has been to watch their use on adult films.  One of the most popular adult film is the sixteen. While the actors using them look like they are having a good time using them, we scarcely give a thought about using them ourselves or trying them out.

One of the reasons we may have not thought about using adult sex toys is because of the many misconceptions about them and their use.  Here are some of the more popular myths about adult sex toys and the truth behind them.

Myth:  Sex toys are for people who do not have a healthy sex or social life

While sex toys and electric vibrators can and do provide a safe alternative to sex with multiple partners, sex toys are used by people and couples who want to spice up their sex lives or try something different.  Sex toy usage in fact is quite common with research showing that people who have sex use adult sex toys more than those who do not have sex.

Myth: Sex toys are only for masturbation

A popular misconception is that adult sex toys are mainly used for self gratification.  The ubiquitous presence of the vibrator and the dildo in adult films may have something to do with this misconception.  The truth is that sex toys are not limited to dildos or vibrators.  Sex toys also include adult novelties such as edible underwear, feathers, costumes and other props which can be used in playing out fantasy scenarios.

Myth:  There is no place for sex toys in a healthy sexual relationship

This is not true.  In fact adult sex toys and novelties do help in creating and nurturing a healthy sexual relationship between two loving people.  It provides something different to reignite a waning sex life and it also provides a way in which two people can deepen their intimacy by playing out and fulfilling their sexual fantasies.

Myth:  Buying sex toys can be an embarrassing experience

One can acquire jelly vibrators, sex toys and adult novelties online and in the privacy of one’s own home if one feels too embarrassed to browse through the selection of an adult novelty store.  Products ordered from reputable website are delivered right to one’s home wrapped in discrete brown paper so that others do not have an idea on what is being delivered.

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How to take care of your dildo

Let’s talk about the most ubiquitous of all “woman” sex toys—the dildo.  Realistic vibrating dildos are phallus-shaped sex toys meant for penetration into the vagina or the rectum.  These toys have been around for centuries and have changed little in purpose and shape except in the types of materials they used.  In times past, dildos could be made of polished wood, stone, marble, or glass.  Nowadays synthetic materials such as plastics, silicone and even materials which feel like real skin have been used in making these sex toys.  These sex toys now also contain small motors which allow the toy to vibrate for that extra “buzz”.

No matter the type of materials they are made of or whether they vibrate or not, they all require care in order to allow them to perform the function for which they were designed properly and safely.  Here are some tips you can use to take care of your dildo.

No matter the type of dildo you have, you will have to keep it clean.  This is not only a thing one has to do in order to make sure your toy remains in good working order but it is also a measure you should undertake to avoid contracting disease or infection.  A dildo is meant to be inserted into the vagina or the anus.  These parts of the body often do contain microorganisms and bacteria which can be harmful to people.

How you clean your toy depends on the type of material it is made of.  For most cases, washing your toy with warm soap and water will do the trick.  Wash your toy every time after you use it.  If your toy has batteries or contains a small motor, make sure you take off the batteries first and do not allow the battery compartment or the part with the remote vibrator motor to get wet.  Never submerge a toy which runs on batteries or electricity.

There are commercially prepared sex toy cleaners available in the market.  Keep in mind however that some cleaners which can be oil-based can damage the surface of some toys made of plastic or silicone.  It would be a safe bet to get something water-based in order to minimize your chances of damaging the toy.

Never keep used batteries inside your toy for extended periods of time.  If you do not plan to use your dildo for an extended duration, make sure you remove the batteries before you put your toy away.

Follow these tips to ensure your toy keeps on giving you the sexual satisfaction you need for a long time.

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Lingerie Advice from Sexy Lingerie Models

Sometimes buying lingerie can be a tough task. You can be browsing pages of different brands and styles of bras and panties and undergarments, and you could spend hours unable to make your choice. This basic guide should be able to help you. I have seen women standing inside a boutique for an hour wondering what to buy. For an example, before you go to the market for shopping, you have to know first what you are going to buy. Put something in your mind what to buy, like you shop with your favorite fun vibes. That is a long process of choosing and quite a time-consuming one. You may want to look like sexy lingerie models but you have your own figure to get familiar with.

You may be glad to know that there are about six different lingerie types in the market. Some women prefer the natural feel whilst in lingerie and if you’re one of them, go for natural lingerie that gives more function than design. The girl on the go may be happy there’s sporty lingerie for her. Great for outgoing ladies, sporty lingerie aren’t obvious under fitting sports suit and allow flexibility. The enchantress may prefer elegance to anything else and so elegant lingerie should fit her tastes. If you are the typical grandiose lady with all the flamboyance on skin then designer lingerie pieces aren’t bad in your closet.

For the more adventurous woman, sexy lingerie is not a bad thing to start off with. Have you seen sexy lingerie models with all their sultry looks and enticing stance wearing 2 piece stretch lace nightdress? Included in the realm of naughty undergarment department are g-strings, corsets, stockings, and revealing lingerie. But some of these items may be bought at adult toy shops together with other naughty stuff and vibrators.

You cannot wear sexy thongs and revealing bras if you don’t know how to carry them. You got to have confidence, and it’s not just confidence but the attitude. Women wear sexy lingerie for a purpose. It’s more than looking great. Naughty undergarments have the power to provoke men. Men will definitely be pleased when you wear one in front of them. But be sure to wear something that suits your physique and natural curves.

Sexy lingerie are meant to make you look sexier than usual, accentuating the right curves you possess, emphasizing your natural figure, flattering your natural contour, and sometimes making some of your regions seem to be fleshier. Yes, you can be as alluring as those sexy lingerie models on a lingerie brochure.

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How to Introduce Male Anal Sex Toys to Him

Many men, and even some women, think that anal play is nasty. It is nasty but if you follow hygiene and safety tips for anal play then there should be no problem. Men can find anal stimulation to be exciting primarily because the male g-spot is located in the anus, specifically on the front wall that touches the prostate gland. This part rivals the glans in being the most erotically sensitive male spot. But the sensations are different. Anyway, stimulation of the male g-spot can be through the use of male anal sex toys or jelly vibes.

But a lot of men are not too receptive about anal stimulation since it is associated with gay sex. Heterosexual men fear that if they buy anal toys in an adult toy shop, they may be branded gay. But this is slowly becoming an old fear. Most guys are slowly understanding their bodies and learning that their anus is one erogenous zone. If you don’t know, the anus is a very sensitive spot capable of taking sex to the next level.

Then again the butthole is a delicate region. There are a lot of toys in the market made for anal stimulation and guys can use any of these recommended toys for their own exploration—only after learning much about proper way of stimulating the anus. A bomb butt plugs, anal beads, and prostate massagers are great male anal sex toys that can deliver amazing sensations only when used in the appropriate way.

A good way to introduce your boyfriend to anal stimulation using toys is to first use a finger or two. You better do this while you are giving him a hand-job or a fellatio, with a lubed finger massaging the area around his anus and then slowly inserting it in the anus. Only make sure that you have trimmed your fingernails or he might shriek in pain and you don’t want that to happen during an intimate anal moment. If you can non-verbally make your guy understand how pleasurable it is to play with his anus, then convincing him to explore more using anal toys will not become a tough business.

You can introduce vibrators, anal beads and butt plugs, anything that is known as an anal toy. Do not use just any kind of rod which is never recommended for anal insertion. Normally toys for the butthole have wide base or a handle that does not allow them to get too deep into the rectum and supports easy retrieval. Recommended male anal sex toys are available at reputable shops online.

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How to Give Her a Big Dildo Treat

Couples have been experimenting with wild things lately. Some couples use the tonguer vibes to have a great oral adventure. It’s not surprising to see people becoming more aware of their bodies and investing in things that can make them know themselves more intimately. But what can a big dildo do?

Men and women are becoming more fascinated with size. Some say it matters, others say it doesn’t. It seems big dildos are here for a reason. Some women fancy long and thick shafts, and if they could not get it from their men, they get it from something else. This is perhaps the reason sex toy manufacturers made enormous artificial dongs.

Some men like these big daddies, too, but not in the way you think. They want to surprise their girlfriends or wives with one amazingly large cock and balls, and the ladies just gasp. But if she is giving you that “are you really gonna shove that into my precious little holies” kind of look, don’t scare her and insist.

She needs a little caressing this time. Some women are not too receptive to that big dingy. Some may run away after seeing a foot long.

Don’t frighten her; instead, make her feel comfortable, especially if this is the first time she’s seeing a big dildo or big vibrators. Huge dongs can be fun if you know how to deal with them. You don’t have to instantly push it into her vagina. You can use it to tickle her womanhood until the useful juices start to signal her readiness. Of course, grab a bottle of lube because you’ll be needing a lot.

Cock and balls are necessary during moments when you can’t perform right. That naughty toy is going to give you both an intimate affair without sweating much. Maybe you had a stress-packed day and can’t please her like she wishes to. Then, give her a treat she won’t forget.

When she’s totally turned on, you can begin slipping the thingy into her tight door, which by now should allow the entrance of the awesome almighty. Do it gently and watch for signs of discomfort. Please do her a favor of not pushing past the cervix because that’s already illegal. Stop on a depth where going further causes her to twinge. If you’re unsure, well, then ask her.

Step up the fun later when she’s getting too comfy and bored, by doing different styles. Turn it around slowly, turn it around fast, thrust it and pull it fast, and while you are doing all these, tickle her other sweet spots instead of leaving them unattended.

Clean that big dildo after all the dirty stuff you do. Be sure to have your vibe kits to use for your dildo.

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