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Sex Toy Accessories for BDSM

February 17, 2009 By John Leave a Comment

If you have already tried your hand at regular sex toys and you and your partner want to take things to the next level, you might enjoy sex toys accessories for BDSM. The roles of dominant and submissive partners can open the doors for a wide range of bedroom fun and activities. You might switch back and forth who is submissive and who is dominant or one partner may always prefer to play one role over the other.

There are many great toys and accessories that have been designed to make these light bondage or heavier bondage play sessions more fun and also safer. Because these toys and accessories are specifically designed for these purposes, the risk of getting injured is lower. Many of these sex accessories are also specifically designed to help heighten the feeling of arousal or to tease the partner while having sex or playing sex games.

BDSM games are a great opportunity to get rid of many stigmas and stereotypes regarding the bedroom and there is a wide variety of tastes that can be covered within these games. There are many sex toys and accessories that can be purchased to make this easier and safer.

Some examples of sex toys accessories include:

  • Masks
  • Whips
  • Gags
  • Collars
  • Costumes
  • Cuffs
  • Clamps/ nipple clamps
  • Ties and straps
  • Other bondage gear

These are just a few of the basic examples of accessories you can get for the bedroom. When performing BDSM with your partner, you should always be careful of the items and accessories you use. For example, you should never tie anything around your partner’s neck that wasn’t designed for this purpose. Also, regular handcuffs can hurt the wrists but those made as sex accessories are usually padded or furry to help protect the wrists and provide more comfort.

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Lingerie Buying Tips for Men

February 17, 2009 By John Leave a Comment

So you’ve made the decision to buy some lingerie for that special woman in your life. This is great but before you go grabbing something off the rack, are you sure you know how to properly purchase the right lingerie? Buying the wrong lingerie for your lady can really send the wrong kind of message. In fact, a mistake like this can achieve the opposite of what you’re trying to do.

So here is some lingerie buying tips for men to help you out:

  • Remember that you’re buying for her, not yourself. Just because you’d like to see her in it doesn’t mean she will feel comfortable wearing it.
  • Never guess about anything- sizes, what she’d like etc.
  • Always find out her proper size before going into the lingerie store. Getting something too small or too large can really send the wrong message to your woman.
  • Avoid costumes and smutty lingerie unless you already know she likes it.
  • Avoid leather, PVC, crotchless and other over the top lingerie options unless you know she wants something like this.
  • Think of comfort as well as style. Is this something she’ll likely want to wear again and again?
  • Find out what colors and materials she likes (this can easily be achieved by taking a look at her undie drawer).
  • Don’t buy anything with tags that read “reduction”, “control”, etc or you might send the message that you think she’s fat or has “problem areas”.
  • Also avoid push up bras, gel-filled bras or cleavage enhancing tops unless you specifically know this is what she wants. You might send the message that her breasts are not big enough.

With these lingerie buying tips for men, you can ensure that your special gift of lingerie will be one she will love and hopefully, wear for you again and again.

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Vibrators – Caring For Them Properly

February 15, 2009 By John Leave a Comment

Proper Care of Vibrators

Sex toys can be great fun but if you want your adult toys to last, you need to take proper care of them. Vibrators are top of the list being one of the most popular types of adult toys or masturbation aids out there. You must take proper care of your vibrator if you want it to keep working well for you.

One of the first steps to proper care of vibrators is to always keep enough lubricant around. Now what type of lube to use is also important. You can use water-based lubricant with any type of toy except a waterproof one. You should avoid silicone based lube on silicone vibrators or it can damage them and petroleum based lube can be used only on non latex sex toys and is suggested only for anal vibrators because the main ingredient can be uncomfortable to the vagina.

The next most important thing you can do for your vibrator is to keep it clean. This is for your own health and also for the sake of your vibrators. They will last much longer when they are cleaned regularly and cared for properly. The cleaning method usually depends on the type of material the vibrator is made from.

Silicone vibrators should be cleaned with toy cleaner or with soap and warm water. Cyberskin or other lifelike materials should be cleaned with sex toy cleaner and warm water. Jelly rubber toys can be cleaned with warm water and some cleaning solution. Elastomer toys can be cleaned only with water and soap and glass, acrylic or plastic toys need to be cleaned with an anti-bacterial toy cleaner on a washcloth. If this is not available, you can use basic rubbing alcohol.

You should always store your vibrators in a cool, dry place and that you use a condom when sharing your vibrator or when using it in different orifices of the body. You should also be cautious of using your vibrator too long at a session at too high of a speed. You won’t get hurt but you could burn out the motor on your favorite vibrator.

For the best, longest fun, you should start each session with new fresh batteries or purchase rechargeable vibrators so you never have to worry about batteries. These have an added bonus of being better for the environment. You should also remove the batteries after each use and reinsert batteries on the next use.

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Choosing the Right Sex Toy

February 9, 2009 By John Leave a Comment

When it comes to sex toys, some people are absolutely amazed at the great number of options available out there. The first time you shop for a sex toy, there could be so many options that it’s overwhelming just trying to choose the right one for your needs.

Whether you want something personal for when you are alone or in between relationships, or if you’re looking for some couples toys that you can bring to the bedroom with your partner, your first step is to gather information. There are so many toys out there to choose from that you will need to learn as much as you can about the choices you have so you can get the perfect toy for loads of fun.

There are some different things you need to consider when choosing the right sex toy:

  1. Is this your first time using a sex toy?
  2. Will you be using this toy alone or with a partner?
  3. What is your purpose with the toy?
  4. Do you know how to use the toy?
  5. Do you know the difference between dildos and vibrators?
  6. Do you have size and shape requirements?
  7. Do you have material requirements?
  8. Do you have any allergies (latex, rubber, etc.) that can affect your decision?

If you’ve never used a sex toy before, you might want to start small and simple. Some of the more elaborate sexual aids on the market can be pretty overwhelming to someone who is new to these types of devices. In fact, some of them can look downright scary. Our suggestion is to start small of you’re new and work your way up as you are comfortable.

These are just some basic guidelines to help you choose the right sex toy for your needs. There is literally something for everyone from the kinky to the reserved. When you learn how to narrow your search to the specific things you are seeking, shopping for sex toys will not have to be a difficult chore.

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Take Proper Care of Your Dildos

February 9, 2009 By John Leave a Comment
Caring for Your Dildos

Caring for Your Dildos

When you want your dildos to last the long haul for you, it’s important to take care of them. No matter which type of dildos you have, that material they are made from, or how often they are used, it’s essential that you care for them correctly.

While some dildos now come with instructions on how to clean and care for them, many still do not. Most people simply don’t have this type of information on proper adult toy cleaning and care and therefore, their toys don’t last as long as they should. Another problem is that if they are not properly cleaned, you stand the risk of infection.

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For proper care of dildos, you should begin with proper usage. Always read the labels and inserts properly and use the dildo as intended. You also need to store your dildos properly in a clean, dry and cool place. Many people buy specific boxes for their sex toys and dildos to keep them protected and handy when they need them.

One of the most important rules to remember about proper care of dildos is to clean them after every use. Be sure you use the right type of sex toy cleaner cleaning solvent/solution for your type of dildo. Some can only withstand warm soap and water. There are also dildo cleaning solutions you can purchase from the same place you buy your favorite sex toys. Always have some of this handy.

Exactly how you clean and care for your dildo will depend on what type you have.

Here are the main types of dildos:

  • Ultra realistic dildo
  • Dildo with balls
  • Dildo without balls
  • Jelly dildos
  • Silicone dildos
  • Glass dildos
  • Large dildos/supersized dildos
  • Dildos with suction cup base/ suction dildos
  • Rubber dildos
  • Cyberskin dildos
  • Ribbed dildos
  • Exaggerated features dildos
  • Ejaculating dildos
  • Vertebrae dildos

You can learn more about the specific types of dildos you have and how to properly care for them so they give you more pleasure for a longer period of time.

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Anal Sex Toys For Beginners

February 7, 2009 By John Leave a Comment

Thinking Anal Sex Toys?

At first you don’t want to use anything that can get stuck up there or break. It would be a good idea to be liberal with a good quality lube and use your middle finger at first to get the anus muscles used to it.

Male sure to clip your nails and never use household items. If they break you are left with the job of retrieving a broken item from your arsehole… This is be dangerous as well as being extremely embarrassing!

Anal sex toys are so cheap it is just not worth the risk!

Done slowly and correctly and you can get a great deal of pleasure from anal sex toys.

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5 Green Sex Toy Tips

February 5, 2009 By John Leave a Comment

Everyone is talking these days about going green and looking out for the environment and our future. Did you know that even your sex toys can be green? That’s right; you can literally think about the environment in everything you do- even sexual pleasure. If you want to go green with your sex toys, one of the first steps you take should be while you’re shopping. Buy green sex toys and you can feel good about using them, in more ways than one.

Here are five green sex toy tips:

  1. Choose rechargeable toys over battery-operated. Not only is it better for the environment but it will save you money no matter how much you use your favorite toys.
  2. Biodegradable- That’s right; believe it or not, there are now sex toys which are biodegradable. You can feel good about your choice even when you are done with it and toss it out. Nob Essence is a perfect example of this.
  3. Less packaging- Plastic and packaging fill up landfills and are also a big waste to make. Look for sex toys and accessories sold in less packaging and recyclable packaging which is better for the environment.
  4. Eco-conscious creation- The manufacturing process is also important- just as much or more so, than the packaging. Look for products made from eco-friendly materials and built to last the long haul.
  5. Buy green sex oils and balms. When it comes to oils and creams, you can even go green with a great new line of eco-friendly products to suit your every sexual need.

Now you can fully enjoy your sexual pleasures, whether alone or with that special someone and you don’t have to worry that you’re hurting the environment while you do it. With these five green sex toy tips, you can feel good about your adult fun choices.

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