February 8, 2012

Sex Toy Party Ideas

If you are looking for an alternative to the usual girl night out, but still want to go a little naughty then consider holding a sex toy party.

A sex toy party usually involves the selling and displaying of adult novelties, sex toys and some of vibrators.  These sex toy parties are usually employed by representatives of adult novelty stores called sex toy party consultants to introduce and demonstrate their wares to prospective clients.  If you want to hold a sex toy party, calling a sex toy party consultant may be the best way to go.

If however, you are just after some fun and are not really keen on the sales aspect, here are some ideas you can use to hold a sex toy-themed party.

One idea you can use is to hold an adult-version of a pajama party.  Ask them to come to the party in their sleeping wear and to bring a sex toy which they consider their favorite like fun female vibrators and classic vibes.  If they have had no prior experience with sex toys, ask them to choose something which looks interesting and which they would think about using.  At the party, ask them to bring their toy out and explain how they use it or think it is used.  Offer a prize for the person with the best story.

Come up with interesting parlor games with a naughty or funny twist.  For instance one can have a contest on who can peel a banana sing only the mouth—no hands allowed.   Another game could be what is called regaining your virginity.  Ask your friends who among them would like to get back their virginity and explain to them that all they have to do is to eat a cherry out of the bowl without using their hands.  After explaining the rules and giving them each a bowl with a cherry in it, fill the bowl with whipped cream and then tell them to begin.

You can also live up to the sexy theme of your party by offering drinks with suggestive names such as sex on the beach, blowjob, or screaming orgasm.  Cakes or cookies shaped in sexually suggestive themes could also serve as refreshments during your party.

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Advice on Gay Sex toy

Many adult novelties meant for the use of men have often been labeled as a gay sex toy.  This is probably due to the fact that their use is closely related to sexual activities usually indulged in or enjoyed by gay men.

The problem with calling an adult novelty a gay sex toy is that it may put off heterosexual men who can enjoy the use of a toy as much as a gay man.  For a few brave heterosexual men who have managed to overcome the misconceptions of these kinds of adult novelties, sex with a woman has been even better than before.  One must simply keep in mind that using these sex toys or strap on vibes does not make one change his sexual orientation.  It is simply a new and great way to experience sex.

Many sex toys meant for men’s use involve anal penetration.  What makes anal penetration pleasurable for men is that it is through the walls of the rectum that the prostate can be stimulated.  The prostate is a small nerve-covered organ which is responsible for generating the fluid which is used to deliver sperm into the vagina.  Stimulation of the prostate is said to result in very intense climax and ejaculation.

One such anal toy designed to stimulate the prostate is the anal plug.  These are bullet shaped toys with a flared base like bullet vibrators.  The toy is meant to be inserted into the anus and left there while the person using it engages in sexual intercourse.  The natural movements of intercourse moves the toy against the prostate stimulating it.  The flared base keeps the toy from penetrating too deeply as to prevent easy recovery.

Another kind of toy for anal use is the jelly vibes, anal dildo or anal wand.  These toys are longer and slimmer than butt plugs and are meant to be manipulated by a partner.  These toys simulate anal intercourse and can have bumps and curves so that they are better able to access the prostate.

Anal beads are another type of sex toy which consist of small spheres attached together in a series.  The beads or balls are meant to be inserted into the anus one at a time and then removed at varying speeds to hasten or enhance sexual climax.

When using anal toys, make sure you use an adequate amount of sex toy lubricant to prevent discomfort or injury.

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How to use a gay sex toy on your partner—anal wands

A gay sex toy is actually an adult novelty meant for the use of men.  The gay label may have been added because of the fact that it is closely associated with sexual activities that gay men indulge in—in particular anal penetration and intercourse.

The fact is however that a gay sex toy can just be as much enjoyed by heterosexual men.  The fact that one enjoys anal penetration does not make one change his sexual preference.  It is just another way of enjoying sex and getting sexually aroused.

One adult novelty which has often been branded as a gay sex toy but which can be enjoyed by heterosexual men are butt tingler and anal wands.  These are often shaped like rough representations of the human phallus but is slimmer and may have bumps and curves meant to stimulate the prostate.  The prostate is a small and nerve covered organ which can be stimulated through the walls of the rectum.  Stimulating the prostate has been said to produce intense and strong ejaculations.

These adult novelties can indeed be pleasurable to use but there are things one has to keep in mind when using them so that it remains a pleasurable and injury free experience.

The first thing one must do is to ensure that the vibrator one is using is clean.  These toys can become a vehicle for transmitting sexually transmitted disease, especially if it is shared between partners.  Follow the manufacturer’s instructions to properly clean your anal wand.  One may also choose to use a condom on the toy as an added measure against disease.

The anus and the rectum is not designed for sexual penetration and can be extremely uncomfortable if not done the proper way.  In order to avoid pain and to keep things injury free, one should use a liberal amount of sex toy lubricant on the toy and on the anus itself.

Anal penetration would be easier if the person being penetrated is relaxed and thoroughly sexually aroused.  Thus it would be wise to engage in foreplay with your partner before attempting to insert the toy.

Keep in mind that anal wands do not have to be inserted in its entirety to be enjoyed.  Only insert the toy as far as it does not produce discomfort and pain.  Once the person’s sexual arousal has been deepened further, one can attempt to push the wand deeper.  Make sure to add more sex toy lubricant like anal blu.

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How to clean anal sex toys

Anal sex toys are great sex toys which have provided both men and women a different but pleasurable sexual experience.

As can be gathered from their name, these toys are designed for anal penetration.  For men, anal penetration allows for the stimulation of the prostate, a small nerve covered organ responsible for the creation of the fluid which transports sperm to the vagina.  Stimulation of the prostate is said to result in hastened and more intense climax.

For women, the pleasurable sensations of anal play stems from the sensitive nerves around the anus.  Inserting toys into the anal cavity stimulates this nerves which, when done right can be pleasurable for women.

While anal sex toys do provide a great means to enjoy sexual play, cleaning these toys properly is essential if using it will continue to be a pleasurable experience.  Sex toys if left unclean can become a breeding ground for disease causing microorganisms and can become a vehicle for transmitting it too.  This is especially true for anal sex toys which by virtue of their use, is exposed to environments which are anything but sanitary.

The first thing that should be kept in mind is when to clean anal sex toys like anal invader cock cage.  These adult novelties should be cleaned before use and as soon as possible after use and before storing and putting it away.

The proper way to clean anal sex toys depends on the material it is made of.  This is because some cleaning agents and cleaning methods may damage one’s toy.  In order to determine the material your toy is made of consult the packaging of your sex toy or the instruction manual.  Always follow the manufacturer’s recommendations when cleaning your sex toy.

For toys made of plastic and silicone, these can be cleaned with antibacterial soap and rubbing alcohol.  Silicone toys can also be boiled for three to five minutes to further sterilize them.

Toys made of porous materials such as jelly vibrators or cyberskin should be cleaned using a special sex toy cleaner.  They can also be cleaned using a mild antibacterial soap.  Never use alcohol to clean these anal sex toys as alcohol can damage the material which the toy is made of.

If your toy is one which vibrates like vibrating bullets, make sure you take out the batteries or unplug it from its power source before cleaning.  Moreover, take extra care to make sure that water does not enter the parts containing the motor, battery compartment, and switches.

Finally, make sure your toy is thoroughly dry before storing it.  Anal sex toys made of porous materials have to be thoroughly air dried whereas those of non-porous materials can be wiped dry with a clean cloth.

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Anal Play Basics

Many people don’t know that the anus is one sensitive spot. Pleasuring the anus is a good treat for both
men and women. If you haven’t tried this, now is the time to explore anal stimulation. Don’t be afraid
that it would turn out to be a painful experience because it shouldn’t be uncomfortable if you know how
to do it right.

You can use your fingers and you need a lot of lubrication. So get those water-based lubes and relax
yourself. If you’re introducing anal stimulation to your partner, tell them to relax too. You can use a sex
toy like a butt plug or anal beads. If you don’t have any sex toy right now, then simply try your handy
fingers.

You want to start rubbing the rim of the anus in circular motion with your lubed fingers. To make this
more exciting, stimulate the genitalia of your partner. Of course, you can’t do this whole thing without
their anus properly exposed. Perhaps you can prop a pillow under their hips and tell them to position
their legs wide apart. Or have them bend down on their knees with their bottom up to better exposed
their glorious tightness.

The idea of anal play is to introduce a new sensation to your lover (whether a woman or a man). Be
gentle during the first time. Insert a lubed finger or an anal sex toy.

Anal play – couples who haven’t tried it are mostly afraid of the unknown, and those who have done it (blush, me) love it (blush, me).

Here’s a link about anal play.

Anal Play – Yes Or No?

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How to use baby vibrators

Baby vibrators are popular among women or couples who like to bring their toys along with them as they travel.  Because they are smaller than regular vibrators, they can be carried and kept away in a discrete corner of your luggage or fit in a handbag. This are known as small vibrators.

The only thing small about baby vibrators is its size.  Despite their size, they are perfectly capable of giving the user intense orgasms.  Here are some tips on how to use baby vibrators.

Whether they be vibrators or any other type of sex toys for couples, it is important that we clean the toy before using it.  An unclean sex toy can contain all sorts of disease causing microorganisms—especially if you share your toy with another person.  Even a toy new and fresh out of the box should be cleaned thoroughly as these may contain chemical residue on its surface leftover from the manufacturing process.  These chemicals can cause irritation in very sensitive parts of the body.

Because of their small size, handbag hercules mini vibrator can be inserted into the vagina or the anus.  If you intend to use the toy in that manner make sure that you have a means of preventing the toys from penetrating too far to prevent easy removal—unless you want an embarrassing trip to the hospital.

Toys this small can lull one into thinking that one can insert the toy inside the vagina or anus right away.  While this may be possible for some people, for most, doing this without deepening one’s sexual arousal or using personal lubricant can cause discomfort.  You can use the sex toy on your other erogenous zones such as the breasts, nipples, inside the thighs and the pubic area to get you more excited and physically ready to insert the toy.  Make sure too that you use an adequate amount of sex toy or personal lubricant.

One can experiment or vary the sensations one experiences with vibrators by pressing the vibrator firmly or lightly on a particular sexual hotspot. Some baby vibrators have controls which allow you to control the intensity of the vibrations the toy creates.  Experiment with this too and find the combination of pressure and speed which you find most pleasurable.

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Advice on couples’ vibrators

Couples’ vibrators are great sex toys which can revitalize a relationship floundering on the tides of routine and familiarity.  These adult novelties have helped hundreds of couples rediscover the joys of being intimate and reignite their interest in one another.

While it is true that couples’ vibrators and other sex toys can help a uplift a flagging relationship, why don’t more couples employ these adult novelties?  The sad situation is that sex toys and adult novelties often have a bad reputation.  As a result, even when one of the parties in a relationship is open to the idea of including toys in bed, the other may resist the idea.  How does one convince his or her partner to try out best vibrators?

In order to convince your partner to try out couples’ vibrators like expandable butt plug, it is important that one finds out the reason behind his or her resistance.  More often than not, resistance springs from fear of being replaced by the toy or hurt that you do not think that sex with him or her is no longer pleasing.  Sometimes the resistance springs from the fact that your partner looks at sex toys in a negative way or he or she may just be afraid of trying out something new.

The way one broaches the idea and the timing of when you do is important if you want to convince your partner to try out something new.  The best time to let him or her know about your idea is when you discern that he or she is open to new ideas.  Letting him or her know that you want to try sex toys in bed with him or her when he or she is in a bad mood or when he or she is feeling particularly down is a sure way of losing the argument.

When your partner expresses resistance to the idea, address his or her concerns with loving patience and reassurance.  Assure him or her that a sex toys for couples will never be able to replace him or her in your heart and that the toy is an inanimate object which can never provide nor replace the emotional bond you have with your partner.

Sometimes your partner may respond better to a show and tell approach.  Ask him or her to look at the different kinds of couples’ vibrators available on websites and ask him or her what piques his or her curiosity.

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Advice on what are the top vibrators

It is not easy to determine what the top vibrators are.  Does one determine what the top vibrators are by its popularity and number of units sold?  Or should the criteria be word of mouth—the accounts of women who find using a particular vibrator more pleasurable than usual.

So how does one find out about top vibrators?  More often than not online adult novelty stores advertise the top selling vibrators on their site or manufacturers can often just unilaterally say that their vibrator is one of the top vibrators.

What people find pleasurable is subjective.  The fact that a toy is sold out does not mean that it is being used nor giving the person who bought it pleasure— it may after all have been purchased for someone else or the person who discarded it was just curious about the toy and wanted to find out how it would feel.

While these advertisements are still useful in the sense that they give you information on the product, the best way to find the best vibrator for you is to take stock of the way you prefer to play and to keep this in mind when deciding on what vibrator to acquire.

For instance, if one intends to use a vibrator with a partner, strap on vibrators may be a good choice.  These kinds of vibrators (among which include silicone butterfly vibrators) are kept in place with straps so that your hands and the hands of your partner are free to explore each other’s bodies while the vibrator does its work.  There are even wireless vibrators which allow you or a partner to turn the device on and control the intensity of the vibrations even from across the room via remote control.

For women on the go and for those who like to take their toys along with them there are lots of vibrators which are small and portable enough to be kept in your purse or bag.  There are even vibrators which masquerade as objects which are typically found in a woman’s bag.  Examples of these toys include rocket or lipstick vibrators.

These are just some of the things you can keep in mind to help you choose the right vibrator for you.  There are all sorts of vibrators which cater to all sorts of preferences.  There are vibrators which one can use inserted into the vagina and the anus and even toys which are designed to simulate oral sex.  Just keep your preferences firmly in mind and you will rarely go wrong with your choice.

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How to please a woman—sex toy tips

Every man who is in a long term loving heterosexual relationship is always on the lookout for things that will sexually please his special woman.  Sex toy fetishes, sexual fantasies, and role playing are just some of the things a loving couple can explore if they wish to spice up their sex lives or just try out something different in bed.

Sex toys and realistic vibes do provide a means to achieve all of these things with your special woman.  Sex toy experiences however will not be satisfactory if one does not do things properly or if one rushes things.  Here are some tips on how to please your woman with sex toys.

The first thing you should do should happen even before you acquire or use a sex toy with her.  It makes perfect sense that if your intention is to please her sexually, you should choose or use a toy which caters to the way she likes being sexually aroused.  For instance, if your partner gets turned on by penetration then a dildo might be the best sex toy for you.  If clitoral stimulation drives her crazy then a strap on vibrator might be the best way to get her to where she wants to go.

The next thing one should keep in mind is that no matter what kind of sex toy you use it is always wise to use and to have sex toy lubrication in handy.  Example, when trying to insert a toy at the anus, try to use anal lube to make it easier. Keep in mind that while the body does generate its own natural lubrication to facilitate sex and to signal the deepening of sexual arousal, sex toys do not have their own natural lubrication.  The natural fluids excreted by our body during sexual arousal may also be inadequate since materials which sex toys are made of such as rubber or jelly can absorb these fluids.  Using sex toys without the proper and adequate lubrication can be extremely uncomfortable.  A water based sex toy lubricant is best for sex toys made of all types of materials.

When using sex toys or vibrators for the first time it is advisable to take your time and go slow.  Make sure your partner is relaxed and thoroughly sexually aroused before trying out your sex toy.

Be sensitive to how your woman reacts to the sex toy.  If you sense she is uncomfortable, ask whether she still likes what you are doing and if she confirms that she is experiencing discomfort, stop using the toy immediately.

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How to clean your sex toy

If you want to make the most out of your sex toy, you have to take care of it.  This means knowing how to clean it properly.

Good sex toy hygiene also has health implications.  Since adult novelties are used in such a way as that they come into contact with the intimate and sensitive parts of our bodies which are prone to or entry points of infection and sickness.  Here are some tips on how to clean your sex toy and vibrators.

The cleaning method one uses for adult novelties depends on the type of material the sex toy is made of.  You can do this by checking that information which is usually printed on the box or packaging you purchased your toy in.  In cases when the packaging has been disposed of, the safest way to clean the toy is by using warm water with a mild antibacterial soap.  Keep in mind that when cleaning toys which run on batteries to never soak the entire toy in water and to take the batteries out before cleaning it.

Silicone toys

Silicone toys can be boiled to sterilize it or washed with soap and water.  They are the easiest to maintain and are hypoallergenic too.  B cute classic is one of an example of this toys. After cleaning, you can either wipe it dry or air-dry it completely before keeping it away.

Acrylic and plastic toys

Acrylic toys can also be washed with antibacterial soap and warm water and wiped down with alcohol to clean it further.  These plastic toys can also be boiled in hot water.

Rubber and Jelly

When washing rubber and latex toys, make sure that you rinse them thoroughly after washing it with water and soap.  These materials are extremely porous and soap which may be left over may cause irritation when used.  This are jelly vibrators.  Thoroughly dry the toy before storing.

Glass

Toys made of glass can be washed with soap and water, boiled or rubbed down with alcohol to further sterilize it.  Wipe or allow it to air-dry before putting it away.

Other materials

Some toys made of materials such as Cyberskin have to be washed thoroughly with warm water and liquid antibacterial soap.  These toys have to be air-dried completely and sprinkled with cornstarch before storing.

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