May 22, 2012

Advice on Toys for Couples

When we hear the word adult novelties what usually enters our mind are sex toys which we often employ to ease the loneliness when friendly company is not available.  There are however, toys for couples which people in romantic couples relationship can use to reignite the passion in and enliven their intimate moments.

These sex toys for couples come in all shapes, sizes, colors, designs and are made of different kinds of materials.  These adult novelties are typically made of plastic, silicone, rubber, and jelly.  Some toys are made of metal, glass and materials meant to simulate how real skin feels like.

There are several kinds to choose from designed to stimulate a person in all sorts of ways.  Some toys even simulate the sensations of oral sex.  Thus, one will not be hard put to find a toy which will address his/ her/ their preferences.  For instance, if one gets off on clitoral stimulation, there are different kinds of vibrators which can do this for you.  If one prefers to be penetrated in the vagina or the anus, there are dildos, anal wands, and prostate massagers which you can use.  If one wants to extend his staying power during sexual intercourse, cock rings can help you last longer and make your penis feel bigger.

The problem with couples who are looking to try out sex toys for the first time is not whether they will be able to find something they can use, rather it is choosing the toy from among the hundreds of kinds of sex toys available.  One can get intimidated by the sheer number of adult novelties that he or she does not know which to choose.

The solution to this is easy.  Keep your and your partner’s preferences in mind and stick to it. When these preferences are in mind, one can significantly narrow down the choices which one has to select from.

Keep in mind too how you intend to use them.  For instance, if you will be bringing the toy with you as you travel, a toy which is discrete and small enough to fit in your luggage would be a wise choice. Small vibrators are recommended.

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Advice on Sex Toys for Women

There are several kinds of sex toys for women and couples sex toys available in the market.  Besides the different designs, colors, and sizes, one will also have to take into consideration the kind of material one wants her toy to be made of.

The kind of material sex toys for women are made of have their particular advantages and disadvantages.  If you are unsure about what kind of material you want your toy to be made of, here is a quick rundown of the more common materials with their pros and cons.

Plastic is one of the most common materials found in sex toys.  It is nonporous which makes it easy to clean.  It is a hard material which makes it ideal if the sex toy you are using is a vibrator.  Plastic is able to transmit vibrations efficiently which is why plastic vibrators are known as strong vibrators.

While plastic may be a good choice of material for vibrators, the same qualities make it not so ideal for dildos.  This is because it is hard, inflexible and very un-lifelike.

Silicone is another synthetic nonporous material which is said to feel very life like.  It has the right balance of firmness and softness which makes it feel like real skin and using the toy is said to feel almost like the real thing.  It is able to reach and retain body temperature quickly and is easily cleaned.

Toys made of pure silicone however can be more expensive than toys made of other materials.

Another material used to make sex toys is called jelly.  Jelly is very easy to mold and shape.  One of this is the jelly vibrators. These toys also come in a wide variety of colors.  It is soft and pleasurable and can feel very pleasant when used.  Moreover, jelly toys are usually inexpensive.

Jelly is a porous material, making it difficult to clean thoroughly.  Moreover, using some harsh cleaning agents can easily degrade or damage the material.  A special sex toy cleaner or mild antibacterial soap is the best way to clean a toy made of jelly.  Using a non lubricated condom will help you keep your toy clean.

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Advice on Sex Toys for Her

Some women have difficulty reaching orgasm.  When this is the case with your special woman, sex toys for her may be the answer to help her enjoy sex more and get her where she wants to go more often. Use some sex toys for couples when having a sex with a partner to help your woman reaching an orgasm.

There are several kinds of adult novelties meant for women’s use.  These are designed to stimulate women in different ways.  So that you will be able to choose the right sex toys for her, you must be aware of the way she likes being sexually stimulated and how she likes being aroused.

Once you have settled on a sex toy which you think will work for her like a male sex toys, this does not mean you should just go ahead and use it right away.  There are some things you must do to ensure that the experience becomes as pleasurable for her as it is for you and something which she will want to use again.

Before using sex toys for her, you have to make sure that it is clean.  Even a new toy out of the box should be cleaned as these may still have some chemical residue left over from the manufacturing process on its surface.  These chemicals may cause the person using the sex toy irritation in very sensitive places.  The sex toy should also be cleaned after every use to avoid it becoming a breeding ground for dangerous microorganisms.  Follow the instructions and recommendations of the manufacturer as regards the method of cleaning and the cleaning agent one should use.

Just because you have a sex toy does not mean you should forego foreplay either.  Sex toys can be used with foreplay or may require a little foreplay before they can be used.  This is especially true for sex toys such as anal or vaginal dildos which are inserted into the body cavities.  Inserting a toy into the vagina or anus can be extremely uncomfortable if your partner is not relaxed or thoroughly sexually aroused.

Also, make sure you have and use an adequate amount of sex toy lubricant when playing with penetrative toys.  Toys like vibrators. While the vagina does generate its own natural lubricant, this is often inadequate for the job as some sex toy materials absorb these fluids.  Playing with these toys without lubrication can be extremely uncomfortable and painful for her.

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Sex Toy Party Ideas

If you are looking for an alternative to the usual girl night out, but still want to go a little naughty then consider holding a sex toy party.

A sex toy party usually involves the selling and displaying of adult novelties, sex toys and some of vibrators.  These sex toy parties are usually employed by representatives of adult novelty stores called sex toy party consultants to introduce and demonstrate their wares to prospective clients.  If you want to hold a sex toy party, calling a sex toy party consultant may be the best way to go.

If however, you are just after some fun and are not really keen on the sales aspect, here are some ideas you can use to hold a sex toy-themed party.

One idea you can use is to hold an adult-version of a pajama party.  Ask them to come to the party in their sleeping wear and to bring a sex toy which they consider their favorite like fun female vibrators and classic vibes.  If they have had no prior experience with sex toys, ask them to choose something which looks interesting and which they would think about using.  At the party, ask them to bring their toy out and explain how they use it or think it is used.  Offer a prize for the person with the best story.

Come up with interesting parlor games with a naughty or funny twist.  For instance one can have a contest on who can peel a banana sing only the mouth—no hands allowed.   Another game could be what is called regaining your virginity.  Ask your friends who among them would like to get back their virginity and explain to them that all they have to do is to eat a cherry out of the bowl without using their hands.  After explaining the rules and giving them each a bowl with a cherry in it, fill the bowl with whipped cream and then tell them to begin.

You can also live up to the sexy theme of your party by offering drinks with suggestive names such as sex on the beach, blowjob, or screaming orgasm.  Cakes or cookies shaped in sexually suggestive themes could also serve as refreshments during your party.

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Tips for Lesbian Sex Toys: Using A Strap on Dildo

Lesbian sex toys such as strap on dildos and  strap on vibrators are popular sex toys for those who prefer girl-on-girl action.  These sex toys allow couples to simulate sexual intercourse without the need to use one’s hands to manipulate the dildo.

A strap on dildo is composed of a harness which can be in the style of a thong or a jock strap and a dildo.  When it comes to kinds of harnesses, these have their advantages and disadvantages.  A thong type of harness provides a more stable platform for the attached dildo while a jock strap harness is more comfortable to wear.

The dildos used in strap on toys come in all shapes, sizes, textures and colors.  They all however have a flared base which allows it to be secured to the harness.

These lesbian sex toys are meant for vaginal or anal penetration and can be vehicles for disease or infection if not cleaned properly.  The cleaning agent and method one uses to clean these adult novelties depends on the type of material it is made of.  To know what type of material your toy is made of, consult the instruction manual or the toy’s packaging.  If this is no longer possible, most toys can be washed with warm water and mild antibacterial soap.  You may also choose to put a condom over the realistic vibrating dildos to keep it clean.

Since dildos are meant for anal or vaginal penetration, one should ensure that one’s partner is thoroughly sexually aroused and relaxed before attempting to insert the toy.  One can deepen the sexual arousal of one’s partner by engaging in foreplay.  Discomfort and pain can result if one attempts to insert the toy without the person being sufficiently aroused.

Another tip when using toys and vibrators which can be inserted into body cavities is to ensure that you have and use sex toy or personal lubricant.  While the vagina does generate its own natural lubrication, this is not adequate to keep things discomfort free as some sex toy materials absorb these fluids.  This becomes even more important when intending to use it for anal penetration as the anus does not generate any natural lubrication.

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Advice on Gay Sex toy

Many adult novelties meant for the use of men have often been labeled as a gay sex toy.  This is probably due to the fact that their use is closely related to sexual activities usually indulged in or enjoyed by gay men.

The problem with calling an adult novelty a gay sex toy is that it may put off heterosexual men who can enjoy the use of a toy as much as a gay man.  For a few brave heterosexual men who have managed to overcome the misconceptions of these kinds of adult novelties, sex with a woman has been even better than before.  One must simply keep in mind that using these sex toys or strap on vibes does not make one change his sexual orientation.  It is simply a new and great way to experience sex.

Many sex toys meant for men’s use involve anal penetration.  What makes anal penetration pleasurable for men is that it is through the walls of the rectum that the prostate can be stimulated.  The prostate is a small nerve-covered organ which is responsible for generating the fluid which is used to deliver sperm into the vagina.  Stimulation of the prostate is said to result in very intense climax and ejaculation.

One such anal toy designed to stimulate the prostate is the anal plug.  These are bullet shaped toys with a flared base like bullet vibrators.  The toy is meant to be inserted into the anus and left there while the person using it engages in sexual intercourse.  The natural movements of intercourse moves the toy against the prostate stimulating it.  The flared base keeps the toy from penetrating too deeply as to prevent easy recovery.

Another kind of toy for anal use is the jelly vibes, anal dildo or anal wand.  These toys are longer and slimmer than butt plugs and are meant to be manipulated by a partner.  These toys simulate anal intercourse and can have bumps and curves so that they are better able to access the prostate.

Anal beads are another type of sex toy which consist of small spheres attached together in a series.  The beads or balls are meant to be inserted into the anus one at a time and then removed at varying speeds to hasten or enhance sexual climax.

When using anal toys, make sure you use an adequate amount of sex toy lubricant to prevent discomfort or injury.

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How to use baby vibrators

Baby vibrators are popular among women or couples who like to bring their toys along with them as they travel.  Because they are smaller than regular vibrators, they can be carried and kept away in a discrete corner of your luggage or fit in a handbag. This are known as small vibrators.

The only thing small about baby vibrators is its size.  Despite their size, they are perfectly capable of giving the user intense orgasms.  Here are some tips on how to use baby vibrators.

Whether they be vibrators or any other type of sex toys for couples, it is important that we clean the toy before using it.  An unclean sex toy can contain all sorts of disease causing microorganisms—especially if you share your toy with another person.  Even a toy new and fresh out of the box should be cleaned thoroughly as these may contain chemical residue on its surface leftover from the manufacturing process.  These chemicals can cause irritation in very sensitive parts of the body.

Because of their small size, handbag hercules mini vibrator can be inserted into the vagina or the anus.  If you intend to use the toy in that manner make sure that you have a means of preventing the toys from penetrating too far to prevent easy removal—unless you want an embarrassing trip to the hospital.

Toys this small can lull one into thinking that one can insert the toy inside the vagina or anus right away.  While this may be possible for some people, for most, doing this without deepening one’s sexual arousal or using personal lubricant can cause discomfort.  You can use the sex toy on your other erogenous zones such as the breasts, nipples, inside the thighs and the pubic area to get you more excited and physically ready to insert the toy.  Make sure too that you use an adequate amount of sex toy or personal lubricant.

One can experiment or vary the sensations one experiences with vibrators by pressing the vibrator firmly or lightly on a particular sexual hotspot. Some baby vibrators have controls which allow you to control the intensity of the vibrations the toy creates.  Experiment with this too and find the combination of pressure and speed which you find most pleasurable.

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Advice on couples’ vibrators

Couples’ vibrators are great sex toys which can revitalize a relationship floundering on the tides of routine and familiarity.  These adult novelties have helped hundreds of couples rediscover the joys of being intimate and reignite their interest in one another.

While it is true that couples’ vibrators and other sex toys can help a uplift a flagging relationship, why don’t more couples employ these adult novelties?  The sad situation is that sex toys and adult novelties often have a bad reputation.  As a result, even when one of the parties in a relationship is open to the idea of including toys in bed, the other may resist the idea.  How does one convince his or her partner to try out best vibrators?

In order to convince your partner to try out couples’ vibrators like expandable butt plug, it is important that one finds out the reason behind his or her resistance.  More often than not, resistance springs from fear of being replaced by the toy or hurt that you do not think that sex with him or her is no longer pleasing.  Sometimes the resistance springs from the fact that your partner looks at sex toys in a negative way or he or she may just be afraid of trying out something new.

The way one broaches the idea and the timing of when you do is important if you want to convince your partner to try out something new.  The best time to let him or her know about your idea is when you discern that he or she is open to new ideas.  Letting him or her know that you want to try sex toys in bed with him or her when he or she is in a bad mood or when he or she is feeling particularly down is a sure way of losing the argument.

When your partner expresses resistance to the idea, address his or her concerns with loving patience and reassurance.  Assure him or her that a sex toys for couples will never be able to replace him or her in your heart and that the toy is an inanimate object which can never provide nor replace the emotional bond you have with your partner.

Sometimes your partner may respond better to a show and tell approach.  Ask him or her to look at the different kinds of couples’ vibrators available on websites and ask him or her what piques his or her curiosity.

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Advice on what are the top vibrators

It is not easy to determine what the top vibrators are.  Does one determine what the top vibrators are by its popularity and number of units sold?  Or should the criteria be word of mouth—the accounts of women who find using a particular vibrator more pleasurable than usual.

So how does one find out about top vibrators?  More often than not online adult novelty stores advertise the top selling vibrators on their site or manufacturers can often just unilaterally say that their vibrator is one of the top vibrators.

What people find pleasurable is subjective.  The fact that a toy is sold out does not mean that it is being used nor giving the person who bought it pleasure— it may after all have been purchased for someone else or the person who discarded it was just curious about the toy and wanted to find out how it would feel.

While these advertisements are still useful in the sense that they give you information on the product, the best way to find the best vibrator for you is to take stock of the way you prefer to play and to keep this in mind when deciding on what vibrator to acquire.

For instance, if one intends to use a vibrator with a partner, strap on vibrators may be a good choice.  These kinds of vibrators (among which include silicone butterfly vibrators) are kept in place with straps so that your hands and the hands of your partner are free to explore each other’s bodies while the vibrator does its work.  There are even wireless vibrators which allow you or a partner to turn the device on and control the intensity of the vibrations even from across the room via remote control.

For women on the go and for those who like to take their toys along with them there are lots of vibrators which are small and portable enough to be kept in your purse or bag.  There are even vibrators which masquerade as objects which are typically found in a woman’s bag.  Examples of these toys include rocket or lipstick vibrators.

These are just some of the things you can keep in mind to help you choose the right vibrator for you.  There are all sorts of vibrators which cater to all sorts of preferences.  There are vibrators which one can use inserted into the vagina and the anus and even toys which are designed to simulate oral sex.  Just keep your preferences firmly in mind and you will rarely go wrong with your choice.

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How to buy vibrators online

More and more people are deciding to buy vibrators online.  While the local adult novelty shops are still around, people are starting to prefer to acquire their sex toys online because of the safety, privacy, convenience it offers.  All one needs to shop online is a valid credit card, a computer and connection to the Internet.

What makes buying vibrators online more attractive is that one is able to compare charges and prices in different online establishments so that the person can get the best deal possible.

While there are several advantages when we buy vibrators online, there are some things one has to keep in mind so that he or she will be satisfied with the experience.  Here are some tips on how to buy vibrators online.

The great thing about shopping online is that you can make a canvas of several establishments without having to actually leave the safety and comfort of your own home.  There are several online adult novelty shops that one can easily find thru the Internet.  More often than not, finding sites which sell vibrators is just a matter of typing the kind of vibrator you are looking for on your preferred search engine’s search box. Example, if you are looking for alumination vibrator, just simply type this keyword to find it more convenience.

Make sure you compare prices from different sites, and when you do always include the price of delivery in the computation of the amount you actually have to pay.  Keep an eye out for online establishments which offer free delivery to areas within a fixed geographical location.  You may end up actually paying less for a remote sex toys which was a little more expensive in one site which offers free delivery than the same toy priced cheaper on another site but which charges you freight.

Some online adult novelty stores offer discounts on wholesale purchases.  Always remember to read the conditions that must occur before an online establishment considers a transaction a wholesale one.  Some establishments look at the total price of your purchases before they give you the discount for wholesale purchases while others look at the number of items you purchase before it is considered a wholesale transaction.

Legitimate online establishments are anxious to let their visitors know that they have adequate measures in place to protect the privacy of your transactions and credit card information which you will be giving them.  Look for these sites and do not transact with online establishments which seem suspicious.

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