Every man who is in a long term loving heterosexual relationship is always on the lookout for things that will sexually please his special woman. Sex toy fetishes, sexual fantasies, and role playing are just some of the things a loving couple can explore if they wish to spice up their sex lives or just try out something different in bed.
Sex toys and realistic vibes do provide a means to achieve all of these things with your special woman. Sex toy experiences however will not be satisfactory if one does not do things properly or if one rushes things. Here are some tips on how to please your woman with sex toys.
The first thing you should do should happen even before you acquire or use a sex toy with her. It makes perfect sense that if your intention is to please her sexually, you should choose or use a toy which caters to the way she likes being sexually aroused. For instance, if your partner gets turned on by penetration then a dildo might be the best sex toy for you. If clitoral stimulation drives her crazy then a strap on vibrator might be the best way to get her to where she wants to go.
The next thing one should keep in mind is that no matter what kind of sex toy you use it is always wise to use and to have sex toy lubrication in handy. Example, when trying to insert a toy at the anus, try to use anal lube to make it easier. Keep in mind that while the body does generate its own natural lubrication to facilitate sex and to signal the deepening of sexual arousal, sex toys do not have their own natural lubrication. The natural fluids excreted by our body during sexual arousal may also be inadequate since materials which sex toys are made of such as rubber or jelly can absorb these fluids. Using sex toys without the proper and adequate lubrication can be extremely uncomfortable. A water based sex toy lubricant is best for sex toys made of all types of materials.
When using sex toys or vibrators for the first time it is advisable to take your time and go slow. Make sure your partner is relaxed and thoroughly sexually aroused before trying out your sex toy.
Be sensitive to how your woman reacts to the sex toy. If you sense she is uncomfortable, ask whether she still likes what you are doing and if she confirms that she is experiencing discomfort, stop using the toy immediately.
