May 23, 2012

What If Your Girlfriend Owns a Dildo

Girls usually keep their dildos from their boyfriends for the fear of discovery. So what if he discovers
your hidden secret? Are you scared that he might be mad at you? Why would he be angry at you
because of the dingy?

Well, guys take pride in their prime possession, and they may get jealous over someone or something
that could take over the place of their thing. Yes, many girls have this fear, but there’s no need to be
scared. In fact, some boys buy their girlfriends dildos.

If you aren’t too sure how your guy would react if he finds out you own a rubber dong, then try asking
him how he would feel about you buying a dildo? Just tell him your girlfriends were talking about dildos
the other night and that one of them actually owns one, so you’re just curious.

If he’s ok with it, then you can tell him you actually own one. If he doesn’t approve of it then just keep
your secret well hidden.

Sex toys like dildos can actually make your relationship spicy and exciting. You don’t have to use that
dong alone. He can use it with you. Not that he’s going to use it on himself, but he can use it to pleasure
you.

This is something that had really got me down so no jokes or sarcasm please. Me and my Girlfriend have been in a relationship for a few months now and things are going well (in the bedroom too) and ive never thought about my ‘size’ but i looked it up today to find it was average/above average, anyway, i was shocked the other day to find that she had bought a dildo, now ive read some other questions on yahoo from people who also felt a little unappreciated/inadequate/upset by this and found allot of answers along the lines of ‘talk to her and tell her how you feel’ well i thought ‘yes, ill do that’ i explained to her that i felt upset that she bought it and that i do feel slightly inadequate and id prefer it if she didn’t use it but i don’t want to dictate and she can decide to use it or not.

Here’s a link about the topic “My Girlfriend bought a dildo”?

My Girlfriend bought a dildo?

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Safety with Sex Toys

When you’re playing with sex toys, there are guidelines that you need to follow because these objects
are not your usual toys.

First, you want to make sure that sex toys are clean. That dildo should be sterilized before you decide to
place it into your vagina. Dirty dildos or vibratos can cause irritation or worse infection. Cleaning your
sex toys should be part of your sex toy hygiene, which is extremely important. You must clean your sex
toys after using them to remove the bacteria that may otherwise build up on left dirt and grime.

Another thing is to use the sex toy for the purpose it was made. For instance, do not use a vibrator
inside the bathroom if it’s not waterproof, and never insert a massager into your vagina if it’s not
designed for penetration. Injury may result from misuse of sex toys.

You shouldn’t be too aggressive and adventurous. There’s a limit to being playful. You may think brutal
dildos are fun, but if you hurt yourself, you could get into a really embarrassing situation. The same
thing can also happen if you take sex toys to your trips. Rabbit vibrators are never good toys to bring for
trips especially if you know you’d be going through inspection.

Furthermore, you should make sure to buy sex toys from trusted sellers and make sure such products
don’t contain harmful chemicals.

Little background 1st. I am a 21 yr old married woman. I am disease free but I am having an issue. I have been to the clinic and I am COMPLETELY free of any STD’s so my issue IS NOT an STD. I have a pleasure toy with a vibrating dolphin on it. I was wondering if it was possible for the excessive friction to cause a sore? I have a small sore right where the “lips” of the dolphin connect with my outside “pleasure button”.

Here’s a link about safe sex.

Kind of a weird/embarrassing question?

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How to Win Girls?

So many crazy guys are worried they can’t find a date or girlfriend. If you’re one of them, then ask
yourself: are you even looking? Perhaps you’re looking at the wrong girls, or you are just in the wrong
places. If you’re the indoor kind of guy, don’t hope finding a girlfriend in the neighborhood.

Go out there and meet people and act nice. If you’re either too meek and timid or too aggressive and
overbearing, girls will really stay away from you. Be yourself but that doesn’t mean highlighting the
negative traits you possess. That this-is-me-there’s-nothing-you-can-do-about-it kind of attitude causes
annoyance most of the time. If the real you is unpleasant, you won’t gain friends, let alone girlfriends.

Look at yourself in the mirror, and ask yourself if you’re attractive? Do you think girls will like looks or
getup? How about a little grooming? You don’t have to change your fashion style or spend lots of cash
hiring a stylist to make you look like a hot model—but that may work too!

Anyway, be polite with girls. Help a girl who drops her things at the corridor—this is way too classic!

Also, a little confidence won’t hurt you. Say Hi! Smile at a girl you like and make a quick eye contact (add
about another second of eye contact). Smell good!

There’s this guy at my university who live in same dorm as me. He’s also in my photography class. This guy is a bodyguard for some bigwig couple nights per week. He’s very cold, almost unapproachable and rather calloused. His sense of humor is just downright creepy. He laughs at many things that no one else would laugh at such as when one of the football players who was known to be cocky got carried out on a stretcher or a girl whose is a student here crashed her brand new expensive car.
No body here wants to be his roommate at all.

Here’s a link about why girls sleep the guy?

Why do so many girls sleep with this guy?

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Tips for Men Who Can’t Last Long Enough

Premature ejaculation is not a problem of a few men but a problem of many. If you last less than ten
minutes, then you are probably one of them, but don’t worry because there are several options for you.

One of the plainest solutions is to masturbate to ejaculation before you engage in sex with your partner.
Stimulating yourself before intercourse can desensitize you and make it longer for you to reach orgasm
and ejaculate.

Another worth trying technique is to learn when to stop. When you approach orgasm, you have to
control yourself. Either you withdraw your penis or stop moving for a while until the sensations subside.
While waiting for the pre-orgasmic sensations to subside, continue stimulating her using your fingers or
tongue.

Spending more time doing foreplay can be a good trick to make your romantic episode last longer.
Spend perhaps an hour fondling her and caressing her sensitive areas. That’s how you make her get to a
very aroused state.

Also, learn to masturbate her or give her a cunnilingus, which can rouse her until she nears the orgasm.
You can then spend the next few minutes doing vaginal intercourse. If you’re lucky, you might both
experience orgasm at the same time.

Try using desensitizing creams to prolong your staying power. You may also try a cock ring to help you
hold it longer.

For many men around the world, premature ejaculation is a curse that puts the brakes on their sex lives. Yet many mistakenly think that PE is a form of sexual disease or illness. It is not. On the contrary, premature ejaculation is often caused by psychological factors. Studies have consistently shown that anxiety and stress are behind most cases of PE.

Here’s a link about How To Prolong Intercourse For Amazing Sex.

How To Prolong Intercourse For Amazing Sex (6 Sensational Facts To Extend Your Sexual Stamina Tonight!)

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Weight Problem and Sex

Obesity can affect your sex life in ways more than one. While it can affect your overall wellbeing, it can
also affect the relationship you share with your partner. This is why you really have to take good care of
your body.

First of all obesity can give you enough health problems already to worry about sex. Cardiovascular
disease and diabetes are just some of the dreadful conditions that you can suffer from after putting on
so much weight. You have been told from the very beginning how important regulating your weight is.

Heart problems, blood circulation problems, and diabetes due to obesity can lead to sexual problems
in both men and women. Men can have erectile dysfunction while women may suffer from sexual
dysfunction as well.

You also look less attractive with all that fat everywhere. Don’t blame your lover if they no longer think
of you in sexual terms if your waist has grown big.

Often, the solution is one thing—to exercise and regulate your diet. Many can do this but some seem to
be too indolent. Neglecting your health can impact your relationship with another. Some file for divorce
because they no longer like their big partners.

There is a reason why we all like those lean bodies and trimmed waistlines. They depict good health—
and good health means good sex.

You can’t remember the last time you had a waist and, if you had to update your CV, ‘lemon meringue queen’ would be at the top of your list of capabilities. The couch is much cosier than the gym, and you haven’t owned a scale in years … but how do things look in the bedroom?

Here’s a link about sex problem regarding on weight.

Is your sex life suffering from those extra kilos?

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Dump That Demanding Boyfriend!

Having a relationship with someone who treats you like a commodity or treats you like you’re their slave
or worker can be extremely distressing. You might have seen girls who were only dragged to dates and
were asked to do their boyfriend’s bidding. And it’s annoying to see them allow their partners treat
them that way. But what if you get into this kind of relationship?

Sometimes, you love the person too much that you don’t think questioning his love at first is going to
work. You’re blinded by your feelings towards or maybe you’re only afraid that he might choose another
girl who could act better. If this is the case, then you’re slave not only to him but to your emotions as
well. You allow him to grab you by the tail and swing you around with your fears.

It’s time for you to liberate yourself from an unyielding relationship. If your boyfriend is treating you
like a possession that he must have at all times, then he’s being too selfish in this relationship. So he can
heave you to his parties, while you can’t be with your friends? That’s ridiculous!

If he truly cares for you, he would allow you to be just who you are and he will respect that you have a
life outside your relationship, that there are times when you don’t feel like having sex with him, and that
you want to be pampered every once in a while.

If I give my boyfriend everything he wants in bed, then he gives me everything I want out of it.
If I’m prepared to go the extra mile and agree to role-playing, sex toys and kinky stuff, then I get treated to good restaurants.

Here’s a link about how does your lover treat you?

MY FELLA TREATS ME LIKE A WHORE

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What Do You Know About Sex?

Many blogs feature sex as a physical experience between two people, highlighting the intense
sensations that are experienced, overlooking the other sublime aspects of this physical union, such as
emotional events and elation that occurs during such deep phenomenon.

Sex is not just something done because two people want to experience orgasm. Most writers talk
about sex in terms of achieving grand sensations and ending in a superb orgasm. But sex is also a deep
emotional experience for many. In fact, this is when people express their love to their partners, more
than something done because both are horny.

Also, there is some differences between how men and how women view sex. Most men think of sex as
a physical experience, but that does not mean they don’t care about their partners during sex. Most
women, on the other hand, think of sex as an emotional bond between him and her, so she likes him to
express his love while sweating with her. Then again, that does not suggest that she doesn’t get turned
on by a sensuous encounter. That does not mean that she doesn’t enjoy every second of pumping and
shaking.

You may learn tricks when reading blogs devoted to couples and singles, but feel free to discover your
own tricks. There are also tips that will not work for you. Don’t think anything you read on the internet
about sex applies to you.

The Missionary position is probably the most common first position people try, which is probably related to its simplicity and the high level of intimacy experienced. To get into the position, the receiver simply lies down on their back while their partner lies face-down on top of them.

Here’s a link about sex positions.

Sex Position Of The Week – Missionary Sex Position

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That Great Oral Sex

Giving him a fellatio or her a cunnilingus is one of the best you can offer your lover. You do know for
sure how it feels to be orally stimulated. It feels really good, so you want to make your lover feel that
awesome goodness. You should not just lie there on the bed waiting for them to stimulate you that way.

You can start fondling their genitals in the middle of your foreplay. Some good lube will always work.
Flavored lubes may work great if you’re about to go down on him. On the other hand, be aware that
flavored lubes may irritate her privates. Anyway, she will spurt those lovely juices if you’re doing it right.

Sometimes, oral sex is tough. You might have heard of girls gagging while taking their male lovers all in.
Some guys also get squeamish too while in between her thighs. It requires some practice though, and
you may not get it right the first time.

The trick is to enjoy every experience of it, and make sure you pay attention to how your lover reacts to
every motion, every lick, and every sucking you make. Your warm wet mouth and tongue can give them
a delicious experience.

If your lover gives you an awesome oral stimulation, consider returning the favor. They will love you
more for it.

When asked what your oral sex style is, everyone claims they’re a giver. This can’t be true. Besides there are far more options to oral sex than just being a giver and none are mutually exclusive.  I’ve even met a few admitted ‘non-givers’ in my time.

Here’s a link about oral sex.

Oral Sex: what is your style?

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Can We Skip that Long Foreplay?

There is always this talk about foreplay in sex. Yes, it’s important but there are times when you can skip
it and proceed to the real thing.

Most of the time, she easily gets in the mood after spending an hour or two at a nightclub. After having
a great time out with friends and shaking those booties in the pub, she may be in the mood when you
get home. You’re not hitting the sack right away. She might untie you and take off your clothes before
you hit the bed.

After picking up your lover from their business trip, you may have missed each other so much that all
you want to do when you get home is strip each other and get to some real blazing hot private business.

If you’re doing it inside a cinema or parking lot, there may be no need for lots of prelude. All you need to
do is unzip his pants and pull down her skirt or jeans, and you’re ready to get on a thrilling ride.

You may also stop thinking about foreplay if you don’t have much time. If you’re meeting your lover
during your one-hour lunch break, you may have to squeeze a few minutes for a hot quickie—then lunch
is served!

We know that every advice column has attempted to drill into men’s heads that the No. 1 thing women want in bed is foreplay, foreplay, foreplay. But AskMen is going to contradict those teachings. Believe it or not, there are occasions when a woman doesn’t need the big build-up and wants to get straight to the main event. These are the times when the requisite foreplay can be skipped because she’s ready to get down to business immediately.

Here’s a link about No Foreplay Required.

No Foreplay Required

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How to Get Her in the Mood

Getting her in the mood is the key to have a great night. But you have to know the ways to turn you on
may not work for her. Girls’ sexuality works in a different way. They are more emotional than sexual
creatures. So that means you to make them feel appreciated and loved.

Giving her a massage tonight can turn on the right button. This is also like a treat after a tough day. Or
simply this can work as a warm-up to loosen her up and get her ready for sex. Get a massage lube and
stroke her foot and toes and ankles. While you’re doing that, let her feel your love. Talk about the great
things about her. Let her feel you appreciate every little thing she does.

As much as she can flaunt her sexy curves, you can also flaunt those humps too. She may just be turned
on after seeing you come out of the shower with a towel around your waist. See if she stares at you.
Stare back seductively—pretend you’re the hottest guy in town.

Kiss her—girls can easily be turned on be a great kiss. A passionate kiss can be magical. Don’t forget to
run your fingers to her lovely spots. You know where these are for sure.

Are you finding yourself in the mood for sex more often than your lady—a lot more often? If so, you’re not alone. Many men share this common complaint. But don’t worry! Just because your lady says she’s not in the mood doesn’t mean you can’t get her there!

Here’s a link about how to get her in a mood?

Get Her From “I’m Not in the Mood!” to “Let’s Get It On!”

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