February 9, 2012

Masturbation and Guilt Feelings

Boys and girls pleasure themselves by handling their genitals until they reach a point when they feel
intense pleasure. This process is called masturbation and this is said to be a healthy thing, but some
people think it should not be done. People like Christine O’Donnell think that masturbation is a sin. So
this again roots itself to what religious doctrines say. We cannot speak against the sacred doctrines
because that would only put our stance in more serious peril.

The real thing is that most boys do it and some girls do it too. Should they be warned that they are going
to be sent to hell because they take a lot of pleasure in fondling themselves? Perhaps, sanctimonious
folks can lay low on scaring everyone about all these matters that may only be discussed within the
corners of the holy grounds. There is enough realism in the world to entertain such hostile beliefs. If we
all would think all sins will be punished, then think that everyone shall be.

When we say that a lot of people masturbates, that does not mean to encourage masturbation, but
neither should anyone cast gloom upon those who please themselves behind closed doors. No one is
clean enough to do that. Masturbation is a way to explore one’s sexuality and is also a way to relieve
sexual tension. As long as you don’t do harm to others, then you should be fine.

Christine O’Donnell, the new star of the religious right and not a woman to beat about the bush, claims masturbation is a sin. In a non sequitur from the 90s, O’Donnell declared: “The Bible says that lust in your heart is committing adultery. So you can’t masturbate without lust.”

Here’s a link about Christine O’Donnell article about masturbation.

Hey, Christine O’Donnell – don’t knock masturbation

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When Neighbors Get Too Nosy

If you do business at home, you have to be extremely careful or you might end up just like the poor
Kristal Ann Taylor, a 41-year-old woman from Stillwater, Minnesota. The police arrested her for
prostitution.

It started when the prying neighbors became a little curious about this woman’s occupation which she
happens to carry out inside the confines of her house. She owns a website that has attracted so much
male traffic. So there’s the address, a residential unit which may be thought of as drug den or a house of
a wealthy businessman.

But when the neighborhood saw men coming one after the other and staying roughly an hour at Taylor’s
residence, they became suspicious. The attention of the police was called and men who were coming
out of this curious house were interrogated. It was revealed that Ms. Taylor was conducting some
bondage drama inside her private place.

When the cops searched her place, they found out her sex dungeon with all the bondage paraphernalia
lying around. She really set up the place to become a private area where she could carry out BDSM
activities, and she charges her clients exorbitantly.

Neighbors were only concerned about the possible effects of Ms. Taylor’s unbecoming occupation
towards the moral standards observed in the community. One mother was worried for her kids that
they might see such misdemeanor.

A Stillwater woman was arrested on Friday for providing dominatrix services.
Authorities say Kristal Ann Taylor, 41, who calls herself ‘The Taboo Goddess’ charges $150 per hour for services at her home on S. Everett St.
Stillwater Police Sergeant Jeff Stender tells 5 EYEWITNESS NEWS, although the ads specify only dominatrix services, he believes sexual acts were involved. He says the main level of the home was set up with bondage apparatuses and sex toys.

Here’s a link about the video taboo goddess.

‘Taboo Goddess’ Busted for Offering Dominatrix Services

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Surveys About Sex

Surveys show that people from different places have different sexual behaviors. There are a group of
people who invest in trying more sexual positions, and there are also those who buy more sex toys. We
cannot explain why these differences occur. Maybe this is tied to the regional differences in lifestyle.

If people in New York City buy more sex toys than those in Newark, does that mean New Yorkers are
more lewd and more sexually preoccupied? We really cannot tell. All we can say is that the differences
in sexual practices among various groups of people from different regions are interesting to note.

For instance, there is a survey from Men’s Health that says Americans in the Midwestern states are not
missing out on sex. In fact, the opposite is the truth. Our Midwestern folks are having delightful sex,
and they are the most sexually satisfied people in United States. Do you know about that? The cities
that ranked high in the sexual satisfaction survey were Indianapolis, Columbus (Ohio), Fort Wayne,
Cincinnati, and Salt Lake City.

On the other hand, coastal cities had one thing in common. They have people who buy more sex toys.
These cities include New York City, Chicago, Seattle, and Los Angeles. Why people in these cities buy
more sex toys remains unexplained.

Sadly, people from other cities don’t seem to fare as well as the others on this survey. It seems people
from Jersey City and Newark were interested in other things than sex.

Live in the middle of the county and think you’re missing out? According to a new survey from Men’s Health, the Midwest is best at having sex. The survey ranked Indianapolis, IN; Columbus, OH; Fort Wayne, IN; Cincinnati, OH; and Salt Lake City, UT as the most sexually satisfied cities in the country based on frequency of sex acts.

Here’s a link about sex survey.

Middle America Does The Nasty Better Than Anybody

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Would You Talk to Your Kids About Sex?

Most parents are afraid to discuss sex with their kids. Kids will eventually ask about pregnancy, and
many parents have trouble answering this question. Many of us also think that kids will grow up anyway
and learn about this stuff from outside sources. However, it is important that they know about at home
from you no less.

This talk about sex starts when kids begin wondering where they come from. Parents are usually
stunned when their children ask them where they came from. You don’t have to panic when your
kid comes up with that funny question. Instead, you tell them the truth. You don’t have to tell them
anything because they will not understand some of the details anyway.

At first, you may talk to your child that they came from your womb, a saclike structure inside you, until
they are ready to be born. As they grow old, they may ask other questions, and by this time you should
be ready to discuss about sex. Explain to your child it is something done out of love. More specifically
talk about sex in terms of union of male and female genitalia.

Do not talk about sex and describe it the way you see in porn movies. Children should learn the value of
sex. It’s not something that can be done anytime with anyone.

My naughty drawer is not what it once was. At the moment, it contains: a bullet vibrator; two smoothie vibrators; a baggie filled with review samples of 20 or so different types of personal lubricants; a bottle of my favorite scented massage oil; a vanilla sugar-scented massage candle; an I Rub My Duckie; a sleep mask I typically use only when I’m having trouble falling asleep; leather handcuffs; one gorgeous bit of lingerie; a bottle of BabeLube; the fertility-friendly lube I purchased for babymaking sex; and a shit-ton of batteries. I keep a wide-tipped riding crop behind the bed, and a healthy collection of sexy how-tos on a shelf.

Here’s a link about sex talk.

Does Sex Writing Prepare You For The Sex Talk?

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Tracking Your Sex Life on the Web

There is a new innovation on the internet right now and is called Bedpost, which is an app that allows
you to keep track of your sex life. You may think this is like telling everyone, “Hey, I got laid last night,”
but this site respects the privacy of its users and does not have the features you normally find on
social networking sites. While you may be able to see your partner online when they log in, there is
no way you can communicate with them. You also cannot view their profile. The application looks
like a calendar on which you can tag activities, sex toys used, and positions done on a particular date.
After a time, you will eventually find out your sexual behavior—what days you usually engage in sex,
what positions you usually do, and what toys you tend to use. This can be fun and may make you know
yourself better.

You will need an email address when signing up, and you will provide data about yourself, like your
gender or sexual orientation. But any of the information about you will never be shared with a third
party for whatever reason.

Well, nevertheless, you might have checked out the site just now. It looks a little too uneventful.

Now this is what I call innovation! Bedpost is an app currently in its beta stages that lets you track your sex life online. It is completely private and has no social networking features. However, there is word that it will eventually include a notification if a partner logs in, but there will still be no communication or viewing of other people’s profiles.

Here’s a link about Cool New Sex Tracking App.

Cool New Sex Tracking App

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What You Must Remember on a One-Night Stand

One-night stand is nowhere near a long term affair. It stays where it’s done and nothing more after that.
You can’t fall for the person who’s with you at a motel the night before. It’s ridiculous if you did.

You don’t have to ask for their name. In fact, you can have as many orgasms tonight as you can have
without knowing each other’s name. You’re bound to forget their name as much as they’re bound to
forget yours too. They may also not tell you their true names, so you don’t have to tell them your true
name. Hide your ID’s in your bag.

There’s no need to get their numbers. What are you thinking? Are you going to expect the other to
phone you for some cappuccino the next day? No way! Save your numbers and go straight home the
next morning.

Have some condoms handy. Since this is a no-strings-attached affair, it should leave any trace
afterwards. A condom is always handy to avoid sexually transmitted disease or a ridiculous pregnancy.

Be courteous still even if you’re just a random partner. It doesn’t mean you can just step out of the
room the next morning while the other’s still asleep. Ok, if you can’t wake them up, just leave a note.
And by the way, you can say “thank you”.

Consider this a public service announcement, because we hear about way too many encounters where one person wants to keep it casual but ends up in a long term relationship. These are some do’s and don’ts of one night stands that seem obvious enough, but need to be made clear so people don’t forget.

Here’s a link about dos and don’t in a one night stand.

Do’s and Don’ts Of A One Night Stand

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On Penile Size… Again?

There was this curious survey that compared penis size and female satisfaction during sex. It says that
an ideal penis should be about 8 inches long and a little less than 1.5 inches thick. That means only
roughly 1% of men are able to satisfy women. Most men have penis length that is about 5.75 inches. The
average size ranges from 5.5 to 6.5 inches.

Let’s talk about this size issue a little more. Size may be a lot of an issue if we’re in a competition or
perhaps something like the Guinness, but sex is a different issue. If we’re into sexual intercourse, well,
then let’s ask the ladies. Most women aren’t too conscious about size anyway. Why would they be?
Most men are equipped with organs that can hit the most sensitive region in the vagina. Pleasing her
doesn’t require a 9-inch thingy but much shorter than that. Even a 6-inch dong will not necessarily be all
taken in.

The depth of most vaginas is around 4 inches, and you can add an inch more if she’s aroused. The most
sensitive depth into the vagina is up to 3 inches as much of the nerve endings are near the opening. She
doesn’t feel much sensation deep down there, so there is no need for the seventh or eighth inch really.

In other words, men with 6 inches don’t have to be jealous with those who own 8 inches.

Alright guys, when you get past all the “motion of the ocean,” “it’s how you use it,” and Easter Bunny stuff, it is time to face the reality that size matters. Thanks to the guys at penissizedebate.com, we now have an idea of how it matters as you can see in the penis size preference chart above. As you might have guessed, girth is as important as length and a sweet spot develops between the 7 ¼ to 8 ¼ inch range with 6 ¼ -6 ½ circumference.

Here’s a link about size matters.

Breaking: Size Matters!

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What You Get From Sex Blogs

If you’re bored, one of the good things you can do is check out sex blogs. What can you get from these
sites?

Sex blogs do have a collection of erotic stories to titillate your mind with imaginations of incredible
encounters. You might just like the graphic descriptions of intimate moments on an erotic novel. You
might just be engrossed in viewing the pages to get yourself in the mood. Sex stories can sometimes be
more arousing than porn videos.

There are also a lot of tips and advice for lovers and people in relationships. Sex and relationship advice
are read by millions of people all over the world. Let us just say that many lovers out there don’t know
how to deal with the tough times. Pieces of advice you get over the internet come from people who
have been there and done that.

You may also find ads of the hottest sex toys in the market. Well, sex toys are essential objects if you
are into adding spice to your romantic encounters. Sex toys include masturbators, cock rings, vibrators,
massagers, dildos, anal beads, and sex dolls. These products can be used by singles and married couples,
and they can add pleasure to your otherwise ordinary sex.

A little change in how things are done for this edition – you’ll notice there are no “Top 3″ picks – due in part to the holiday I ended up being extremely short on judges and I didn’t have enough for fair voting. So instead, I expanded my “Featured Post”. (If you’d like to volunteer to be an occasional judge for e[lust], just email me, Lilly, at questions.e.lust @ gmail.com) Also, please be sure to check out the new summer schedule in effect until the 20th edition.

Here’s a link about Northern lights and sleepless nights.

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Health Benefits of Pranayama

Pranayama is the art of controlling your manner of breathing—an essential aspect of Yoga. This
breathing technique trains you to breathe slowly and deeply. This reduces your breathing rate from 15
times a minute to about 5 times a minute. The fewer times you breathe the lower your heart rate but
the more oxygen is carried to your body cells. Slow breathing also decreases the rate of aging of your
body organs. It also calms down your nervous system leading to relaxation. According to Yoga teachers,
slow breathing is one secret to longevity. You can achieve longer life with lowered breathing rate. It
is not the number of breaths you make that will guarantee your health. The quality of each breath is
vital to your health. One of the vital organs that benefit much from an ideal breathing is your heart. The
heart is a very hard-working organ in the body beating a hundred thousand times in a day. The muscles
of your heart need a lot of oxygen that can only be provided by the lungs. When the lungs and heart
are healthy, all the other organs in your body will be able to function appropriately. The more oxygen
delivered to your tissues, the better they function. This is also the secret to detoxifying your cells.

When I started learning the package of seven yogic pranayama techniques of Yogiraj Swamy Ram Dev in India about two years back, I did not realize that it would turn out to be the greatest healer for me and would become a part of my regular practice, eventually. I was already into natural healing arts through teaching of Reiki, Art of Living ,Sujok therapy, Acupressure and Reflexology, which I practiced regularly to keep my body and soul together in my late sixties but I always missed something which could bring me to a deeper meditative state besides addressing my physical problems effectively. The amazing package which has healed hundreds of thousands of people in India and worldwide provided me the answer.

Here’s a link about Stay Fit with Pranayama.

Stay Fit with Pranayama in Twenty Minutes a Day

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Ever Encountered Ridiculous Sex Laws

Travel around the world and across United States and you might be shocked at several laws that prohibit
certain sex acts.

For instance, if you have been in Guam for a while, you might have heard about virgins not allowed to
marry, so there are actually men there whose job is to make love with virgins.

You’ll surely die laughing if you heard that men in Lebanon are allowed to have sex with animals but
only those of the female sex because raping a male animal can cost a Lebanese man his life!

You may be wondering if all girls in Washington are virgins because there’s a state law that forbids
making out with a virgin.

It’s even weirder in Cali, Colombia where the first time a couple engages in sexual intercourse, the
mother of the woman should be inside the bedroom to witness the act.

If you’re in Romboch, Virginia, you shouldn’t shag under full blast of lights because that’s illegal. And in
Nevada, condoms are more than handy because you cannot engage in intercourse without them.

Men in Alexandria, Minnesota can’t have bad breath when they make love with their partners. The law
requires them to brush their teeth and have fresh breath before getting under the sheets.

Perhaps, one of the harshest laws is found in Indonesia, where you can’t masturbate because you’d go
headless.

I found this amusing infographic and it has shattered my lifelong dream of conducting official business in the Nevada legislature while wearing a penis costume. Most of the crazy sex laws pictured are similarly silly, but I find it unsettling that people felt the need to legislate against them in the first place.

Here’s a link about sex laws.

Silly Sex Laws

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