Male sex toys not only kept me from going crazy but also helped keep the integrity of my marriage and my wife’s faith in me intact.
My wife had a difficult pregnancy with our first born child. She was in such a delicate state that her doctor recommended that she remain in bed for the duration of the pregnancy and avoid strenuous activities in order to prevent the baby from miscarrying. This also included a prohibition on sex between me and my wife.
What was a guy to do? I had to contend with my sexual urges but seeking other women was out of the question. I loved my wife and was determined to remain faithful to her. She would have understood but I took the vows I uttered before God and our families very seriously. That left only one other alternative, but using my hand was getting very tiring fast and did not come close to the real thing.
The solution came from an unlikely source. My sister-in-law, aware of the circumstances (and probably apprised of my situation by my wife) suggested to my wife that we acquire male sex toys. She (my sister-in-law) had learned about the existence of these things from attending a sex toy party one of her girlfriends held recently.
I was still hesitant and skeptical about the idea but the constant encouragement of my wife finally convinced me to search the Net for more information on these things—-and the choices astounded me. Not only were there masturbators such as fleshlights and pocket pussies, but there were even ultra realistic looking love dolls which looked and felt like real women!
In order to make a choice as to what toy to acquire I took my preferences into consideration. I did not relish too much the idea of going to bed with a doll and was sensitive to the feelings my wife might have about them. Moreover they were bulky and awkward to store. So I settled on something more discreet and purchased a fleshlight to help me with my urges.
It turned out to be a good decision. It not only felt great but it was as close to the real thing I could get without the guilty feelings and without harming the health of my wife and my soon-to-be-born child. An added bonus was that I could use it with my wife too! During the times she would feel up to it she even volunteered to manipulate the sex toy for me and moan just like we were having sex!
Now that my daughter is born and my wife fully recovered I have less need for the sex toy. But it does come out now and then during the times my wife feels a bit kinky and wants to use it on me.
