Bondage can be fun, but you must be aware of the dangers of practising unsafe bedroom bondage acts. You should take care to go no urther the pain – pleasure threshold or tgings can run out of whack quickly. Rare cases of serious injury and even death have been reported due to bedroom bondage gone wrong.
Here are some tips to ensure your safety while having fun.
1. Talk first.
You may want some surprises in bed but it may be wise if you talk first about what you are going to do. Plan what kind of activities you would indulge in. Choose the sex toys you will use. This will not take quite a long time and will add to the anticipation. Tell your partner what kind of pain (if any) you can handle.
2. Learn to say no or stop.
When pain from bondage activity is becomes more unbearable, say so. You cannot continue if their is any danger of being injured. In cases where a mouth restraint is being used, agree beforehand to a hand gesture that clearly means stop.
3. Switch roles.
This is basic. It would be unfair if one is always dominant and the other is always submissive. Changing roles is important so that each partner will feel how it is to punish and be punished.
4. Do not use unsafe strangling devices.
There are specially made devices like leather collars that do the trick. Never use ropes which could get tangled and strangulate your partner. There have been reports of asphyxiation due to choking while getting into the bedroom bondage thing.
5. Check the skin color of tied hands and feet.
Any bluish discolouration means that the restraints is too tight and loosening the knots could ease blood circulation.
6. Do not leave your partner while he or she is still tied up. Excellent gadgets for bondage have quick release locks and can be helpful during emergency cases.
7. Do not try toys if you are not sure how to use them. They might do more harm than pleasure during the act.
8. Clean all toys that you use to kill pathogenic microorganisms from thriving in them.
Learn more about bedroom bondage and how it is safely done. Also ask your sex toys dealer about how to use their products safely.
