February 8, 2012

How to take care of your dildo

Let’s talk about the most ubiquitous of all “woman” sex toys—the dildo.  Realistic vibrating dildos are phallus-shaped sex toys meant for penetration into the vagina or the rectum.  These toys have been around for centuries and have changed little in purpose and shape except in the types of materials they used.  In times past, dildos could be made of polished wood, stone, marble, or glass.  Nowadays synthetic materials such as plastics, silicone and even materials which feel like real skin have been used in making these sex toys.  These sex toys now also contain small motors which allow the toy to vibrate for that extra “buzz”.

No matter the type of materials they are made of or whether they vibrate or not, they all require care in order to allow them to perform the function for which they were designed properly and safely.  Here are some tips you can use to take care of your dildo.

No matter the type of dildo you have, you will have to keep it clean.  This is not only a thing one has to do in order to make sure your toy remains in good working order but it is also a measure you should undertake to avoid contracting disease or infection.  A dildo is meant to be inserted into the vagina or the anus.  These parts of the body often do contain microorganisms and bacteria which can be harmful to people.

How you clean your toy depends on the type of material it is made of.  For most cases, washing your toy with warm soap and water will do the trick.  Wash your toy every time after you use it.  If your toy has batteries or contains a small motor, make sure you take off the batteries first and do not allow the battery compartment or the part with the remote vibrator motor to get wet.  Never submerge a toy which runs on batteries or electricity.

There are commercially prepared sex toy cleaners available in the market.  Keep in mind however that some cleaners which can be oil-based can damage the surface of some toys made of plastic or silicone.  It would be a safe bet to get something water-based in order to minimize your chances of damaging the toy.

Never keep used batteries inside your toy for extended periods of time.  If you do not plan to use your dildo for an extended duration, make sure you remove the batteries before you put your toy away.

Follow these tips to ensure your toy keeps on giving you the sexual satisfaction you need for a long time.

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Lingerie Advice from Sexy Lingerie Models

Sometimes buying lingerie can be a tough task. You can be browsing pages of different brands and styles of bras and panties and undergarments, and you could spend hours unable to make your choice. This basic guide should be able to help you. I have seen women standing inside a boutique for an hour wondering what to buy. For an example, before you go to the market for shopping, you have to know first what you are going to buy. Put something in your mind what to buy, like you shop with your favorite fun vibes. That is a long process of choosing and quite a time-consuming one. You may want to look like sexy lingerie models but you have your own figure to get familiar with.

You may be glad to know that there are about six different lingerie types in the market. Some women prefer the natural feel whilst in lingerie and if you’re one of them, go for natural lingerie that gives more function than design. The girl on the go may be happy there’s sporty lingerie for her. Great for outgoing ladies, sporty lingerie aren’t obvious under fitting sports suit and allow flexibility. The enchantress may prefer elegance to anything else and so elegant lingerie should fit her tastes. If you are the typical grandiose lady with all the flamboyance on skin then designer lingerie pieces aren’t bad in your closet.

For the more adventurous woman, sexy lingerie is not a bad thing to start off with. Have you seen sexy lingerie models with all their sultry looks and enticing stance wearing 2 piece stretch lace nightdress? Included in the realm of naughty undergarment department are g-strings, corsets, stockings, and revealing lingerie. But some of these items may be bought at adult toy shops together with other naughty stuff and vibrators.

You cannot wear sexy thongs and revealing bras if you don’t know how to carry them. You got to have confidence, and it’s not just confidence but the attitude. Women wear sexy lingerie for a purpose. It’s more than looking great. Naughty undergarments have the power to provoke men. Men will definitely be pleased when you wear one in front of them. But be sure to wear something that suits your physique and natural curves.

Sexy lingerie are meant to make you look sexier than usual, accentuating the right curves you possess, emphasizing your natural figure, flattering your natural contour, and sometimes making some of your regions seem to be fleshier. Yes, you can be as alluring as those sexy lingerie models on a lingerie brochure.

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How to Introduce Male Anal Sex Toys to Him

Many men, and even some women, think that anal play is nasty. It is nasty but if you follow hygiene and safety tips for anal play then there should be no problem. Men can find anal stimulation to be exciting primarily because the male g-spot is located in the anus, specifically on the front wall that touches the prostate gland. This part rivals the glans in being the most erotically sensitive male spot. But the sensations are different. Anyway, stimulation of the male g-spot can be through the use of male anal sex toys or jelly vibes.

But a lot of men are not too receptive about anal stimulation since it is associated with gay sex. Heterosexual men fear that if they buy anal toys in an adult toy shop, they may be branded gay. But this is slowly becoming an old fear. Most guys are slowly understanding their bodies and learning that their anus is one erogenous zone. If you don’t know, the anus is a very sensitive spot capable of taking sex to the next level.

Then again the butthole is a delicate region. There are a lot of toys in the market made for anal stimulation and guys can use any of these recommended toys for their own exploration—only after learning much about proper way of stimulating the anus. A bomb butt plugs, anal beads, and prostate massagers are great male anal sex toys that can deliver amazing sensations only when used in the appropriate way.

A good way to introduce your boyfriend to anal stimulation using toys is to first use a finger or two. You better do this while you are giving him a hand-job or a fellatio, with a lubed finger massaging the area around his anus and then slowly inserting it in the anus. Only make sure that you have trimmed your fingernails or he might shriek in pain and you don’t want that to happen during an intimate anal moment. If you can non-verbally make your guy understand how pleasurable it is to play with his anus, then convincing him to explore more using anal toys will not become a tough business.

You can introduce vibrators, anal beads and butt plugs, anything that is known as an anal toy. Do not use just any kind of rod which is never recommended for anal insertion. Normally toys for the butthole have wide base or a handle that does not allow them to get too deep into the rectum and supports easy retrieval. Recommended male anal sex toys are available at reputable shops online.

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How to Give Her a Big Dildo Treat

Couples have been experimenting with wild things lately. Some couples use the tonguer vibes to have a great oral adventure. It’s not surprising to see people becoming more aware of their bodies and investing in things that can make them know themselves more intimately. But what can a big dildo do?

Men and women are becoming more fascinated with size. Some say it matters, others say it doesn’t. It seems big dildos are here for a reason. Some women fancy long and thick shafts, and if they could not get it from their men, they get it from something else. This is perhaps the reason sex toy manufacturers made enormous artificial dongs.

Some men like these big daddies, too, but not in the way you think. They want to surprise their girlfriends or wives with one amazingly large cock and balls, and the ladies just gasp. But if she is giving you that “are you really gonna shove that into my precious little holies” kind of look, don’t scare her and insist.

She needs a little caressing this time. Some women are not too receptive to that big dingy. Some may run away after seeing a foot long.

Don’t frighten her; instead, make her feel comfortable, especially if this is the first time she’s seeing a big dildo or big vibrators. Huge dongs can be fun if you know how to deal with them. You don’t have to instantly push it into her vagina. You can use it to tickle her womanhood until the useful juices start to signal her readiness. Of course, grab a bottle of lube because you’ll be needing a lot.

Cock and balls are necessary during moments when you can’t perform right. That naughty toy is going to give you both an intimate affair without sweating much. Maybe you had a stress-packed day and can’t please her like she wishes to. Then, give her a treat she won’t forget.

When she’s totally turned on, you can begin slipping the thingy into her tight door, which by now should allow the entrance of the awesome almighty. Do it gently and watch for signs of discomfort. Please do her a favor of not pushing past the cervix because that’s already illegal. Stop on a depth where going further causes her to twinge. If you’re unsure, well, then ask her.

Step up the fun later when she’s getting too comfy and bored, by doing different styles. Turn it around slowly, turn it around fast, thrust it and pull it fast, and while you are doing all these, tickle her other sweet spots instead of leaving them unattended.

Clean that big dildo after all the dirty stuff you do. Be sure to have your vibe kits to use for your dildo.

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Delightful Tips on Men’s Sex Toys

You might have heard a lot about vibrators and all those sex aids for ladies, but men want to have their share of fun too. As you may have read, men are more sexually inclined than women are. So it’s not surprising for men to find themselves caressing their precious endowment time after time. It’s basic human nature—male nature. Manufacturers of sex toys want to aid men in their solo flicks and so have come up with a few items that could further their solo thrill. Men’s sex toys are just as popular as vibrators and they come in varieties.

  • Men who want to keep harder erections longer should invest in penis rings, which are rather cheap devices, small enough to be carried anywhere. They come in various colors and designs and their main function is to keep the blood in the shaft to prevent premature loss of erection during intercourse.
  • Vibrators may not seem fit to be men’s sex toys but they can. If these toys can stimulate her erogenous zones then they can also tease his sensitive spots too. A man can borrow his lover’s vibe and put it against his hardness to enjoy vibrations. Since you may not dare use a penile shaped vibrator, there are vibrators designed for neutral sex. Essentially, any toy that vibrates is classified as a vibrator, so a vibrating penile and vibrating bullets are one—basically a cock ring with an attached vibrating bullet that can either stimulate the scrotum or the woman’s clitoris during sex.
  • If you want to explore how to lengthen your dong by a few centimeters, then a penile pump is the way to go. However, they have somehow lost a lot of reputation regarding the lengthening factor because the advantages were extremely feeble. But any male user can enjoy the sheer sensation of the vacuum suction action. Some units actually come with vibration mechanism that brings joy to a different level.
  • Most men want toys that make their solo moments so pleasurable. If you are one of them, you need a big man masturbator and there are a lot of masturbators in the market. A simple penile sleeve does wonders of giving men a different sensation neither the right nor the left palm could imitate. Masturbators also come as Fleshlights, pocket pussies, and Tenga masturbators. These men’s sex toys equal women’s rabbits.

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