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What should I do if my boyfriend wants a threesome sex with me and another girl?

July 31, 2009 By Angelica Leave a Comment

Unless you are confident with your sexual prowess, say no. This is not to disappoint your boyfriend. This is to save you from being compared to the other girl. What if it turns out that she is better than you? He might choose having fun with her more often than he would with you.

Talk to him about it. Why does he want another girl during your romantic escapade? Are your nights together not that eventful?

Having threesomes is like opening the possibility of making the relationship at stake. This give chances to comparison. If the other girl does it better than you, your guy may choose to do it more often with her. During the activity, if you are inexperienced, chances are you will be left alone to watch the other girl and your guy having so much fun together. This would cause you to feel jealous. And you would probably have a reason to feel insecure about yourself.

Three persons having sex is quite a good adventure. It’s eventful. Lots of trippers engage in this kind of fun. But this kind of thing is not just for couples. If two people are romantically involved with each other and emotions have been invested, it’s not quite reasonable to engage to have bedtime encounters with another person – a third person. It is not healthy and helpful for the relationship. And because you and your boyfriend have an emotional attachment with each other, it is not quite useful if another girl enters the bed scene to join the moments, she might as well ruin the moment for you.

Tell your boyfriend how absurd the idea is. Refuse. Unless he has a good reason to have sexual escapade with you and another girl simultaneously, don’t give in.

Now suppose he insists and you feel like doing it, too, for reasons you alone know, then don’t let the other girl steal the show. If the other girl gives your guy fellatio, caress him. Play with his perineum. Tickle the nipples. Engage him to do cunnilingus on you. What I am trying to say is, don’t just lie on the other side of the bed and watch everything happen. You may even make use of sex toys, you may use a glass dildo and stimulate the G spot on his anus while kissing him. All you have to do is be confident with yourself and everything follows.

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What is a cock ring? (Some frequently asked questions)

July 30, 2009 By Angelica Leave a Comment

What is a cock ring?

A cock ring is a sex toy or adult novelty.  It can be made out of a variety of materials such as metals, silicone, rubber, or leather.  It is worn at the base of the penis primarily to slow the blood flowing from the erectile tissue of the penis back to the body.

How does a cock ring work and what are its effects?

A cock ring works like a dam.  The purpose of a cock-ring is that it keeps the blood in the erectile tissue in the penis allowing a man to maintain and harden an erection for a longer period of time.  It also produces a feeling of engorgement making the wearer feel that his penis is bigger in size.
Because of its damming effect, cock rings are sometimes used by men with erectile dysfunction to help produce and maintain an erection.  In these cases, the cock ring is used in conjunction with a penis pump.

Are there different types of cock rings?

As mentioned above, cock rings can be made out of a variety of materials.  Most of them are stretchable which gives the user a little more comfort.  There are also cock rings with vibrations or protrusions attached.  These protrusions and vibrators are meant to stimulate the user’s penis, scrotum, or perineum.  Other models have protrusions and vibrators aimed at stimulating his partner’s clitoris or anus during sexual intercourse.

There are also cock rings which include rings that the user puts around his scrotum.  Called triple-crown or triple cock rings, these sex toys keep the scrotum away from the body.  The scrotum normally retracts toward the body during or right before a man has his orgasm or ejaculation.  The effect is that by restraining the scrotum, a man may prolong the moments before he reaches ejaculation.

Are there health risks associated with cock rings?

Health risks which occur happen because some users do not know how to use cock ring.  A cock ring should not be worn too tightly or for an extended period of time.  Keeping a cock ring on for a long time may result in a painful medical emergency called priapism.  Priapism occurs when the penis remains erect for a long period of time and does not return to its flaccid state despite the absence of physical and psychological stimulation.  It can result into penile gangrene which will require the amputation of the penis.

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Tenga Sex Toy

July 26, 2009 By John 1 Comment

Tenga Sex Toy – The Ultimate Male Sex Toy

Tenga Masturbator

Tenga Masturbator

Tenga is an optimum brand of masturbation toy from Japan. Probably the most popular of the Tenga sex toy range is the Tenga Flip Hole. These are a brand of artificial vagina used for masturbation. They come in a “cup” type object with many different models and features. Each model has a different feature or sensation that it offers to the user.

The Tenga sex toy was first released in 2006 and was the first male masturbator of its kind that had a good design, didn’t look cheap and carried the features that most men would want. Within a year, the company had sold over 2 million onacups, making it the most popular sex toy in Japan.

This popularity would later spread to other countries as well. Most Tenga products are designed to be one-use, disposable items. They are called “single use masturbators” and they are basically molded elastomer with lubricant inside. They even have a warming device. This limited edition “warming stick” lasts for about 30 uses and can be activated and inserted into the onacup to warm it to body temperature.

The Tenga Fliphole Masturbator

TENGA Spider Egg Mastubator

TENGA Spider Egg Mastubator

The  Flip Hole is a reusable onacup masturbator that flips open to allow it to be cleaned.

There is also the ever popular, single use Tenga egg. This is a palm sized disposable masturbator easy and small enough to take with you anywhere. They also come in different varieties and are wrapped in foil a bit like a chocolate egg.

If you want a Tenga sex toy to try out for yourself, it’s really easy and affordable to get one and have it discreetly shipped to you. Since they are disposable, they are moderately priced so there is no large risk of getting one to try. You will find it is one of the most unique, lifelike and comfortable male masturbators you’ve ever used.

If you’re looking for a great male sex toy to get for your man while he’s away or for when you’re away, consider the Tenga sex toy line. These are not your typical, run of the mill male masturbators.

These are real top of the line, useful and cleverly designed sex toys that any man would be thrilled to have.

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Blow Up Dolls

July 25, 2009 By John Leave a Comment

Blow Up Love Dolls

Blow Up Dolls

Blow Up Dolls

Blow up dolls are one of the most well known and popular form of sex toys or adult toys. They have been around for quite some time but they are now available in different options and styles and more realistic like appearances than ever before.

When shopping for blow up dolls, there are several different things you need to know. First, are you looking for a male or female doll? Second, is this doll for you or for someone else? Have you ever purchase a blow up doll before? What kinds of features are you looking for?

If you’re not sure about the answers to some of these questions, the best thing for you to do is to take some time to research. You can use the Internet as a great resource because there are so many shops that sell adult toys online as well as places with informative articles about adult toys and blow up dolls.

Take some time to research and see the different types of dolls that are on the market today, how much they cost and what kinds of features come with each one. When you do this, it will give you a better idea of what your options are. This can come in very handy when it’s time to actually make your purchase.

J Ho Love J Ho Love DollDoll

Next you also want to consider budget.

Blow up dolls can sometimes be more expensive than other types of adult toys out there because they are larger and often more complex and sometimes because of the types of materials they are made out of. You need to have a clear idea of what your budget is for this before you start shopping.

When comparing the types of blow up dolls, take a look at what they are made of and if they come with any types of guarantee. Your fun will be ruined if you buy a cheap quality dolls that breaks when you first try to use it. On that note, it’s also important to be sure you read the labels regarding how the doll should be used and that you use it accordingly to instructions.

While many people use blow up dolls alone, in masturbation and to simulate intercourse and sexual relations with another person, they are also used in couples sex and other situations. If you’ve always wanted to have a threesome but don’t want to bring another live person in, you might consider a blow up doll for fantasy role play, for example.

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Lingerie Strapon Gives You Creativity in Your Sex Fun

July 24, 2009 By Lisa Leave a Comment

A lingerie strapon is a particular type of strapon designed to work with sexy lingerie that you are already wearing. The dildo or vibrator used with this lingerie strapon is usually removable and in many cases, it’s adjustable so that you can use any device you want in it.

This gives you more variety and flexibility in the toy that you use while still enjoying your favorite lingerie and the strap-on ability. For many couples, the look and feel of sexy lingerie is part of the appeal to a great lovemaking session. For many, just the sight of the lingerie is enough to get them hot and ready to go.

Then there are those who love the idea of using a strapon, whether it’s a woman on woman sexual encounter or a woman using a strapon with her man, some couples love this experience. When you combine lingerie strap-ons, it’s the best of both worlds for many lovers.

Strap ons are great for roleplay sex and there are many different roleplaying scenarios you can enjoy with it. If you’ve never used a strap on before, it might seem a little odd or uncomfortable but there are even tutorials out there to help you learn how to do it successfully.

Go slow with your partner if it’s your first time until you both become comfortable with it and you might find this becomes one of your favorite adult sex aids. Even if you have used a strap on before, the lingerie strapon adds a new sexy element to the experience.

With a great lingerie strapon, you get more creativity and flexibility in your sex fun than you would without it. There are so many different scenarios in which it can be used in heterosexual or homosexual fun that anyone can use one.

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Role play—get things heated fast!

July 22, 2009 By Angelica Leave a Comment

Role play—get things heated fast for you and your loved one by playing out and fulfilling each other’s sexual fantasies.  Here are a few tips and scenarios you and your partner may choose to ignite the flame in the bedroom.

Before anything, it is important that both of you feel comfortable about the sexual fantasy or scenario you will be playing out.  You do want the experience to be as enjoyable for your partner as it is with you primarily because you love him or her but also because you do want this experience to be repeated.  Hence, both you and your partner should agree on a signal or phrase to indicate that the other is uncomfortable about the situation.  Once this signal is given, stop immediately.  Encourage the other to talk about what she found uncomfortable about the scenario.  With this knowledge at hand you can tweak your role playing to leave the part your partner finds objectionable the next chance you get.

One scenario couples can try out is the bar pick-up.  The couple can arrange to meet up at some bar and pretend to be strangers trying to pick the other up.  The couple may choose to rent a motel or hotel room for added realism.

Another sexual fantasy couples may indulge in is the repairman fantasy.  The scene will begin with the repairman coming into his “customer’s” house to find an attractive housewife wearing a sexy lingerie alone in the house.  The housewife then proceeds to seduce the repairman through dialogue heavily laced with sexual innuendoes and suggestion.

The doctor-patient scenario is also another scenario to play out.  One party poses as the doctor as he or she is seduced by the person playing the patient.

If the couple finds uniforms hot, one party can pretend to be accosted by the other who is posing as a police officer.  In this scenario, the person accosted tries to seduce the “police officer” to bribe him or her with sex to let the “offender” go.

There are several other scenarios a couple can play out. Playtime for couples will surely excite both their sexual fantasies.   This also provides the perfect way on how to introduce sex toys and the pleasure their use brings to your partner.  There are several choices available at adult novelty stores and online shops.  The imagination and creativity of the couple are the only limits to the possibilities for Role play.  Get things heated for you and your partner by trying any of these scenarios today.

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Lelo Sex Toys

July 22, 2009 By John Leave a Comment

Lelo Sex Toys Empower and Enlighten

Lelo Lily

Lelo Lily

There is a whole new world when it comes to sex toys now. In the past, people who wanted sex aids or toys had few options of which to choose from. Today there are more options than ever before. Lelo sex toys hope to bring even more options to people.

Lelo sex toys aim to empower and enlighten. Lelo the Sweden-based company founded in 2003, is devoted to the design and development of sensual pleasure tools and objects. They add a luxury flair to each and every sex toy they create so you find uniqueness and quality that cannot be found anywhere else.

Lelo offers sexual and holistic health products, resources and education to help people. They also specialize in female ejaculation and sex tips. The company strives to create high-quality alternatives to the existing sex products. They offer a creative blend of fashion, femininity, engineering and design to create objects that are not only functional but also seductive themselves.

LELO also prides themselves on creating high quality, phthalate-free intimate products and sex toys for everyone and their partners.  Following recent reports from the TBO research organization, on behalf of Greenpeace Netherlands, stating that high levels of phthalates in many sex toys, LELO addresses the issue by avoiding it in their products.

Phthalates are a type of chemical softener used to make PVC (used in many sex toys) softer and more flexible. Research has shown that it doesn’t biodegrade very easily and can also be toxic and harmful to humans and animals.

LELO sex toys do not contain PVC or phthalates and all plastics they use are FDA and/or RoHS approved and the silicones used are chemically inert medical-grade elastomers. You can feel 100% confident that the sexual pleasure objects you get from LELO are both better for you and better for the environment.

So what are some examples of the types of great sex toys you can find at LELO? Almost any type of sex toy you can imagine as well as some you probably haven’t thought of can be found here. Here are some of the top selling Lelo sex toys:

•    LELO Gigi- Water-resistant Vibrator, Rechargeable & Multiple Vibrations
•    LELO Elise- Rechargeable with double soft-touch coating for luxurious stimulation and pleasure.
•    Luna balls- Medical-grade silicone with adjustable weights, the ultimate in kegel exercisers.
•    Lelo iris- Outstanding high luxury vibrator that is rechargeable & comes in pink or blue, and nontoxic.
•    Lelo liv- Outstanding high luxury vibrator that is rechargeable and comes in pink and blue.
•    Lelo nea- Beautiful, quiet, 27 settings, rechargeable, water resistant- absolutely incredible!
•    Lelo lily- Beautiful, quiet, 27 settings, rechargeable, water resistant- incredible!
•    Lelo yva- The ultimate in luxury- 18 K Gold & Sterling Silver vibes are the real thing and superb performers.
•    Ella- Gspot and prostate vibrator, regargeable and wireless. Made by LELO.
•    Mia -Discreet clitoral vibrator, rechargeable and wireless. Made by LELO.
•    Lelo bob -Silicone dildo for prostate, anal and gspot stimulation. Great finger handle.
•    Lelo bo- Rechargeable, pleasure-intensifying cockring for men and couples
•    18k gold dildos- When you want the best from the best, then look no further. LELO has outdone themselves with a gold dildo and gold prostate massager.

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Men Sex Toys

July 22, 2009 By Angelica Leave a Comment

A man’s sexual activities can be made more satisfying with the help of men sex toys. While it is true that a man gets to reach orgasm with the use of only one of his hands, it would not hurt if he explored
other ways to satisfy himself sexually.

The common notion is that adult toys are for women only. When we speak of these erotic devices, what may immediately come to mind are vibrators and dildos, which are often associated with women. But, it is not always the case. If women can have more exciting and more pleasurable sexual experiences with the help of these devices, then men can also do it. But, what usually happens is that a man tends to  be reluctant or shy in getting an adult toy for himself, thinking that it is not appropriate for a man like him.

Well, it really is not a problem. You can get your friend to purchase one for you from the nearest adult store. Or, you can discreetly order from an online adult store. There is a wide range of sex toys that you can choose from. You can get masturbation sleeves, which can make solo sex more stimulating. These sleeves usually come in the shapes of a vagina, an anus, and a mouth. Or, if you want to have a more realistic experience, you can get a sex doll. You can have a doll that looks like a famous porn star or even a Japanese Anime character. Usually, these dolls already have the three vital holes, namely the vagina, the anus, and the mouth.

You can also use a cock ring for masturbation, but it can also be used with your partner during foreplay. This toy is placed around the base of the shaft of the penis, thus restricting the flow of blood out of the penis. This aims to make the penis more sensitive, firmer, and maintain erection for longer. Since the onset of of ejaculation is prolonged, the sensation is more intense when ejaculation does take place.

Prostate massage toys are also examples of men sex toys. They are especially curved devices that are made to stimulate the prostate, the male counterpart of the female G-Spot. The prostate is a muscular, walnut-sized gland, and it is located directly beneath the bladder and in front of the rectum. And, its stimulation can make a man experience heightened orgasms.

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Adult sex toys

July 21, 2009 By Angelica Leave a Comment

Deciding to use adult sex toys during your special time alone or with a loved one can, for some, be a baffling decision.  Here are some frequently asked questions that can help clear things up.

Vibrators

Vibrators

What are adult sex toys?
Adult sex toys are costumes, props, gadgets, and other objects or paraphernalia a person or couples use for sexual stimulation.  There are sex toys for men, women and for the use of couples.   They are primarily meant as masturbatory aids or as a means to sexually arouse oneself or a partner. Popular examples are classic vibrators, dildos, cock rings and blow up or sex dolls.

Do I really need an adult sex toy? Should I get an adult sex toy?
One doesn’t have to resort to sex toys to have a satisfying and healthy sex life.  Many people and couples go through their sex lives happy and content without having to use one.  However, there are many others too who want to enhance their sexual experiences, explore new avenues of sexual arousal and stimulation, or just try something new in bed with their partner.  Adult toys provide a means to do so.   If you are open to new sensations and want to try out new things with your partner, then acquiring a sex toy is a good way to go.

What adult sex toy should I get?
There are a great number of sex toys to choose from offering a different range of sensations.  Choosing the type of toy to acquire really depends on your personal preferences and knowledge of what turns you or your partner on.  Vibrators are a good non-intimidating sex toy to try out if one has never used sex toys before.  Those who get aroused and prefer vaginal penetration would be better off with a dildo. There are also dildos and butt plugs available for those who like anal stimulation.  Love dolls, on the other hand, can give an unsurpassed degree of realism to solo sessions for men and women.

Where can I get adult sex toys?
Adult sex toys are available in online adult toy shops.  The Internet also provides a wealth of places to order and purchase any sex toy of your choice in the privacy of your home.

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Sex Toy Restraints: Bondage Fun

July 20, 2009 By John Leave a Comment

There are many types of sex toy restraints available on the market today. If you enjoy bondage or just a lightly tied up arm during foreplay and intercourse, sex toy restraints will help you achieve this in a safe and healthy way. Many people like to be restrained or tied up in some way during foreplay and intercourse and other people are interested in trying it out for themselves but they don’t know where to start.

Sex Toy Restraints

Sex Toy Restraints

In the past, this type of sex play would have been more taboo and there was not as much information available for it. Trying to find out a safe way to use restraints in sex could be difficult. Today, the adult toy industry has created a wide number of toys and devices created with safety and pleasure in mind.

Some examples of sex toy restraints would be handcuffs, ankle cuffs, gags, ball gags, blindfolds, straps and ropes, etc. Some will bind you to other parts of your body. Some may mind you to the bedposts or other stationery objects in the home.

Many people like to be tied up or restrained during sex but using sex toy restraints can make it easier and safer to do so instead of using ordinary objects found around your home where something could go wrong and hurt you or your partner.

Safety First

Remember if you are going to work restraints into your sexual routine to follow the proper safety precautions.

  • First, you and your partner must both be 100% certain you want to do this and both should feel comfortable with the situation.
  • Second, you should have a “safe word” that the restrained partner can use if they want to be let go.

You should always make sure the restrained partner is capable of getting free on their own or calling for help in the event of an emergency. If something happened to you, your partner would be stuck tied up.  You should also be sure you only use approved sex toy restraints.

Using objects you’ve found around your home or that were not approved for this use can be very dangerous. When there are so many great, affordable options in sex toys, there’s no reason not to do it right.  If you want to enjoy bondage fun- from light to heavy bondage and restraints- there are sex toy restraints available to help you do it right.

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