February 8, 2012

Blow up dolls for women

When it comes to sex toys, the objects most known to be used by women are vibrators, dildos and Ben Wa balls.  Blow up dolls are usually considered a sex toy used by men.  There is however, such a thing as a womens blow up doll.

The womens blow up doll is a life size representation of a human male.  Usually made of rubber just like jelly vibes or some other stretchable material, it is inflated with air before it is to be used.  These dolls usually come with a detachable penis made of plastic or firmer material suitable for anal or vaginal penetration.  Just like blow up dolls for males these sex toys meant for women are meant as masturbation aids and to add a little more realism to playing out one’s fantasies alone.

Although this can add a certain degree of realism to a woman’s solo session, most blow up dolls for women have rudimentary facial and body details.   It is still one’s imagination that will mostly help you go where you want to go.

Some couples use love dolls to keep the faith in long distance relationships.  Being away from a loved one for long periods of time does not mean that one will cease to have sexual urges that need to be satisfied.  The use of blow up dolls can be a safe, disease and guilt-free alternative for sexual gratification for couples who are forced to be away from each other.  When together, these sex toys can also serve as a prop for role playing or other sexy games the couple can play to add a little spice and novelty to their intimate sessions. Also an alternative way when your partner is away, and an alternative for any classic vibes.

Besides sexual gratification, these sex toys are meant as party gags and humorous presents for bridal showers or hen parties.  Giving a blow up doll to the bride to be can be a cheap, guilt-free alternative to the usual and traditional events that happen during these types of celebrations.

Other uses have also been found for male blow up dolls.  Recently they have found use as confidence aids to women who drive alone.  The male blow up doll is inflated and put in the passenger seat of the car.   The presence of the doll is meant to make women less nervous when they drive through dark streets alone.

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Unique foreplay ideas

Tired of the same old thing when it comes to sex?  A little effort and creativity can go a long way in coming up with unique foreplay ideas that are sure to rock his or her world tonight.  Here are some ideas you can try out.

Before anything, keep in mind that foreplay is not limited to the physical stimulation of your partner’s erogenous zones.  There are non-physical techniques one can try out for a change from the usual.  These non-physical techniques include naughty games, playing with fun vibes, verbal play and fantasy fulfillment or role playing.

There are a hundred ways to skin a cat and the same goes with foreplay.  Only your imagination and the effort you choose to put to it will be the factors that can limit the possibilities to unique foreplay.  One thing you can try out is to turn foreplay into a game.  Strip poker and strip blackjack are games that come to mind right away.  One can also play these games for “foreplay vouchers” in which the stakes are pieces of paper which contain physical foreplay techniques.  For instance, a “voucher” could allow the holder to receive oral sex from his or her partner.

Are you a stingy lover? Don’t be especially when it comes to telling your special someone how pretty or how aroused they make you feel.  Verbal foreplay appeals to the mental side of sex.  this is different from playing with favorite vibrators.  This particular aspect of sex is often neglected by people, especially males.  What one should know is that one’s mental state plays a great role in generating and deepening sexual arousal.  Get your partner ready for sex by whispering to your loved one how you’d like to get it on with her or that she or he turns you on so much that you feel like ripping his or her clothes off right there and then.  Does your partner like to talk dirty? Try doing it during your intimate sessions and you might find yourself enjoying it too.

Sexual fantasies also address the mental aspect of sex.  Partners can agree to play out a scenario they have sexual fantasies about and role play to help them get in the mood faster and to deepen their sexual arousal.  Some scenarios partner’s can try are the doctor-patient and bar pick-up scenarios.  Sexual fantasies are not limited to scenarios either.  Your partner’s or your sexual fantasy may involve employing a particular foreplay technique or the use of jelly vibrators, sex toys and adult novelties.

These are just some ideas you can use for a unique sexual experience.  Have fun!

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Toys for the Holiday Trips

You might be wanting to tug along your toys for bedtime fun when you travel, but this is just not possible, especially with the strict security policy in airports. Your toys could just catch the guards’ attention or worse the metal detectors. How awful it could be if the detectors find a large and “weapon-shaped” vibrators in your luggage. You can get a nasty public attention at an instant. If you don’t want this to happen, read these reminders.

  1. Make sure you are bringing toys that look quite innocent. A lipstick vibe can be great and you can stuff this one with your cosmetic collection. Opt for smaller toys this time.
  2. Follow airport policy on keeping liquids in your luggage. Lubricating oils should be placed in plastic bottles. Make sure you only fill three-quarters of the bottle to lessen the tendency of spillage or leakage in case freezing temperatures occur in the luggage compartment. Place them in plastic bags.

You can also try bringing along sachets of different lubricant lotions or creams, instead of stuffing your bags with large bottles of them. It’s not like you will be gone for quite a long time anyway. This saves space and effort.

  1. You might think of placing your favorite battery-operated toy inside your baggage. Should you do this, make sure to place the batteries in isolation. The best way is to secure them between clothes or inside socks. Stacking them in the battery case of your remote vibrators might lead to leakage and discharge of battery power.
  2. Worry not if the guard sees a naughty vibe lying quietly in the pile of your clothes (in case you have failed to resist the urge of bringing one). You have all the right in the world to bring your nicest gear even if it looks like something that hangs in the middle of men’s thighs. There is no law, so far, than prohibits the carrying or handling or sex toys in any airport. Have you heard of somebody who has been detained for illegal possession of sex toys?

Bear in mind, as well, that you are travelling to see new places. Playing with your gizmos may only be done privately during free hours, and since you will not have plenty of time for bedtime adventure, bring only few toys and fun vibes with you.

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Sex Toys UK

Some countries do not allow sex toys. UK residents, Japanese citizens and other countries, on the other hand have it better as the existence of sex toys and fun vibes are tolerated and sold very openly.

This is particularly true in Japan.  The sex toy industry in that country is a booming business with a range of products that will boggle the mind.  There are vending machines available on the streets which dispense anything from a tiny scantily clad anime-based figure to cock rings and vibrators.

India, on the other hand has outlawed and banned sex toys.  This factoid becomes remarkable when you remember that the oldest and most popular sex manual, the Kama Sutra, was written in and written by Indians.  Sex toys are mentioned in the Kama Sutra as there are references to realistic vibrating dildos and life-size wooden dolls used during sex.  Despite the ban, sex toys are sold underground and seems to be a thriving industry estimated to value at about $107 million a year.

Even in the United States not all states allow the purchase or selling of sex toys.  Some southern states such as Alabama and Texas have banned and prohibited sex toys which are considered “obscene devices”.  Besides Alabama and Texas, Mississippi, Georgia and Virginia also have laws which for not allow sex toys in their state.   The reasoning behind these pieces of legislation seems to be that the state has the right to regulate these devices as there is no fundamental right for a person to buy a device to produce orgasm.  Advocates of sex toys on the other hand have argued that interference by the State on the use of these devices violates the constitutional right to privacy.

This also is astonishing since the US has projected itself as a bastion of freedom.  In these States, it is legal for one person to purchase a gun and illegal to purchase sex toys.  UK residents, Japanese citizens and other countries seem to enjoy a greater amount of freedom as regards this aspect.

The National Association for Sexual Awareness and Empowerment, a US based organization advocating the freedom to distribute and sell sex toys state that the ban on these devices stems from the ignorance of law makers on hot to use sex toys and vibrators, their effects, and stereotypes.  The NSAE continues to work towards lifting the ban on sexual devices in these states.

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Choosing the right sex toy for couples

Choosing the right sex toy for you and your partner can be a daunting one.  There is a lot of sex toys online and in the market, like waterproof vibrators.  With the overwhelming number of choices available, how do you know which is the best choice for the both of you?  You do want him or her to enjoy the experience as much as you did, after all.

Assuming that both of you are already comfortable about the idea of using sex toys during your intimate moments together, the best way is to ask him or her, what type of sex toy he or she would like.  When it comes to what he or she would enjoy when it comes to sex, your partner is still the best judge.  He or she may have a secret fantasy she or he has not yet divulged to you yet.

If this is your first time to use a sex toy or are hesitant about asking him or her point blank what toy your partner would prefer, keep in mind the role of foreplay.  Foreplay is about stimulating and sexually arousing your partner to get him or her ready for the main event.   Strap on vibrators are a good starting point for this.  These vibrators have a strap to keep the toy in place leaving your hands free to touch and stimulate the other erogenous zones of your or your partner’s body.

Should both of you prefer vaginal penetration but want that extra buzz, cock rings with clitoral stimulators attached may be the choice for you.  Cock rings are elastic rings meant to be worn at the base of the penis.  This serves to keep the blood in the tissues of the penis from flowing back to the body resulting in a prolonged erection and an engorged feeling.  There are cock rings with protrusions or small vibrators attached which stimulate your partner’s clitoris or anus during penetration.

Do you prefer to give more than receive?  Do you get aroused watching your partner get off from what you are doing to him or her?  Then a sex toy which you could manipulate is something you should think of getting.  There are vaginal and anal dildos which you can use on your partner during your sack sessions.  You and your partner’s preference or your knowledge of his or her preference would dictate as to what size, color and material it is made of.  One rule of the thumb though, when using toys meant for penetration:  use adequate lubrication.  Regular discharge from the vagina may not be adequate as some materials absorb these fluids making the use of the toy uncomfortable at the least.

Choosing the right sex toy for you and your partner is about self knowledge and knowledge about what arouses your partner.  Keep this in mind and you won’t go wrong.

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World Cup All Roads Lead To Cape Town for HOOKERS

As the world cup in South Africa approaches it has been reported that hookers will decend on Cape Town from all over the globe. Girls from Russia, the Congo and Brazil. Plus it is a known fact that 1 in every 5 women in South Africa are infected with HIV.

So in true entrepreneurial spirit taxi driver Henry Africa is offering a service which will take you to all the safe HOOKERS. Now I don’t know about you but that does not sound safe to me I hope this world cup does not end up being deadly for some.

My advice for all the ladies who is sending their men off to Africa rather get some sex toys for him and let him take care of himself…

Read more here:

For Streetwalkers, All Roads Lead To Cape Town | Casual Encounters:

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9 Steps to Bring the BANG Back to the Bedroom!!!

Often when couples have been together for a long time familiarity and knowing exactly what your partner is going to do can become boring. This is where you need to communicate with each other and let them know that you are bored.

Maybe suggest planning a naughty evening alone with your partner and have a look at some fun vibrators that you could incorporate into your foreplay.

So here are 9 suggestions to bring the BANG back to your bedroom:

  1. Have sex every day for a month
  2. Focus only on her for one week and then only on him the next
  3. Introduce a new toy to the bedroom
  4. Masturbate every day for a month
  5. Don’t touch at all for one week
  6. Stick to foreplay and nothing more for one month
  7. Have sex as slowly as possible
  8. Turn the switch on (or off)
  9. Survey the land

Read more here:

Sexy Challenges: Bring the Bang Back Into the Bedroom

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Do you still have time to Masturbate?

So where do you stand on the subject of masturbation? Do you still find time to pleasure yourself or are you simply too busy to even think about stealing a moment.

Or does your partner satisfy you in bed and that you have no need to pull out the g spot vibrator and take care of business yourself.

Here is what Jessica had to say:

The reality is, though, there’s only so much sex I can take. After he takes care of my libido and I take care of his, there’s not much need for — or energy for — the solo sex I used to so enjoy.

And nobody says it quite like Woody…

  • Woody Allen quote here: “Don’t knock masturbation — it’s sex with someone I love.”

Read more here:

Girl Talk: I Stopped Masturbating | The Frisky:

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