May 22, 2012

Should You Be Worried About Dirty Talking?

While dirty talking may be good for couples, it may not be appropriate for everyone else. So you have
to be careful whom you talk dirty to. You cannot just tell a colleague how you want to touch her boobs
because that may just put you in big trouble. The key word is respect towards the people around you.
No matter how provocative she looks, you have to make sure that she will allow you to talk to her in a
naughty manner. Be careful with speech that contains sexual overtones. Yes, there may be naughty girls
out there too, but that does not mean you can talk to every girl that way.

The solution is simple: keep your dirty thoughts for you and your partner. You can share as many dirty
messages as you both want all day. If you’re single, then you have to be careful with what’s coming
out of your mouth. Don’t be too quick in giving away your sexual motivations. If you want to pursue
someone, then try testing the waters if they like you to advance to a sensual spot. Girls of the decent
type are not too receptive to some dirty tricks, so save your naughty tricks and guard your tongue. Put in
mind that not everyone has dirty imaginations.

Scotland has passed into law a new “Sexual Offences Act” an event that should herald an upgrade of existing legislation to accommodate the changing needs of society in an information age.  It seeks to protect individuals from unwanted sexual communications. In itself a perfectly reasonable aim. However some of the wording seems so ambiguous as to make its application in reality a prude’s charter to prosecute.

Here’s a link about Sexual offences Act in Scotland.

Does Scotland’s Sexual Offences Act Criminalise Dirty Talk?

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Cathelco former sales executive adds charges of sexual harassment

Angelina Ashby, a former employee of Chesterfield-based marine supplies firm Cathelco has come up to
press charges on sales manager Peter Smith. Miss Ashby’s alleges Smith of encouraging female workers
to touch his genitals, sitting female staff on his knee, and viewing sex toys and blow up dolls at the
workplace.
Miss Ashby worked as a sales executive for Cathelco for more than five years before being forced to
resign in October 2008. In an industrial tribunal in Sheffield, she claimed that she was repeatedly bullied
and harassed by Mr Smith and some of his colleagues.
Since she was hired in June 2003, Miss Ashby had had no problems working for Cathelco until
September 2006 when Mr Smith became her sales manager. She says that she was driven to take anti-
depressants due to Mr Smiths harassments, which included derogatory remarks and forwarded emails
regarding her weight.
She said: “I was subjected to a continuous course of mistreatment. A few days after my formal grievance
was submitted Laura Holland, a sales administrator was chased round the office by Pete Smith, who
then proceeded to put her over his knee and spank her.”
She also accused Mr Smith of sitting female staff on his knee and stroke their hair. At other times,
she said that he would stand behind their chairs to do the same in a manner which Miss Ashby
found “disconcerting and uncomfortable.” Further allegations to Mr Smith was coercing female
employee to feel his genitals.
Miss Ashby is claiming constructive dismissal, sexual discrimination and pay discrimination against the
firm. The firm have denied all allegations.
A woman suing her former company for alleged sex discrimination has told an employment tribunal how her boss allegedly chased a female colleague around their office before spanking her across his knee.
Here’s a link about spanking female colleague.

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The Flintstones with an Adult Twist

Many cartoon series have their porn scandals on the internet, and “The Flintstones” can’t be late in the
game. On their 50th year, the popular cartoon sitcom is being honored a porn parody. Kids can’t watch
this. It’s intended for their parents! “The Flintstones: A XXX Parody,” which is produced by Will Ryder, is
due for release on October 25, and it will surely give us a picture of how the animated couple does the
wicked thing. No one has ever seen Fred and Barney make love with their wives—at least, none of the
kids ever did. If they did, it would have stirred an uproar. This adult oriented Flintstones will still look the
same as the classic one. You’ll still get the stone tv set, Fred’s iconic automobile, and the stone house.
Stars in this adult oriented Flintstones include Hillary Scott as Wilma, Hayden Winter as Pebbles, Seth
Gamble as Bam-Bam, Brooke Lee Adams as Betty, Anthony Rosano as Barney, and Peter O’Tool as Fred.
Belle Casten, the New Sensations VP of Global Sales, thinks that they didn’t plan it that way but as they
would release the Flintstones parody on the 50th anniversary of the cartoon sitcom, it could boost some
reception. The Flintstones: A XXX Parody might just make it to the top sales charts.

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How to Discuss About Sex with Your Kids

Talking about sex with your young ones is not a breezy task. For practically everybody, it is
uncomfortable, embarrassing and complicated. However it’s hardly the most difficult thing to do in a
parent’s life.

Nowadays, our society is more open about sex. This makes explaining about “the birds and the bees” to
your kids more complex. On one hand they will already have some ideas from what they hear and see
from different media; on the other hand, you wouldn’t want them to get too many ideas.

What every parent should keep in mind is that children are very inquisitive and like to explore – and
their bodies are no exception. So the sooner you have the sex talk with your kid, the better it may be for
them. Don’t think that sex is an off topic: the truth is, any malice in the conversation will much likelier
come from you.

So the best way to open up about sex with your kid is by an informative and kindly explanation. Don’t
make them strangers to their own body but give them the proper warnings. Most especially, make sure
they understand why the act (and your conversation) is important.

Sooner or later, your kid will learn about sex. It’s best that they learn it from the person who cares most
about them – you.

My naughty drawer is not what it once was. At the moment, it contains: a bullet vibrator; two smoothie vibrators; a baggie filled with review samples of 20 or so different types of personal lubricants; a bottle of my favorite scented massage oil; a vanilla sugar-scented massage candle; an I Rub My Duckie; a sleep mask I typically use only when I’m having trouble falling asleep; leather handcuffs; one gorgeous bit of lingerie; a bottle of BabeLube; the fertility-friendly lube I purchased for babymaking sex; and a s**t-ton of batteries. I keep a wide-tipped riding crop behind the bed, and a healthy collection of sexy how-tos on a shelf.

Here’s a link about sex discussion.

Does Sex Writing Prepare You For The Sex Talk?

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How to please a woman—sex toy tips

Every man who is in a long term loving heterosexual relationship is always on the lookout for things that will sexually please his special woman.  Sex toy fetishes, sexual fantasies, and role playing are just some of the things a loving couple can explore if they wish to spice up their sex lives or just try out something different in bed.

Sex toys and realistic vibes do provide a means to achieve all of these things with your special woman.  Sex toy experiences however will not be satisfactory if one does not do things properly or if one rushes things.  Here are some tips on how to please your woman with sex toys.

The first thing you should do should happen even before you acquire or use a sex toy with her.  It makes perfect sense that if your intention is to please her sexually, you should choose or use a toy which caters to the way she likes being sexually aroused.  For instance, if your partner gets turned on by penetration then a dildo might be the best sex toy for you.  If clitoral stimulation drives her crazy then a strap on vibrator might be the best way to get her to where she wants to go.

The next thing one should keep in mind is that no matter what kind of sex toy you use it is always wise to use and to have sex toy lubrication in handy.  Example, when trying to insert a toy at the anus, try to use anal lube to make it easier. Keep in mind that while the body does generate its own natural lubrication to facilitate sex and to signal the deepening of sexual arousal, sex toys do not have their own natural lubrication.  The natural fluids excreted by our body during sexual arousal may also be inadequate since materials which sex toys are made of such as rubber or jelly can absorb these fluids.  Using sex toys without the proper and adequate lubrication can be extremely uncomfortable.  A water based sex toy lubricant is best for sex toys made of all types of materials.

When using sex toys or vibrators for the first time it is advisable to take your time and go slow.  Make sure your partner is relaxed and thoroughly sexually aroused before trying out your sex toy.

Be sensitive to how your woman reacts to the sex toy.  If you sense she is uncomfortable, ask whether she still likes what you are doing and if she confirms that she is experiencing discomfort, stop using the toy immediately.

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How to Clean Gay Sex Toys

Gay sex toys can be a great addition to our sexual bag of tricks.  Expandable butt plugs is one of the great example of gay sex toys. They can be keys to great sexual experiences for gay and heterosexual men.  These toys despite the gay label attached to them are sex toys meant for the use of men after all.

While gay sex toys can indeed bring your sexual experiences to the next level,  steps have to be taken such as cleaning the toy and keeping it clean, that have to be done so that the experience with sex toys remains a pleasurable one and not one which can adversely affect our health.

Sex toys, by the nature of their use are exposed to environments rich in biological organisms, not all of which are benign.  An unclean sex toy is not only disgusting, but it can become a hot bed and a breeding ground for dangerous microorganisms which can cause embarrassing and serious health problems.  Moreover, if you share your toy with your partner, you risk transmitting these microorganisms to him or her. Here are some tips on how to clean your sex toy.

The way one cleans a sex toy depends on the material it is made of.  Some materials tolerate certain cleaning agents better than others.  This information is usually found on the box or packaging that came with your sex toy.  If it is no longer possible to get this information, most sex toys can be cleaned with warm water and antibacterial hand soap.

There are gay sex toys which vibrate like electric vibrators and require electricity or batteries to work.  Before cleaning them, make sure you take out the batteries or unplug the toy from the wall socket.  Moreover, avoid getting the parts of the toy which contain the battery compartment or motor wet.  One should never soak a battery operated toy in water or any other cleaning agent as this will damage its electrical circuits or can cause an electrical short when turning the toy on.

Sex toys made of plastic or glass can be boiled briefly to sterilize them and then wiped down with alcohol for disinfection.  Rubber or jelly toys or simply jelly vibes on the other hand should be cleaned with warm water and antibacterial soap.

Make sure your toys are thoroughly dry before putting them away.  Storing a damp sex toy in your closet or some other dark place could encourage the growth fungus which could cause irritation in very inconvenient places.

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Tips on taking care of female sex toys

Female sex toys just as with anything you use, requires a certain amount of care so that they will last.  One of this example of  female sex toys is the be my valentine vibrator. While sex toys are not expected to last forever, there are steps you can take to make it last as long as possible.  Here are some things you can do to extend the life of your sex toy.

A lot of proper sex toy maintenance has to do with cleaning your sex toy.  Cleaning your female sex toys is as much a step to ensure your toy continues to function as it should as it is a measure one undertakes to remain in good health.  An unclean sex toy can become a hotbed and breeding ground of all sorts of microorganisms which can be dangerous to the health of a person once he or she has been exposed to it.  Risk of transmitting disease can also increase when the sex toy is shared with another.

The method of cleaning one’s sex toy largely depends on the type of material your sex toy is made of.  Porous materials such as rubber, jelly, and materials such as cyberskin can be cleaned with warm water and antibacterial soap but have to be air dried thoroughly before storing in order to avoid the growth of fungus on the toy which can cause irritation as well as damage the toy itself. Commonly sex toys for this are the jelly vibes.

Toys made of plastic, silicone, and glass can also be washed with warm water and soap as well.  These toys can be also sterilized in warm water and wiped down with alcohol if one wants additional antiseptic measures.  Before storing these kinds of toys, one simply has to wipe the toy dry with a clean, lint free cloth.

When cleaning electric vibrators, electric powered or battery operated toys, it is important to remember to never submerge the toy in water or any liquid.  Water can seep into the electrical components thereby damaging it.  Also, make sure you take out the batteries or unplug the toy from its power source before cleaning and storing it.  Used batteries tend to leak when kept in a toy for an extended period of time.  This not only creates a mess but can damage your toy beyond repair.

These simple steps can go a long way in making sure your toy continues to function as it should and that you continue to enjoy it.

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How to Take Care of your Adult Sex Toy

An adult sex toy just like any other possession we may have has to be properly cared for so that it will last and continue to function properly.  Here are some things you can do to ensure that your sex toy lasts longer.

One of the keys to good adult sex toy maintenance is sex toy hygiene.  It is critical that one cleans one’s sex toy before and after use.  An unclean sex toy is not only a major turn-off, it is also a hot bed for breeding microorganisms which may be hazardous to the health once exposed to it.

How to properly clean your sex toy largely depends on the type of material it is made of.  This information can be found in the packaging your sex toy came in.  If this is no longer available, sex toys made of most materials can be cleaned with warm water and antibacterial hand soap.  Toys made of porous materials such as jelly vibes, rubber, and cyberskin have to be air dried thoroughly before storing.  Toys made of glass or plastic can be wiped dry with a lint free cloth.

The kind of lubricant you use for your sex toys is also a factor in taking good care of your sex toy.  Some petroleum based lubricants may not react well with the compounds of certain sex toys and may degrade the material.  While these kinds of lubricants may work well enough for toys made of glass like glass pleasure balls, a water based lubricant is your safest bet when using sex toys made of other materials.

If your toy is battery operated or powered by electricity, make sure you do not completely submerge the toy in any liquid nor allow the parts which contain the motor and electronic components to get wet.  Water or liquid may damage these parts beyond repair.

Make sure too that you take the batteries out of your electric vibrators before storing it.  Used batteries may leak over time when they are left unused for an extended period.  Leaking batteries do not only make an awful mess but can damage your sex toy or cause irritation in inconvenient places should you attempt to use your sex toy in spite of the damage.

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Advice on adult sex toys (myths)

For many of us, our closest experience with adult sex toys has been to watch their use on adult films.  One of the most popular adult film is the sixteen. While the actors using them look like they are having a good time using them, we scarcely give a thought about using them ourselves or trying them out.

One of the reasons we may have not thought about using adult sex toys is because of the many misconceptions about them and their use.  Here are some of the more popular myths about adult sex toys and the truth behind them.

Myth:  Sex toys are for people who do not have a healthy sex or social life

While sex toys and electric vibrators can and do provide a safe alternative to sex with multiple partners, sex toys are used by people and couples who want to spice up their sex lives or try something different.  Sex toy usage in fact is quite common with research showing that people who have sex use adult sex toys more than those who do not have sex.

Myth: Sex toys are only for masturbation

A popular misconception is that adult sex toys are mainly used for self gratification.  The ubiquitous presence of the vibrator and the dildo in adult films may have something to do with this misconception.  The truth is that sex toys are not limited to dildos or vibrators.  Sex toys also include adult novelties such as edible underwear, feathers, costumes and other props which can be used in playing out fantasy scenarios.

Myth:  There is no place for sex toys in a healthy sexual relationship

This is not true.  In fact adult sex toys and novelties do help in creating and nurturing a healthy sexual relationship between two loving people.  It provides something different to reignite a waning sex life and it also provides a way in which two people can deepen their intimacy by playing out and fulfilling their sexual fantasies.

Myth:  Buying sex toys can be an embarrassing experience

One can acquire jelly vibrators, sex toys and adult novelties online and in the privacy of one’s own home if one feels too embarrassed to browse through the selection of an adult novelty store.  Products ordered from reputable website are delivered right to one’s home wrapped in discrete brown paper so that others do not have an idea on what is being delivered.

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How to take care of your dildo

Let’s talk about the most ubiquitous of all “woman” sex toys—the dildo.  Realistic vibrating dildos are phallus-shaped sex toys meant for penetration into the vagina or the rectum.  These toys have been around for centuries and have changed little in purpose and shape except in the types of materials they used.  In times past, dildos could be made of polished wood, stone, marble, or glass.  Nowadays synthetic materials such as plastics, silicone and even materials which feel like real skin have been used in making these sex toys.  These sex toys now also contain small motors which allow the toy to vibrate for that extra “buzz”.

No matter the type of materials they are made of or whether they vibrate or not, they all require care in order to allow them to perform the function for which they were designed properly and safely.  Here are some tips you can use to take care of your dildo.

No matter the type of dildo you have, you will have to keep it clean.  This is not only a thing one has to do in order to make sure your toy remains in good working order but it is also a measure you should undertake to avoid contracting disease or infection.  A dildo is meant to be inserted into the vagina or the anus.  These parts of the body often do contain microorganisms and bacteria which can be harmful to people.

How you clean your toy depends on the type of material it is made of.  For most cases, washing your toy with warm soap and water will do the trick.  Wash your toy every time after you use it.  If your toy has batteries or contains a small motor, make sure you take off the batteries first and do not allow the battery compartment or the part with the remote vibrator motor to get wet.  Never submerge a toy which runs on batteries or electricity.

There are commercially prepared sex toy cleaners available in the market.  Keep in mind however that some cleaners which can be oil-based can damage the surface of some toys made of plastic or silicone.  It would be a safe bet to get something water-based in order to minimize your chances of damaging the toy.

Never keep used batteries inside your toy for extended periods of time.  If you do not plan to use your dildo for an extended duration, make sure you remove the batteries before you put your toy away.

Follow these tips to ensure your toy keeps on giving you the sexual satisfaction you need for a long time.

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