Mistakes Men Make in Bed
While you may think you know everything there is to know about sex, the truth is that many men who think they are experts actually make some simple and avoidable mistakes with their women during sex. It can be difficult for men to know what a woman really wants and the inspiration they often take from adult videos is nothing like what most women really want in the bedroom.
5 common mistakes men make during sex so that you can be sure to avoid them yourself:
1. Thinking you know what she wants- many men make this mistake of thinking they know what their woman wants or doing what they’ve done with other women. Then they don’t understand why this doesn’t work out for them. Every woman is different and you need to take time to learn what she likes and doesn’t like instead of making assumptions.
- 2. Thinking sex feels the same for men and women- she’s not feeling what you feel during sex, at least not in the same way. For most women, the inside of the vagina is less sensitive than the outer parts. While insertion will feel incredible for the man, usually the woman needs more than this to feel the same sensations. Also, deep thrusting may not feel so good for the woman, especially if the penis is long.
- 3. Being too quiet during sex- While talking during sex comes more easily for some people than others, being completely silent can make it hard for your partner to know what you like and don’t like. You don’t want to turn into a chatterbox but let her know when she’s doing it right.
4. You think you know about her anatomy- Many men think they understand the sexual parts of a woman and how they work but they really don’t. What feels good to one woman might be too strong or rough for another. Some like direct contact while it may be excruciating for another. Take time to learn what works for her.
5. You think she isn’t turned on if she isn’t wet- There are many different things which can affect how much natural lubrication a woman has. Some women will seem wet when they are not completely turned on or ready yet and others can be fired up and ready to go and not have enough natural lubrication. Stress, medication and hormones can all affect this.
Now that you know these five mistakes men make during sex, take a look at your love life and sex life.
Can you be called guilty of any of these?
What can you do to prevent it?
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